Good day everyone. I know you are fine.

I engaged my girlfriend last year November with the hope to tie the knot this year. Prior to the engagement everything was perfectly okay and blissful.

The moment we got engaged, the family came up with flimsy excuses.
My girl came up with the idea of us improving our financial power before going into marriage. She said she is willing to wait..
Lateky, we had issues when I noticed she is getting close to a guy she claimed are just friends. The guy give her money. We have spoken about it and she said she is gonna handle it. It led to an argument that resulted to us dragging her phone.
Also while in my house she told me she wanna go see a guy that's is disturbing her. She has told the guy she is with someone but he keeps disturbing. She said she wanna talk things out with him. He has a car, stay in 3 bedroom flat.

Currently she is accusing me of being toxic that she want time to egt things off her head. I have tried to talk to her, but she insisted on being on her own for now.


These last days without her has given me new dimensions to think. Relationship idea is on hold for me now

My people said the day a man wake up from his sleep is his Morning.

I am not seeking for relationships advise here, I am asking for ideas, job, solutions that will improve the quality of my life. I need to improve my income. I know we have people that have successfully pull out from want to plenty. Please drop your ideas or Job for me.
Help a brother out. I am battling depression right now. Thanks to my Job and books that keep me busy during the day

I am a graduate of History and Diplomatic Studies. Worked for over 7 years as a security operative in a firm. Earn 70k.
I am capable of doing or learning anything if giving the opportunity.
I reside in Portharcourt
Thnaks in anticipation

Bro! If you don't mind, focus on your life first. Save and invest with the money you earning, I tell you, she will run after you once she knows you are rich. It's all written boldly that she's the type of lady that wants a rosy home. Ladies are scum.

Arrrrrrrh

Sorry let me sound this way.
Prior to this, you were working managing and the little income you acquire or were you not working?

And if it was your wife to be that spur this your intentions simply because you want to impress her financial, then you are missing it. She's seeing another rich dude, bro forget it, the moment the dude knows her reason for leaving you he would do all to get her..

Just drop her as a reason for your job hunt. Just seek for a job to improve your financial situation not a lady. A good girl has contentment with the little she see, in as much you are trying she believe one day will be good .

As you seek for Job, I pray you get it!
Best of luck.

U can dive in to d tech world like programming,graphic design,coding etc.Move on jare,ur galfrd is already in love wit d new guy.U should tank ur stars u didn't end up tying d knot.Na so she for carry anoda man's pikin come give u.It is very obvious she didn't love u,she used u to pass tym pending wen she sees d highest bidder.

The prayers your mum is heaping on that your thick head is manifesting. God just removed a disaster out from your life, bro.


I'm glad you're seeking for "egunje" now instead of a hoe. God will see you through, you'll bounce back.

Avoid that public toilet of a girl same way you're trying to avoid poverty now.

First thing first bro, write that girl off your future.
You'll get a better girl to settle down with... If she comes back to beg you (like they always do) tell her no that you have a better woman already.

SteveDGreat:
Good day everyone. I know you are fine.

I engaged my girlfriend last year November with the hope to tie the knot this year. Prior to the engagement everything was perfectly okay and blissful.

The moment we got engaged, the family came up with flimsy excuses.
My girl came up with the idea of us improving our financial power before going into marriage. She said she is willing to wait..
Lateky, we had issues when I noticed she is getting close to a guy she claimed are just friends. The guy give her money. We have spoken about it and she said she is gonna handle it. It led to an argument that resulted to us dragging her phone.
Also while in my house she told me she wanna go see a guy that's is disturbing her. She has told the guy she is with someone but he keeps disturbing. She said she wanna talk things out with him. He has a car, stay in 3 bedroom flat.

Currently she is accusing me of being toxic that she want time to egt things off her head. I have tried to talk to her, but she insisted on being on her own for now.


These last days without her has given me new dimensions to think. Relationship idea is on hold for me now

My people said the day a man wake up from his sleep is his Morning.

I am not seeking for relationships advise here, I am asking for ideas, job, solutions that will improve the quality of my life. I need to improve my income. I know we have people that have successfully pull out from want to plenty. Please drop your ideas or Job for me.
Help a brother out. I am battling depression right now. Thanks to my Job and books that keep me busy during the day

I am a graduate of History and Diplomatic Studies. Worked for over 7 years as a security operative in a firm. Earn 70k.
I am capable of doing or learning anything if giving the opportunity.
I reside in Portharcourt
Thnaks in anticipation

Move on bro!
She has moved on!

Wait, let me get this straight.

She started seeing the guy and all of a sudden she said she wants to be alone for some time.

ಠ_ಠ
I can assure you that she is currently with that guy.

Because when a girl says all of a sudden that she needs a break from a relationship just know that she has seen someone she considers higher than you on the smv (sexual marketplace value) scale and she wants to explore

Right now her vagina won't rest until it tastes his sperm

But don't worry after multiple fvck sessions with him she will still come back and say she's ready but you should not take her back.

If I hear say you take her back my guy I go vex for you

ಠ︵ಠ

You worked and used your 70k to invest in a girl in the name of relationship. Now you see your life

Work and invest in yourself and your future first before girl

Here we go again...

Another relationship wahala. I comment my reserve.

This your story looks similar to what someone posted here around November....

Well my advice.. she is distracted already and their is little you can do now to bring her back to order...

Just focus on your life, look for jobs and if you have enough capital saved up float a biz....

Las las..... Focus and let go.

Another relationship wahala. I comment my reserve.

Guy focus on ur path and hustle and stop whimpering to a woman biko

wd2454418:
Bro! If you don't mind, focus on your life first. Save and invest with the money you earning, I tell you, she will run after you once she knows you are rich. It's all written boldly that she's the type of lady that wants a rosy home. Ladies are scum.

Why is she a scum? Bro if she wants something better, make him free am. Let him wish her well. I university it hurts but it’s human instincts. Honestly i have felt the pain of someone leave when I was broke, But now i don’t blame her. She needed something better that I couldn’t offer. That girl would not come back to him even if him get money tomorrow. Let the guy cry, but move on

A broken courtship is better than a divorce


May God raise helpers for you

lefulefu:
Guy focus on ur path and hustle and stop whimpering to a woman biko

Happy birthday to us sir, the baddest Ass man ever liveth!

sirBLUNT:
Happy birthday to us sir, the baddest Ass man ever liveth!

thanks brotherly