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TheRealProphet:
She ain't pregnant bruv. She's not the bitc*ing type...she wants another gal, she said she wants it to be 2 boys & 2 gals.

You asked for that when you decided to bring your family's intimate matter to be discussed on a cursed forum like Nairaland.

Seriously, of what quality are most men of nowadays? Gossips!
Most of you cannot even protect your wives...

I put myself in your wife's shoes and cringed at the thought of being discussed by all manner of people without my knowledge and approval, because my supposed "husband" was not man enough to protect me by keeping our private matter private.

internationalman:
I suspect she's already pregnant with another man's baby, she wants you to be responsible for it by having sex with you and making you cum inside so as to contemporarily coincide with the pregnancy.

If I'm wrong, which I doubt you can go ahead and perform vasectomy

You and all the 300+ likers of that disrespectful comment of yours should bury your heads in shame.
It is not the Op's wife's fault your wife is unfaithful.

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internationalman:
All our female associates were once not the bitching type until they bitched on us

Like I said I'm just saying

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Amebo oshi!

No wonder no woman finds you worthy enough to be faithful to.
You talk like a p!mp

mariahAngel:
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Amebo oshi!

No wonder no woman finds you worthy enough to be faithful to.
You talk like a p!mp

If you are a woman, I bet you must find me worthy.

TheRealProphet:
Happy new month Nlers.

I told my wife that I don't wish to have another baby, because 3 is okay by me, but she insisted that she wants another baby, she has been on my neck for the past few days because of this issue.

We have 3 (three) beautiful babies already - 2 boys and a girl, which is ok for me. I ain't financially strong, and I don't want to bring any child into this world to suffer.

married and matured folks please help me out. Thanks

stop saying you are financially strong! no one is financially strong. 3 children, too much already

TheRealProphet:
Condom sorry, I don't use that with my WIFE.

Withdrawal - I do that often.

Vasectomy - will try that if she don't calm down.

BABA NO EVEN TRY VASECTOMY.. YOU WON'T BE ABLE TO CUM!!!! NOW WHAT IS THE ESSENCE OF SEX AND PENIS WITHOUT CUMMING??

#ALILI

This is one of the disadvantage of marrying a village girl.

Them give it her as long as she'll not complain about the bills

I hope you know how much school fees cost now

Electdbahdguy:
BABA NO EVEN TRY VASECTOMY.. YOU WON'T BE ABLE TO CUM!!!! NOW WHAT IS THE ESSENCE OF SEX AND PENIS WITHOUT CUMMING??

#ALILI

You will release but they won't be sperm in the cum..

TheRealProphet:
She ain't pregnant bruv. She's not the bitc*ing type...she wants another gal, she said she wants it to be 2 boys & 2 gals.

What's the probability of her giving birth to a girl??

What if she eventually give birth to a bouncing baby boy??

She will still be pestering you again right??

God will help you all sha

SEGLIZ:
na so them dey stamp authority abi? it's obvious you are not married and you do it's people like that goes about telling people 'I don't take nonsense from my wife, she dare not try this trash with me,' whereas you condone more than shit behind contains, even prostrate to resolve issues.
remember buy enough stamp pad and stamp fluid to have enough to be able to stamp your authority.

Thank you my brother, they don't know Marriage life is not relationship life.

pcguru1:
Thank you my brother, they don't know Marriage life is not relationship life.

I imagine how some people talk, you're having a happy home just that your wife want an extra child you then foolishly rock the boat by creating a storm from a peaceful tide that would have swept by without you boat feeling it.
wisdom makes home not authority, love, affection and understanding build the home not some autocratic style of husband. women are wonderful to be around with and very interesting creature to have around if you understand their dynamics.

TheRealProphet:
She ain't pregnant bruv. She's not the bitc*ing type...she wants another gal, she said she wants it to be 2 boys & 2 gals.

And what makes her believe the next is a girl.. is she the one responsible for choice of gender, if she gives birth to another boy making it three will she logically say you guys should have two more babies ( girls ) to equalise it . She hasn't said the truth yet.. I agree with a comment up there that she is already pregnant. That's the only logical conclusion

faithugo64:
Try to have a heart to heart talk with her. Let her understand that the family can not shoulder the financial responsibility of another baby. Be polite and gentle with her. Let her feel that your decision is in the best interest of the family.

If after explaining to her and she is still being stubborn, you might want to involve someone that she listens to (can be her mum or a mentor).
May peace reign in your home.

Just about the most sensible advice giving....well done.

internationalman:
I suspect she's already pregnant with another man's baby, she wants you to be responsible for it by having sex with you and making you cum inside so as to contemporarily coincide with the pregnancy.

If I'm wrong, which I doubt you can go ahead and perform vasectomy

Hmmmm. You are a family destroyer..

I pity anyone you advice

TheRealProphet:
She ain't pregnant bruv. She's not the bitc*ing type...she wants another gal, she said she wants it to be 2 boys & 2 gals.

I know this must be the reason but she must understand only GOD can determine the sex of the child. Continue speaking to her. Involve persons she's close to and listen to... like her siblings.

descarado:
Take this

Ayam your meat, bite me oo...

You will release but they won't be sperm in the cum..

dat is just same as being lifeless

Obedinho130:
the vas deferens of a man is cut or blocked. This will prevent sperm from going up to mix with semen as sperm cells stay in the testes and are propelled through the vas deferens tube. Note the man can still have orgasm and ejaculate but the semen contains no sperm this time around and cant impregnate a lady.the testes still produce sperm though. But they are absorbed by the body

When a vasectomy is done can it be reversed back to normal

Show her your salary and itemize your household expenses. Have pictures of almajiris and road side miscreants ready.

But wait -
Who said you can't use kondom with your wife? I dey suspect you say maybe you refuse to drill on those heighten days she is high.
Withdrawal with your wife I see why madam want a baby by force. See, you dey make her miss cloud nine by withdrawal method.
Put on kondom and give her the whole deal!

Lankybaby:
When a vasectomy is done can it be reversed back to normal

no. It is permanent lol

Obedinho130:
no. It is permanent lol

Awwnnn thanks for enlightening me

Lankybaby:
Awwnnn thanks for enlightening me

oh, my pleasure. U welcome

SEGLIZ:
I imagine how some people talk, you're having a happy home just that your wife want an extra child you then foolishly rock the boat by creating a storm from a peaceful tide that would have swept by without you boat feeling it.
wisdom makes home not authority, love, affection and understanding build the home not some autocratic style of husband. women are wonderful to be around with and very interesting creature to have around if you understand their dynamics.

These kind of men still exists? Ur wife is very fortunate.

iamloyalty:
These kind of men still exists? Ur wife is very fortunate.

I'm humbled.

Happy new month Nlers.

I told my wife that I don't wish to have another baby, because 3 is okay by me, but she insisted that she wants another baby, she has been on my neck for the past few days because of this issue.

We have 3 (three) beautiful babies already - 2 boys and a girl, which is ok for me. I ain't financially strong, and I don't want to bring any child into this world to suffer.

married and matured folks please help me out. Thanks

No matter how you convince a woman or your wife that has less contribution at home, she will not understand what you mean by stopping at a particular number of children to give birth

So the way out is let her start contributing especially schools fees

internationalman:
I suspect she's already pregnant with another man's baby, she wants you to be responsible for it by having sex with you and making you cum inside so as to contemporarily coincide with the pregnancy.

If I'm wrong, which I doubt you can go ahead and perform vasectomy

A DNA test will put her such effort into nullity.

Sometimes when some women have been impregnated by other men apart from their husbands, then they try everything possible to make their husbands have unprotected sex with them by all means so they could confuse the men into believing the pregnancies belong to them (the husbands).

Don't accept what she's trying to force on you.

Besides, is it not high time women began to realise that two children is OK for this present economy and civilization?