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there is this thought that runs in the mind of most men when they see a beautiful girl. they always think they don't have the money to have her or maintain it. They have placed themselves in certain category and believe they are not good enough for her or she will reject them. Also they think better men will be hurting her left and right so they just turn away like they never saw her.


This also happens to girls as well, when they see a fine rich guy. they sometimes feel worthless and believe he will not love them and beside more beautiful fine babes will flock around him.


I'm in such a delimma right now. I saw this fine babe that fit into what I like in a women. she is beautiful, flat tommy, well shape, big hip, nice smile and giant ass with no trace of bad fat.. among all is her character. she is very quite and well reserved. my problem is too many guys chasing her. guys nor de use eye see big hip and ass. Sometimes if the thought enters my mind I feel lost and might have no place.

Meeting someone you don't know and trying to woo them it's kind of tasking but I give it a try. She just smiled and refused. But I noticed she start staring at me thereafter.

But at least I have registered my interest to her. And she will start noticing me and my presence. Girls are not comfortable giving someone they don't know their number even if they like the person this I know in my mind.

Since then I dress nicely and look rich and classic around her. And she noticed my class of being. Thereafter I sent someone that is close to her to help me woo her and it was a success without difficulty.

She gave me her number but the problem now is that I needed someone that is into me really, and not just because I wanted it of a thing if you know what I mean. Her acting up is what I hate.

She is doing something that is giving me a kind of thought to discontinue. Like I am begging for it. Although we know newly not even up to 3 days. Here is what I mean, she hardly pick the calls when I called and when she does after sometime she will say hold on she will come me back she is busy now but will not call. And after I called to remind her she will not pick.


It's just a girl thing to play hard to get and act not really interested. I do not take this act from girls, I have deleted many girls number for this simple reason as I'm not a patient guy, if you are not talking straight I move on to the next one. It's just because I love this girl and I really want her. I think of her steady if only she knows how well I like her she will grab me with two arms.


What do I do?

Juliusmomoh:
What is the girl above really saying....

crackhaus:
She's saying she's beautiful.

ImaIma1:
You love her and really want her or you just want to conquer this conquest. The fact that everyone one wants her, you want to be the one to have her.

Why are you complaining about her behaviour? You are just one of many guys that cannot use eye to see big ass. You knew she wasn't in to you from the start, so why are you fussing?

CalliDora1:
Insecurity. Lol..

You know what? Go for your level and have peace of mind before you grow grey because of her.

Since she's beautiful, so many men will be there wooing her thereby confusing her. So, she won't really know which to settle for ( I've been there) she will see all of you as players and at the same time want to give you all attention but in the end, non of you on queue will get her (if she's a good girl).

Stop wasting your time and move on already. It's obvious you're after her beauty too and not after her as person. say the truth.

fineboynl:
s what are you trying to say? to discontinue with her or what?

Juliusmomoh:
What is the girl above really saying....

ImaIma1:
Save yourself the trouble and move on. No one needs to tell you that this is one-sided. Has she ever called you on her own? She doesn't even return your calls.

But if you are ready to love enough for both of you, you can go ahead.

Juliusmomoh:
And you belive?

cooooooks:
Guys will not go for mutual love and then will come and start saying she only wants my money.

Save yourselves stress, mutual love or nothing!!

ImaIma1:
They will date a girl they don't really know just because of her endowments. When she starts to mess up, they will open a wailing thread on "girls are trash"

fineboynl:
the person that I sent to help me woo her. said she keep telling saying we are talking on the phone. but we are really not talking anything. maybe she is just forming or pretending something. I made up my mind to leave her now.