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My Brother Is In Pain After Loosing Wife And Four Childrens by emimore: 5:06am On Mar 01, 2021
My brother is in pain after loosing wife and four children

I have read and head stories of people loosing their whole family but have never thought such would ever happen to some one I know let alone my own brother. Life can be unpleasant and cruel at times.
Last Wednesday night, being the 24th of February, was indeed a black night for my brother who lives in Jos, Plateau State and our entire family. My elder brother's house was gutted by fire while his family was asleep, his wife and four children were burnt to death. The four children died instantly that night while his wife, who was narrowly brought out of the fire that night, died on Friday evening, barely 48 hours later, after all efforts to save her life. I hate to describe how burnt they were or imagine the horror they would have gone through before dieing in the fire. My brother escaped being in the fire because he was not around that night. He had stepped out within a space of an hour only to come back and met his family burnt down.
The cause of the fire is not really known but electricity has the blame, since there was no light as at the time he went out but there was light when he came to see the situation in his house. His apartment was the only one affected. Neighbors claimed they didn't notice the fire on time and so could not rescue, despite the fact that the apartments are separated by single walls.
I can't imagine the pain and how depressed my brother is right now. He looks like a shadow of himself, cries like a baby . A very strong and agile personality but this has weakened him emotionally, psychologically and physically. He can hardly stand without someone by his side. He had hoped his wife would survive after she was brought out alive, but that hope was dashed the following day when she died. Now he is left alone to start life afresh having lost his wife, children and property.
With the way I and other of his siblings and relative are feeling the pains of the loss, I can't imagine his own pains, even though we are doing our best to give him the best we can afford, but nobody can feel the pain for him. We are just praying that God give him the grace to go through all these.
Please join us in praying for him.

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Re: My Brother Is In Pain After Loosing Wife And Four Childrens by rexlims(m): 5:18am On Mar 01, 2021
@op, imagine Ur brother discovered he isn't d father of all 4 children cos d wife has been cheating.
He then decides to execute a carefully thought out plan.
I am just saying, don't mean any harm.
Go watch d movie- A perfect murder by James Douglas

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Re: My Brother Is In Pain After Loosing Wife And Four Childrens by IME1: 5:20am On Mar 01, 2021
It is well
Many can and may never understand what you are feeling not to mention your brother.
But Jesus Christ knows and will help him and you all.
I'm praying with you.
I lost my sister and 2 nieces,
But God came through for my brother in law and us all as a family.
It's not easy.
I can't understand what you are going through oh.
Please be strong.
God is there and will always be there.
It is very very sad.
My sincere condolence to your family and in laws.
It's terrible

May God almighty comfort you all and grant your brother fortitude and strength to live and move on.
Stay strong oh cry

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Re: My Brother Is In Pain After Loosing Wife And Four Childrens by yanabasee1(m): 5:21am On Mar 01, 2021
Everything happens for a reason......



I ask that God should guide him and give him the wisdom to understand that that he's been given a second chance to love right and may the Almighty God replace his loses in many folds......


RIP to the little ones....

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Re: My Brother Is In Pain After Loosing Wife And Four Childrens by Kyom20(m): 5:23am On Mar 01, 2021
No one should ever have to go through what your brother is going through. I'm so sorry.

The Lord is our great comforter and by his grace he will restore all that has been taken from your brother in Jesus name. Amen ��

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Re: My Brother Is In Pain After Loosing Wife And Four Childrens by YungMillionaire: 5:23am On Mar 01, 2021
cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry cry
Re: My Brother Is In Pain After Loosing Wife And Four Childrens by WoundedLamb: 5:36am On Mar 01, 2021
rexlims:
@op, imagine Ur brother discovered he isn't d father of all 4 children cos d wife has been cheating.
He then decides to execute a carefully thought out plan.
I am just saying, don't mean any harm.
Go watch d movie- A perfect murder by James Douglas

You boys don't know when to give it a rest.

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Re: My Brother Is In Pain After Loosing Wife And Four Childrens by Sundrus: 5:39am On Mar 01, 2021
Chai! Very painful. RIP to the kids & their mother. Make una dey monitor & console am oh. This kind situation na wetin some people take dey commit suicide.

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Re: My Brother Is In Pain After Loosing Wife And Four Childrens by Nobody: 5:46am On Mar 01, 2021
My sincere condolences to your brother. May God give him the strength he needs during this difficult time. Please don't leave him by himself.

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Re: My Brother Is In Pain After Loosing Wife And Four Childrens by mountmoriah(m): 5:56am On Mar 01, 2021
aroundtheearth:
My sincere condolences to your brother. May God give him the strength he needs during this difficult time. Please don't leave him by himself.

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Re: My Brother Is In Pain After Loosing Wife And Four Childrens by samwash(m): 6:04am On Mar 01, 2021
rexlims:
@op, imagine Ur brother discovered he isn't d father of all 4 children cos d wife has been cheating.
He then decides to execute a carefully thought out plan.
I am just saying, don't mean any harm.
Go watch d movie- A perfect murder by James Douglas

If you don't have anything to say, why not read & pass. You think this experience is delightful, you wouldn't even wish it to your enemies. Not everything u joke about.
@Op, I console with ur brother.

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Re: My Brother Is In Pain After Loosing Wife And Four Childrens by Katier00(f): 6:20am On Mar 01, 2021
rexlims:
@op, imagine Ur brother discovered he isn't d father of all 4 children cos d wife has been cheating.
He then decides to execute a carefully thought out plan.
I am just saying, don't mean any harm.
Go watch d movie- A perfect murder by James Douglas
just shut up your mouth

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Re: My Brother Is In Pain After Loosing Wife And Four Childrens by Nobody: 6:28am On Mar 01, 2021
If he's just tears he is a very strong man. God forbid if na me I go don join them since. Sinceeeeee.
May God continue to give him strenght

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Re: My Brother Is In Pain After Loosing Wife And Four Childrens by Nicepoker(m): 6:43am On Mar 01, 2021
rexlims:
@op, imagine Ur brother discovered he isn't d father of all 4 children cos d wife has been cheating.
He then decides to execute a carefully thought out plan.
I am just saying, don't mean any harm.
Go watch d movie- A perfect murder by James Douglas
Imagine this happened to your brother.

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Re: My Brother Is In Pain After Loosing Wife And Four Childrens by tolugar: 6:48am On Mar 01, 2021
rexlims:
@op, imagine Ur brother discovered he isn't d father of all 4 children cos d wife has been cheating.
He then decides to execute a carefully thought out plan.
I am just saying, don't mean any harm.
Go watch d movie- A perfect murder by James Douglas

This guy is just an idiot. Peanut brain


Condolences to your bros @op

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Re: My Brother Is In Pain After Loosing Wife And Four Childrens by sisisioge: 6:52am On Mar 01, 2021
Dearest Lord in heaven! So sorry to read this. May God give him the fortitude to bear this grave loss! Chai....please dont leave him alone for now so he doesn't do the unthinkable. It is well. Whenever it suits us, we like to think there is such thing called destiny. Let's just assume this has been written for him and pray for better tomorrows. It is really well...it is well.

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Re: My Brother Is In Pain After Loosing Wife And Four Childrens by sisisioge: 6:57am On Mar 01, 2021
Katier00:
just shut up your mouth

Dont get worked up over the morrrrroon. The day we are able to see the people behind all this posts is the day we will understand why they behave the way they do. He simply didnt understand what he read. May God help us all.

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Re: My Brother Is In Pain After Loosing Wife And Four Childrens by Nobody: 7:21am On Mar 01, 2021
rexlims:
@op, imagine Ur brother discovered he isn't d father of all 4 children cos d wife has been cheating.
He then decides to execute a carefully thought out plan.
I am just saying, don't mean any harm.
Go watch d movie- A perfect murder by James Douglas
Useless idiot, that hatred for women should be directed to your mother for birthing a waste of space like you. Op, I can't tell you or your bro to be strong, but man I'm really sorry for you.

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Re: My Brother Is In Pain After Loosing Wife And Four Childrens by Nobody: 7:22am On Mar 01, 2021
WoundedLamb:


You boys don't know when to give it a break.
Leave the unfortunate slowpoke.

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Re: My Brother Is In Pain After Loosing Wife And Four Childrens by Katier00(f): 7:34am On Mar 01, 2021
sisisioge:


Dont get worked up over the morrrrroon. The day we are able to see the people behind all this posts is the day we will understand why they behave the way they do. He simply didnt understand what he read. May God help us all.
it is so annoying that a person that suckled his mother's breast can think in that barbaric manner

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Re: My Brother Is In Pain After Loosing Wife And Four Childrens by ruggedtimi(m): 8:06am On Mar 01, 2021
Mad o..R.I.P to the his wife / children. So painful

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Re: My Brother Is In Pain After Loosing Wife And Four Childrens by emimore: 8:16am On Mar 01, 2021
Thank you all for your words
Re: My Brother Is In Pain After Loosing Wife And Four Childrens by emimore: 8:38am On Mar 01, 2021
rexlims:
@op, imagine Ur brother discovered he isn't d father of all 4 children cos d wife has been cheating.
He then decides to execute a carefully thought out plan.
I am just saying, don't mean any harm.
Go watch d movie- A perfect murder by James Douglas

My brother would have no reason to doubt the parternity of his children because they were his cabon coppies. Besides, he's too kind hearted to do that.
Go back to your movie and understand it better

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Re: My Brother Is In Pain After Loosing Wife And Four Childrens by Mindlog: 8:52am On Mar 01, 2021
My condolences to your family, imagining the trauma your brother is going through makes me shudder. He constantly needs people around him as he deals with the reality of the loss.

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Re: My Brother Is In Pain After Loosing Wife And Four Childrens by Mindlog: 8:56am On Mar 01, 2021
rexlims:
@op, imagine Ur brother discovered he isn't d father of all 4 children cos d wife has been cheating.
He then decides to execute a carefully thought out plan.
I am just saying, don't mean any harm.
Go watch d movie- A perfect murder by James Douglas

That you are mentally disordered does not entitle you to such post, that paternity fraud exists in your own family does not mean it is so for every family.

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Re: My Brother Is In Pain After Loosing Wife And Four Childrens by saintsylve(m): 9:41am On Mar 01, 2021
May God grant him strength to bear the loss. Please, he needs people around him to bear this loss. May their souls rest in peace.

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Re: My Brother Is In Pain After Loosing Wife And Four Childrens by Adaanna(f): 9:52am On Mar 01, 2021
Chai! This is a very painful experience. My condolences to your family @ Op.
May God give your brother the fortitude to bear the loss.

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Re: My Brother Is In Pain After Loosing Wife And Four Childrens by legacystore: 10:55am On Mar 01, 2021
Jesus

Wife
4 children
Property

All lost in a flash, how can he endure this angry

Tough one

He needs time to heal n get over it

Sooooo sorry RIP
Re: My Brother Is In Pain After Loosing Wife And Four Childrens by Nobody: 12:08pm On Mar 01, 2021
rexlims:
@op, imagine Ur brother discovered he isn't d father of all 4 children cos d wife has been cheating.
He then decides to execute a carefully thought out plan.
I am just saying, don't mean any harm.
Go watch d movie- A perfect murder by James Douglas

You are the only person with sense here. The man will be the first point of target for police. The police will sympathise with you and also investigate you.

A house can not just burn like that, it is not the first time nepa have been taking light in that environment.

In the developed world, that uncle will be called to the police station for thorough investigation until the truth is ascertained.

Many crimes in Nigeria are always orchestrated in the form of arson.

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Re: My Brother Is In Pain After Loosing Wife And Four Childrens by mutter(f): 12:30pm On Mar 01, 2021
Rest in peace.

So so sad.
Please people should be mindful of comments they make when it's death involved
.

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Re: My Brother Is In Pain After Loosing Wife And Four Childrens by Oksman(m): 3:31pm On Mar 01, 2021
Ki
emimore:
My brother is in pain after loosing wife and four children

I have read and head stories of people loosing their whole family but have never thought such would ever happen to some one I know let alone my own brother. Life can be unpleasant and cruel at times.
Last Wednesday night, being the 24th of February, was indeed a black night for my brother who lives in Jos, Plateau State and our entire family. My elder brother's house was gutted by fire while his family was asleep, his wife and four children were burnt to death. The four children died instantly that night while his wife, who was narrowly brought out of the fire that night, died on Friday evening, barely 48 hours later, after all efforts to save her life. I hate to describe how burnt they were or imagine the horror they would have gone through before dieing in the fire. My brother escaped being in the fire because he was not around that night. He had stepped out within a space of an hour only to come back and met his family burnt down.
The cause of the fire is not really known but electricity has the blame, since there was no light as at the time he went out but there was light when he came to see the situation in his house. His apartment was the only one affected. Neighbors claimed they didn't notice the fire on time and so could not rescue, despite the fact that the apartments are separated by single walls.
I can't imagine the pain and how depressed my brother is right now. He looks like a shadow of himself, cries like a baby . A very strong and agile personality but this has weakened him emotionally, psychologically and physically. He can hardly stand without someone by his side. He had hoped his wife would survive after she was brought out alive, but that hope was dashed the following day when she died. Now he is left alone to start life afresh having lost his wife, children and property.
With the way I and other of his siblings and relative are feeling the pains of the loss, I can't imagine his own pains, even though we are doing our best to give him the best we can afford, but nobody can feel the pain for him. We are just praying that God give him the grace to go through all these.
Please join us in praying for him.


May God comfort him. I am speechless.

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Re: My Brother Is In Pain After Loosing Wife And Four Childrens by Kondomatic(m): 4:22pm On Mar 01, 2021
rexlims:
@op, imagine Ur brother discovered he isn't d father of all 4 children cos d wife has been cheating.
He then decides to execute a carefully thought out plan.
I am just saying, don't mean any harm.
Go watch d movie- A perfect murder by James Douglas
This is clearly the most thoughtless, careless, stupid and useless comment I have seen since I joined nairaland.

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