Well I totally disagree with anybody in here thinking that God would force you to marry someone you don't love. Bump the love I disagree that God would force you to marry someone you don't get along with. Where you two are constantly arguing over the years but we're just friends. I don't agree that God would force you to marry someone with different beliefs and different views. I don't agree that God would force you to marry someone who believes in having more than one wife when you want to be the ONLY wife in your husbands life. And then he uses the spirit and says the spirit knows all things as if he's trying to say that God wants us together on several occasions he's made this incinuation and I have to say to him well then what are you trying to say because like I told you before I don't like you in that way and I never will. And this person got me pulling my hairs over here because this person is a Prophet of God and 95% of the things he says comes to past BUT I don't believe God would force me to be with someone like that. That's why I said bump the love because I can learn to love someone IF me and that person got along and never argued so much on almost every phone call or meeting which isn't much, then I can understand your concept of God forcing you to be with someone. But even the word Force I can't seem to wrap my finger around. The fact that God would force us to do anything is mind boggling to me when he clearly gives us free will. But in any case if he did, why would God force you to be with someone you are constantly arguing with and don't get along for too long without an argument? This guy always thinks he's right and never wrong I mean I can go on and on, But is this what you holy rollers are telling me that God would force me to be with? Just because he's a prophet? Really?