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Different women have different definitions of cheating. For some, it is more emotional than physical. These eight Nigerian women define cheating for us.

Zainab, 19
I don’t think I have a definition of cheating. Physical activities are physical, and I cannot stop you from hanging out with someone even if they like you or you like them. If you have sex with someone else that’s fine because I will too. It’s the lying I have a problem with. Just don’t lie about it. Don’t sneak around. Do it with your chest and if I can’t handle it anymore, I’d bounce.

Linda, 23
I am very particular about bonds and intimacy in terms of communication. So for me, cheating is having romantic feelings and acting on them with someone else while having a partner. Hanging out in date like settings and giving them energy that should only be exclusive to a partner.

Amaka, 19
Existing in other women’s spaces. I consider confiding in other women cheating. If you go to them for emotional support and personal stuff etc.

Cynthia, 33
I am not one of those people that say “sex is sex”. Sex is not just sex. Sexual activities are not just sexual activities and doing them with someone that is not your partner means you cheated.

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Here's what the men had to say about theirs: https://www.zikoko.com/man/9-nigerian-men-reveal-their-definition-of-cheating-in-a-relationship/

Mtchew

We women can never be satisifed.
Funny thing is we cheat the most but always magnify our partner's to quell our conscience.

Pochettino:
We women can never be satisifed.
Funny thing is we cheat the most but always magnify our partner's to quell our conscience.

we? Did u just say we? Will u stop that! men cheat women cheat its both gender as for me I have neva done it, guilty conscience will finish � me. Cheating is not about gender its individual choice..

debbydams:
we? Did u just say we? Will u stop that! men cheat women cheat its both gender as for me I have neva done it, guilty conscience will finish � me. Cheating is not about gender its individual choice..

That's why I said we women usually look for our partners cheats too so that our conscience can be at rest. Sometimes, we even want them to cheat just to be even.

Pochettino:
We women can never be satisifed.
Funny thing is we cheat the most but always magnify our partner's to quell our conscience.

the truth is men chest most especially married men, married women cheat too but men have the highest tendency to cheat.. I spent most of my time with married women nd I know what m saying.. In marriage there will a time u both will get tired it takes d grace of God sha.

That Zainab Talks Like A Hausa Man 3nd Wife

Pochettino:
That's why I said we women usually look for our partners cheats too so that our conscience can be at rest. Sometimes, we even want them to cheat just to be even.

smiles dats what u think abi.. Ah don hear u

God! abeg wey men go see better wife Marry