₦airaland Forum

wisdomkid:
BASTARD Rape apologist.

RayJr:
They just met 2 weeks ago and she got to know him through someone that directed her to him so she could get her wallet funded

pocohantas:
Attempted rape, just like attempted murder is a crime. What did Nigerian women do to deserve such slow-thinking men?

shortgun:
Better you let sleeping dog lie.
The said guy have apologised and besides you don't know the ralationship between your sister and the guy.
There's a reason she told u not to go further with the matter.

Modified for those quoting me and insulting their ancestors
How do you provide evidence for attempted Rape?
Rape is one of the most difficult cases to get a conviction not to talk of attempted rape.

My point is OP will be wasting precious time trying to proof this case...which will still end in futility.

A little elderly advice: As a Man Never go to War on the account of emotional tales by a woman; be her your mother, sister, girlfriend or wife....many have gone.
If you like follow wisdom.

Umaruxoxo:
[b]Report him to police [/b]and sue his ass.as him no succeed on top ur sister .anoda pesin sister fit cry on top him matter

BluntTheApostle:
The document is not an evidence.

First of all, you don't even have the right to force someone to sign a document. You are coercing someone to do something against their will. That is not allowed under the law because if you force someone to do something, they do it because they are being forced to, and not because they really want to. There is a difference between a testimony made out of free will and one made under compulsion.

Second, the judge would know that you forced him to sign the document. And this could bring a counterclaim of coercion against you.

What he should have done is make recordings of the guy's admittance to attempting to rape. And even this is hard to prove, and can be costly. And the Nigerian Police don't like to spend on costly cases. In fact, it is OP and his sister that would likely be the sponsor of their own case, which they may still end up losing.

There have been a lot of miscarriages of justice regarding rape cases, that is why the police always thread carefully. So, you are the one who will be most likely to get your own evidences for the police to use to charge the person to court.

MejiLoyon:
If you confront the guy or beat am you've shown him mercy. He probably would have done it to someone and gotten away with it. And he probably will still do it to someone else.

Nowadays I can't stress myself. Report to the police and sue his ass to court. Let him be dragging with the law. When hand touch am he go learn lesson.

Don't confront him oooo. Make you no go use vex nack am better blow. I won't want to read about you on front page tomorrow. Igbere news no go cover you o

pocohantas:
Assault is a crime. I know I didn’t study law and not familiar with you guys grammar, but attempted rape is a “crime”. It is a criminal offense. It is punishable by law (or it should be).

folake4u:
Lol. I study Law and yeah, you're right.

BluntTheApostle:
Confront him, and give him the warning of his life. Never condemn a man based on the first impression. He might not be like that with every woman. You may be surprised it was his first time.

All the same, confront him. Make sure your warning is firm, and make sure it condemns his act in full, without mincing words. What he did is criminal, and carries a harsh sentence in any jurisdiction in the world.

To report such a case to the police, you would need proof, otherwise it would be a waste of time. If you recorded his call while he was apologizing, then you can use that to press charges in the meantime.

But I must warn that cases are not as straightforward as lay people always see them. You may think you have a strong case against the guy, but you will be surprised that he may beat you and your sister in court, and even get compensation.

So, if you want to press charges, have solid irrefutable evidences. Because "my sister said this, my sister said that" are nothing but mere empty words in a court of law.

BluntTheApostle:
The document is not an evidence.

First of all, you don't even have the right to force someone to sign a document. You are coercing someone to do something against their will. That is not allowed under the law because if you force someone to do something, they do it because they are being forced to, and not because they really want to. There is a difference between a testimony made out of free will and one made under compulsion.

Second, the judge would know that you forced him to sign the document. And this could bring a counterclaim of coercion against you.

What he should have done is make recordings of the guy's admittance to attempting to rape. And even this is hard to prove, and can be costly. And the Nigerian Police don't like to spend on costly cases. In fact, it is OP and his sister that would likely be the sponsor of their own case, which they may still end up losing.

There have been a lot of miscarriages of justice regarding rape cases, that is why the police always thread carefully. So, you are the one who will be most likely to get your own evidences for the police to use to charge the person to court.

sircatherine45:
Besides, any document not signed by a recognized authority or entity is void. If the guy forces the potential rapist to sign an unrecognized document, the potential rapist might make a claim for "attempted rape accusations", and the guy will win, with huge compensation.

pocohantas:
Thanks o. I was almost giving up on Nigeria, again.

RayJr:
Advice Needed: My Sister Was Almost Raped

Good evening guys, I trust Y'all had a great day.

I will try to make this as short and simple as possible.

My kid sister texted me on WhatsApp this evening saying she almost got raped by the guy crediting her online wallet for her, I drove straight to my mum's store because I was just leaving the office.

Now I met her and asked what's up.

She has an online wallet where she recharges decoders, pays electricity bills for people, sells airtime and data etc. She is a student and she's doing that business in my mum's store so she could help herself in school.

She said someone sent her 30k to pay his electricity bill and also recharge his decoder for him so she went to the guy's shop to get her account credited but he wasn't there then she called him and he directed her to his house in that same street very close to the shop.
She got there and the guy tried forcing himself on her, mind you she's on her period, she refused and during the scuffle she lost one of her earrings, she begged me not to take action that the guy has apologised, seeing that I was very hurt and I wanted to confront the guy at that moment. while she was explaining to me the guy called and kept on apologizing but I'm not having any of that.

I wanted to call some of my friends to beat up the guy but after she begged me, I still want confront the guy, warn him seriously but I need advice on if that's the best thing to do or which way do you think is best to approach the situation?

No insults please. Thank you all

tellwisdom:
An idiot like you, birthed with an infected spermatozoa will never understand the question. I don’t blame you, I blame the careless person who carried u.