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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by Starkid3010(m): 1:03pm On Dec 01, 2020

internationalman:
I suspect she's already pregnant with another man's baby, she wants you to be responsible for it by having sex with you and making you cum inside so as to contemporarily coincide with the pregnancy.

If I'm wrong, which I doubt you can go ahead and perform vasectomy

you might be right.
These hoes ain't loyal

Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by Starkid3010(m): 1:03pm On Dec 01, 2020

TheRealProphet:
She ain't pregnant bruv. She's not the bitc*ing type...she wants another gal, she said she wants it to be 2 boys & 2 gals.

dey deceive yourself

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by EdoFirstBorn(m): 1:03pm On Dec 01, 2020

ahnie:
Hey I'm stalking your comments...lolz

Kai

This is so sad

Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by ymstar(m): 1:04pm On Dec 01, 2020

able20:
Boy be optimistic listen to your wife. the fourth child might become the Jagaban of the family.

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by techstack: 1:07pm On Dec 01, 2020

gift2xl:
Wow! so people can still get erection at this season.

wow indeed

grin

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by Youngzedd(m): 1:07pm On Dec 01, 2020*

TheRealProphet:
She ain't pregnant bruv. She's not the bitc*ing type...she wants another gal, she said she wants it to be 2 boys & 2 gals.

Question: What was Adam's first mistake?

Answer: Trusting Eve 100%. Adam trusted Eve without her earning his trust and this made him fall into her manipulation. Adam was a simp, he doesn't understand woman and this did not only cost him his glory, it also was the end of the begining of the great things He was created for.

DNA test is very important.

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by ednut1(m): 1:10pm On Dec 01, 2020

Government need to regulate child birth. So many useless people abound in 9ja.

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by DeMoneyGenius: 1:14pm On Dec 01, 2020

TheRealProphet:
She ain't pregnant bruv. She's not the bitc*ing type...she wants another gal, she said she wants it to be 2 boys & 2 gals.

That's so cool.
Glad to know that someone can fix pwusee or deeck for babies once they are conceived.
As soon as I get married, I'll contact your wife to fix my baby's organ in the womb.
She's doing well...
Well, to your dilemma,
You obviously didn't discuss that angle of number of kids before you got married.
Too bad.
Just find a way to deal with it.
She's going to make life difficult for you if you refuse to have another baby. Just make sure you discuss the afterwards (possibly make her sign an undertaking) in case the fourth baby turns out to be a boy. That'll be 3:1 and she'll want another 2 girls.
Hmmmmmm

Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by King44(m): 1:16pm On Dec 01, 2020

ymstar:
Is the withdrawal effective?
And why do pple complain that it is not safe, in terms of pregnancy?

Please shed more light, thanks

withdrawal is very effective.. But timing and discipline is Paramount... Plus if she wants a baby a stubborn wife might not let you pull out unless you are in charge and assertive, some women can do this if they really want a baby also timing if you miss it, you would be the one begging her to use contraceptives.

Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by jojothaiv(m): 1:16pm On Dec 01, 2020

internationalman:
All our female associates were once not the bitching type until they bitched on us

Like I said I'm just saying

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by Nmezor(f): 1:18pm On Dec 01, 2020

Hmmm

Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by shinehappily: 1:19pm On Dec 01, 2020

Since she is supporting in the bills, then let her have another baby. After all she is the one that will carry the pregnancy. For the Vasectomy don't try it so that you don't regret it tomorrow. My opinion though.

Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by BuddhaPalm(m): 1:19pm On Dec 01, 2020

internationalman:
I suspect she's already pregnant with another man's baby, she wants you to be responsible for it by having sex with you and making you cum inside so as to contemporarily coincide with the pregnancy.

If I'm wrong, which I doubt you can go ahead and perform vasectomy

Satan has entered the chat grin

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by Solatium(m): 1:22pm On Dec 01, 2020

TheRealProphet:
Happy new month Nlers.

I told my wife that I don't wish to have another baby, because 3 is okay by me, but she insisted that she wants another baby, she has been on my neck for the past few days because of this issue.

We have 3 (three) beautiful babies already - 2 boys and a girl, which is ok for me. I ain't financially strong, and I don't want to bring any child into this world to suffer.

married and matured folks please help me out. Thanks

Don't drag further with her,call her and have a heart to heart talk, tell her you have heard but that will be base on improvement of your personal finances.
If you continue,you no go win this battle oo,she go just set you up with another preggy and there is nothing wey you fit do o

Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by Nobody: 1:26pm On Dec 01, 2020

stupidmod2:
is she working also

yes

Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by kolade560: 1:26pm On Dec 01, 2020

internationalman:
I suspect she's already pregnant with another man's baby, she wants you to be responsible for it by having sex with you and making you cum inside so as to contemporarily coincide with the pregnancy.

If I'm wrong, which I doubt you can go ahead and perform vasectomy

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by Innobee99(m): 1:30pm On Dec 01, 2020

Question u should have asked urselves during courtship u now asking us.

Wetin we go do?

Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by Nobody: 1:30pm On Dec 01, 2020

GboyegaD:
Was there a discussion around the number of children wike dating? If yes, stay from there and drive it home to current day reality and the fact that Nigeria might never get better.

We discussed 3-4.

Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by AlwaysMotun: 1:31pm On Dec 01, 2020

I will just talk pe make you gboju... We have 2 already, a girl and a boy and she disturbs me too... But my low key Coitus interuptus and condom no dey fail me... That's how we will be until she gets to menopause! No argument kan kan...

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by Traininghub(f): 1:32pm On Dec 01, 2020*

Either you go for a vasectomy or stand on your ground that you do not need another child. You both can agree that if within the next 5-10 years (depending on how old you both are) things get better financially for you both, then you'll have another child. DO NOT BRING INTO THE WORLD A CHILD YOU CAN'T PROPERLY AND COMFORTABLY TAKE CARE OF!

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by madgoat(m): 1:32pm On Dec 01, 2020

TheRealProphet:
She ain't pregnant bruv. She's not the bitc*ing type...she wants another gal, she said she wants it to be 2 boys & 2 gals.

They advised u, but u are speaking nonsense. Keep on believing ur wife. No wonder u are not man enough yo decide what u want.

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by ymstar(m): 1:33pm On Dec 01, 2020

King44:
withdrawal is very effective.. But timing and discipline is Paramount... Plus if she wants a baby a stubborn wife might not let you pull out unless you are in charge and assertive, some women can do this if they really want a baby also timing if you miss it, you would be the one begging her to use contraceptives.

Thanks

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by CorperKola: 1:33pm On Dec 01, 2020

ILoveDemMANNA:
Na wa o.
Dis Nairaland sef.
Na so dem go destroy person marriage.
Dis man go begin look him wife somehow after reading this post now.

Well, na wetin u find come Nairaland u go see sha.
Negative people everywhere!

Pocohontas, just imagine this o!
Na dem dem!

u are talking as if the guy is crazy!! does it not happen?
is it not fairly common sef??
one research suggests its 33% paternity fraud in marriages for 1st born in Nigeria
when the guy wan travel out naw
yawa go burst

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by Nobody: 1:35pm On Dec 01, 2020

Go and cut your *vasediference". That's how they create problems for their men. Later they'll run away. Mtchew...

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by prommy(f): 1:39pm On Dec 01, 2020

Sorry bro. She must have another baby. If it is the man that wants and she doesn't bet me she will never be pregnant. Since it is the other Way round she will definitely take in and if it turns out to be a boy again she will try again. I am a woman. It is our way.

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by grandstar(m): 1:40pm On Dec 01, 2020

TheRealProphet:
Happy new month Nlers.

I told my wife that I don't wish to have another baby, because 3 is okay by me, but she insisted that she wants another baby, she has been on my neck for the past few days because of this issue.

We have 3 (three) beautiful babies already - 2 boys and a girl, which is ok for me. I ain't financially strong, and I don't want to bring any child into this world to suffer.

married and matured folks please help me out. Thanks

Stand your ground gently and don't waver.

But most importantly, invite your marriage peers who have one or 2 kids to talk maturely to her about the benefit of having fewer kids.

Children in our day are liabilities until they start work at 18 or until they leave uni between 21 and 26. Even then, the they may not even contribute to household expenses if they are from the middle class.

In older days, the children were assets as they were farm labor. So, having many kids made sense. Not any more.

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by Angrymode: 1:42pm On Dec 01, 2020

OP I pity you o! You only choices here are either to go sterile or have another baby.

However, there is another dangerous and scary view. Is it that she is pressuring you for another baby because she is already carrying a child that might not be yours? I'm just thinking o!

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Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by Iconstar: 1:42pm On Dec 01, 2020

TheRealProphet:
Happy new month Nlers.

I told my wife that I don't wish to have another baby, because 3 is okay by me, but she insisted that she wants another baby, she has been on my neck for the past few days because of this issue.

We have 3 (three) beautiful babies already - 2 boys and a girl, which is ok for me. I ain't financially strong, and I don't want to bring any child into this world to suffer.

married and matured folks please help me out. Thanks

Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by psalmy23: 1:42pm On Dec 01, 2020

What is the probability that she will give birth to a girl?
She ain't God. What if it's a boy after the whole process?

You need to sit down and talk about it extensively. Make her see reasons.

As for vasectomy, not too comfortable with that, so I'll not advise such.
Just talk it over.

Peace

Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by HeyitsUgochi: 1:46pm On Dec 01, 2020

Please don’t attempt vasectomy, e get why.

Re: Help: My Wife Wants Another Baby by picklighthouse: 1:48pm On Dec 01, 2020

TheRealProphet:
She ain't pregnant bruv. She's not the bitc*ing type...she wants another gal, she said she wants it to be 2 boys & 2 gals.

My guy please leave this bitching thing alone. Like you said what your wife wants is another child, simple. See I understand you and its not a convenient situation to be in.

I have 2 lovely kids a boy and a girl. But I want another one, for me any sex will do. Just to spice up our home a bit, but I have seen my wife dragging her feet about it. I mean 3 children are not too much nao. This foreign culture of having only 1 or max 2 is strange to me o. grin

So my suggestion is: talk to her about your concerns again. I hope she sees reason with you. If that doesn't work, talk to anyone you know she respects about it. Asking the person to please advice her. Because her reason is not even good enough for me. So what happens if the sex she wants doesn't come? She will keep having more children?

Lastly my guy, I will strongly advice against unilaterally going for vasectomy. How would you feel if your wife does family planning without your consent? If all options fail kindly let her know of the last option you have considered. And then you can go ahead. But let her be in the picture atleast.

Both of you are one now. I wish you luck chief.

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