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Re: When Your Girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Laurene: 12:37pm On Jan 17, 2021
pocohantas:
Oxymoron...

Naija men are very generous and willing to please. You don’t need to DISTURB them.

A willing penis is always available, way more than portable clean water.
it's potable and not portable sister. grin

Happy Sunday girl.
Re: When Your Girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by nizetee: 12:41pm On Jan 17, 2021
AntiChristian:
I keep saying it.

Fornication or adultery will be rife when most don't call against indecent dressing, free mixing of opposite sexes, watching/listening to sexually provocative videos/Music, pornography, etc.

Almost all the men God guided in the Old testament has one or more mistake. It's only Jesus and maybe a few others are seen as perfect. Even David Jesus' ancestor was accused of adultery, murder, covetousness,...
I disagree if Jesus is God in the flesh, if he's the same god of the old testament as christians claim. Then all the massacres of old is attributed to him. In short Jesus is a murderous bastard!
Re: When Your Girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Baldwretch: 12:41pm On Jan 17, 2021
FruitCakes:
who are too busy looking for it
To better understand you. Is success a product of searching or indifference?

Also, why do you think men are free givers? You are a woman and have experienced that countless times, I guess.
Re: When Your Girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by cooooooks(m): 12:45pm On Jan 17, 2021
Go to Saudi Arabia.

AntiChristian:
I keep saying it.

Fornication or adultery will be rife when most don't call against indecent dressing, free mixing of opposite sexes, watching/listening to sexually provocative videos/Music, pornography, etc.

Almost all the men God guided in the Old testament has one or more mistake. It's only Jesus and maybe a few others are seen as perfect. Even David Jesus' ancestor was accused of adultery, murder, covetousness,...
Re: When Your Girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by pocohantas(f): 12:48pm On Jan 17, 2021
Kriss216:
Lol

I cover my eyes and phone with the blood of Jesus.
Continue covering it. cheesy
Re: When Your Girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Gabson001(m): 1:08pm On Jan 17, 2021
this life no balance
Re: When Your Girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Daeveed(m): 1:12pm On Jan 17, 2021
ignis:
flee every immorality
flee every urgent 2K
Re: When Your Girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by ignis: 1:19pm On Jan 17, 2021
Laurene:
Said by the most immoral person on Earth.
Huh.
Re: When Your Girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by LINTUNE(m): 1:21pm On Jan 17, 2021
pocohantas:
Oxymoron...

Naija men are very generous and willing to please. You don’t need to DISTURB them.

A willing penis is always available, way more than portable clean water.
SMH, same with pussy..
Re: When Your Girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by doggedfighter(f): 1:34pm On Jan 17, 2021
pode:
This is temptation I fell into this precious December and as I chat, I still could not recover from that singular acted, my spirit keep tormenting me day and night .
My prayer each day that lord should have mercy on me
Get out here. It's religion that's tormenting you and nothing more. Don't recover . Keep punishing yourself for nothing. You made love , you didn't commit murder. Phool ! Mtchewwww !
Re: When Your Girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by doggedfighter(f): 1:36pm On Jan 17, 2021
Johnnoo:
Your quote is out of context. Don't play with the Word of God.
Remain blessed
John, keep quiet
Re: When Your Girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by jesusjnr2020(m): 1:40pm On Jan 17, 2021
Emmasnoop:
DID GOD THROW YOUR WIFE FROM HEAVEN TO YOU.
GetMeRight:
No be gf will become wife later abi you no go date before marrying?
Myer:
So in your bible marriage happens without girlfriend?

Your question should hqve been is he ready for marriage?
If that friendship sounds moral to y'all, it sounds immoral to me. So he shouldn't keep it except it's how he wants it.

That's my point.

God bless.
Re: When Your Girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by mmyfarmsltd(m): 1:41pm On Jan 17, 2021
matrix199:
You give it to her. Didn't the Bible say, 'ask and it shall be given'?
Pls be careful on the kind of jokes to crack.
The word of the lord is mysterious.

I know you know what exactly is meant in the bible that says "ask & you shall be given"
Re: When Your Girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by mmyfarmsltd(m): 1:48pm On Jan 17, 2021
nizetee:
I disagree if Jesus is God in the flesh, if he's the same god of the old testament as christians claim. Then all the massacres of old is attributed to him. In short Jesus is a murderous bastard!
Your opinion though. You dare not blaspheme against Mohammed, Muslims will kill you outrightly however you've just done it against a merciful God, he has forgiven you but you won't have one or two lessons to learn sooner or later.
Re: When Your Girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by doggedfighter(f): 1:48pm On Jan 17, 2021
mmyfarmsltd:
Pls be careful on the kind of jokes to crack.
The word of the lord is mysterious.

I know you know what exactly is meant in the bible that says "ask & you shall be given"
Hey, keep quiet there. There's nothing mysterious about fairy-tales
Re: When Your Girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Brunicekid(m): 1:53pm On Jan 17, 2021
matrix199:
You give it to her. Didn't the Bible say, 'ask and it shall be given'?
The Bible was referring to asking God for our request. If someone ask that you kill him/her, will you do so?
Re: When Your Girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Pat081: 2:02pm On Jan 17, 2021
because am nt a gay that why
jesusjnr2020:
Why keep a girlfriend in the first place?
Re: When Your Girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by jesusjnr2020(m):
Pat081:
because am nt a gay that why
That doesn't make it right if you're having premarital sex.
Re: When Your Girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by theMagnet: 2:08pm On Jan 17, 2021
tobechi74:
What’s Wrong With Sex?
Is there anything wrong with two people coming together and just having sex — for fun — without first having an emotionally intimate relationship (assuming safe sex is practiced of course)?

I was raised to believe the answer to this is yes, that there is something wrong with it.

As a sophomore in high school, I had to write a school paper on why premarital sex was wrong. I did the assignment and regurgitated what I needed to get an A.

Privately I had doubts about what I was taught. And of course I went ahead and had premarital sex anyway, which turned out to be a lot of fun with no guilt or regret.

Looking back, I think I would have preferred to get an F on that assignment and had more fun instead.


Your sexual orientation does not define you
Today I see absolutely nothing wrong with having sex just for fun, as long as it’s done safely and consensually. I think those who feel that sex is wrong, dirty, or immoral are terribly repressed. I’ve never met a genuinely happy person that felt this way about sex. Perhaps if such people just got laid more often, they wouldn’t be so grumpy.

Prerequisites for Sex
What prerequisites do we actually need to engage in sex? A willing partner is really all that’s required. If you have a willing partner, you can have sex.

Serious rocket science here, eh?

Just to be clear, let’s assume your body and your partner’s body are physically capable of having sex as well.

All other rules, constraints, and requirements arise from social conditioning and are therefore unnecessary.

You don’t need to be married or in a committed relationship.

You don’t need to be dating.

You don’t need to be in love.

You don’t need an opposite-sex partner.

You don’t need to be exclusive with your partner.

Your partner doesn’t need to be exclusive with you.


You don’t need to be programmed in multiple techniques.

You don’t even need to have met the other person first.

All you need is consent.

Technically speaking, even your partner’s consent is a socially conditioned prerequisite, but I think it’s one we should maintain. The alternative is illegal, unethical, and hurtful. We can certainly enjoy sex without resorting to rape. Acting out your kinky fantasies, on the other hand, can still be completely consensual.

How many extra rules do you have in your head about what’s required for you to have sex above and beyond the most basic?

[s]https://tobechispeaks./2020/12/03/how-purity-culture-teaches-wrong-sex-education/[/s]
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Re: When Your Girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by jaxxy(m): 2:14pm On Jan 17, 2021
jesusjnr2020:
Why keep a girlfriend in the first place?
That what I thought at 1st a gf isn’t kept for just sex. It’s deeper and better than that and for some it’s a meaningful journey.
Re: When Your Girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by martius101(m): 2:21pm On Jan 17, 2021
matrix199:
You give it to her. Didn't the Bible say, 'ask and it shall be given'?
bros its not that type of ask...
Re: When Your Girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by ednut1(m): 2:28pm On Jan 17, 2021
Sunday Akanni and obsession with sex
Re: When Your Girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Ginomel(m): 2:28pm On Jan 17, 2021
Collinsaik:
but having sex is not the only sin dat god hate.. and he that is guilty of one is guily of all
Don't mind them, some people will do everything possible to justify why it's not good for a married woman to commit adultery or somebody to date a married woman but will justify a married man doing same, they forgot adultery is adultery.

Run away from evil whether you are a man or a woman.
Re: When Your Girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by DropsMic(m): 2:29pm On Jan 17, 2021
AntiChristian:
I keep saying it.

Fornication or adultery will be rife when most don't call against indecent dressing, free mixing of opposite sexes, watching/listening to sexually provocative videos/Music, pornography, etc.

Almost all the men God guided in the Old testament has one or more mistake. It's only Jesus and maybe a few others are seen as perfect. Even David Jesus' ancestor was accused of adultery, murder, covetousness,...
How did you know jesus was perfect?
Re: When Your Girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Kokaine(m): 2:35pm On Jan 17, 2021
tobechi74:
What’s Wrong With Sex?
Is there anything wrong with two people coming together and just having sex — for fun — without first having an emotionally intimate relationship (assuming safe sex is practiced of course)?

I was raised to believe the answer to this is yes, that there is something wrong with it.

As a sophomore in high school, I had to write a school paper on why premarital sex was wrong. I did the assignment and regurgitated what I needed to get an A.

Privately I had doubts about what I was taught. And of course I went ahead and had premarital sex anyway, which turned out to be a lot of fun with no guilt or regret.

Looking back, I think I would have preferred to get an F on that assignment and had more fun instead.


Your sexual orientation does not define you
Today I see absolutely nothing wrong with having sex just for fun, as long as it’s done safely and consensually. I think those who feel that sex is wrong, dirty, or immoral are terribly repressed. I’ve never met a genuinely happy person that felt this way about sex. Perhaps if such people just got laid more often, they wouldn’t be so grumpy.

Prerequisites for Sex
What prerequisites do we actually need to engage in sex? A willing partner is really all that’s required. If you have a willing partner, you can have sex.

Serious rocket science here, eh?

Just to be clear, let’s assume your body and your partner’s body are physically capable of having sex as well.

All other rules, constraints, and requirements arise from social conditioning and are therefore unnecessary.

You don’t need to be married or in a committed relationship.

You don’t need to be dating.

You don’t need to be in love.

You don’t need an opposite-sex partner.

You don’t need to be exclusive with your partner.

Your partner doesn’t need to be exclusive with you.

You don’t need to be programmed in multiple techniques.

You don’t even need to have met the other person first.

All you need is consent.

Technically speaking, even your partner’s consent is a socially conditioned prerequisite, but I think it’s one we should maintain. The alternative is illegal, unethical, and hurtful. We can certainly enjoy sex without resorting to rape. Acting out your kinky fantasies, on the other hand, can still be completely consensual.

How many extra rules do you have in your head about what’s required for you to have sex above and beyond the most basic?

https://tobechispeaks./2020/12/03/how-purity-culture-teaches-wrong-sex-education/
Try not to die with this mentality.
You must really think you created yourself and live by your rules.
Re: When Your Girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Bodydiialect57: 2:50pm On Jan 17, 2021
matrix199:
You give it to her. Didn't the Bible say, 'ask and it shall be given'?
Would you give her if she ask for your head on a platter? huh
Re: When Your Girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by lekonso: 3:16pm On Jan 17, 2021
matrix199:
You give it to her. Didn't the Bible say, 'ask and it shall be given'?
You need to repent and accept Jesus into your life.
Re: When Your Girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Angy55(f): 3:19pm On Jan 17, 2021
helinues:
Wondering why some Christians are so concerned about Sex than Salvation.

Eish
Abi oo! They hammer so much on it as of it is the only sin that can take one to hell.
Re: When Your Girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by cayorday89(m): 3:20pm On Jan 17, 2021
tobechi74:
What’s Wrong With Sex?
Is there anything wrong with two people coming together and just having sex — for fun — without first having an emotionally intimate relationship (assuming safe sex is practiced of course)?

I was raised to believe the answer to this is yes, that there is something wrong with it.

As a sophomore in high school, I had to write a school paper on why premarital sex was wrong. I did the assignment and regurgitated what I needed to get an A.

Privately I had doubts about what I was taught. And of course I went ahead and had premarital sex anyway, which turned out to be a lot of fun with no guilt or regret.

Looking back, I think I would have preferred to get an F on that assignment and had more fun instead.


Your sexual orientation does not define you
Today I see absolutely nothing wrong with having sex just for fun, as long as it’s done safely and consensually. I think those who feel that sex is wrong, dirty, or immoral are terribly repressed. I’ve never met a genuinely happy person that felt this way about sex. Perhaps if such people just got laid more often, they wouldn’t be so grumpy.

Prerequisites for Sex
What prerequisites do we actually need to engage in sex? A willing partner is really all that’s required. If you have a willing partner, you can have sex.

Serious rocket science here, eh?

Just to be clear, let’s assume your body and your partner’s body are physically capable of having sex as well.

All other rules, constraints, and requirements arise from social conditioning and are therefore unnecessary.

You don’t need to be married or in a committed relationship.

You don’t need to be dating.

You don’t need to be in love.

You don’t need an opposite-sex partner.

You don’t need to be exclusive with your partner.

Your partner doesn’t need to be exclusive with you.

You don’t need to be programmed in multiple techniques.

You don’t even need to have met the other person first.

All you need is consent.

Technically speaking, even your partner’s consent is a socially conditioned prerequisite, but I think it’s one we should maintain. The alternative is illegal, unethical, and hurtful. We can certainly enjoy sex without resorting to rape. Acting out your kinky fantasies, on the other hand, can still be completely consensual.

How many extra rules do you have in your head about what’s required for you to have sex above and beyond the most basic?

https://tobechispeaks./2020/12/03/how-purity-culture-teaches-wrong-sex-education/
Great write up sir.. But look at it this way, with all the points you gave up there of which I have chosen to follow which means it's just nothing, can the same be said about who you want to go down with no matter how you make it clear to them, either as a male or female, there will always be complications on issues you see as nothing reason why there are restrictions to just having sex because human tends to be clingy and territorial and you know the numerous issues that come with this..
Re: When Your Girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by AntiChristian: 3:35pm On Jan 17, 2021
DropsMic:
How did you know jesus was perfect?
...seen as perfect.
Re: When Your Girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by AntiChristian: 3:39pm On Jan 17, 2021
cooooooks:
Go to Saudi Arabia.
Yeah in shaa Allah!
Re: When Your Girlfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by AntiChristian: 3:41pm On Jan 17, 2021
nizetee:
I disagree if Jesus is God in the flesh, if he's the same god of the old testament as christians claim. Then all the massacres of old is attributed to him. In short Jesus is a murderous bastard!
Yeah you are right. That's true for those who believe Jesus is same as his papa!

But the way the Bible is treated is like the OT featured another God different from that of the new testament.
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