Literature › Re: Chronicles Of Tracy by presido997(m): 1:22pm On Aug 02, 2018 |
Goodbless the writer have read ur story from the beginning and am giving you a thumb up keep it up |
Romance › Re: Sex On The First Date Doesn’t Make You Cheap – Twitter User (photos) by presido997(m): 10:14pm On Jul 15, 2018 |
correct fuel |
Christianity Etc › Re: Church Members Flog The Ground (Video) by presido997(m): 10:21pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
total madness |
Celebrities › Re: Uriel Oputa Wows In Bikini (Photo) by presido997(m): 10:20pm On Apr 06, 2018 |
mtcheew |
Education › Re: Jigawa-born JAMB Candidate Scores Highest With 311 (photo) by presido997(m): 8:23am On Mar 17, 2018 |
my brother score 312,,,,,, That can't be the highest score |
Career › Re: What Is The Salary Structure Of The Nigerian Immigration Service? by presido997(m): 7:42am On Mar 05, 2018 |
I also need answer for the question |
Education › Re: Maritime University Granted Approval By NUC To Commence Degree Programmes by presido997(m): 7:01am On Feb 23, 2018 |
nice move |
Sports › Re: 2018 Winter Olympic: Nigerian Team Among The Top 10 To Look Out For At The Games by presido997(m): 8:31pm On Feb 09, 2018 |
I wish them best of luck |
Education › Re: 2nd Edition Of The XFIRE Nairaland Scholarship Quiz-Final Test In Progress by presido997(m): 3:34pm On Jan 24, 2018 |
when did this started  have really missed |
Celebrities › Re: Jedidiah Ogunleye, Simi's Mother Weds. Simi Plays Chief Bridesmaid Role by presido997(m): 4:55pm On Jan 20, 2018 |
Congrats to her |
Celebrities › Re: Ibrahim Shatta Shares Pictures While Filming by presido997(m): 10:51am On Dec 26, 2017 |
Both Odun and chatta are good actor bt chatta is better |
Celebrities › Re: Denrele, Toyin Aimakhu At The Lagos Carnival 2017 (Photos) by presido997(m): 9:56am On Dec 05, 2017 |
Who Lagos carnival epp |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Have You Been Dreaming Of Marrying Your Birthday Mate? Pls Come In by presido997(m): 11:21pm On Nov 28, 2017 |
madridguy: You're my birthday mate. Proudly January 5th. January 4 is here |
Travel › Re: Lagos Bans Okada, Keke From 520 Roads, Areas [full List] by presido997(m): 9:46pm On Nov 16, 2017 |
I don't think our governors ve Good adviser at all  Y will u say no motorcycle on apapa-oshodi expressway when private cars can't access d road |
Romance › Re: She Broke My Heart Then But Now I Have Her Progress At My Reach by presido997(m): 11:34am On Nov 16, 2017 |
Nedfed: My elder brother happen to be a Managing direction of a private Organisation. The Organisation conducted aptitude test and interview for the qualified applicants on Monday, but only 6 out of 25 applicants were picked (4 mens and 2 ladies). This afternoon while I was in his office, he showed me the names and the Cv of those people. But to my greatest surprise my Ex who break my heart back then at the Polytechnics happen to be among. This lady drop me purposely because am from a poor home and follow another guy despite all the love and cares I show her. I think this is the pay back time, Should I block her way? Cause what she did then is still fresh in my heart. Man don't revenge on her forgive her nd let her gt d job, she will worship u for ever |
Sports › Re: Mikel Obi, Super Eagles Team Arrive Russia Ahead Of Match Against Argentina.PICS by presido997(m): 6:21pm On Nov 12, 2017 |
Buh messi is nt available, super eagles will kill them |
Sports › Re: Algeria Vs Nigeria : Tactical Formation Out by presido997(m): 7:10pm On Nov 10, 2017 |
Y Mikel no start na  |
Romance › Re: I Lied To My Fiancé That I Am A Virgin, My Wedding Is In December. Help by presido997(m): 9:44pm On Nov 05, 2017 |
Cedarseeds: Please help I had to create a new account for this.
When I was 15, a man in our neighbourhood had sex with me. I was too confused and embarrassed to tell anyone about it. I didn't get pregnant. While growing up, I still remembered the incident and kept away from dating through out my university days.
I met my fiancé in 2014. Somehow I told him I was still a virgin when we were still getting to know ourselves. He asked me to marry him soon after. It seemed as if the main reason he wanted marriage was because he felt I was a decent girl and I didn't want him to find out after our wedding. I did some stuffs to my vagina and we had sex. It was like the whole process of deflowering again. He seemed satisfied.
The issue is that I feel scared starting my marriage on a lie. Standing before the priest when there's a secret between us. We've done the necessary intro. I don't know what to think anymore. Should I let him continue believing he's the only man I've been with? I will advice u too keep ur mouth shut nd enjoy ur marriage |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Tottenham Hotspur Vs Real Madrid: UCL (3 - 1) On 1st November 2017 by presido997(m): 10:07pm On Nov 01, 2017 |
Hmmmm R.I.P to Madrid |
Career › Re: Adeola Fayehun Resigns From Sahara Reporters After 6 Years (Video) by presido997(m): 9:53pm On Nov 01, 2017 |
Wow!!! This lady is talented |
Phones › Re: Photo Of World's First 5G Smartphone by presido997(m): 9:33pm On Nov 01, 2017 |
Am still rocking my gionee 2G phone |
Celebrities › Re: Hushpuppi: "God, If This Life Is Fake, I Don't Want A Real Life" by presido997(m): 5:17pm On Oct 29, 2017 |
I know all this nonsense will be over very soon |
Forum Games › Re: Any Comment That Does Not Get A Like In 30 min Gets 1500 Naira Worth Of Recharge by presido997(m): 10:40pm On Oct 26, 2017 |
Greenbullet: The rules are simple , just comment , wait for one hour, if your comment does not get a like , I will pm you so I can send your desired network to you. Game starts now.
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Politics › Re: Rate Your Electricity Provider (DISCO) by presido997(m): 11:15pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
IKEDC,,,,80% since last year our light is always more than 15hr per day |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Hit Me With A Sudden News by presido997(m): 10:08pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
Philosophia: Hello Romancelanders,
Please help me! I have a very serious issue on my hands. I opened this account because of this, for advice from you. It's actually a long story, but I will try to keep it short.
I have been in a relationship with my gf for 3yrs+ now. We had both not been ready for marriage at the time. She said she had things that she wanted to achieve so she would give herself 5yrs. I felt the same way too but I was looking at my age to settle down as 29 or 30. She was almost 21 at the time, I was 24 at the time.
When I met her she was a shaken, frightened, stubborn and love-starved young lady. Her parents were trying to force into marriage with a "family friend's" son whom she did not like plus she was not ready to settle down at the time. Her father is a retired military man and would use extreme measures like locking her up in a room for days. Anyways, I supported her in everyway I could at the time even at a time meeting the so-called "family friend's" son. I did not intend to get into a relationship at the time but certain things happened and I began to fall in love with her plus she needed love and care so badly. She is a very smart, motivated and beautiful young lady.
We got into a relationship and with time, the pressure as regards marrying the guy died or so I thought. From then till now, we have both been striving hard to make things get better. She was trying to run a business while I was working at a small magazine company. Unfortunately I admit, even though I was not earning much at the magazine, I was careless with my finances. I would spend on her, us and on a couple of mundane things but the bulk was on her and us.
Well, the financial crunch hit and I lost my job being owed several months in back-salary. I had very little savings. Things were not going too well with her in her business either. And so what little savings I had plus borrowed money from my parents joined with her own funds(including borrowed money), we started a business. We have been almost a year into the business now. Things are so dull. She hardly comes to the office anymore. I manage to go with little funds raised from teaching at minor places plus my parents support. We have been trying a "new" field though which seems a bit positive.
You have the back story now. Here is the problem.
Of recent, her body language and speech + whatsapp chat seemed to be dodgy, non-committal and atimes even coated with disdain. I knew something was wrong. I had wanted to talk to her and she said she wanted to discuss something with me as well, but she had basically refused to show-up when I call her out. Well, I was not so much a fan of going to her house because of chances of meeting her mum plus her several siblings But I braved it and showed up at her house on Sunday. I asked her what the matter was.
She told me of how her family was pressuring her and almost everyone she met was telling her to try and settle down. She said how she knows that I am not ready to settle down anytime soon. She said she had been praying about it and she has received an answer that she should settle down and that she do so before this time next year. She wants to get married before her birthday. People, she said several things and I said several things and I walked out angrily and dazed but I just gave the highlight of the issue. I could not wrap my head properly around it for a while but later I calmed down and I asked her a few questions.
It seems her mind is made up on marriage. She says she would prefer if it was me because she loves me, but if not, it is the will of God. She said some other things. I am just dazed and I don't know how to take it or how to act or what to do.
My life is not where I want it to be. I don't have the resources to turn things around right now. I am in a quagmire. Please Help! Bro I will advice u to settle down now if u love ur gf, only God knows when u will be buoyant financially it may be after d marriage ur way will open,,,, my opinion though |
Travel › Re: Commercial Bus Falls Into Gutter At Dopemu, Lagos (Photos) by presido997(m): 4:15pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
God pls accept our prayer |
Celebrities › Re: Bisola Aiyeola Addresses The United Nations General Assembly In New York by presido997(m): 9:29am On Sep 21, 2017 |
more blessings for her |
Career › Re: What's Your Current Challenge At Your Place Of Work? by presido997(m): 11:20am On Sep 15, 2017 |
Funny topic |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Barcelona Vs Juventus : UCL (3 - 0) On 12th September 2017 by presido997(m): 9:29pm On Sep 12, 2017 |
To those saying barca can't perform without neymar,,, shame on you 3-0 |
Education › Re: DIRECT ENTRY Admission. by presido997(m): 10:27pm On Sep 11, 2017 |
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Education › Re: DIRECT ENTRY Admission. by presido997(m): 10:33pm On Sep 10, 2017 |
Harzeecoh: Pls, i need Futminna Direct Entry Past Questions and Answers Pls let talk privately am also futminna aspirant |
Family › Re: House Girl Peeps While Husband And Wife Were Having Sex by presido997(m): 8:51pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
soberdrunk: Hahahaha!! This just reminded of years back when i went into the ceiling to peep when my older brother and is girlfriend were having 'fun', i got so carried away by the action i didnt know i had moved my weight to the wrong board and came crashing down by their side, i dont know who was more embarrassed, me or the girl, all i kept screaming was "cable wire"!! "Cable wire"!! trying to cover up with the lie that i went into the ceiling to adjust cable wire........  U can kill person too funny |