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Re: My Career Getting In The Way Of Me Settling Down by TransAtlanticEx(m): 7:17pm On Jan 06, 2021
ethicallyright:


I said it earlier. I know what I want - To gap my future wife with over a decade. My future wife should be in the age range of Cococandy 's daughter (not a pedophile, just futuristic).

I know you guys think I'm stupid but I have a plan.

The other two girls throwing tantrums up and down in this thread have soft spots for my master , only if he would dignify them with attention...
This is the beginning and end of it.
You nailed it!!!
If you keep up with this speed and doggedness,I'm sure you will get a girl like cococandy's daughter effortlessly and society will endorse it.
You've got good eyes man!!kudos.

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Re: My Career Getting In The Way Of Me Settling Down by cococandy(f): 7:19pm On Jan 06, 2021
I wish you wouldn’t. Please desist. Thanks

ethicallyright:


I said it earlier. I know what I want - To gap my future wife with over a decade. My future wife should be in the age range of Coco 's daughter (not a pedophile, just futuristic).

I know you guys think I'm stupid but I have a plan.

The other two girls throwing tantrums up and down in this thread have soft spots for my master , only if he would dignify them with attention...

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Re: My Career Getting In The Way Of Me Settling Down by cococandy(f): 7:20pm On Jan 06, 2021
TransAtlanticEx:
This is the beginning and end of it.
You nailed it!!!
If you keep up with this speed and doggedness,I'm sure you will get a girl like cococandy's daughter effortlessly and society will endorse it.
You've got good eyes man!!kudos.
you too. Thanks

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Re: My Career Getting In The Way Of Me Settling Down by cococandy(f): 7:24pm On Jan 06, 2021
My kid is a toddler (more or less). Four years old. Even if you are making future reference, it is still weird and eww. undecided undecided undecided

You can freely state that the age range you prefer has not been born and that’s okay. Your preference. As long as you can wait until you’re 50 to settle down. I’m sure Ned is much more older to Regina than any of you is to my kid. Still Doesn’t make your submission any less yucky

But please don’t make specific references to already existing children and think adding ‘no pedophile’ somehow makes it okay.

Cc transatlanticex and ethicallyright

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Re: My Career Getting In The Way Of Me Settling Down by Mariangeles(f): 7:30pm On Jan 06, 2021
cococandy:
My kid is a toddler more or less. Four years old. Even if you are making future reference, it is still weird and eww. undecided undecided undecided

You can freely state that the age range you prefer has not been born and that’s okay. Your preference. As long as you can wait until you’re 50 to settle down. I’m sure Ned is much more older to Regina than any of you is to my kid. Still Doesn’t make your submission any less yucky

But please don’t make specific references to already existing children and think adding ‘no pedophile’ somehow makes it okay.

Cc transatlanticex and ethicallyright

You're lenient, I sweeeeeeaaar!

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Re: My Career Getting In The Way Of Me Settling Down by cococandy(f): 7:38pm On Jan 06, 2021
Mariangeles:


You're lenient, I sweeeeeeaaar!


I got a sense the post was made to rile me up. I was taking him seriously at first because I thought it was just a young person trying learn something. Then I Saw him calling logobenz his ‘master’ and it just came off as trollish. Wonder whose alternate that is.

So I’m making the conscious decision not to give in to that negative interaction today. I was actually going to totally ignore it but then anyone else reading might think I don’t see anything wrong with their posts.

NL. The more you look. undecided

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Re: My Career Getting In The Way Of Me Settling Down by pocohantas(f): 7:40pm On Jan 06, 2021
cococandy:


I got a sense the post was made to rile me up. I was taking him seriously at first because I thought it was just a young person trying learn something. Then I Saw him calling logobenz his ‘master’ and it just came off as trollish. Wonder whose alternate that is.

So I’m making the conscious decision not to give in to that negative interaction today. I was actually going to totally ignore it but then anyone else reading might think I don’t see anything wrong with their posts.

NL. The more you look. undecided

It was very intentional, just like every other post.

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Re: My Career Getting In The Way Of Me Settling Down by Mariangeles(f): 7:45pm On Jan 06, 2021
cococandy:


I got a sense the post was made to rile me up. I was taking him seriously at first because I thought it was just a young person trying learn something. Then I Saw him calling logobenz his ‘master’ and it just came off as trollish. Wonder whose alternate that is.

So I’m making the conscious decision not to give in to that negative interaction today. I was actually going to totally ignore it but then anyone else reading might think I don’t see anything wrong with their posts.

NL. The more you look. undecided

OK. I'll try that exercise some time...let's see how it goes cheesy

God knows I'm not ready to be the "bigger person" grin

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Re: My Career Getting In The Way Of Me Settling Down by Nobody: 7:53pm On Jan 06, 2021
TransAtlanticEx:
This is the beginning and end of it.
You nailed it!!!
If you keep up with this speed and doggedness, I'm sure you will get a girl like cococandy's daughter effortlessly and society will endorse it.
You've got good eyes man!!kudos.
Master,
It wouldn't be anything beyond normal. It would be a famous , handsome , fashionable , well-spoken and wealthy entrepreneur dating a beautiful young woman after years of hard work.

I'll not be more than 36 if I start dating her in her early 20s,
Re: My Career Getting In The Way Of Me Settling Down by cococandy(f): 7:53pm On Jan 06, 2021
Mariangeles:


OK. I'll try that exercise some time...let's see how it goes cheesy

God knows I'm not ready to be the "bigger person" grin


I think it comes with old age.

Being that I’m over 30 years old already. grin

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Re: My Career Getting In The Way Of Me Settling Down by Nobody: 7:58pm On Jan 06, 2021
cococandy:


I got a sense the post was made to rile me up. I was taking him seriously at first because I thought it was just a young person trying learn something. Then I Saw him calling logobenz his ‘master’ and it just came off as trollish. Wonder whose alternate that is.

So I’m making the conscious decision not to give in to that negative interaction today. I was actually going to totally ignore it but then anyone else reading might think I don’t see anything wrong with their posts.

NL. The more you look. undecided

I laughed till I literally blew water outta my nose.
Thought your daughter was seven - eighth. Really find that Beyonce- Jay-Z relationship appealing because of the 13 years age gap.

Secondly, this is my account not an alternate grin grin grin
It's important to add she'll be an adult by then though...
Re: My Career Getting In The Way Of Me Settling Down by TransAtlanticEx(m): 8:07pm On Jan 06, 2021
ethicallyright:


I laughed till I literally blew water outta my nose.
Thought your daughter was seven - eighth. Really find that Beyonce- Jay-Z relationship appealing because of the 13 years age gap.

Secondly, this is my account not an alternate grin grin grin
It's important to add she'll be an adult by then though...
Funny thing is,when you become that man you want to be by then,she'll even he the one pushing her daughter to you then,picking the clothes she would wear on her first date with you despite the age gap.
We know how society works,especially limited societies such as America for Nigerian women grin
You know it actually calls for celebration to find a Nigerian guy dating a Nigerian girl in the US right?
They so limited they now date Congolese,gambians,Akatas,Freaking jamaicans and all sorts of shitholeans and the funny thing is they try to pretend it's normal and how much they like it grin
So imagine how happy she'd be having a well to do Nigerian man for her daughter for marriage in say 15 years.
Lol,just overlook her initial gra gra,its all part of the plan. grin
Re: My Career Getting In The Way Of Me Settling Down by poshestmina(f): 8:23pm On Jan 06, 2021
cococandy:
My kid is a toddler (more or less). Four years old. Even if you are making future reference, it is still weird and eww. undecided undecided undecided

You can freely state that the age range you prefer has not been born and that’s okay. Your preference. As long as you can wait until you’re 50 to settle down. I’m sure Ned is much more older to Regina than any of you is to my kid. Still Doesn’t make your submission any less yucky

But please don’t make specific references to already existing children and think adding ‘no pedophile’ somehow makes it okay.

Cc transatlanticex and ethicallyright

Same person typing and replying 'itself'.

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Re: My Career Getting In The Way Of Me Settling Down by Nobody: 8:25pm On Jan 06, 2021
TransAtlanticEx:
Funny thing is,when you become that man you want to be by then,she'll even he the one pushing her daughter to you then,picking the clothes she would wear on her first date with you despite the age gap.
We know how society works,especially limited societies such as America for Nigerian women grin
You know it actually calls for celebration to find a Nigerian guy dating a Nigerian girl in the US right?
They so limited they now date Congolese,gambians,Akatas,Freaking jamaicans and all sorts of shitholeans and the funny thing is they try to pretend it's normal and how much they like it grin
So imagine how happy she'd be having a well to do Nigerian man for her daughter for marriage in say 15 years.
Lol,just overlook her initial gra gra,its all part of the plan. grin

You're very right master.

Every woman desires to be the mother-in-law of a celebrated young man.
Right now women in high places want me to be casual friends with their daughters.

I'd be the most sought after bachelor in Africa when I achieve my goals.

Amazing thing is future MIL won't know it's me. Just a humble Nigerian billionaire investing in Seattle and its environs and he comes in contact with a young lady. Both parties begin a romantic story that spans across continents...

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Re: My Career Getting In The Way Of Me Settling Down by Nobody: 8:28pm On Jan 06, 2021
poshestmina:


Same person typing and replying 'itself'.

Your crush wouldn't be that jobless. Take a chill pill...

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Re: My Career Getting In The Way Of Me Settling Down by TransAtlanticEx(m): 8:38pm On Jan 06, 2021
ethicallyright:


You're very right master.

Every woman desires to be the mother-in-law of a celebrated young man.
Right now women in high places want me to be casual friends with their daughters.

I'd be the most sought after bachelor in Africa when I achieve my goals.

Amazing thing is future MIL won't know it's me. Just a humble Nigerian billionaire investing in Seattle and its environs and he comes in contact with a young lady. Both parties begin a romantic story that spans across continents...
Is there any particular reason why you'd pick Seattle,Washigton to invest or where your very very youthful Nigerian bride,of Nigerian descent(probably Igbo,from Imo state) will come from?
Just curious.

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Re: My Career Getting In The Way Of Me Settling Down by Nobody: 8:52pm On Jan 06, 2021
TransAtlanticEx:
What a coincidence.
Is there any particular reason why you'd pick Seattle,Washigton to invest or where your very very youthful Nigerian bride,of Nigerian descent(probably Igbo,from Imo state) will come from?
Just curious.
Amazon has its headquarters at Seattle. I've always had a plan to revolutionize e-commerce when I'm done with creating a conglomerate in Africa. Such investments from an African should be done in an environment where e-commerce is already the norm so that other venture capitalists do not replicate the technology in the U.S during failed trials in Africa . I wouldn't love to reveal much here without a non-disclosure agreement.
But I'm really a thinker.
Which African American mother would not be proud of her daughter associating with such an ambitious African man in a place where what all their black men do is to put their pants below their waist like there's a trophy that accompanies such unrefined prison behaviour?

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Re: My Career Getting In The Way Of Me Settling Down by TransAtlanticEx(m): 9:07pm On Jan 06, 2021
ethicallyright:

Amazon has its headquarters at Seattle. I've always had a plan to revolutionize e-commerce when I'm done with creating a conglomerate in Africa. Such investments from an African should be done in an environment where e-commerce is already the norm so that other venture capitalists do not replicate the technology in the U.S during failed trials in Africa . I wouldn't love to reveal much here without a non-disclosure agreement.
But I'm really a thinker.
Which African American mother would not be proud of her daughter associating with such an ambitious African man in a place where what all their black men do is to put their pants below their waist like there's a trophy that accompanies such unrefined prison behaviour?
Sure,it'll be every Nigerian mom in the US delight.
I think they are tired of marrying Jamaicans,Akatas,Congolese and Gambians out of sheer lack of options.
You'd be hot cake amongst Nigerian communities especially in the Northern parts of the US.
Texans don't feel that depraved like their northern counterparts.
Kudos man,Goodluck.

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Re: My Career Getting In The Way Of Me Settling Down by cococandy(f): 9:10pm On Jan 06, 2021
poshestmina:


Same person typing and replying 'itself'.
wink

“Master”. Lol

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Re: My Career Getting In The Way Of Me Settling Down by Nobody: 9:11pm On Jan 06, 2021
TransAtlanticEx:
Sure,it'll be every Nigerian mom in the US delight.
I think they are tired of marrying Jamaicans,Akatas,Congolese and Gambians out of sheer lack of options.
You'd be hot cake amongst Nigerian communities especially in the Northern parts of the US.
Texans don't feel that depraved like their northern counterparts.
Kudos man,Goodluck.


Thanks master.
My main aim in the thread was to admire your brilliance and drink from the fountain of your knowledge. The rest were by the way.
It's a pleasure you gave enough time. I'll make you proud.
Re: My Career Getting In The Way Of Me Settling Down by descarado: 9:20pm On Jan 06, 2021
Thread totally wasted.

After the first one and half pages, I have forgotten what I wanted to type.

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Re: My Career Getting In The Way Of Me Settling Down by Zayttoven: 9:48pm On Jan 06, 2021
Mariangeles:


Marrying a flight attendant will be the best option for you.

If it's someone from my workplace, it's a bad idea.
But from another airline, sure why not.
Only that I don't get to meet them often.
Re: My Career Getting In The Way Of Me Settling Down by Magnoliaa(f): 10:42pm On Jan 06, 2021
Nairaland won't kee me oh. Yeeee. grin grin grin I've just been laughing my ass off from the guys exchanging chit-chats in a soul-bonding manner to the one crashing in love and recovering back in plasters and crutches to being a regenerated hard guy...

It is well.

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Re: My Career Getting In The Way Of Me Settling Down by Magnoliaa(f): 10:49pm On Jan 06, 2021
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I can't hold it. I just can't help it.

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Re: My Career Getting In The Way Of Me Settling Down by Magnoliaa(f): 10:53pm On Jan 06, 2021
Magnoliaa:
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I can't hold it. I just can't help it. This. Is certainly wayyy better and more therapeutic than watching those comedians on IG.

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Re: My Career Getting In The Way Of Me Settling Down by Hathor5(f): 10:54pm On Jan 06, 2021
Magnoliaa:
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I can't hold it. I just can't help it.


Magnoliaa:
Nairaland won't kee me oh. Yeeee. grin grin grin I've just been laughing my ass off from the guys exchanging chit-chats in a soul-bonding manner to the one crashing in love and recovering back in plasters and crushes to being a regenerated hard guy...

It is well.

grin grin

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Re: My Career Getting In The Way Of Me Settling Down by Magnoliaa(f): 10:54pm On Jan 06, 2021
I don't even understand how ayam commenting?? ??

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Re: My Career Getting In The Way Of Me Settling Down by Magnoliaa(f): 10:58pm On Jan 06, 2021
Hathor5:




grin grin

Sisss. grin grin grin

There are billionaires-to-be on this thread oh.

Please, lerrus comport and behave ladylike, because your response is spurring me to tearing up. cry cheesy

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Re: My Career Getting In The Way Of Me Settling Down by Hathor5(f): 11:04pm On Jan 06, 2021
Magnoliaa:


Sisss. grin grin grin

There are billionaires-to-be on this thread oh.

Please, lerrus comport and behave ladylike, because your response is spurring me to tearing up. cry cheesy

NL is full of alpha male (to be) billionaires. Why do you think I visit this site so often? cheesy

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Re: My Career Getting In The Way Of Me Settling Down by Nobody: 11:34pm On Jan 06, 2021
Going from the OP's post, I think he is emotionally unavailable. He wants what he can't get and doesn't appreciate what he has.

It's like a double bind. My advise will be for the OP to solve his emotional unavailability first before venturing into a relationship. Because going into a relationship right now with any woman in your "confused" state will only traumatize her.

My 2 cents.

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Re: My Career Getting In The Way Of Me Settling Down by Zayttoven: 1:05am On Jan 07, 2021
kneehighbootz:
Going from the OP's post, I think he is emotionally unavailable. He wants what he can't get and doesn't appreciate what he has.

It's like a double bind. My advise will be for the OP to solve his emotional unavailability first before venturing into a relationship. Because going into a relationship right now with any woman in your "confused" state will only traumatize her.

My 2 cents.

Sounds personal.
Speaking from experience?
Re: My Career Getting In The Way Of Me Settling Down by Ishilove: 4:51am On Jan 07, 2021
ethicallyright:


It's rare to see old women graduating from there because of the amount of reading and dedication required. Plus high IQ for your children. The sky would be their beginning with a billionaire father like you (business sense) and intelligent mother (medical doctor) who will spend more time guiding them to achieve academic success.
What is the age range of these so-called 'old women'?

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