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You have a point there . If he truly loves her,he won't use the word ," not attractive "

XhosaNostra:
The dude is trying to make it look like she's the only problem in the marriage. I mean the negativity is glaring even though he is trying so hard to sugarcoat it. "She's TRYING in the bedroom", "She's not that attractive". Doesn't sound like the words of a very loving husband to me. More like a narcissistic somebody who married a woman for all the wrong reasons & is now trying to shift the blame on her.

Kindly go do unthinkable, nasty things to yourself, sir.

Good evening ma,

I dont know if I am over reacting but let me tell you what is going on first. And please ,feel free to tell me if you think I am over reacting. My wife is giving me serious problems because of her insecurities. Abigail is on the plum side. I think she didnt even belief I was going to actually marry her. When I proposed to her,she asked me why her,of all the slim girls around. Well,for me as a man,I really didnt find anyone who I thought was a wife material like Abigail. Abigail is a good cook. A good home maker. She takes care of the house,everywhere is always clean and tidy. She knows how to pray and she is also trying in the other room department.

My only problem with her is that since we got married,she is always feeling insecure with her weight. And once she sees any lady around me,she begins to get jealous. Initially,i told her to relax that I married her not the girls she is afraid of. But this woman cat stop. It got to point,she would start invading my space on social media. She practically told every facebook friend that is female that I am married and therefore stay away. Some people were embarrassed by her actions. Even me,I was embarrassed.

She has gotten to a point where anytime a lady calls me,she wants to know who the person is,why are they calling,dont they know you are married. I tried talking to her to boost her confidence. I also tried to encourage her to loose some weight if thats her issue cos me I dont mind the weight. But she only went to the gym three times and said she couldnt continue.

Anytime we have a misunderstanding,she always cries and says its because I dont like her because she is heavy. That she knows I will leave her one day. Again,I ignored her but she has continued. And I am beginning to think that one day I might leave her if she continues like this. I mean,I admit she is not that attractive but I didnt marry her because of her looks. I wanted someone to keep my home in peace. My job makes me meet alot of ladies,I work in an advertising firm. So I work with alot of ladies that are models. But Ii dont mess around wth the models even though some want to sleep with you just to get a job.

My wife was so sick when she was pregnant with our child. She had diabetes cos of her weight. Also high blood pressure. So I suggested she...


http://livelystones.com.ng/my-wifes-insecurities-will-soon-destroy-our-marriage/

This is serious ohhh

You caused it yourself.

Just hope he forgives you.

z11111:
Dear Lively Stones,

I need help. I need to win my ex husband back before its too late. I am coming clean and making some confessions in my story,I beg everyone,not to judge me,I know I made bad choices and mistakes,I just want help in getting my husband back before its too late.

I met Godwin in my final year in school. He was not a very fine guy but he had a way with words. I didnt particularly like him for his height. I was taller than him. But he kept toasting and persisting. I kind of finally agreed to date him after I slept with him on the first date. Boy was very good in bed. I am not a saint but I swear,he was by far the best I ever had. No wonder they say,great things come in small packages.
deliberately didnt want to have kids with Godwin. I wanted to have fun for a while. I didnt want to loose my shape either. Besides,Godwin and I argued and fought everyday,we were not ready to have kids. Five years later,I knew my clock was ticking so I went off the pill and had my first children: Twins!…I told you,Godwin was a sharp shooter..lol!

We both thought the coming of children would settle some of our issues but it didnt. I liked the high life too much. Soon as the children were one year,I resumed my socializing with the high and classy in the society. I partied and went on dates. Godwin didnt care much either. He was f.cking any girl he could find. Ladies were always all over him cos of his magic wand!.

One day,Godwin and I had .....

http://livelystones.com.ng/i-lost-my-husband-because-of-bad-choices-and-influencesplease-help/

Dear Lively Stones,

I need help. I need to win my ex husband back before its too late. I am coming clean and making some confessions in my story,I beg everyone,not to judge me,I know I made bad choices and mistakes,I just want help in getting my husband back before its too late.

I met Godwin in my final year in school. He was not a very fine guy but he had a way with words. I didnt particularly like him for his height. I was taller than him. But he kept toasting and persisting. I kind of finally agreed to date him after I slept with him on the first date. Boy was very good in bed. I am not a saint but I swear,he was by far the best I ever had. No wonder they say,great things come in small packages.
deliberately didnt want to have kids with Godwin. I wanted to have fun for a while. I didnt want to loose my shape either. Besides,Godwin and I argued and fought everyday,we were not ready to have kids. Five years later,I knew my clock was ticking so I went off the pill and had my first children: Twins!…I told you,Godwin was a sharp shooter..lol!

We both thought the coming of children would settle some of our issues but it didnt. I liked the high life too much. Soon as the children were one year,I resumed my socializing with the high and classy in the society. I partied and went on dates. Godwin didnt care much either. He was f.cking any girl he could find. Ladies were always all over him cos of his magic wand!.

One day,Godwin and I had .....

http://livelystones.com.ng/i-lost-my-husband-because-of-bad-choices-and-influencesplease-help/