MetalJigsaw:
MAN 😎 vs WOMAN 👠:

Once a woman starts making money, she will start living independently

But once a man makes money, he will begin to take responsibilities of his family

I have discovered that a rich man can love and marry a broke woman and change her

But a rich woman will not look a broke man's way.

Men love unconditionally while women love conditionally.

I will conclude by saying that, if anyone loves and treats you well, value that person

A lot of people are dating themselves and loving themselves, even buying gifts for themselves.

Same thing the redpill preaches. Love and put yourself FIRST!!!

Being redpilled is good sha
But have it in mind the only way to make a girl that is not attracted to you to actually get attracted to you is to make money
Any book seller promising to sell you book on how to get women without money or material things just want to scam you
Know this or perish

I go soon expose una useless books for here

Vicboy1:
Being redpilled is good sha
But have it in mind the only way to make a girl that is not attracted to you to actually get attracted to you is to make money
Any book seller promising to sell you book on how to get women without money or material things just want to scam you
Know this or perish

I disagree. The only way is to develop yourself to be an Alpha in everything, not just on money. The redpill wants you to take care of yourself FIRST. When you make money to attract women, you will always attract the ones hooked on money and little else. You need virtues and values, not leeches,beeches and weeches!

You are troll.... Get a life dude!!!

luminouz:


I disagree. The only way is to develop yourself to be an Alpha in everything, not just on money. The redpill wants you to take care of yourself FIRST. When you make money to attract women, you will always attract the ones hooked on money and little else. You need virtues and values, not leeches,beeches and weeches!

You are troll.... Get a life dude!!!

Pls tell me how many girls that are not doing leeching
Redpill teaches you true nature of women but if you think being alpha without money will fetch you women in this hardship era then you are making a big mistake
You said we need virtues and values ,oya tell me the kind of value that attract women if not fame or money

Mtcheww

How martinez39s, Luminouz and ubunja chased and bullied glycolysis the original owner of this thread into deactivation is a sad one. They bullied him so bad he completely left nairaland and never came back again. Evil that men do against their fellow men

Vicboy1:

Pls tell me how many girls that are not doing leeching
Redpill teaches you true nature of women but if you think being alpha without money will fetch you women in this hardship era then you are making a big mistake
You said we need virtues and values ,oya tell me the kind of value that attract women if not fame or money

Seems you are either MÃD or DÃFT!!!

If you can't comprehend what I wrote.

Attraction dies when she has conquered & figured you out.


Nothing is interesting about you anymore cos you stopped keeping her on her toes, by remaining mysterious & unpredictable.


Once you satisfy a woman's curiosity, she starts looking for a new man to desire. 👌

Fighting the other dude(s) piping your gal, will only validate the fact that she made the right decision...


...and expose you as a low-value man. 💯

PinkNature:


Please rest, rest and rest about all this copy and paste posts about women.

Basing our discussions about women alone, is plain retrogression.

Self development, grooming for men, exercise tips, how to manage our finances etc should be of top priority.

I'm tired of seeing grown men wail about women every single day.

Some people here aren't even in a relationship, which literally means that posts about women will literally build up hate.

It's not like we can have more than 10 women at a time. So why all the wailing about women every now and then?

PinkNature you are right and wrong at the same time.

Let me first talk about why you are wrong.

Just like what KingEarnest pointed out, "This is the romance section and it is about women. If you want lessons on finance, you can go to the business section."

He's totally right. This is a romance section, so logically most discussion here would have to be somehow centered around interactions and dealings with the opposite sex. For example, in the business section or food section, you can't be talking about redpill, game and women there. Of course, that will be totally absurd.


And again, from the beginning, the foundation of this thread has been strictly redpill and discussion about women, so you don't expect the original discussion to suddenly change now the thread as become bigger.

If you want to discuss other topics, then I'll encourage you to open a new thread strictly for that. As long as you have some good ideas, fellas will definitely check out the thread to learn.


Now, let me talk about why you are right...

In the very introduction of my book, I said

"I assume that most guys who are reading this book have their "basics" handle...or at least are working towards getting them handled. When I say basics, I mean your physical appearance, having a good personality, having ambition regarding your education, career and finances..."

I wrote that because I know self-improvement in other areas of life aside women is very important.

But I don't like calling it self-improvement, I prefer to call it self-destruction....

IAmHim1 recently created a post I totally agreed with where he said, "Freedom comes with limitations. Knowing what exactly YOU'RE NOT SUPPOSED TO DO so as to enjoy being free."

Same thing with self-improvement. Self-improvement comes with self-destruction. Destroying and Letting go of certaint aspect of yourself leads to self-improvement.

It's foolishness trying to improve on something that's bad... You have to destroy the bad stuff first, or else the bad stuff might contaminate the good stuff.


You have to destroy your old self, so you can create a new powerful self.

Infact, most men financial or dating problem could easily be solved by simply destroying wrong habits, mindset, beliefs...

Using belief has example,

For instance, if you belief that women don't enjoy sex as much as men do, this belief would naturally affect your behavior. You would act to eager or desperate, or you'd be trying to act impressive in order to convince her to give you sex. And worse, women will most likely feel uncomfortable expressing their real sexual nature around you because they'll be scared you'll judge them or think they are cheap.


Another example, if you believe making money is hard, then making money will turn out to seem kinda hard to get for no reason.

Beliefs and habits are very powerful. Unfortunately, bad beliefs or habit are hard to pinpoint and also harder to destroy, this is why many people keep struggling to "self-improve" their life.

Again, using money as example: if you're trying to improve your finance and make money, but you subconsciously belief money is hard to get...that belief will certainly contradict and hinder your ability to make money.

It's foolish trying to build a new life on a lifestyle that's bad... You have to first destroy the bad stuff; that is, the bad beliefs/habits/mindsets, or else these bad stuff will contaminate the good life you are trying to build.

The question isn't really about what you need to improve, but rather, what you need to destroy or let go off.

Don't ask yourself, "what do I need to do in order to improve?"

Instead ask yourself, "what do I need to stop in order to improve?"

A simp and more

Vicboy1:
Being redpilled is good sha
But have it in mind the only way to make a girl that is not attracted to you to actually get attracted to you is to make money
Any book seller promising to sell you book on how to get women without money or material things just want to scam you
Know this or perish

If a girl is not attracted to you, you don’t need to make her attracted to you. What you need to do is to leave her alone. There’re many more others that’ll cherish you.

wrong

money ONLY makes girls that like money get attracted to you. ONLY THE GIRLS THAT LIKES MONEY.

there are girls that like tatoos, there are also girls thag likes a mans height, muscles pacs, beards, intelligence(sapiosexual or so)

understand this: money wont make a mother prefer another child over her own...and every mother is a girl so....
now your veil has been lifted.

besides, why would you wanna waste your time getting money just for some random girl to like you huh
so the moment your money finishes, her liking you ends.
hmmm

to get a pickmeisha or a TRULY independent lady, you dont need money cus she's has this undying zeal to make her own money. all you have to do is bring out the little girl in her. the little girl she hid so she could survive inn a man's world

thats why you'd still find broke guys hitting the best of the best rich girls and youd be askin yourself wat happen

incite and engineer emotions
incite FIRST

Vicboy1:
Being redpilled is good sha
But have it in mind the only way to make a girl that is not attracted to you to actually get attracted to you is to make money
Any book seller promising to sell you book on how to get women without money or material things just want to scam you
Know this or perish

damnnnn

"It's foolishness trying to improve on something that's bad... You have to destroy the bad stuff first, or else the bad stuff might contaminate the good stuff"

THIS RIGHT THERE IS THE EQUATION TO HAPPINESS
i wrote something along the line in a post of mine. lemme get d linkk
https://www.nairaland.com/7942067/equation-happiness-dont-add-happiness

for all readers, see it like this henceforth:

dirty water can make clean water dirty but clean water cant make dirty water clean

heck!!
a little drop of dirty water can make a bucket of clean water dirty but a bucket of clean water cant make a drop of dirty water clean

DIRTY IS MORE DIRTY THAN CLEAN IS MORE CLEAN

The best way to be happy is NOT to do more things that makes you happy BUT to stop the things that hurts you first

and yes, Redpill to me is basically UGLY TRUTHS thats why i strongly believe its not limited to relationship alone. i just want people to know what it entails so they can finetune what is important and act accordingly.
pornography, church... is a big waste of time

but heyy

Pukkalolo:


PinkNature you are right and wrong at the same time.

Let me first talk about why you are wrong.

Just like what KingEarnest pointed out, "This is the romance section and it is about women. If you want lessons on finance, you can go to the business section."

He's totally right. This is a romance section, so logically most discussion here would have to be somehow centered around interactions and dealings with the opposite sex. For example, in the business section or food section, you can't be talking about redpill, game and women there. Of course, that will be totally absurd.


And again, from the beginning, the foundation of this thread has been strictly redpill and discussion about women, so you don't expect the original discussion to suddenly change now the thread as become bigger.

If you want to discuss other topics, then I'll encourage you to open a new thread strictly for that. As long as you have some good ideas, fellas will definitely check out the thread to learn.


Now, let me talk about why you are right...

In the very introduction of my book, I said

"I assume that most guys who are reading this book have their "basics" handle...or at least are working towards getting them handled. When I say basics, I mean your physical appearance, having a good personality, having ambition regarding your education, career and finances..."

I wrote that because I know self-improvement in other areas of life aside women is very important.

But I don't like calling it self-improvement, I prefer to call it self-destruction....

IAmHim1 recently created a post I totally agreed with where he said, "Freedom comes with limitations. Knowing what exactly YOU'RE NOT SUPPOSED TO DO so as to enjoy being free."

Same thing with self-improvement. Self-improvement comes with self-destruction. Destroying and Letting go of certaint aspect of yourself leads to self-improvement.

It's foolishness trying to improve on something that's bad... You have to destroy the bad stuff first, or else the bad stuff might contaminate the good stuff.


You have to destroy your old self, so you can create a new powerful self.

Infact, most men financial or dating problem could easily be solved by simply destroying wrong habits, mindset, beliefs...

Using belief has example,

For instance, if you belief that women don't enjoy sex as much as men do, this belief would naturally affect your behavior. You would act to eager or desperate, or you'd be trying to act impressive in order to convince her to give you sex. And worse, women will most likely feel uncomfortable expressing their real sexual nature around you because they'll be scared you'll judge them or think they are cheap.


Another example, if you believe making money is hard, then making money will turn out to seem kinda hard to get for no reason.

Beliefs and habits are very powerful. Unfortunately, bad beliefs or habit are hard to pinpoint and also harder to destroy, this is why many people keep struggling to "self-improve" their life.

Again, using money as example: if you're trying to improve your finance and make money, but you subconsciously belief money is hard to get...that belief will certainly contradict and hinder your ability to make money.

It's foolish trying to build a new life on a lifestyle that's bad... You have to first destroy the bad stuff; that is, the bad beliefs/habits/mindsets, or else these bad stuff will contaminate the good life you are trying to build.

The question isn't really about what you need to improve, but rather, what you need to destroy or let go off.

Don't ask yourself, "what do I need to do in order to improve?"

Instead ask yourself, "what do I need to stop in order to improve?"

luminouz:


Seems you are either MÃD or DÃFT!!!

If you can't comprehend what I wrote.

U are a very big fool
95% of niger girls more especially Eastern girls de find money , Continue claiming alpha towards girls wey no send you

IAmHim1:



wrong

money ONLY makes girls that like money get attracted to you. ONLY THE GIRLS THAT LIKES MONEY.

there are girls that like tatoos, there are also girls thag likes a mans height, muscles pacs, beards, intelligence(sapiosexual or so)

understand this: money wont make a mother prefer another child over her own...and every mother is a girl so....
now your veil has been lifted.

besides, why would you wanna waste your time getting money just for some random girl to like you huh
so the moment your money finishes, her liking you ends.
hmmm

to get a pickmeisha or a TRULY independent lady, you dont need money cus she's has this undying zeal to make her own money. all you have to do is bring out the little girl in her. the little girl she hid so she could survive inn a man's world

thats why you'd still find broke guys hitting the best of the best rich girls and youd be askin yourself wat happen

incite and engineer emotions
incite FIRST

Which little girl are you talking about
I never said money makes girls to like you , but atleast it will draw them to you

Most Independent girls in nigeria are so hypergamous ,majority will date guys that are in there level financially or above there level financially
If u think to get a girl that will agree to go into serious relationship with you when you have no money is easy then have a rethink

Vicboy1:

U are a very big fool
95% of niger girls more especially Eastern girls de find money , Continue claiming alpha towards girls wey no send you

K

Vicboy1:

Which little girl are you talking about
I never said money makes girls to like you , but atleast it will draw them to you

Most Independent girls in nigeria are so hypergamous ,majority will date guys that are in there level financially or above there level financially
If u think to get a girl that will agree to go into serious relationship with you when you have no money is easy then have a rethink

Damn, your brain is full of aporo opa ijebu(Ijebu poison killer)

OG.. your OT is top-notch

PstDapo:
By MONEY, I want to believe that you are talking about cash that you part with, that takes a significant portion of whatever amount of money you are earning. Not the refreshments money or the small cash disposables here and there you do for benevolence (kindness).

There are ladies who won't give you coochies without CASH, no doubt. When you are dealing with these types, know you are in a PROSTITUTION deal - basic fact. Better go pay a hooker and you'll get the same deal without much stress than in a deal with a girlfriend who will give you billing (for different things) before you see her panties. This is how a lot of simps get emotionally attached to women who don't chose them (find them sexually attractive) because of their "financial investments" - plain gold digging game played on them.

And if you are bent on continuing to deal with a lady who is not posing as a hooker, but is giving you stringent conditions (a clear sign of low interest) before hitting the coochie, then you are a thirsty oneitis fool. If you have these types in rotation, then you are SIMPING PLATES - not spinning plates.

The issue in contention here is clear to me now. Most Nigerian Men are SIMPs still clouded in a blue pilled mentality. It's not a crime nor a bad thing though.

Trying to unplug from the blue pill is difficult even for those who claim to be red-pilled, as the dating market is oversaturated with pussay-thirsty, money-paying fools who make it seem like nigerian women are ONLY MONEY-HUNGRY and don't have inner/innate lust for men that tickle their fantasies . It's understandable. Since Nigerian women know that the average Nigerian man is an ignorant simp obsessed with impressing women with money, he bills him, even if she finds him sexually attractive as a shiit test, if the fool fails by obliging and parting a way with cash that affects his earning significantly, he may or may not get the coochie. If she doesn't deal, then she is not attracted to you anyway and a slut - discard her quickly.

babyfaceafrica, what I want you to know is that the coochie you paid 5k - 10 million naira for is (or can be potentially) fûcked for free or almost free. It's happening around you and if you are not "looking" you won't see. I've experienced it a few times.

The girl telling you to part with some money before you see her pants already sense that you are hopelessly thirsty (which is what she sees from the Nigerian men she meets who have their brains move to their dicks when they see a woman), and plays it to her advantage. If you expect the girl to tell you that she has a guy she is gobbling her semen for free while still billing you 300k to gobble yours, then you know nothing about women or how they operate.

I'm not trying to get you to believe or accept that it happens (women giving some men free what they give/or not give in manipulation to other men for cash). I'm just laying it down for you to see what is happening under your nose, not to win an argument or "entertain" feminine clowns.

In fact, I hope that a lot of men like you don't understand the deep, dark secrets of female nature because you will never trust them and when you can't trust them, you can't be manipulated easily. Also, you'll make less effort in contributing to the blue pilled system that makes men highly ignorant so that they can slave for the society and women. Anything against this, society will collapse. The illusion of happiness in the typical blue pilled modern monogamous marriages is encouraged for this reason.

Lmao 😂.. Simps just love their chains so much..

Despite all the simps we have, men still need to “do better” and simp more while you run games on them

hypergamy is sexual NOT financial

Vicboy1:

Which little girl are you talking about
I never said money makes girls to like you , but atleast it will draw them to you

Most Independent girls in nigeria are so hypergamous ,majority will date guys that are in there level financially or above there level financially
If u think to get a girl that will agree to go into serious relationship with you when you have no money is easy then have a rethink

Pukkalolo:


You are making sense, but you got it all wrong in the bolded part...

Nah bro, it's your job to ask the woman out.

And, true, you are right: a girl asking you out doesn't make her a loosed girl... but It's still your job as a man to ask her out.

That's why you are the leader. The leader ask the followers to vote for him.

Again, you said, "You can’t claim to be the prize and you’re walking up to every girl that catches your fancy. "


Look bro,

If you see a girl that catches your fancy, you got to initiate conversation with her if you want to.

Initiating conversation first doesn't make you less of a prize, it simply means you are the leader.

This "I'm the prize" mentality does more harm than good to most guys because they misinterpret the idea..

The average guy is just scared of rejection and criticism, that's why when he sight a girl that catches his fancy, he doesn't initiate conversation with her; instead he wait for her to leave his side, then he turn his head around and look at her ass; storing the image of her ass in his mental file. This might come in handy when he want to jerk off later in the night.

Pukkalolo

I don't have have any issue having normal conversations with girls, but the problem is HOW and WHEN to transit from ordinary talk (small talks) to deep and sexual conversation without coming weird, creepy or as a pervert whch might turn her off. how important is deep conversation n can u get/sleep with a "good girl" with only small talk? Abeg explain in details.

Presido22:


Pukkalolo

I don't have have any issue having normal conversations with girls, but the problem is HOW and WHEN to transit from ordinary talk (small talks) to deep and sexual conversation without coming weird, creepy or as a pervert whch might turn her off. how important is deep conversation n can u get/sleep with a "good girl" with only small talk? Abeg explain in details.

Start here


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nLe7b_ZVgY0?si=MOIFuLgfWOoLbKnz

When i was younger i loved WWE wrestling. I'd practice moves on my younger brother after watching different fights

Once Randy orton or Rey mysterio had a fight, I'd quickly turn on my Tv to watch some real action. But as i grew, i realized everything about wwe was staged. From the characters, the plots and even the punches. All fake. You probably felt just as disappointed as i was if you were a fan.

The moment i found it was fake, that was the end of me watching it seriously. Now, i just laugh at the fakeness of it all.

This same thing happens when girls test you for authenticity. Authenticity tests happen when a girl is trying to figure out who you say you are. She's hoping you "pass the test" She wants you to be the man you claim to be.

That's why if she realizes a guy is fake, she becomes disappointed. Then either proposes to use the guy to catch cruise for her entertainment. Or starts to resent him.

With women, there's no need for pretence. You have to believe you're the prize. And act like it.

This is why guys that use money to get women fail miserably in the long run. At the beginning, the money hides their fakeness and ingenuity. Money displays a false sense of confidence or leadership or competence.

Until after a while, the mask starts to crack. All that money cant make up for the masculine quality she craves for.

Being firm with what you believe in and your principles is a good way to remain authentic.

Of course, i dont mean baseless, nonsensical principles like: "i dont double text"

But real ones like: Taking responsibility, creating healthy boundaries and firm but loving criticism



PS: A new thread is coming up about women and lies. Why they do it and how to stop them from lying to you

Then another on myths about female nature

one here on frames

And a thread on detecting a girl's body count range

Hello Kings

This has a deep message

Tranquility2345:


And that’s why you believe say ashawo deserve to be paid 100k because she claims to be high class. Yamayama fall on that your bald head there. Bozo

Are you still here?
This is serious o.. Your life really revolves around this thread. Sorry oo