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You can't blame men for the way women are been treated now.....Our ladies have lost it because of the love of money.

As a lady above 20yrs you are an adult who is meant to start been responsible for herself but in this country our ladies are fully dependant on men.... How do you expect an adult who is totally dependent on another to be respected

Those of us who socialise see alot ....go to bars, clubs, hotels etc and see what our ladies do for money to buy worthless things....the so called decent ones are coded olosho.
This ladies are the one always disturbing men to take them out so they can eat and drink what they cant afford offering there pussy in return.

Has a lady you are a graduate but have nothing to offer apart from the hole between your Legs and boobs nothing else (no investment,no job) and you feel you deserve to make terms of the type of man you want.lol
A man is bursting is ass everyday, taking loans, doing several things to make money while you are at home sleeping and waking up everyday doing nothing and you feel you deserve respect??
Who will respect someone who feels she doesn't need to work to make money....all she needs to do is offer are pussy to a rich man??

Most times when men come here to talk about there relationship isn't meant to bash our ladies but to make other men learn.....Most ladies are in relationship for the gains(as nothing to do with either she decent or not) there pussy is the only bargaining chip they have...so they weaponies it against men(even in marriage) ...that why if you stop demanding sex from them they go crazy accusing you of cheating.

ladies if you don't want to be ridicule by men have other things to offer apart from your pussy.....if you don't have job take up a loan and start small business or apply for smaller jobs if the big one are not coming, don't be too proud... don't wait for any man to come open a store /shop for you.

Men I want to seriously warn you never stay in a relationship with an emotionally unstable lady ....women are not deep thinkers like men they act before they think during anger...so if you don't want to get ruined or get killed, once you notice she is emotionally unstable just exist don't feel you can change her.... please ooo we won't die prematurely.

Well said. Likewise men. We should just be care and smart when choosing a partner.

@ op, you spoke the harsh reality. Our ladies have set a bad precedent for upcoming generation. Just few weeks back I was having a conversation with my cousin of just seventeen years, and she was just making girlish talks about graduating and getting a rich man to marry. I was appalled and disgusted, I tried to reason with her that things are evolving and men are no longer going for liabilities or ladies with entitlement mentality, but the shocker was that her mom is in support of her statement. In her own Words, " Saint abeg leave my daughter, she said she wants a rich man, God will grant her heart desires.". Seriously!!! I stand to be corrected, but 90 percent of Naija girls who don't have wealthy parents have nothing to offer as a value to a man except pussy. That is why I always appreciate ladies who are career women or entrepreneurs, e no easy. Good knows I can't date a broke girl, and I wish my fellow guys will come to that realization, until our girls realize their pussy is not a master key.


ciao

Wow...
This is a nice expression of the impending doom awaiting most ladies with absolutely nothing to offer, well dude you forgot to mention iPhones, feminism (yet always entitled ), Hair & make-up, Awon Glow Glow Skin(bleaching), Instagram follows (latest tend & challenges) , fake endorsement( slim tea, waist trainer, organic scream, hair and clothes), vacation with God knows who, from hotels to hotels, All to showcase market...
those are the only things most of them see as an achievement...
If you like as a guy no sharp...
Menh I sincerely pray Heaven doesn't give me a female child someday...

InfernoNig:
Well said. Likewise men. We should just be care and smart when choosing a partner.

That it bro...... check out this rich class.... look at the type of women they go for.....I have study them well this men go for really ambitious women as wives and keep the parasitics women as concubines...they never marry unfocused women.

Smiles not all ladies tho...dont forget some men depends on some ladies too, pls don't generalise it abeg. Am still confused tho because ladies around me are not depending on any man � o..because op is not lucky to meet working class woman � doesn't mean all ladies depends on men..I stand against this thrend

Lol....
All this son stories will not help you guys sincerely.Our young guys una just dey jonse.

You see this naija babes, they know what they want and they go for it and they no longer pretend about it.To them it's business weda you like it or not.They realised you guys are always put.zzy thirsty, and why give it for free when they can get something outta of the transaction?

You want lash babe into say na your girlfriend, ow many she wan f",*k?No be say una go even marry self, just normal level sexually enhanced relationship.

I keep saying it, Naija babes no dey love.Thats why you don't see them opening threads on here.THEM NO SEND O...

The ONLY time they are confused about what they want is if the choices before them are all eligible,bust up and ready to mingle, and they must have to choose one or lose all...

A twenty year old average naija babe can comfortably make hair on 5k, and I bet you many of her counterparts don't even have that in their account.If an average naija babe can buy human hair of 20k, that means their 'buiness' is paying.O boy!That's what they want.

Take for example, if I decide to do give away now,more than 70 percent that will beg and send their Aza na guys, the girls go just dey read.Ofcourse, some will prefer to save their identities or email codedly.And you think say them no get sense?

See the only thing wey still dey give una mouth to talk na be sayour society law is highly pro- men.For say out laws here they favour naija women ehn..We for dey hear mweeen.You go just come house one day see ya papa dey sleep for street for night, and if you talk pass your mouth you go join am.

You will see a young man of 17, they maintain girlfriend.Who send you?The girl father say make you take care of him daughter?

Just take a look at this paternity fraud issues, just imagine if the laws here favour women how e go come be?Many father's go dey commit suicide.

Naija men don't know what they want.Many are just serial complainant, while the ladies are whoring and doing whatever they can to make life better for themselves.Gone are the days when naija babes are lazy oo, O boy any hustle na hustle.Gigolos are everywhere here in Abuja fi"cling for money and nobody they give them stress.

When you want to marry,marry ya own demon or angel, as finally you must still marry one.

Of you decide to be a baby father,good but women ALWAYS do have the good laugh.Naija kids are more pro mother than pro father.At the end of the day, you train your kids who inturn take care of their mother when they become financially stable.

Most naija fathers are always too lonely I'm their old age.

DasaintHope:
@ op, you spoke the harsh reality. Our ladies have set a bad precedent for upcoming generation. Just few weeks back I was having a conversation with my cousin of just seventeen years, and she was just making girlish talks about graduating and getting a rich man to marry. I was appalled and disgusted, I tried to reason with her that things are evolving and men are no longer going for liabilities or ladies with entitlement mentality, but the shocker was that her mom is in support of her statement. In her own Words, " Saint abeg leave my daughter, she said she wants a rich man, God will grant her heart desires.". Seriously!!! I stand to be corrected, but 90 percent of Naija girls who don't have wealthy parents have nothing to offer as a value to a man except pussy. That is why I always appreciate ladies who are career women or entrepreneurs, e no easy. Good knows I can't date a broke girl, and I wish my fellow guys will come to that realization, until our girls realize their pussy is not a master key.


ciao

Bro this another big probs.... parent are not teaching our ladies to be independent infact they feel the best thing for there daughter is marrying a rich man than been rich herself.

My fiancee anuty once told her if she doesn't marry a rich man she would curse her .... she had to rebuke by saying she would be rich herself without depending on any man.

debbydams:
Smiles not all ladies tho...dont forget some men depends on some ladies too, pls don't generalise it abeg. Am still confused tho because ladies around me are not depending on any man � o..because op is not lucky to meet working class woman � doesn't mean all ladies depends on men..I stand against this thrend

lol....that what we hear....am doing it,my friends are not doing it.....I guess the once we see and guys talk about everyday are aliens.
my dear speak for yourself because no lady will come out to admit doing all this.
Talking about working class you think I haven't been lucky to meet....I have a bunch.....is the one who sleep with there boss, marketer who sleep with there clients so they can bring money to there banks should I go on

Working class are even the worst because they are more district...... pretend alot...Most are decent prostitute my dear I see them alot.

You see this life eh, anyone who is paying your bills will decide how your life should go. It is normal, just the way parents monitor and make decisions for their kids, same applies to ladies who depend on guys for their cash. This is the realization that make most girls not to marry whoever is spending on them, they just want to cash out big on you and marry who they really want to cause they have seen the consequences of such marriages. But alas, this is an even worse decision cause they will end up as baby mamas and co except the few lucky ones.
But who do I blame for all these nonsense? It's the guys obviously. You never chop belleful, you won begin take care of girl who send you? Did she force you to give to her? What do you even need a girlfriend for? You want to be enjoying sex as a young guy abi? Oya face the music na.
Leave relationships and sex alone, focus on building yourself and when you are ready to marry, look for a hard working girl who can stand on her own without depending on a man and marry. That way, you won't come here opening threads everyday about entitled ladies

Godoverevery:
lol....that what we hear....am doing it,my friends are not doing it.....I guess the once we see and guys talk about everyday are aliens.
my dear speak for yourself because no lady will come out to admit doing all this.
Talking about working class you think I haven't been lucky to meet....I have a bunch.....is the one who sleep with there boss, marketer who sleep with there clients so they can bring money to there banks should I go on

Working class are even the worst because they are more district...... pretend alot...Most are decent prostitute my dear I see them alot.

it is well

Godoverevery:
lol....that what we hear....am doing it,my friends are not doing it.....I guess the once we see and guys talk about everyday are aliens.
my dear speak for yourself because no lady will come out to admit doing all this.
Talking about working class you think I haven't been lucky to meet....I have a bunch.....is the one who sleep with there boss, marketer who sleep with there clients so they can bring money to there banks should I go on

Working class are even the worst because they are more district...... pretend alot...Most are decent prostitute my dear I see them alot.

what do you want? You call the ones who don't work broke and entitled, the ones who work are decent prostitutes. Are you sure you don't have a problem? Pls stay single, ladies are humans and will decide to have sex when they want. Guys have sex and some even swindle ladies on top, you don't see ladies opening threads up and down, see the case yesterday when the lady cried out, people here shut her up that she should count her loses cause the guy didn't put a gun to her head, she is just a jilted lover, so what's all these rants about?

Ryan03:
what do you want? You call the ones who don't work broke and entitled, the ones who work are decent prostitutes. Are you sure you don't have a problem? Pls stay single, ladies are humans and will decide to have sex when they want. Guys have sex and some even swindle ladies on top, you don't see ladies opening threads up and down, see the case yesterday when the lady cried out, people here shut her up that she should count her loses cause the guy didn't put a gun to her head, she is just a jilted lover, so what's all these rants about?

common sense isn't common........Read the thread topic again this time with your brain plug to it charger.

Godoverevery:
common sense isn't common........Read the thread topic again this time with your brain plug to it charger.

I understand that you usually recharge your brain with a charger, no wonder you are like this. Light nor dey your area and you nor get gen. It is well, you go soon charge. Nonsense

debbydams:

Yea, you right

Some ladies just hate mental development and I don't just know why sincerely, even some men. And one cannot live above their said mindset.

Ryan03:
You see this life eh, anyone who is paying your bills will decide how your life should go. It is normal, just the way parents monitor and make decisions for their kids, same applies to ladies who depend on guys for their cash. This is the realization that make most girls not to marry whoever is spending on them, they just want to cash out big on you and marry who they really want to cause they have seen the consequences of such marriages. But alas, this is an even worse decision cause they will end up as baby mamas and co except the few lucky ones.
But who do I blame for all these nonsense? It's the guys obviously. You never chop belleful, you won begin take care of girl who send you? Did she force you to give to her? What do you even need a girlfriend for? You want to be enjoying sex as a young guy abi? Oya face the music na.
Leave relationships and sex alone, focus on building yourself and when you are ready to marry, look for a hard working girl who can stand on her own without depending on a man and marry. That way, you won't come here opening threads everyday about entitled ladies

Only dumb people give such advise ......the guy should work on himself while the ladies ain't.....are you so naive to the fact that hard working ladies are so few and very hard to find... do you know how many guys are looking for such ladies

Like Harding working ladies are just kept in a store after you are rich you just drive down and go pick one of the shelf

Ryan03:
You see this life eh, anyone who is paying your bills will decide how your life should go. It is normal, just the way parents monitor and make decisions for their kids, same applies to ladies who depend on guys for their cash. This is the realization that make most girls not to marry whoever is spending on them, they just want to cash out big on you and marry who they really want to cause they have seen the consequences of such marriages. But alas, this is an even worse decision cause they will end up as baby mamas and co except the few lucky ones.
But who do I blame for all these nonsense? It's the guys obviously. You never chop belleful, you won begin take care of girl who send you? Did she force you to give to her? What do you even need a girlfriend for? You want to be enjoying sex as a young guy abi? Oya face the music na.
Leave relationships and sex alone, focus on building yourself and when you are ready to marry, look for a hard working girl who can stand on her own without depending on a man and marry. That way, you won't come here opening threads everyday about entitled ladies

My guy, you made plenty sense.

Godoverevery:
Only dumb people give such advise ......the guy should work on himself while the ladies ain't.....are you so naive to the fact that hard working ladies are so few and very hard to find... do you know how many guys are looking for such ladies

Like Harding working ladies are just kept in a store after you are rich you just drive down and go pick one of the shelf

Really

Godoverevery:
Only dumb people give such advise ......the guy should work on himself while the ladies ain't.....are you so naive to the fact that hard working ladies are so few and very hard to find... do you know how many guys are looking for such ladies

Like Harding working ladies are just kept in a store after you are rich you just drive down and go pick one of the shelf

keep reading with your ass. Where did I say the guys should work while ladies sit at home? You didn't see where I said to marry a lady who can stand on her own ? Doesnt that translate to a working class lady? Don't be stupid

Ryan03:
keep reading with your ass. Where did I say the guys should work while ladies sit at home? You didn't see where I said to marry a lady who can stand on her own ? Doesnt that translate to a working class lady? Don't be stupid

maybe you typed with your brain AWOL....
you advise men to work on themselves and marry ladies who can stand on there own which is dumb because you simply saying men should attract such ladies with money.

who advise such only a fool
must a man be rich before he can attract a good woman

Godoverevery:
maybe you typed with your brain AWOL....
you advise men to work on themselves and marry ladies who can stand on there own which is dumb because you simply saying men should attract such ladies with money.

who advise such only a fool
must a man be rich before he can attract a good woman

marrying a woman who can stand on her own means you are attracting her with money? Opari! It is finished! I have been mentioning a cretin

Well said. Likewise men. We should just be care and smart when choosing a partner.