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| Can A Father Arrest His Son For Coming Home Very Late? by tck2000(m): 1:58pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
Cousin doesn't like his father at all so he spend all his night outside close to home with friends till late in the night 11-12.He isn't a bad guy,doesnt smoke,drink or use drugs neither does he move about with bad guys.Father is threatening to arrest him saying very soon, he would start using drugs. Is that possible? And by the way,he just turned 20.I believe Father just hates him. |
| Re: Can A Father Arrest His Son For Coming Home Very Late? by yomi007k(m): 2:03pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
That boy needs to obey the father as long as he is under the man's roof. If he cannot live by the laws , he should pack out. What the boy is doing is very wrong. You and any logically thinking person know this; He his putting him self in harms way and also exposing people around him to danger by doing such. So YES. The father can report to police on this grounds. If he thinks he is man enough let him move out honourably. I know the father will support such. Peace. 3 Likes |
| Re: Can A Father Arrest His Son For Coming Home Very Late? by tck2000(m): 2:07pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
yomi007k: Hmmm words! |
| Re: Can A Father Arrest His Son For Coming Home Very Late? by Perfectsouth(m): 2:11pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
Maybe this story setting is in obodo oyinbo cos if it was in Nigeria and his father happens to be my fsther, He will always be home by 6pm Do all his chores and even behave himself. |
| Re: Can A Father Arrest His Son For Coming Home Very Late? by Thazard(m): 2:15pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
Perfectsouth:  |
| Re: Can A Father Arrest His Son For Coming Home Very Late? by Freestainworld(m): 2:33pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
Not taking drugs, smoking or not moving about with bad guys doesn't portray a person innocent, what will you be doing outside till that late hour, he should obey his father and be home early. 3 Likes |
| Re: Can A Father Arrest His Son For Coming Home Very Late? by Heloct(f): 2:38pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
Father doesn't hate him. He wants the best for him. He's certainly rebellious but he should obey and calm down. He's still a child. |
| Re: Can A Father Arrest His Son For Coming Home Very Late? by donbachi(m): 2:55pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
Yes..or go rent ur own. |
| Re: Can A Father Arrest His Son For Coming Home Very Late? by Karleb(m): 3:04pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
No police would take the man serious. The father like many African parents is overreacting. The boy might be watching champions league games. It's not always exciting watching it alone at home. I know grown ups who stay up late to watch champions league. |
| Re: Can A Father Arrest His Son For Coming Home Very Late? by Bola146(f): 3:21pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
yomi007k: My God go bless you, take this popcorn and orobo Pepsi  |
| Re: Can A Father Arrest His Son For Coming Home Very Late? by mariahAngel(f): 3:21pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
Perfectsouth: 1 Like |
| Re: Can A Father Arrest His Son For Coming Home Very Late? by yomi007k(m): 3:25pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
tck2000: Of a truth I tell you, most people will tell him to enjoy his youth but he is not doing that in the right way. I have a neighbour who is a generator engineer and he was coming back home late one evening when he was stopped by policemen. This guy ended in the cell that night and he took efforts of my lawyer brother to get him out. See, we have all been young and have all formed big boy at a point but bro e no pay us. Moreover you don't know what the father is going through. Wait till he becomes a father and he will know HOW FAR. P.S -If I was the father, I will make him sign that if he enters any fights/troubles/police issues or medical condition/injuries due to his late night movements, I will be exempted from the responsibilities as he has chosen to decline my advice. I will laminate this written agreement. 1 Like |
| Re: Can A Father Arrest His Son For Coming Home Very Late? by mariahAngel(f): 3:26pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
Karleb: Rules are rules! If one's going to break any, they better have a good excuse or take permission ahead of time. Even the police will arrest you for disobeying curfew, how much more one's father. 1 Like |
| Re: Can A Father Arrest His Son For Coming Home Very Late? by yomi007k(m): 3:26pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
Bola146:  Thank you. I'm watching my BMI...lolz |
| Re: Can A Father Arrest His Son For Coming Home Very Late? by Karleb(m): 3:34pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
mariahAngel: Rules are not set at stone. Father isn't God. The OP started with the fact that his cousin doesn't like his father and ended with "I believe father just hates him" That should speak volume of the kind of parent the father is. Threatening a 20 yr old with police simply shows you are not a good father. The OP's cousin even did it to spite his father. Forget, some fathers are not fatherly. |
| Re: Can A Father Arrest His Son For Coming Home Very Late? by Richy4(m): 4:13pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
OP U believe his father hates him because he wants to save him from himself right?.... Hmm!!! Ok... But for your information, he can easily report him that he is running wild... And ask the police to get him arrested/ cautioned... So yes it can happen.. |
| Re: Can A Father Arrest His Son For Coming Home Very Late? by thorpido(m): 4:24pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
Even if the son has issues with the father,he can stay in his room and read books or play games. Coming home late isn't the best way to deal with issues with parents. 1 Like |
| Re: Can A Father Arrest His Son For Coming Home Very Late? by Nobody: 5:15pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
Yes. if the son has become too tough for the father to handle he can get him arrested. |
| Re: Can A Father Arrest His Son For Coming Home Very Late? by Uyi168: 5:19pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
tck2000:. U already taking sides. U believed the father just hate Him, just like that. Why would a father just decide to hate his son?. The boy should behave himself till when he's old enough to stand on his own. Then he can decides to park out. |
| Re: Can A Father Arrest His Son For Coming Home Very Late? by mariahAngel(f): 5:32pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
Karleb: Hey! If you obey the law, why not your father? |
| Re: Can A Father Arrest His Son For Coming Home Very Late? by Juliusmomoh: 5:42pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
mariahAngel:Don't mind the guy abegi.. |
| Re: Can A Father Arrest His Son For Coming Home Very Late? by Nobody: 6:49pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
tck2000:He Shouldn't Arrest Him. He Shouldn't Allow Him In Whenever He Comes Home Late Or He Should Send Him Away To Start Living On His Own. 1 Like |
| Re: Can A Father Arrest His Son For Coming Home Very Late? by gfon(m): 11:56pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
When i started growing wings like your cousin,na cutlass my pman take humble me,wetin i pass through ehn..my mouth no fit talk.Who born you to sleep outside,come back around 11pm??If na my dad,na for you to prepare your will be that. |
| Re: Can A Father Arrest His Son For Coming Home Very Late? by Olunmercy56(f): 2:04am On Dec 28, 2020 |
Yes, the father is still the owner of his house, let the guy look for his own too  |
| Re: Can A Father Arrest His Son For Coming Home Very Late? by mumumugu(m): 9:17am On Dec 28, 2020 |
True |
| Re: Can A Father Arrest His Son For Coming Home Very Late? by frozen70(f): 11:26am On Dec 28, 2020 |
tck2000: There is no hatred there, the issue is that his father never created the synergy for both of them He should try and get admitted into school and he will be a distance away from him Alternatively, he should have a meeting with his mother and father to find out why his father is not showing him fatherly love There has to be a round table discussion before it gets out of hand |
| Re: Can A Father Arrest His Son For Coming Home Very Late? by ABOVEDELAW: 12:21pm On Dec 28, 2020 |
I KNOW OF A MAN WHO SHOT HIS SON ON THE LEG FOR TRYING TO CLIMB THE FENCE AFTER THE FATHER HAS LOCKED THE GATE. HE JUST DROPPED HIM AT THE OTHORPAEDIC HOSPITAL THE FOLLOWING MORNING. ALWAYS OBEY THE RULES IF YOU ARE STILL UNDER YOUR FATHER'S ROOF. |
| Re: Can A Father Arrest His Son For Coming Home Very Late? by Nobody: 12:22pm On Dec 28, 2020 |
yomi007k: You took out of my keyboard. The boy is just even 20 this is the stage where a parents will be more alert. |
| Re: Can A Father Arrest His Son For Coming Home Very Late? by yomi007k(m): 12:59pm On Dec 28, 2020 |
iamloyalty: I dey tell you. |
| Re: Can A Father Arrest His Son For Coming Home Very Late? by tck2000(m): 12:26am On Dec 29, 2020 |
frozen70: Actually, the Father forcefully took them when they were still little kids and went to another city abandoning the mother behind with his eldest son.The father doesn't talk to the mom at all. He is always swearing for his eldest son,their mom,my cousin and the rest children sometimes. Whenever she comes to see her children, the Father doesn't allow her in the house,she would sit on the verandah talking to them with the Father forcing her to leave in not up to 3 hours. Last year, they formally divorced and the mum has remarried and the Father is hoping to get married too but my cousin is strongly against that idea. |
| Re: Can A Father Arrest His Son For Coming Home Very Late? by frozen70(f): 5:51am On Dec 29, 2020 |
tck2000: If that is the case Then the father is toxic He should leave the father to his mother and manage with her |
| Re: Can A Father Arrest His Son For Coming Home Very Late? by tck2000(m): 9:08am On Dec 29, 2020 |
frozen70: that's the problem now. He said he can't stay with his mother again because she got married again, he doesn't want a step father. |
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