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Pukkalolo:
You are making sense, but you got it all wrong in the bolded part...

Nah bro, it's your job to ask the woman out.

And, true, you are right: a girl asking you out doesn't make her a loosed girl... but It's still your job as a man to ask her out.

That's why you are the leader. The leader ask the followers to vote for him.

Again, you said, "You can’t claim to be the prize and you’re walking up to every girl that catches your fancy. "


Look bro,

If you see a girl that catches your fancy, you got to initiate conversation with her if you want to.

Initiating conversation first doesn't make you less of a prize, it simply means you are the leader.

This "I'm the prize" mentality does more harm than good to most guys because they misinterpret the idea..

The average guy is just scared of rejection and criticism, that's why when he sight a girl that catches his fancy, he doesn't initiate conversation with her; instead he wait for her to leave his side, then he turn his head around and look at her ass; storing the image of her ass in his mental file. This might come in handy when he want to jerk off later in the night.

Pukkalolo

I don't have have any issue having normal conversations with girls, but the problem is HOW and WHEN to transit from ordinary talk (small talks) to deep and sexual conversation without coming weird, creepy or as a pervert whch might turn her off. how important is deep conversation n can u get/sleep with a "good girl" with only small talk? Abeg explain in details.

xxxtedyxxx:
Nice honest move. Your mutual friend has made things a little easier for you. [/b]You already know where to focus on...and that's Trust.

Trust plays a crucial role when it comes to dating. If a girl doesn't trust you, she won't stra.ff you. I mean normal girls, not oloshos.[b]

Hi xxxtedyxxx
Is building trust the same as building connection. Or they are different?

ubunja:
get me here and I'll give it to you: gnuversalsoldier@gmail.com

Ok

[quote author=Presido22 post=112007097]Ok

Offpoint1:
Funny guys are perfect people for friend zone, they are the clowns who never get the heart or laid.

Ladies love the "Dirty funny" guys...

So guys be dirty funny and not clownny funny.

Nice oneee

ubunja:
that's how it works. Most especially if you're dealing with a woman in the real world... As a rule of thumb: If she's pretty treat her like she's ugly. If she's ugly treat her like she's pretty.

Tear down the hotties, Flatter the ugly ones.

Ubunja, how do you build a connection with a girl that stay a distance from you. Do you support everyday calling?

ubunja:
it's been a long journey bro,, a lot of the things written years ago are just starting to make sense for a lot of people. Guys are ready for the truth now.

Ubunja, how can a guy build rapport and comfort(on phone/chat) with a girl you met but you guys stay apart ( but same city) without over pursuing or under pursuing. What's your view on reach out every day?