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6 Reasons You Should Avoid People Pleasing by Nobody: 7:21am On Dec 13, 2020 |
People pleasing is simply the act of saying or doing anything and everything just to satisfy everybody. It is a deliberate act where a person go out of their way and against their own real intentions to make everyone around them happy by doing or saying whatever they want and like. Source: https://flipmemes.com/2020/10/04/6-reasons-you-should-avoid-people-pleasing/ 63 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: 6 Reasons You Should Avoid People Pleasing by phr33man(m): 7:23am On Dec 13, 2020 |
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Re: 6 Reasons You Should Avoid People Pleasing by Nobody: 9:55am On Dec 13, 2020 |
Bros this one na essay! there isn't a single reason for this. Pleasing people kills quicker after malaria. This is an established fact by UNN If you don't want to die young, stop pleasing people. If u keep pleasing people , u will die faster. I hope I made myself clear unlike the poster below me speaking plenty english to please people. 130 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: 6 Reasons You Should Avoid People Pleasing by LordKO(m): 10:15am On Dec 13, 2020 |
Yes, servility (people-pleasing) is bad, but opportunism is worse than it; even self-absorption is worse than it too. Actions and inactions of an opportunist are always more pernicious than that of a servile person. Conscientiousness is standard. 64 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: 6 Reasons You Should Avoid People Pleasing by iamvictorbassey: 12:45pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
It's about upbringing, if you were brought up original and vocal from an iron lady of a mum who doesn't tolerate nonsense. You can't be fake, you can't be a hypocrite, thus you'll attract only natural energy. People will see you and hate you already so they won't come close. And whoever likes you and comes close, yes! the person truly does like you and will stay. This is why I have very few true friends around. I'll teach my children to be alphas everywhere all the time. And to always stay original. I'll tell them, keep your standard, the world will fùcking adapt. 72 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: 6 Reasons You Should Avoid People Pleasing by 900warriorz: 12:45pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
Re: 6 Reasons You Should Avoid People Pleasing by Muhylonaire007: 12:45pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
Na person wey dem never shenk before dey please people na. As me don learn lesson Tey Tey, I don stop to dey please people, e go end in tears ni. 40 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: 6 Reasons You Should Avoid People Pleasing by Fuckingmallam45(m): 12:45pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
Habits you should stop doing immediately Stop pleasing everyone. Follow your own convictions, NOT what others expect from you. Stop pampering yourself. Growth is found OUTSIDE your comfort zone. Stop being distracted. We are the most distracted generation in history. No FOCUS, no results. Stop relying on others. Your mama won’t save you anymore. NOTHING is free in life. Take accountability for your future. Stop expecting instant satisfaction. Patience, PERSISTENCE and perspiration are your best friends. Stop relying on motivation to act. Create the daily HABITS that will lead to achieving your goals. Stop abusing your body. Eat HEALTHY, and you will look healthy, feel healthy and think healthily. Eat junk and you will feel like junk. Stop surrounding yourself with negative people. We can’t change people, but we CAN change the people that we surround ourselves with. Stop resisting change. Staying stuck in the past has PAINFUL consequences. Stop fearing failure. If you are not failing, you are not trying HARD enough. 82 Likes 20 Shares |
Re: 6 Reasons You Should Avoid People Pleasing by GIANTPLUSHUB: 12:45pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
Nice one |
Re: 6 Reasons You Should Avoid People Pleasing by Kuns84(m): 12:46pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
Especially Nigerians. Nigerians have suffered so much that once they see a kind person, the default setting is to extort and exploit that individual to the fullest. It's a vicious survival instinct that is very prominent amongst a poverty-stricken populous. 80 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: 6 Reasons You Should Avoid People Pleasing by pansophist(m): 12:46pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
People pleasing is like being a slave, while you're the slave master to yourself. Its like treating a hyena humanely, expecting it to reciprocate. Either you free yourself and live as a free man, or keep pleasing, which will never gain you their respect, and inevitably leads to your destruction. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 6 Reasons You Should Avoid People Pleasing by Atukul: 12:46pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
Kuns84: [img]https://media./images/84707f27fc5ed46e1bd9848982bc0daa/tenor.gif[/img] 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 6 Reasons You Should Avoid People Pleasing by Tillatalk: 12:46pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
That's why I love to stay on my Lane 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 6 Reasons You Should Avoid People Pleasing by Asikumalui: 12:46pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
U don't mean it 1 Like |
Re: 6 Reasons You Should Avoid People Pleasing by Hndrrxxx(m): 12:47pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
Bb |
Re: 6 Reasons You Should Avoid People Pleasing by Saviolamemphix(m): 12:48pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
Hsd famz stay blessed�� |
Re: 6 Reasons You Should Avoid People Pleasing by Teeisaac(m): 12:48pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
Wahala for those who get people I only get myself 15 Likes |
Re: 6 Reasons You Should Avoid People Pleasing by GOOOGLE504(m): 12:48pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
If you wanna make everyone happy, go sell ice cream. 5 Likes |
Re: 6 Reasons You Should Avoid People Pleasing by charlesucheh(m): 12:49pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
what you just described is sycophancy. simple!!!!! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 6 Reasons You Should Avoid People Pleasing by translux(m): 12:50pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
My only worries is that Buhari Administration has sent Nigeria back ward to the time far back to 1981, the next Administration will definitely have a lot of problems because of the damage Bihari has done to this great country 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 6 Reasons You Should Avoid People Pleasing by GodWrites: 12:50pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
If you're not a selfish bastard, you'll have a hard time surviving planet Earth. Instead of pleasing you, why don't you please me instead? That's the mindset of the 1% of the 1%. Shalom! 1 Like |
Re: 6 Reasons You Should Avoid People Pleasing by Offpoint1: 12:50pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
Good example are Buhari supporters, they ass lick the old man in detriment to their own happiness. Asslicking should have been the word. I'm just the IDGAF type of being. Dead beef griller is a good example of someone who has lost his sanity Asslicking. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 6 Reasons You Should Avoid People Pleasing by purples25(f): 12:50pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
People pleasing destroys lives. Pick your sanity over pleasing people. If you dont, you will slowly lose your mind. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 6 Reasons You Should Avoid People Pleasing by Dbtcking: 12:51pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
Pleasing people is the worst thing anyone would do cause people would always want to take advantage of your kindness and would even insult you behind your back just because you helped them. Ps: I buy(460) and sell(480) BTC the best rate out there. Pm if interested 3 Likes |
Re: 6 Reasons You Should Avoid People Pleasing by PAWG(m): 12:51pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
No is a valid answer, don’t always be a ‘yes man’ 10 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: 6 Reasons You Should Avoid People Pleasing by Triangles1(m): 12:52pm On Dec 13, 2020 |
OP you're sensible right on this article, but most times I please people is just to do it and get what I want. Example.... Guys to please their girl because of pineapple. 6 Likes |
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