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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by PataAlhajaKeji(m): 1:29pm On Dec 08, 2020
Ayandokun2000:
Feminist crew....where at thou grin cheesy

Zzor
Fati2001

Dem dey prepare for Shiloh.

Shiloh dey start today. grin

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Nobody: 1:30pm On Dec 08, 2020
They are Self centered
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Emeka71(m): 1:30pm On Dec 08, 2020
Nuyokoi:
we?

don't use your personal experience as a means to categorize all women.
Leave her alone; she doesn't know anything.

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by King44(m): 1:30pm On Dec 08, 2020
skinny419:
Zzzor come learn from ur elder sista
low your voice she go take am hard
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by PataAlhajaKeji(m): 1:31pm On Dec 08, 2020
AuntRose:

You better change that 'f' beside your moniker to 'm' undecided undecided

So because she yarn fact, you think say na guy. If I slap you.

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Lawliet(f): 1:32pm On Dec 08, 2020
If you are asslicking for PMS, trust me, it isn't worth it

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by moyosore32: 1:32pm On Dec 08, 2020
mrblessed:
The authorship of this post, together with its contents, is subject to investigation. How could one commit gender-murder so effortlessly? Well, I will certainly spoil your little fun party: all things you emitted about Nigerian women are not only figment of your imagination, they don't represent them. Why do you think Nigerian women are in high demand in international dating arena? It precisely because Nigerian men have failed to value what they have, and are condemned to lose it to external competitors.

For your information, Nigerian women are down-to-earth, polished, and sensible; it is the Nigerian men that doesn't understand them. Therefore, your charges against them are null and void and have effect. It is only a resident of another that will make such wide and wolly remarks about Nigerian women. Has it ever cross your mind that almost all the challenges and problems Nigerian women face are caused by men, who are compulsively selfish, egoistic, calculating, and dense.



who b D's one again ��� I wish say I fit send u one sticker wey I dey reason so

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Nobody: 1:32pm On Dec 08, 2020
Blitz888:


Your head correct!

The poster has her reasons for saying what she said but she was in error to have made sweeping generalizations, when we all know that there are exceptions to every issue.

Whilst dating I was always wary of ladies who will do all my bidding without bating an eye lid or even objecting occasionally. Superior argument always wins with me.

Any babe that say yes to every of my request without even engaging me in an intellectually riveting argument when necessary loses my respect. Only 3 ladies stood up to me whilst I was dating and guess what, I married the most vociferous of the 3 and the other 2 are still my good friends though happily married.

I respect ladies with a healthy sense of self worth and an uncompromising stands on their values and what they know to be right.

Ladies know thy worth biko.. No be every man deserves your respect, make them work for it...it has to be deservedly earned!

God bless you for this. You're the real man.

Thank you!!!

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Ayandokun2000: 1:33pm On Dec 08, 2020
PataAlhajaKeji:


Dem dey prepare for Shiloh.

Shiloh dey start today. grin

I been dey wonder why them no quote (blast) me since yesterday


Awon evening newspaper crew grin
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Lordjude2021: 1:33pm On Dec 08, 2020
We all knows the truth about this tread. I know how relief a family could be when their daughter is been married out.

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Splitmind: 1:34pm On Dec 08, 2020
Thank you for this commonsense post!
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Beverlyjean(f): 1:35pm On Dec 08, 2020
I grew up with maids and cooks plus drivers and cleaners... my husband can't afford all those stuff...so I do them myself ...cos my mom didn't raise a fool

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Simplebeauty: 1:36pm On Dec 08, 2020
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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by stanech: 1:36pm On Dec 08, 2020
Still Reading Comments grin grin grin grin
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Nobody: 1:37pm On Dec 08, 2020
Jodha:


K
This thing pained you to your bone marrow
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by moyosore32: 1:39pm On Dec 08, 2020
Bigggloadofcum:


Its a known fact that women have more endurance and resilience than men.

And that's why she can do as much chores without getting tired. Its divine.

Any woman who feels otherwise should go look for who took her dick and replaced it with a pvssy at birth.


tf is dis ��� lwtmb!!!

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by PataAlhajaKeji(m): 1:39pm On Dec 08, 2020
Lawliet:
If you are asslicking for PMS, trust me, it isn't worth it

Kindly define PMS in the context you used it.
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Beverlyjean(f): 1:39pm On Dec 08, 2020
LadySarah:
Speak for yourself. Most women are sharing household expenses today .

What's wrong with their husbands helping out or is their a type of super strength a woman has compares to a man?

Both of you come back from work and while the man unwinds, you run to the kitchen to cook, you check the laundry, check homeworks etc and still get ready to satisfy your man at night.


Again speak for yourself and carry your sufferhead.


If I share in the financial responsibilities department with my husband, it doesn't automatically mean he must share on the take care of the home department with me... if he wants to clean , then he does it out of his free will....its not a competition sister...the moment u turn it to a competition, thats the day ur marriage will start to go down the drain

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Anijay1212(m): 1:40pm On Dec 08, 2020
Davash222:
Finally, a sensible female Nairalander surfaces, The world is ending soon, brace up people.
grin
Davash222:
Finally, a sensible female Nairalander surfaces, The world is ending soon, brace up people.
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by ablejesus26(m): 1:41pm On Dec 08, 2020
LadySarah:
Speak for yourself. Most women are sharing household expenses today .

What's wrong with their husbands helping out or is their a type of super strength a woman has compares to a man?

Both of you come back from work and while the man unwinds, you run to the kitchen to cook, you check the laundry, check homeworks etc and still get ready to satisfy your man at night.


Again speak for yourself and carry your sufferhead.

Where is this mentality coming from pls no insult regarded bcus all those things you outlined are nothing for a woman who values the context of marriage and family

our grandmothers did it
our mothers did it
so are you saying they are fools
if your man is naturally liberal enough to assist with the chores which is good and healthy for the relationship BLESS GOD
but if he does not then BLESS GOD

A Well cultured African Woman would do all these you outlined with joy without the husbands input

i no know why we just keep copying strange and stranger tins
even in some Europe countries like France,Ireland etc Women still value the idea of taking care of their homes

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by PataAlhajaKeji(m): 1:42pm On Dec 08, 2020
Blitz888:


Ladies know thy worth biko.. No be every man deserves your respect, make them work for it...it has to be deservedly earned!

This Nigger here is a fellow of the Institute of Chartered Simps of Nigeria (ICSN).

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Beverlyjean(f): 1:42pm On Dec 08, 2020
LadySarah:
Speak for yourself. Most women are sharing household expenses today .

What's wrong with their husbands helping out or is their a type of super strength a woman has compares to a man?

Both of you come back from work and while the man unwinds, you run to the kitchen to cook, you check the laundry, check homeworks etc and still get ready to satisfy your man at night.


Again speak for yourself and carry your sufferhead.


Really...did u just say that @ bolded ?? grin grin grin...so he doesn't satisfy u or What?? I don't get ...isnt it enjoyed by both ??..or u see it as a favour or what?? Its confusing

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by typersi: 1:43pm On Dec 08, 2020
Karleb:
I'm waiting for those that'll say OP is a man.
OP is damn right sincere we need more of er type to move dis country forward
Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Jodha(f): 1:44pm On Dec 08, 2020
kokaneprodigy:

This thing pained you to your bone marrow

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Splitmind: 1:45pm On Dec 08, 2020
mrblessed:
The authorship of this post, together with its contents, is subject to investigation. How could one commit gender-murder so effortlessly? Well, I will certainly spoil your little fun party: all things you emitted about Nigerian women are not only figment of your imagination, they don't represent them. Why do you think Nigerian women are in high demand in international dating arena? It precisely because Nigerian men have failed to value what they have, and are condemned to lose it to external competitors.

For your information, Nigerian women are down-to-earth, polished, and sensible; it is the Nigerian men that doesn't understand them. Therefore, your charges against them are null and void and have effect. It is only a resident of another that will make such wide and wolly remarks about Nigerian women. Has it ever cross your mind that almost all the challenges and problems Nigerian women face are caused by men, who are compulsively selfish, egoistic, calculating, and dense.
The moment you said Nigerian women are down to earth is when I knew you were talking pure rubbish.

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by DicklyD: 1:45pm On Dec 08, 2020
LadySarah:
Speak for yourself. Most women are sharing household expenses today .

What's wrong with their husbands helping out or is their a type of super strength a woman has compares to a man?

Both of you come back from work and while the man unwinds, you run to the kitchen to cook, you check the laundry, check homeworks etc and still get ready to satisfy your man at night.


Again speak for yourself and carry your sufferhead.

So only the men enjoys sex. Guess you will like to marry a man that wouldn't bother you with sex duty for months.

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by koolguy88(m): 1:46pm On Dec 08, 2020
JovialJune:
Who are the we precisely? You should specifically be precise by saying this only apply to the women you have had personal encounter with in your existence

And pls stop yapping like someone living in a cave, most of what you mentioned doesn't even apply in the world today, e.g most women share more in the financial responsibility than men doing house hold chores.


Except you probably created this thread to start unnecessary war of gender words.

Sister, take it easy
What she said is the FACT!

she try...(thumbs up)

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by JaneYave(f): 1:46pm On Dec 08, 2020
I don't know of ladies but women have taken over hustle since 1900. When you are in charge of your world,you just read and smile, If only she knew better...!

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by Splitmind: 1:46pm On Dec 08, 2020
Nuttella:
Its when you don't know your God given purpose on earth that you whole life will be centered on marriage.

Tell that to Linda Ikeji, she has fulfilled her purpose according to the Nigerian understanding yet is still looking for husband.

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by wofayouths(m): 1:47pm On Dec 08, 2020
JovialJune:



I responded so that you'll know my stand, do you expect me to stay mute so you'd continue yapping about like a dog on heat?

shocked You responded? Some Feminist would always show their selves.

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by ziondaughter247: 1:47pm On Dec 08, 2020
Nairaland men are really funny! this thread is obviously created by a MAN!
Stop decieving yourselves. Many of your here are real lowlifes who only come here to bash and insult women. You have nothing going for yourselves unfortunately! That's why all thread here are for women bashing. Many of you are less than nothing in the real world. It is only here you get any form of validation!

#AlphaApes

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Re: Ladies Why Do We Keep Deceiving Ourselves? by stanech: 1:48pm On Dec 08, 2020
The whole modern feminist thing is confusing, If you get close to them you will see they are just men haters and nothing more, Women are men are never and cannot be equal. There are incomparable differences between both genders and I actually think they were made to compliment each other. My thought though

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