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Thank God for u oooo. Big congrats and pray for us too. |
How old are ur kids. I feel if ur wife is still nursing and taken care of the kids, that's another challenging area though can still be coped with if planned. Think about the amt u can use 2 hire a nanny. I didn't mean ur wife should not do anything, just want u 2 appreciate her little contribution toward d kids, train and make her what u want her 2 be. Though many didn't acquire the basic education b4 marriage but some ppl 'r gifted wt skills & tarlents. Just like ur wife I'm not yet working bc of hash treatment of d country towards graduats.My husband has been so supportive, I'm even d one getting worried though I'm still nursing bc he knows how hard Ive tried to get a job wt my qualification b4 marriage( though not too long b4 raising kids) to no avail.He is even saying I should go back 4 Msc, though I'm still planning of going back 2 labour mkt or self employed. It's not all about qualification, there are so many graduates out there. Just believe in ur wife and train her in some basic skills, she will definitly hv some hidden tarlent in her one day she will come out great. It's challenging when there's only one stream of income I know, but u hv 2 take things easy & don't go above ur capability. The Lord is ur strenght.Remember u 'r blessed. |
How old are ur kids. I feel if ur wife is still nursing and taken care of the kids, that's another challenging area though can still be coped with if planned. Think about the amt u can use 2 hire a nanny. I didn't mean ur wife should not do anything, just want u 2 appreciate her little contribution toward d kids, train and make her what u want her 2 be. Though many didn't acquire the basic education b4 marriage but some ppl 'r gifted wt skills & tarlents. Just like ur wife I'm not yet working bc of hash treatment of d country towards graduats.My husband has been so supportive, I'm even d one getting worried though I'm still nursing bc he knows how hard Ive tried to get a job wt my qualification b4 marriage( though not too long b4 raising kids) to no avail.He is even saying I should go back 4 Msc, though I'm still planning of going back 2 labour mkt or self employed. It's not all about qualification, there are so many graduates out there. Just believe in ur wife and train her in some basic skills, she will definitly hv some hidden tarlent in her one day she will come out great. It's challenging when there's only one stream of income I know, but u hv 2 take things easy & don't go above ur capability. The Lord is ur strenght.Remember u 'r blessed. |