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Clarakings:
My candid advice is this; sex is not the ultimate and besides pre-marital sex is a sin. Whatever her reasons are, you should respect it. Limit the number of times both of you stay alone, you too can spend time outdoor. That she is ready does not make pre-marital sex right. Rather learn the art of self-control, you have everything to gain. Goodluck.

very well said

kaycexx:
As hard as finding dy/dx

Tell her ther advantages of sex and also the disadvantages, but back up your points with protection after telling her the disavantages.

Tell her y u will want to have sex with her even go ahead quoting the bible '' sex brings abond between the two people'' buh dats for married people buh it brings a bond.

Tell her how much you love her sats why u don't want to force her, promise her you won't leave her e.t.c

But Dat's how some girls we start saying team virgin until marriage and end up been lesbians..... SMH

hmmmmm.....this is somewhat misleading

PastorOluT:
Hello, long time ow have u been, hope all is well?

Happy New Year, enjoy the year in d presence of the Lord.

PastorOluT i am fine thank you and i believe you are doing well too?

A happy new year to you too.....Thank you

Titilayo2013:
God is love n everybody dat love God most love everybody dat comes is way.
https://www.fuoye.edu.ng

And for it is the greatest commandment. Agape love is the only true love (any relationship should be based on - the foundation)

Thought provoking. Thank you PastorOluT. The end is indeed here

PastorOluT:
Several years ago, a preacher from a distant town accepted a call from a church in Leeds. Some weeks after his arrival, he had an appointment that made him to board a bus to another part of the town. When he sat down, he discovered that the driver had mistakenly given him his balance in excess of 50 pence. As he considered what to do, he thought within him, 'You'd better give this money back. It would be wrong to keep it'. Then another thought came, "Oh, forget it, it's only 50p; who would worry about this little amount, afterall the bus company makes so much money on fares; they will never miss it. Accept it as 'a gift from God' and keep quiet. "When he was getting down from the bus, he paused momentarily at the door, and then handed the 50p to the driver and said, 'Take; the balance you gave me was over'. The driver, with a smile, replied,'Aren't you the new preacher in town?' 'Yes I am' he replied.'Well, I have been thinking a lot lately about where to go to worship. I just wanted to see what you would do if I give you balance in excess. I'll worship with you at the church this Sunday.

When the preacher stepped off the bus, he grabbed a nearby electric pole, looked up and said, 'Oh God, I almost sold your Son for 50 pence. Our lifestyles are the only Bible some people will ever read.

This is just a subtle example of how much people watch us as Christians, and will put us to the test! Always be on guard -- and remember -- You carry the name of Christ on your forehead and shoulders once you call yourself a Christian. 'Watch your thoughts; they become words. Watch your words; they become actions. Watch your actions; they become habits. Watch your habits; they become character.Watch your character; it becomes your destiny'.

Please don't miss THE RAPTURE. If you must miss any meal, please don't miss THE MARRIAGE SUPPER OF THE LAMB. The end is no more NEAR, It's HERE.

Stay blessed and remain rapturable

AgapeCharis:
Been alone is different from been lonely
U can be alone and not lonely. U can be in d midst of friends or ur partner and be lonely

Thank you for pointing it out. Anyways being lonely is completely different from being single.

Loneliness is bad....in this case you have no friends, nothing productive, unhappy etc. In other words, something is amiss hence the loneliness.

Being single is good because it helps you to identify who you are as an individual. In this case, how you tend to help yourself in enjoying your singleness determines if you are to end up being lonely or not.

So yes, it is a good thing to be single

emperorchedda: I can't stop laughing at the hypocrisy smelling all over the response to OPs question esp from the ladies. How many of you ladies saying its possible are virgins? Lolz!! Gals and pretence. OP with all honesty A RELATIONSHIP CAN'T LAST WITHOUT SEX (EXCEPT THE GUY IS A FOOL), TALK MORE OF ENGAGED PARTIES. A relationship without sex can ONLY and I repeat ONLY be possible if the people involved are sexually inactive (virgins). OP I'm sure you know this, you just want to confirm. My humble 2 cents.

You are so right but there is something called self discipline and determination. The reason as to which you abstain has to be substantial otherwise you would find yourself going back to it. If they were (the parties) really serious about it, they would have to make some changes e.g avoid being in secluded area together etc

babyBB: why d lady particularly

Well I think for any sexual intercourse the lady has the ultimate say (particularly when they are in a relationship) as to if she was ready to have it or not because guys (some I believe) are always ready for the game. Premarital sex has become the norm in today's society so as a lady, identifying what you want from that person/relationship is more important before giving yourself because once you're into it, it becomes difficult to get out. The foundation in which you build your relationship on has to be right and as a lady, it is only logical that you're able to identify those things and never to compromise your standard

Hmmm I hope I answered your question

It's either you take her word for it or let go

Yes it could and that is dependent on both parties particularly the lady involved

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