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This people again , when will you people ever change?

[quote author=NwaAmaikpe post=96486435]




In the sake of peace and good faith, the girl's father should drop this case.

Unless he is devoid of a conscience; he will be forever eaten up with guilt if he is the cause of someone's suicide, I don't want to even talk about the loss of job and untold disgrace it will bring to the policeman's family.

Besides he can't act as 'guardian at litem' because she is not a minor.
But I see lots of holes in her claims.

First, who goes downstairs to get better cellular network?
You went to his house and he asked you to come back later as he just woke up but you still stayed.
It was 1:42pm yet you decided to stay and wait for someone who was to be back at 3pm...and to think you live in this same compound.

Okay, he dragged you and began the deed and you still could not shout.
I don't know if it is because one side of my head is paining me but it does not add up to me.

The policeman is somewhat lucky that the girl was already 18years and 2days on the day of this "alleged offence" so this rules out statutory rape.

With a good lawyer or an amicus curiae like myself; the girl's confession to asking him to go get a condom can be interpreted as oral consent and then it automatically changes this case to that of contract of adhesion because he opted for skin-to-skin for his utmost pleasure.


Something is very wrong with your brain. I pray your daughter and generations also get raped and they will say it was concent.
Fool

obyrich:
Lawyer

I wanted replying him then i remember that law is a practice initiated by criminals to help them get away with their crimes.
Some of them u would really wish they experience thesame fate. In his confession, he claimed to be the bread winner, now tell me as the bread winner of ur family would u jeopardise ur family for less than 10 mins pleasure that would only leave behind an indelible pains and remorse.
If an officer of the law, inspector for that matter can stoop that low to commiting the CRIME of rape, he should gladly be willing to do the TIME, since her Choochie is worth more than his family.
To U the charge and bail lawyer always cavorting with or rooting for criminals of this kind, always remember the serpent u feed today would grow up to swallow u tomorrow, if i lie ask our northern brothers how they fare with boko haram turn bandicts today.
I do not have much to say, i hope this would suffice.

Those of you saying because the girl asked him to go and wear condom means she consented, let me tell you, you guys have LOW IQ or your brain has low battery. The girl realized she couldn't win a struggle with him, he already overpowered her, a teen VS a grown adult man, not just any adult, but a police officer who definitely has some extent of combat training. So she said go and get condom, so as to create a separation, so he could temporarily release his grip on her, giving her a chance to try to escape.

This was an intelligent move on her part, a move that would have distracted her attacker while he tries to find condom inside his house, then she might be able to escape in the process. But unfortunately, the criminal didn't fall for it. Saying go and get condom was not consent, it was a well calculated intelligent attempt to gain freedom.

She said it so he can get distracted and then she tries to escape. Same way, some people have managed to escape from kidnappers through distraction. But obviously, some people here are too stupid to see this simple fact. Sometimes, if you get caught off guard by an attacker, you must try to bait him with distractions that can give you a chance to turn around the situation of your attacker having the upperhand.

I don't even understand how people enjoy rape or how possible it always is, when the victim will be shouting and kicking and struggling to get off. But it seems this particular girl enjoyed her's, hence she didn't shout .

Donspicey:
I no trust the Girl story jareh.........

Common greeting Nigerian soldier dey Flog innocent girl then na police.

NwaAmaikpe:





In the sake of peace and good faith, the girl's father should drop this case.

Unless he is devoid of a conscience; he will be forever eaten up with guilt if he is the cause of someone's suicide, I don't want to even talk about the loss of job and untold disgrace it will bring to the policeman's family.

Besides he can't act as 'guardian at litem' because she is not a minor.
But I see lots of holes in her claims.

First, who goes downstairs to get better cellular network?
You went to his house and he asked you to come back later as he just woke up but you still stayed.
It was 1:42pm yet you decided to stay and wait for someone who was to be back at 3pm...and to think you live in this same compound.

Okay, he dragged you and began the deed and you still could not shout.
I don't know if it is because one side of my head is paining me but it does not add up to me.

The policeman is somewhat lucky that the girl was already 18years and 2days on the day of this "alleged offence" so this rules out statutory rape.

With a good lawyer or an amicus curiae like myself; the girl's confession to asking him to go get a condom can be interpreted as oral consent and then it automatically changes this case to that of contract of adhesion because he opted for skin-to-skin for his utmost pleasure.

Someone confessed to rape.u are talking about consent.

So staggering that most men in this nairaland supports evil. Supports rapist and even looking for a justification why the girl was raped despite even the acceptance of guilt by the culprit that it was the work of devil In quote.

I really feel ashamed to be in the same group of nairaland with potential rapists and rapists. See them opening their dirty mind to write senseless messages.

Openbusiness:
Those of you saying because the girl asked him to go and wear condom means she consented, let me tell you, you guys have LOW IQ or your brain has low battery. The girl realized she couldn't win a struggle with him, he already overpowered her, a teen VS a grown adult man, not just any adult, but a police officer who definitely has some extent of combat training. So she said go and get condom, so as to create a separation, so he could temporarily release his grip on her, giving her a chance to try to escape.

This was an intelligent move on her part, a move that would have distracted her attacker while he tries to find condom inside his house, then she might be able to escape in the process. But unfortunately, the criminal didn't fall for it. Saying go and get condom was not consent, it was a well calculated intelligent attempt to gain freedom.

She said it so he can get distracted and then she tries to escape. Same way, some people have managed to escape from kidnappers through distraction. But obviously, some people here are too stupid to see this simple fact. Sometimes, if you get caught off guard by an attacker, you must try to bait him with distractions that can give you a chance to turn around the situation of your attacker having the upperhand.

Madness is worrying you. Idiot!

NwaAmaikpe:





In the sake of peace and good faith, the girl's father should drop this case.

Unless he is devoid of a conscience; he will be forever eaten up with guilt if he is the cause of someone's suicide, I don't want to even talk about the loss of job and untold disgrace it will bring to the policeman's family.

Besides he can't act as 'guardian at litem' because she is not a minor.
But I see lots of holes in her claims.

First, who goes downstairs to get better cellular network?
You went to his house and he asked you to come back later as he just woke up but you still stayed.
It was 1:42pm yet you decided to stay and wait for someone who was to be back at 3pm...and to think you live in this same compound.

Okay, he dragged you and began the deed and you still could not shout.
I don't know if it is because one side of my head is paining me but it does not add up to me.

The policeman is somewhat lucky that the girl was already 18years and 2days on the day of this "alleged offence" so this rules out statutory rape.

With a good lawyer or an amicus curiae like myself; the girl's confession to asking him to go get a condom can be interpreted as oral consent and then it automatically changes this case to that of contract of adhesion because he opted for skin-to-skin for his utmost pleasure.

You just open your mouth and waaah

NwaAmaikpe:





In the sake of peace and good faith, the girl's father should drop this case.

Unless he is devoid of a conscience; he will be forever eaten up with guilt if he is the cause of someone's suicide, I don't want to even talk about the loss of job and untold disgrace it will bring to the policeman's family.

Besides he can't act as 'guardian at litem' because she is not a minor.
But I see lots of holes in her claims.

First, who goes downstairs to get better cellular network?
You went to his house and he asked you to come back later as he just woke up but you still stayed.
It was 1:42pm yet you decided to stay and wait for someone who was to be back at 3pm...and to think you live in this same compound.

Okay, he dragged you and began the deed and you still could not shout.
I don't know if it is because one side of my head is paining me but it does not add up to me.

The policeman is somewhat lucky that the girl was already 18years and 2days on the day of this "alleged offence" so this rules out statutory rape.

With a good lawyer or an amicus curiae like myself; the girl's confession to asking him to go get a condom can be interpreted as oral consent and then it automatically changes this case to that of contract of adhesion because he opted for skin-to-skin for his utmost pleasure.

Return of the dragon. Where have you been bro??

NwaAmaikpe:





In the sake of peace and good faith, the girl's father should drop this case.

Unless he is devoid of a conscience; he will be forever eaten up with guilt if he is the cause of someone's suicide, I don't want to even talk about the loss of job and untold disgrace it will bring to the policeman's family.

Besides he can't act as 'guardian at litem' because she is not a minor.
But I see lots of holes in her claims.

First, who goes downstairs to get better cellular network?
You went to his house and he asked you to come back later as he just woke up but you still stayed.
It was 1:42pm yet you decided to stay and wait for someone who was to be back at 3pm...and to think you live in this same compound.

Okay, he dragged you and began the deed and you still could not shout.
I don't know if it is because one side of my head is paining me but it does not add up to me.

The policeman is somewhat lucky that the girl was already 18years and 2days on the day of this "alleged offence" so this rules out statutory rape.

With a good lawyer or an amicus curiae like myself; the girl's confession to asking him to go get a condom can be interpreted as oral consent and then it automatically changes this case to that of contract of adhesion because he opted for skin-to-skin for his utmost pleasure.

Over how many minute sex?

Stupid idiot look at what just 3mins of enjoyment have caused him. This is the reason why those cannibals in ibadan are using policemen to do pepper soup.

NwaAmaikpe:





In the sake of peace and good faith, the girl's father should drop this case.

Unless he is devoid of a conscience; he will be forever eaten up with guilt if he is the cause of someone's suicide, I don't want to even talk about the loss of job and untold disgrace it will bring to the policeman's family.

Besides he can't act as 'guardian at litem' because she is not a minor.
But I see lots of holes in her claims.

First, who goes downstairs to get better cellular network?
You went to his house and he asked you to come back later as he just woke up but you still stayed.
It was 1:42pm yet you decided to stay and wait for someone who was to be back at 3pm...and to think you live in this same compound.

Okay, he dragged you and began the deed and you still could not shout.
I don't know if it is because one side of my head is paining me but it does not add up to me.

The policeman is somewhat lucky that the girl was already 18years and 2days on the day of this "alleged offence" so this rules out statutory rape.

With a good lawyer or an amicus curiae like myself; the girl's confession to asking him to go get a condom can be interpreted as oral consent and then it automatically changes this case to that of contract of adhesion because he opted for skin-to-skin for his utmost pleasure.

You write like a rapist.

NwaAmaikpe:


In the hat of contract of adhesion because he opted for skin-to-skin for his utmost pleasure.

Rape is a very serious offense. If it were not so the police man would not be begging. Do not support or make excuses for rapists! You question the girl on several flimsy grounds like making call downstairs, entering his home alone or not shouting. Victim blaming at its finest but you quickly pardon the police man's error by saying the victim's father should forgive so the rapist does not commit suicide. We live in a very sick and unsympathetic environment in Nigeria when rape is involved.

picklighthouse:
Its good you are a lawyer. When your daughter get raped you can refuse to press charges. This one is going to loose his job and go to jail. What a disappointing post form a supposedly learnered fellow.

So that is what you will advice rape victims to do? Forget the case "in the name of peace and good faith"? Which university did you graduate from?

This is certainly not a rape case! What stopped the girl from shouting before an unarmed man who didn't lock his door dragged her from the sitting room to the bedroom? He even asked the man to use a condom, which means she has consented. What stopped the girl to leave when the man told her his wife was not home ? What was the girl stil waiting for before the man left his chair closed to his bedroom to meet her in her chair near the door ? Get a good lawyer and sue the girl.

So the man can talk about God after the incident, he should have thought of Him before not after. Also the girl should have informed someone about the business before going to the policeman's house

The custodian of law broke the law and he is no begging.

He is like a father to you, he treated your family well yet you defamed his daughter.

Natural habitat of a snake is to bite and the instinct of man is to smatch it's head

Whom can we trust again.

Openbusiness:
Those of you saying because the girl asked him to go and wear condom means she consented, let me tell you, you guys have LOW IQ or your brain has low battery. The girl realized she couldn't win a struggle with him, he already overpowered her, a teen VS a grown adult man, not just any adult, but a police officer who definitely has some extent of combat training. So she said go and get condom, so as to create a separation, so he could temporarily release his grip on her, giving her a chance to try to escape.

This was an intelligent move on her part, a move that would have distracted her attacker while he tries to find condom inside his house, then she might be able to escape in the process. But unfortunately, the criminal didn't fall for it. Saying go and get condom was not consent, it was a well calculated intelligent attempt to gain freedom.

She said it so he can get distracted and then she tries to escape. Same way, some people have managed to escape from kidnappers through distraction. But obviously, some people here are too stupid to see this simple fact. Sometimes, if you get caught off guard by an attacker, you must try to bait him with distractions that can give you a chance to turn around the situation of your attacker having the upperhand.

What stopped her from shouting? She never said the man ceald her mouth with anything! If my daughter tells me this kind of story, I will get her injured. Why didn't she leave immediately the man told her his wife wasn't in? A man with an intention to rape won't even tell her his wife is not around , he would tell her to sit down for him to call him wife outside and used that opportunity to get to the door and lock it. I hate rape but I also hate lies. In a standard sitting room, the distance between the chair at the entrance and the one close to the room should be much. Before the man walked that distance to meet her , why didn't she leave ? Immediately the man asked her to hug him, why didn't she jump out ? We are talking of a girl already close to the door here. The man only spoilt his case by begging. Though he can say he begged the man for sleeping with his daughter not for raping her

SAMAJ:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/lagos-inspector-rapes-undergraduate-threatens-suicide/%3famp=1

The Question is ...Why ask him to get a Condom? Implies it was not a rape at the real sense..

NwaAmaikpe:





In the sake of peace and good faith, the girl's father should drop this case.

Unless he is devoid of a conscience; he will be forever eaten up with guilt if he is the cause of someone's suicide, I don't want to even talk about the loss of job and untold disgrace it will bring to the policeman's family.

Besides he can't act as 'guardian at litem' because she is not a minor.
But I see lots of holes in her claims.

First, who goes downstairs to get better cellular network?
You went to his house and he asked you to come back later as he just woke up but you still stayed.
It was 1:42pm yet you decided to stay and wait for someone who was to be back at 3pm...and to think you live in this same compound.

Okay, he dragged you and began the deed and you still could not shout.
I don't know if it is because one side of my head is paining me but it does not add up to me.

The policeman is somewhat lucky that the girl was already 18years and 2days on the day of this "alleged offence" so this rules out statutory rape.

With a good lawyer or an amicus curiae like myself; the girl's confession to asking him to go get a condom can be interpreted as oral consent and then it automatically changes this case to that of contract of adhesion because he opted for skin-to-skin for his utmost pleasure.

Your an idiot and a rapist too, are you sure you're not the police man? And you gather your rapist friend to click like. What if he kills the girl in the struggle to be free? if is the way you judge may you be a victim of rape by gay men.

You speak as if you don't know many that have die in Nigeria because they struggle with rapist. And the girl use only sense that remain in her by asking for condom so she can find way to run. Nigeria is the way it is because of educated evil my as you. in other country nothing can stop that he goat from going to jail even if is only touching her bottom. What type of country is Nigeria? Animal kingdom? where educated men leads in evil doing

NwaAmaikpe:





In the sake of peace and good faith, the girl's father should drop this case.

Unless he is devoid of a conscience; he will be forever eaten up with guilt if he is the cause of someone's suicide, I don't want to even talk about the loss of job and untold disgrace it will bring to the policeman's family.

Besides he can't act as 'guardian at litem' because she is not a minor.
But I see lots of holes in her claims.

First, who goes downstairs to get better cellular network?
You went to his house and he asked you to come back later as he just woke up but you still stayed.
It was 1:42pm yet you decided to stay and wait for someone who was to be back at 3pm...and to think you live in this same compound.

Okay, he dragged you and began the deed and you still could not shout.
I don't know if it is because one side of my head is paining me but it does not add up to me.

The policeman is somewhat lucky that the girl was already 18years and 2days on the day of this "alleged offence" so this rules out statutory rape.

With a good lawyer or an amicus curiae like myself; the girl's confession to asking him to go get a condom can be interpreted as oral consent and then it automatically changes this case to that of contract of adhesion because he opted for skin-to-skin for his utmost pleasure.

the weird niggar is back

NwaAmaikpe:





In the sake of peace and good faith, the girl's father should drop this case.

Unless he is devoid of a conscience; he will be forever eaten up with guilt if he is the cause of someone's suicide, I don't want to even talk about the loss of job and untold disgrace it will bring to the policeman's family.

Besides he can't act as 'guardian at litem' because she is not a minor.
But I see lots of holes in her claims.

First, who goes downstairs to get better cellular network?
You went to his house and he asked you to come back later as he just woke up but you still stayed.
It was 1:42pm yet you decided to stay and wait for someone who was to be back at 3pm...and to think you live in this same compound.

Okay, he dragged you and began the deed and you still could not shout.
I don't know if it is because one side of my head is paining me but it does not add up to me.

The policeman is somewhat lucky that the girl was already 18years and 2days on the day of this "alleged offence" so this rules out statutory rape.

With a good lawyer or an amicus curiae like myself; the girl's confession to asking him to go get a condom can be interpreted as oral consent and then it automatically changes this case to that of contract of adhesion because he opted for skin-to-skin for his utmost pleasure.

I hope your kids don't read your post sometime in the future.

Yenefer:

Buhari's foot soldiers.... Very useless people

NwaAmaikpe:





In the sake of peace and good faith, the girl's father should drop this case.

Unless he is devoid of a conscience; he will be forever eaten up with guilt if he is the cause of someone's suicide, I don't want to even talk about the loss of job and untold disgrace it will bring to the policeman's family.

Besides he can't act as 'guardian at litem' because she is not a minor.
But I see lots of holes in her claims.

First, who goes downstairs to get better cellular network?
You went to his house and he asked you to come back later as he just woke up but you still stayed.
It was 1:42pm yet you decided to stay and wait for someone who was to be back at 3pm...and to think you live in this same compound.

Okay, he dragged you and began the deed and you still could not shout.
I don't know if it is because one side of my head is paining me but it does not add up to me.

The policeman is somewhat lucky that the girl was already 18years and 2days on the day of this "alleged offence" so this rules out statutory rape.

With a good lawyer or an amicus curiae like myself; the girl's confession to asking him to go get a condom can be interpreted as oral consent and then it automatically changes this case to that of contract of adhesion because he opted for skin-to-skin for his utmost pleasure.

Guy, you are not only evil, you are also stu.pid beyond words. Someone should find a stick and shove it deep up your a.s.s. until it comes out of your mouth. Then they should hang your body in the village Square.

perryy:
What stopped her from shouting? She never said the man ceald her mouth with anything! If my daughter tells me this kind of story, I will get her injured. Why didn't she leave immediately the man told her his wife wasn't in? A man with an intention to rape won't even tell her his wife is not around , he would tell her to sit down for him to call him wife outside and used that opportunity to get to the door and lock it. I hate rape but I also hate lies. In a standard sitting room, the distance between the chair at the entrance and the one close to the room should be much. Before the man walked that distance to meet her , why didn't she leave ? Immediately the man asked her to hug him, why didn't she jump out ? We are talking of a girl already close to the door here. The man only spoilt his case by begging. Though he can say he begged the man for sleeping with his daughter not for raping her

You need to do better with deductive reasoning. There are so many unreasonable assumptions you're making. Fear can make people shut up, the man being a policeman puts a leverage of fear on the girl who is a teenager. We have seen cases where grown men have been robbed with wooden gun, and the victim cooperated all through because of fear. Some mature women have been raped just by intimidation, and they surrendered without struggle due to fear. People react to fear differently. Some show courage in the face of fear, some don't. Some struggle or try to defend themselves, some panic and submit to their attacker. So her behavior or reaction is not exceptional.

Someone you know before suddenly tries to rape you, usually, the shock or surprise alone at that moment, like is this guy serious, is this for real, it creates some moments of hesitation whereby she's trying to process and digest the film happening before her very eyes. And because the attacker is not a stranger but a familiar face, the normal thing would be to discuss and try to reason with her attacker to make him see reason why he should stop his act of rape. And this gives the attacker more leverage to perpetrate the rape, especially when he has already made up his mind.

If you view it with the lens of sound deductive reasoning and critical thinking, you will realize from the story, the man's original intention was not to rape the girl. That was why he told her, come back around so so time, my wife will be back then. BUT then, his brain suddenly realized, Oh this is a good chance, this is a rare opportunity to sleep with this girl, and that was when he blocked her from going and pushed her inside. And, even from the story, the girl was careful, she sat at the chair close to the door, but unfortunately, when he came close asking for hug before she leaves and the girl refused, he would have grabbed her so quick with force.

Have you seen or watched a rape video before? Doesn't matter country, race, tribe, color etc, the method and characteristic of the rapist is the same everywhere - AGGRESSION + FORCE + SPEED. It happens so quick like magic, the force + aggressive behavior which the rapist uses to subdue the victim or make them yield, most women are caught off guard and without self defense knowledge to break free or fend off the attack, it's only a matter of time, usually very brief, and he is already on top of her, especially if it a case of a man whose strength dwarfs the victim's strength, like in this case, a teenager VS a grown policeman.

All the questions you're asking, the answer is already obvious from the story. She got to his house, he was lying down, obviously resting before she came in. She greets, and he says sits down, I'm coming. And she's there waiting. Few seconds or minutes after he arranges himself, he asks her what her mission is, she says I want to see your wife about this or that. He says, what's the time? She says 1PM. He says come back around 3PM, she should be back.

Up till this point, the intention to rape was not there in his conscious mind. Maybe or maybe not the thought of raping her had been in his subconscious mind, it's not clear at this point. When she gets up to leave, he notices her well, maybe her boobs or curves or fine face, or maybe it's just list or his libido that goes haywire at that time, the idea then pops into his head, Guy see na ur chance to sleep with this girl be this. He tries to cajole her to yield. "Hug me before you go" was his way of trying to cajole her. Some women are sensitive to touch in certain places and they get triggered and might suddenly give in to sex they didn't plan for if you touch them in certain points in their body, especially teens who are still inexperienced with how to control themselves when their sexual urge is triggered. A hug is a good way to get that touch and try his luck. Unfortunately for him, she doesn't fall for his cajoling. Then he goes BEAST MODE and rapes her.

Very, very extremely few teenagers can be able to resist a man that goes beast mode on them, sexually. A man in beast mode has so much adrenaline rush, his full strength comes to play, there's so much force involved, many women will easily be overwhelmed before the even say ABC. And for many women, it is a scary experience because a man that was looking so gentle some seconds ago, has suddenly gone wild, behaving like a wild beast, like he is possessed by a demon, his sense of reason is gone, only instincts remain, and his all his instincts at that point is pushing him to rape her. And when the man is a familiar person to her, it becomes worse, because she will be shocked at that point to see him turn into an animal, shocked like what has come over this man, is this real, if this is play pls stop it etc.

While she's still trying to put 2 plus 2 together in her mind, he has already pulled her pant. So stop trying to analyze based on unreasonable assumptions. The girl has no blame whatsoever. The idiot saw a chance to rape her and he took it. And hopefully, he will get dishonorable discharge, no pension, no renumeration, no nothing, and then go to jail. Then he will remember how he destroyed himself cuz of puci. When he comes out of jail, he will finally have sense that no puci in this world is worth destroying yourself over.

SAMAJ:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/lagos-inspector-rapes-undergraduate-threatens-suicide/%3famp=1

They need to castrate him so that he will not use his thing to misbehave again

NwaAmaikpe:





In the sake of peace and good faith, the girl's father should drop this case.

Unless he is devoid of a conscience; he will be forever eaten up with guilt if he is the cause of someone's suicide, I don't want to even talk about the loss of job and untold disgrace it will bring to the policeman's family.

Besides he can't act as 'guardian at litem' because she is not a minor.
But I see lots of holes in her claims.

First, who goes downstairs to get better cellular network?
You went to his house and he asked you to come back later as he just woke up but you still stayed.
It was 1:42pm yet you decided to stay and wait for someone who was to be back at 3pm...and to think you live in this same compound.

Okay, he dragged you and began the deed and you still could not shout.
I don't know if it is because one side of my head is paining me but it does not add up to me.

The policeman is somewhat lucky that the girl was already 18years and 2days on the day of this "alleged offence" so this rules out statutory rape.

With a good lawyer or an amicus curiae like myself; the girl's confession to asking him to go get a condom can be interpreted as oral consent and then it automatically changes this case to that of contract of adhesion because he opted for skin-to-skin for his utmost pleasure.

Hmm, mod should have deleted this sha.