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QuinModah:
Ladies And Gentlemen,

Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/Her?

Share Your Experience

Mine: First date: We met in a hotel restaurant, I dint know this guy has already book a room. Saying he wants us to discuss privately as if dat place wasn't enough. And also he was bragging too much. I left him there, since then I stop picking his calls+ He kept looking at my boobs n smiles like an idiot

PoliticallyInco:
Hahahahaha.. His intentions were glaring at least. At least let us give that to him.

Few years back. Someone told someone she was interested in me.I had told and forewarned the bearer of the message that it might not go well because I do not live to impress any one. My taste in women is rare. Additionally, I was not the regular "sheep" in the world, influenced by religious, class, gender, race, political view point,tribal, ethnic, blood and other biases. I am also politically incorrect on a lot of things. The person insisted because promise had been made to the lady and also, what was the worse that could happen? I feed, gist and laugh with her to death?

Anyway, met her at a restaurant. Worst date ever. She laughed and talked to her phone all through the date. Typed messages under the table. Took 1 billion photos (perhaps even more) on that single date.Ok clearly an exaggeration. But, men a lot of selfies.Few calls came in in quick succession and based on her responses, I believe she was posting online and sending to friends and reading comments and chats. She would type, laugh and apologize 1,000 times for chatting on her phone. Oh you know you are being stupid, so why continue and apologize and repeat? Could not hold any proper discussion on anything. However, knew how to order a lot of stuff including what she would take home. Hilarious, I thought. At least she knows something about being hungry.

Anyway my type of person, I told her I was only going to pay for what she could eat right there. Courtesy demands this as her host, despite the fact that we had not discussed who would be handling the bill. Besides I wanted this to be my treat anyway. But I was not going to pay for anything she takes home. She could pay for that herself as it was outside the date. Immediately, that got her attention. She was shocked and confused. She asked that but she was told I work with XYZ bla bla bla where the person that introduced us also works, and the person is a big person.I knew where she was coming from.To her she expected that a "big boy" should not bother about that. Her expectation was to come and have a nice time at my expense, take some free meal home. Oh well. Nice time during the date, no problem. I could feed her entire village 3 square meals for life. No offense to her village people. But trying to insult my intelligence, that I won't allow.

Her face changed. Had her meal in silence. Countenance dropped from "giggling high" to "sulking low". Responses became monosyllabic and snappy. I politely asked after the meal if she would like to leave. She affirmed. Drove her to her house. Dropped her off. She wouldn't respond to my "have a good night". Latter heard she said I was a "wicked and stingy" man.

Daijin:
Yeah it was when I went on a date and the girl never muted or kept their phone on vibration. She even had the nerve to go answer some calls. Could she not just wait like 2 hours for the date to be over or what.

MPESA:
Some people don't really care about what they put On while some don't have dressing sense irrespective of there exposure or where they resides..... Except you only care about Yankee level , if not you might have loss a Diamond while searching for Stone.

UnknownJr:
She came with 3 of her friends on our first date. Naso I order 2 plates of pepper soup o and 2 bottles of soft drinks.

Her friends come dey look me expecting me 2 buy for them.

Me wey no get joy, I no even look their side.

edward1106:
If this is true and she didn't inform you about them earlier, then bro, I commend your stance.

QuinModah:
Ladies And Gentlemen,

Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/Her?

Share Your Experience

Mine: First date: We met in a hotel restaurant, I dint know this guy has already book a room. Saying he wants us to discuss privately as if dat place wasn't enough. And also he was bragging too much. I left him there, since then I stop picking his calls+ He kept looking at my boobs n smiles like an idiot

vanida6:
arhhh i swear sir u no do well infact u wicked

OBelz:
My own wanted to see me and I told him I don't have chance to come and he told me he can come around and wen he finally did this guy chop and drink I was the one that took care of the bills,and the mumu still went ahead asking me wen are my coming to see him in his house and wat can he keep for me� I just went into Unended call until he left.some guys don't have shame at all�

Leezah:
After inviting me over for us to see he started bragging about how he has gone to abroad how he came back waiting for his container to land .. at the same time the guys mouth odour na fire for fire I was so uncomfortable with his beard and hair like that of a mad man ,speaking American accent up and down omon I just discharged the guy telling him I have running stomach

Gaggii:
He said what would I like to take, I asked for cow tail pepper soup and Smirnoff. He said he can only afford the Smirnoff because he only had #1000 with him, and he will spend #500 as t.fee, so he cannot spend more than #500...

I teased him that I thought he was going to book a room so that we could spend some time privately, he said he knows a place that they collect #500 for short time, but they wont on generator for us. He said because he loves me he would trek home... I kuku ma Japa for poverty.

reubenobi:
Like we met today, she came to my place the next day. She asked me if I'm caring, I said yes. Few hours later, she asked if I can give her 10k that are mother is sick. I told her I will get back to her d following day. I blocked her number from reaching me ever again.

Queenslander:
Lmao,. This one really cracked me up!!

Ishilove:
His breath funked so much, my eyeglasses turned brown. And God, spittle settled at the side of his lips when he talked. Years later I'm still traumatised.

*scream*

*wail*

Aaaaarghmed:
it was year 2011 when I was in my HND 1,I saw her contact online but I never knew what she looked like,we talked online for months and her voice was the sweetest I knew at that particular time and I thought her beauty wud compliment it,on the day we agreed to see I told her to meet me at an eatry in the school hostel but she proceeded to the biggest branch of the eatry which is off campus.I was pissed and told her to find her way to the school hostel eatry branch whish is more cheaper for students.My people when I saw her she was as dark as a shadow and her mouth was very long,I felt like crying but I summoned courage to allow her order for what to eat and I kept tapping my foot on the ground so she wud eat quickly and leave because i did not want any of my guys or fans to see me with this type of girl,I was a very popular playboy that time in school.She finally ate and left and I deleted her number sharply. That was the last time I judged a lady by her voice,I repeat the last time

QuinModah:
Ladies And Gentlemen,

Have You Ever Experienced A Turn Off From Someone On Your First Date With Him/Her?

Share Your Experience

Mine: First date: We met in a hotel restaurant, I dint know this guy has already book a room. Saying he wants us to discuss privately as if dat place wasn't enough. And also he was bragging too much. I left him there, since then I stop picking his calls+ He kept looking at my boobs n smiles like an idiot

LINTUNE:
ur excuse is still reasonable anyway..

LINTUNE:
ur excuse is still reasonable anyway..

UnknownJr:
She came with 3 of her friends on our first date. Naso I order 2 plates of pepper soup o and 2 bottles of soft drinks.

Her friends come dey look me expecting me 2 buy for them.

Me wey no get joy, I no even look their side.

folake4u:
Yeah. Niggar tried kissing me. Thank God I had the strength of a lion to push him aside.

QuinModah:
what on a first date

OBelz:
My own wanted to see me and I told him I don't have chance to come and he told me he can come around and wen he finally did this guy chop and drink I was the one that took care of the bills,and the mumu still went ahead asking me wen are my coming to see him in his house and wat can he keep for me� I just went into Unended call until he left.some guys don't have shame at all�

LINTUNE:
cos u entertained a visitor that came to ur house, see the shit u are saying here, so u expected him to be the one to entertain u, even in ur house?...men i thank God for the kind of women have met so far, women that deserve the best things in life when the money start coming..

idahme:
E shock u too? The way some ladies reason is just unfortunate. Even her been the host, the guy should be the one spending before he becomes a good man. Interesting times.

OBelz:
My own wanted to see me and I told him I don't have chance to come and he told me he can come around and wen he finally did this guy chop and drink I was the one that took care of the bills,and the mumu still went ahead asking me wen are my coming to see him in his house and wat can he keep for me� I just went into Unended call until he left.some guys don't have shame at all�

realokopi:
So you're feeling like a giant lizard now because you were the one that paid the bill
If you didn't want to entertain him why did you insisted that he should be d one to come over?

QuinModah:

SIRmanjar:
There is this gel she no sabi speak english and i know but she tooooooo set.So i dey manage am.So for that any time we hang out i go carry am go bar wey nobody know me.

So one unlucky day my friend bumped into us in a bar as we dey drink the gel come high come dey tabor.Dis na gel wey quiet before.The last tabor wey she do be say,,my friend ask am her state she talk,,my friend come praise her state say them get plenty buisness mogul..The gel say Nooo we no get buisness MUGU ooo our buisness men get sense well well..I put the gel for bike sharparly form say i wan go house.