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Kuns84:
Especially Nigerians.

Nigerians have suffered so much that once they see a kind person, the default setting is to extort and exploit that individual to the fullest.

It's a vicious survival instinct that is very prominent amongst a poverty-stricken populous.

Shortyy:
You balance it. Don't be too nice and don't be too cruel.

LordKO:
Yes, servility (people-pleasing) is bad, but opportunism is worse than it; even self-absorption is worse than it too. Actions and inactions of an opportunist are always more pernicious than that of a servile person.

Conscientiousness is standard.

binarymachine:
Source: https://flipmemes.com/2020/10/04/6-reasons-you-should-avoid-people-pleasing/

LordKO:
Yes, servility (people-pleasing) is bad, but opportunism is worse than it; even self-absorption is worse than it too. Actions and inactions of an opportunist are always more pernicious than that of a servile person.

Conscientiousness is standard.

binarymachine:
Source: https://flipmemes.com/2020/10/04/6-reasons-you-should-avoid-people-pleasing/

Web2020:
OP this is a good one. But wait, is there any relationship between pleasing people and Trusting people. It seems i am guilty of trusting people too much and it's worse doing so in Nigeria.

Amotekun777:
The problem of Nigeria depicted in this post of yours. What's the purpose of all these ur stupid complex grammar? Just to proof or appear smart to people. How does it send the msg across? Chai... Fvcked up mentality... Typical 9ja.

Be kalming dan. Be kalming dan, na. Hian.

Fuckingmallam45:
Habits you should stop doing immediately

Stop pleasing everyone. Follow your own convictions, NOT what others expect from you.
Stop pampering yourself. Growth is found OUTSIDE your comfort zone.

Stop being distracted. We are the most distracted generation in history. No FOCUS, no results.

Stop relying on others. Your mama won’t save you anymore. NOTHING is free in life. Take accountability for your future.

Stop expecting instant satisfaction. Patience, PERSISTENCE and perspiration are your best friends.

Stop relying on motivation to act. Create the daily HABITS that will lead to achieving your goals.

Stop abusing your body. Eat HEALTHY, and you will look healthy, feel healthy and think healthily. Eat junk and you will feel like junk.

Stop surrounding yourself with negative people. We can’t change people, but we CAN change the people that we surround ourselves with.
Stop resisting change. Staying stuck in the past has PAINFUL consequences.

Stop fearing failure. If you are not failing, you are not trying HARD enough.

lekki1444:
There is absolutely nothing wrong with people pleasing. just make sure the only people you are people pleasing are people that can benefit your life and help you. If someone cant improve your life there is no need to people please them

Teeisaac:
Wahala for those who get people
I only get myself

Fuckingmallam45:
Habits you should stop doing immediately

Stop pleasing everyone. Follow your own convictions, NOT what others expect from you.
Stop pampering yourself. Growth is found OUTSIDE your comfort zone.

Stop being distracted. We are the most distracted generation in history. No FOCUS, no results.

Stop relying on others. Your mama won’t save you anymore. NOTHING is free in life. Take accountability for your future.

Stop expecting instant satisfaction. Patience, PERSISTENCE and perspiration are your best friends.

Stop relying on motivation to act. Create the daily HABITS that will lead to achieving your goals.

Stop abusing your body. Eat HEALTHY, and you will look healthy, feel healthy and think healthily. Eat junk and you will feel like junk.

Stop surrounding yourself with negative people. We can’t change people, but we CAN change the people that we surround ourselves with.
Stop resisting change. Staying stuck in the past has PAINFUL consequences.

Stop fearing failure. If you are not failing, you are not trying HARD enough.

Amotekun777:
The problem of Nigeria depicted in this post of yours. What's the purpose of all these ur stupid complex grammar? Just to proof or appear smart to people. How does it send the msg across? Chai... Fvcked up mentality... Typical 9ja.

Kuns84:
Especially Nigerians.

Nigerians have suffered so much that once they see a kind person, the default setting is to extort and exploit that individual to the fullest.

It's a vicious survival instinct that is very prominent amongst a poverty-stricken populous.

BigBashiru:
It has nothing to do with suffering and isn't survival instinct.... it's cruelty of the negros.... there are other ways to survive....

BigBashiru:
It has nothing to do with suffering and isn't survival instinct.... it's cruelty of the negros.... there are other ways to survive....