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Missy B please oo I'm still expecting a copy.God bless.my email preciouschika23@yahoo.co.uk

Sorry,lease,help I need a copy of maggie E-book.preciouschika23@yahoo.co

Sorry,please,help I need a copy of maggie E-book.preciouschika23@yahoo.co

Pls, I need a copy of maggie E-book my email is preciouschika23@yahoo.co.uk

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Sent!! tnx a lot

pls sorry 4 doing this late can any body send me a copy of the e boook.preciouschika23@yahoo.co.uk. Tnx

Pls let's stop being hypocritical for once and be truthful. As much as I want to enjoy a MIL since I hv no mother, I wouldn't fail to agree that there are Monster Inlaws. Yes. I hv seen a MIL in front of elders tell her son that she wishes his child was aborted nd she means it till today cos she never liked d wife. In the family sec on NLD we have a recent post about a MIL who almost poisoned her son's wife.

That said POSTER, evil is not limited to MIlS, its found in DILs, SILs, FIL etc. Even ur friend can be a bad MIL cos d way she iss picking faults shows that she too can pick faults. My advise like some really honest and understanding posters have said is to be nice. In my place u never talk back at ur in-laws. When they come u put up ur best behaviour even if u don't want to. Remember that this is Africa and they have a string hold over your family. Its even worse that the hubby is an only son and thus has a specila bond with mom. This bond as a result of her husbands death with get stronger. Unfortunately whatever MIL does will be ok to son.

Poster when ur friend becomes a MIL tomorrow and starts picking faults in her DILs, I want u to refer to this thread for her. The reason I am saying this is that if all apprehensive DIL who talkd trash abt MIL were sincere then we won't hv MIL probs todays. Cos they will all become the Angel MILs they dreamed abt when they were DILs.

So let her ignore wateva Mama does. It will help her to accept Mama as her mother and even keep her close than her bio-mom. A friend whom I called mamas boy once told me something which I wld tell u. Watch how her son treats her, I mean every single bit and then plan a strategy. Treat her 5 times better than her son. In d case of difficult MIL, it has been proven time and time again that consistent true love always breaks them. If the son buys her gifts buy more and let the son be the one to present it most times. Thereby scoring points with son and mom simulteanously. If the son dey wash her clothes when he wss younger, don't even wait for her to remove it, tell her mama pls I am waiting for u to remove ur clothes make I wash am. Wash it, iron and keep for her. Let her room always be clean. Her fav dish etc.

Compliment her all the time, whether its real or not so real, your mouth no go break. Once she complain, apologize profusely. A yoruba sis inlaw I had wasn't accepted by the fmily at first. One of her tricks wey she tk win na to kneel down when greeting and apologizing. Let it come from ur friends heart. Even if mamashout from today till tomoro let ur friend not utter a word, sulk or frown. Instead let her always say Mama I am sorry, I have learnt, pls tell me what to do to make u happy. It looks silly but this is the smartest way to fight for her home.

The fear of MIL is d beginning of wisdom. Na dem get the key, pls give them max respect and love with time you see them over shower u with love after all na pesin them be. If u r religious pls be very prayerful




Waooo good one!! axactly what is expected 4r this forum.

olamide123: ^ good to hear that you got some good advice.
Please you need to improve on your writing skills. The use of shorthand even makes things worse, so get help in that area fast! All the best.

Pls how can u be of help, be my shorthand teacher. lol

Thanks 2 all who hv given advice n contribution afterall it was brought here 2 get ppls ideas, 2 help someone 2 avoid doing d wrong thing which d reason why ppl come 2 this forum,to learn,to teach,n solv problems.We don't hv to give advice only when there is problem but rather can advice on what do 2 avoid problems Pls we hv 2 try as much as possible 2 understand things 4r different angles.As for ppl who are placing curses,sure it has not come 2 that b/c d lady in qeustion is a good person.

dayokanu: OP,

Hopefully your daughter in law would deny you entry into your sons house in the next 30yrs

Did I hear an AMEN?

it has nt come 2 a that she only asked how to handle things 2 avoid what happened b4

Gaggi: Which woman in questiom? U are d woman in question since u have so much details. U are seeing trouble where there is none. U are selfish and self centered. Imagine asking a man who lost his father recently to stop his grieving mother from coming to spend time with him and her grandkid.
What u shld be asking us is how u can get to know ur mum in law better and how to make sure she has a pleasant stay.
Like someone said, ur daughter in law will do same to u. Now say . . .Amen.

To satisfy ur curiosity i'm not d one but but i listens 2 ppl when they hv concern n when confussed i seek advice,4r d few intelligent ppl in this forum, ppl who see things 4r different perspective.

Ferya: ^^ Nice.
@ Poster, tell your friend to conduct herself well like everybody adviced especially ronkebp.I believe nobody will advice your friend to fight her MIL, try to forget about the past be nice to her and allow her help you with the kids. Please, let her shower MIL with love and you will see her sing her name forever Goodluck!

Thank u dear

Hopefully your daughter in law would deny you entry into your sons house in the next 30yrs

Did I hear an AMEN?


Pls, ppl shld try as much as possible to read n understand any post befor answering, so dt one will not hv wrong conclusion or .If u find it difficult 2 understand don't say anything.The woman in question is not against d mil coming but want 2 avoid problems due 2 what has happend in d past n with her condition 4 now , she wanted mil 2 wait a little time let her finish nursing as 2 give her attention to avoid her saying d dil is nt taken care of her.


Moremi tnx for reading and understanding d situation, u really said well.

I hv this friend of mine who is a kind of afraid bc of alot of stories about d attitude of some motherinlaws.The gist is dt the mother inlaw is d way 2 lagos 2moro 2 stay wt them since d fatherinlaw just died n was buried january, every effort 2 convince d husband 2 let mama wait a little 4 her 2 finish nursing b4 her coming so dt she can start work just be going out since she has nt worked bc of babies or get someone 2 help proved abortic hence he is d only son.Though she has not stayed wt her for a long time except on festive period like Dec when travelled home n dt 4 few days or weeks.The fact is she is nursing a baby of 3mnts now with 2 other small kids,though d mother inlaw has not been coming 2 omugwo due 2 d condition of fatherinlaw except during d wedding in 2007.ppl hv said she is a difficult person though she showed little of dt during d wedding she said d food served her was leftover food bc d girls in d kitchen were d lady's sister's who were making sure everything is moving fine since d man's relatives were just there not doing anything but after it was found out dt d food is not a leftover.Another time was when they were travelling home bc they stopped by n drink water wt driver since d lady's house is along d way she started coplaining about it.Another occation was when they travelled home as d lady picked one of d sisters(nt small girl undergraduate) 2 help her d motherinlaw was always on her(the motherinlaw 'l invites all her relation n their kids n expect d lady 2 be in d kitchen doing d cooking n serving of all even d young small girls) since d lady stayed clear 4r her as much as possible but position d sister who was always crying 4r d kitchen telling d lady not 2 come closer let her receive all d wahala instead of her, d senior sister.The lady's husband provides everything in abundant 4 mama hence she enjoys at home and never lack even 2 d extent helping mama's relatvs sometimes but is no problem,but what worries this lady is dt d man has no investment not even a house of his own but rather spent a lot renovating n modernising d father's house few yrs ago.In as much as she want mama 2 come(for her 2 c how she has been managing,trying 2 make d man c d future still and....) but she don't want anybody 2 destroy her home bc her husband listens 2 d mother n anything she says is law including his only sister who is married, who personaly went 2 bring d mum 4r home 2 her place in Enugu today where she'l be coming 4r 2moro wt one of her daughters.sorry 4 any incoherency, pls need ur candid advice on how she can be follwd 4 peace.

It's well. The Lord is ur strenght and He will give u consolation and blessings again.

Tanx guys for your ideas and contributions. You are blessed.

What feeds helps kids to grow more rapidly,like those at 1-4yrs of age now. And where can I get small packs of fresh milk for them inform of caprison/ribena packs which they can easily finished once and disposed.

Oldenburger and peak na my best

Pls how do I keep mentianing a short dreadlock hair naturally without going to stylist everytime I just did it having been on low cut for some time now cos don't want hair wahala. But d stylist told me to be coming weekly 4 locking/unlocking whatever!

I want to change my children's wardrop, need someone to bring cloths and shoes for home, occations, etc 3yrs plus (boy) and 1yr plus (girl). Mine can be gowns etc. Contacts: preciouschika23@yahoo.co.uk. 08025431246.

Hello,

I have just setup a shop in Lagos and would like to know where I can buy weavon, attachment, wig and other provision items at a very good wholesale price to stock up the shop.

Please give addresses if you have useful contact in Lagos. You can contact me directly on 08025431246 if you can supply these items at attractive wholesale price.

You can also reply here or to my email premekstores@gmail.com

Thank you.

As for your brother, he is a big fool.
HE should kick the silly woman out of the house and take his mother in. If she is willing she can come back and beg.



I have mother inlaw and we are best of friends but I have this to say.

Please, this forum is for people to help solve problems and give suggestions, ideas that will save families and not destroy them. This is family, God instituted it so we have to be carefull, check what you post to this forum.

Please be careful, don't invest on anything u're not too sure of.Keep the money in bank while still searching and pray about it. The Lord will see you through, He will supply all u need to take care of those kids cos He is ur strenght.

Thnx for ur ideas, u'er are the best. My toddler is 3yrs. I 'll love to get more on this.

Bye and God bless.

any ideas on setting up pure/bottle water business?

i know, u can give me your number let me call u or call me or email me your number lets discuss if your serious b/c right now i have more than 400pieces of us made cloth in nigeria. i have being dealing with family but i need to get out family buss.
[quote][/quote]Did u get my mail. Expect urs anyway.

Pls I quite like your suggestions to the investor but want to know the process, or how to go about starting the drinkining water business. I'm interested. If u can post it to my email : preciouschika23@.co.uk. I will appreciate. Thanks.

Please what the best food and milk for healthy growth of a toddler. Again how can I preserve vegetable(ugu) without running 2 mkt everytime 4 it.
I will appreciate ur good ideas.

AGARIfoods. Pls I quite like ur suggestion to the investor but want to know the process, or how to go about starting the drinkining water business. I'm interested. If u can post it to my email : preciouschika23@.co.uk. I will appreciate. Thanks.

AGARIfoods. Pls I quite like ur suggestion to the investor but want to know the process, or how to go about starting the drinkining water business. I'm interested. If u can post it to my email : preciouschika23@.co.uk. I will appreciate. Thanks.

I'm interested so want 2 know more about u and the requirement, I mean how to go about the partnership.

I'm interested but will like 2 know more about you what u require 4r a partner. A lot is involved in partnership business u know. Meanwhile till I hear 4r u.