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| Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by bukatyne(op): 12:17am On Jul 13, 2020 |
Gosh, I low key like wahala sha. Bring it on! |
| Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by eazzzy1(m): 12:33am On Jul 13, 2020 |
Alexaonfleek:Lol maybe I used the wrong word, let’s say tough guy like you said. If you date a gentle guy and try to make him a tough guy it may not work out well for both of you. For example, when I broke up with a freak ex some years ago, I got a decent girl and I tried to buy her short dresses, she was totally uncomfortable with showing her legs, fixing her nail, heavy makeup etc I found myself complaining occasionally about it. Till I found out people are the best version of themselves when you let them be themselves. In the bedroom she wasn’t as free and adventurous as my ex, so I stopped waiting for her to initiate sex, be dominant in bed etc I just took charge of sex totally. At first I thought she didn’t like me enough to initiate sex or want to eat me up during sex. Till I accepted her for who she was and loved her for it, the relationship was not enjoyable. |
| Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by eazzzy1(m): 12:37am On Jul 13, 2020 |
[quote author=bukatyne post=91655666][/quote] buka wahala. If fleek is still in school in 2022 she may be too young for me. I finished school in 2011. Although at quite an early age. If I do the maths she’s still a baby. I no be Oga Ned Nwokwo o. |
| Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by bukatyne(op): 3:41pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
Mariangeles: ![]() |
| Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by bukatyne(op): 3:42pm On Aug 24, 2020 |
eazzzy1: ![]() |
| Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by bukatyne(op): 11:50am On Nov 03, 2020 |
Since I have caught the outlander bug, I must say Jamie Fraser is now a favorite male character. Whoever would displace him must be 'perfect'. ![]() I am content with Jamie Fraser sha ![]() |
| Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by bukatyne(op): 11:41am On Nov 17, 2020 |
@mariahAngel, Have you watched Gran Hotel? A Spanish series. And Outlander? A Scottish series. I have caught your series bug much means little time for any other form of recreation. I guess watching on my phone makes it easier to follow. |
| Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by mariahAngel(f): 5:18pm On Nov 17, 2020 |
bukatyne:No, I haven't. How interesting are they? I'll check them out. I have caught your series bug much means little time for any other form of recreation.You're the give-it -all-to-me-at-once type! ![]() Me, I patiently take it slow and let the characters and romance grow on me. I'm usually nostalgic whenever any of my favourite series is coming to an end. |
| Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by bukatyne(op): 10:32pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
mariahAngel:They are very interesting. Just finished Gran Hotel smiling at the end. Hahahahahahahaha @ give it all to me. I actually watch movies to see the 'how' and not 'what'. I read reviews, spoilers, character analysis, plot on Wikipedia before watching. ![]() I find iconic European movies/series know how to build up anticipation, romance and character depth that even when you binge on them, you still feel the nostalgia. I find American movies very PC and stark. More like sex vs. love making or mama put vs buffet. I suspect they write their movies, bring out dictionary of political correctness and modify the plot to suit it. Let me know your thoughts when you are done watching. ![]() |
| Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by Queenserah26(f): 10:55pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
One cold bottle of wine for you for this ![]() eazzzy1: |
| Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by Queenserah26(f): 10:57pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Apt Kenplay: |
| Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by bukatyne(op): 10:57pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
| Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by Queenserah26(f): 10:58pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
bukatyne: |
| Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by bukatyne(op): 10:58pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Toor, you haff spoilt the magic ![]() |
| Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by omooba969(m): 11:53pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
Kenplay:You don't need a wife yet but a mum to re-train you. Nigga, go work on yasef! ![]() |
| Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by omooba969(m): 11:58pm On Nov 18, 2020 |
eazzzy1:I can relate. |
| Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by Nobody: 4:29am On Nov 19, 2020*. Modified: 12:09pm On Nov 19, 2020 |
omooba969:.. |
| Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by bukatyne(op): 7:10am On Nov 19, 2020 |
Who are the peeps attempting to spoil my thread? Biko, this is lovers zone. ![]() No fighting. |
| Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by mariahAngel(f): 7:18am On Nov 19, 2020 |
bukatyne:Eyin le fa wahala ![]() |
| Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by mariahAngel(f): 7:22am On Nov 19, 2020 |
Kenplay:“Honey I dont think you should fight him, just forgive him because you might hurt him and put yourself in trouble." Let me help awa future wife ![]() |
| Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by mariahAngel(f): 7:27am On Nov 19, 2020 |
bukatyne:Smh! ![]() Especially @bolded ![]() I find iconic European movies/series know how to build up anticipation, romance and character depth that even when you binge on them, you still feel the nostalgia.I don't think Americans are even patient enough to fall in love in their real life. I hate how they build love stories in their series. Let me know your thoughts when you are done watching.I will. ![]() |
| Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by bukatyne(op): 7:47am On Nov 19, 2020 |
mariahAngel:I stumbled on The Hookup Plan and in 4mths, the girl was soooooo in love with the guy. Moved in, had sex uncountable times etc etc. One of the series I mentioned, it took them almost a year to make love which took several hours. Romance movies/ human relations is certainly not their strong suit. European Period Pieces are my new fave. |
| Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by Nobody: 8:58am On Nov 19, 2020 |
mariahAngel:hahaha….I love your sense of homor baby |
| Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by mariahAngel(f): 10:46am On Nov 19, 2020 |
bukatyne:Nigerian relationships in reality takes even shorter time ![]() I know of a couple who met, got pregnant and married within 6months ![]() One of the series I mentioned, it took them almost a year to make love which took several hours.It seems like my kind of series. |
| Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by omooba969(m): 11:11am On Nov 19, 2020 |
Kenplay:I agree 100% but you need to enrol for an Anger Management course - for your own good. It will also guarantee the safety of any girl you deceptively persuade to marry you. My 2kobo ✌️ |
| Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by omooba969(m): 11:19am On Nov 19, 2020 |
bukatyne:There's need to point out to some who have Anger Management issues so they can realise there's a problem and summarily work on themselves. A step to safeguarding our sisters who may unfortunately marry this category of time-bombs parading as potential suitors. |
| Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by Magnoliaa(f): 2:16am On Dec 14, 2020 |
to be crazily rich like Jeff Bezos and still give me 100% of his time, love, attention.
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| Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by Liposure: 12:33pm On Jan 01, 2021 |
bukatyne:happy new year |
| Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by bukatyne(op): 12:46pm On Jan 01, 2021 |
Magnoliaa:Hahahahahaha Goodluck. On second thoughts, it is very possible. Jeff Bezos with his crazy schedule was able to nurture an affair. |
| Re: What Seemingly Opposing Charateristics Do You Want In A Lover (life/movies) by bukatyne(op): 12:46pm On Jan 01, 2021 |
Liposure:I wish you same. |
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