The truth is that it is better to return the money in peace for your own good because the owner of such money will not rest until he recovers everything
OGwales: 🤣🤣🤣 Bibles wey dem no go read... Funny enough if you have read Bible from the first page to the the last page, you will stop believing it.
Pastors are only riding on people's ignorance because most people only own a bible but don't read it..... Oya you reading my comment, have you read Bible from the first page to the last page? 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️
I have read the Bible from the 1st to the last page and still reading it again and again. It feels so real and speaks to my soul every time so I don’t know what you are talking about
Marvieduke: An Igbo gay man, Innocent Ndubuisi Okechukwu, marries his male lover, wearing Igbo attire in the church, as officiated by a reverend father.
1. The black man is a Nigerian by name Innocent Ndubuisi Okechukwu. He is a composer and pianist with a significant body of work and academic study in music.
2. He started in a Catholic minor seminary (secondary school) and sang/played music there. He never went to major seminary.
3. The white man is called Greg. He is a chorister and a lector (reader) in Episcopal Church.
4. The “wedding” took place in St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church in Downers Grove, Illinois (USA).
5. The Episcopal Church belongs to the global Anglican Communion, a fellowship of churches worldwide that recognizes the Archbishop of Canterbury for unity. As an Episcopal church, St. Andrew's shares this Anglican heritage and connection to the broader communion.
6. The minister is Rev. Gregg Morris. He is the rector (senior minister) of that parish.
7. The Episcopal Church does permit clergy to officiate same-sex marriages, and the denomination has authorized religious weddings for gay couples.
8. I hope this clarification helps. Thanks for your attention!
There’s nothing wrong with that. If I was running for a post, I would advise my loyalists and family members to join other parties so that they can help me out when the need arises
Dpsychologist: Let’s drop the sugarcoating and speak plain truth. Dating a single mother is not romance movie material. It’s real life. If you’re not built for it, you’ll suffer and she’ll suffer more. This isn’t hatred. It’s honesty.
I’ll keep it simple and relatable.
1. You will never come first. Ever. If her child is sick and you’re having a bad day, guess who waits. You. If school fees are due and you want a weekend getaway, plans are cancelled. If you need to be number one in a woman’s life, this lane is not for you.
2. Her past is not theory. It’s active reality. That baby didn’t fall from the sky. There is an ex somewhere. Co parenting calls. Family ties. Old wounds. If small jealousy already dey choke you, this situation will finish you.
3. Responsibility will find you, even if you run. You say “I’m not the father.” Fine. But wait till school resumes, rent is due, or hospital bills show up. Reality doesn’t respect motivational quotes. Pressure will knock.
4. Her time is scheduled, not spontaneous. You can’t just say “I’m outside” at 11pm. You can’t randomly disappear and reappear. Her life runs on routines. If you hate structure, you’ll feel trapped fast.
5. Emotional stress comes in bulk. You’re not just dealing with her moods. You’re dealing with a child’s emotions, an ex’s influence, and family opinions. One small misunderstanding can turn into a full-blown crisis meeting.
6. Stability is not optional, it’s required. Inconsistency is cute when you’re 22 and carefree. With a single mom, it’s an instant red flag. If you’re still “finding yourself,” please find yourself elsewhere.
7. You don’t gain what you think you gain. She’s not there to build you. She’s not there to fund you. She’s not there to emotionally babysit you. If sex is the main attraction, both of you are just passing time.
8. Manipulation can happen if you’re not sharp. Some will gaslight you with “you knew I had a child” anytime accountability comes up. Others will weaponize guilt. If you’re emotionally weak, you’ll be confused and drained.
9. Society will talk and you’ll hear it. Friends will whisper. Family will advise. “You could have done better” will start ringing in your head. If you’re easily influenced, pressure will push you out anyway.
10. Love alone is not enough here. This setup needs patience, money, maturity, and thick skin. If you don’t have at least three, you’re not ready.
Final truth: If you can’t handle responsibility, structure, delayed gratification, emotional stress, and public judgment, don’t date a single mom. Not because she’s bad. But because you’re not ready.
And this applies beyond single mothers. If you can’t handle real life complications, don’t date anyone seriously.
Dating is not sympathy work. It’s readiness.
Be honest with yourself. It will save you, and it will save her.
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Nice write up though I don’t agree with No. 1. Cos the same trait occurs when a woman is married and has child for her husband, if the child is sick, the child will always come first and not the man
Are you sure they are the ones that killed her. They threw her out naked and from this report, it was not stated that they collected everything from her including her clothes? Let the real suspects be caught
NaijaSumi: When are you going to pledge your support for the poor masses... Take that money to various hospitals to support major surgeries and health care of Nigerians struggling and begging for help.
Super Eagles Players are rich enough...
It’s his money, you can’t direct him on who or what to spend it on. If Players are rich, why is it that after 1 month of retirement, they become suddenly poor and unrecognizable?
Is it by force to operate from the Government House? So far he is working that’s all that matters. You people that were operating from the Government house, what did you achieve?
Had it been I am there, na the television I go catch, I no get tv for my house, I need am It could even be a stunt for content. The people who were picking up might be stationed by her to pick them up for her
Evil fathers plenty, some of us if we start to say the shege we see for our father’s hand, nobody will believe, they will say that we are lying. It is well.
I am writing this to inform Nigerians and everyone of my Ordeal in the hands of Safe Haven Microfinance Bank of Nigeria. Safe Haven MFB has allowed themselves to be used by a Crypto Scammer to carry out his Crypto Scams. While others were celebrating Christmas, SafeHaven deprived me Access to my Legitimate Funds due to a Malicious report emanating from their Bank.
On the 16th of December 2025, I sold my Digital Asset USDT of $690 to a Crypto Scammer posing as a merchant on Bybit P2P Platform by name OBA1, real name Blessing Temitope Adejin and he went ahead to pay me for the Coins through his Safe Haven Microfinance Bank Account Number: 0117800030, account name: Tradepilot Technologies Limited which upon confirmation of payment, I released the asset to him and the trade was marked as completed. The next day being 17th of December, I received a message from Access Bank that my Account has been Frozen and a Post-No-Debit has been placed on my account and it's under investigation for FRAUD! I immediately called Access Bank Headquarters to seek further clarification and get the issue resolved. Access Bank informed me that the PND on my account was Due to a report sent to them by Safe Haven Microfinance Bank, they stated that the sender of the money reported it as Fraud and requested for a Refund of the money which prompted Safe Haven to ask them to put a restriction on my account and initiate a Reversal of Fund. I informed them that it was a business transaction which I have successfully concluded with the sender and I won't be authorizing any Refund to them because everything is Legitimate and not associated with any fraudulent activity. Access Bank asked me to mail proof of the business and all transactions involved and upon receipt and confirmation, they'll remove the restriction on my account. I immediately provided all proof and after a few days, Access Bank called me on the 26th of December and apologized for restricting the account and informed me that the restrictions have been removed and I could transact seamlessly. After the call, I checked my app to discover that the restriction had been truly lifted but then I couldn't find the 1 Million Naira which was for the transaction in my account. Upon contacting Access Bank and inquiring about the money, they informed me that they have forwarded all proofs I sent to them to Safe Haven Microfinance Bank which is the source of the Fraudulent Report and once they get the go-ahead from Safe Haven Microfinance Bank they'll release the money to me. I called back several days later only to be informed that despite their follow-up mail to Safe Haven that they are yet to get a response from them.
I was very angry about that and I had to reach out to the sender via Bybit only for him to inform me that he didn't make any report to his Bank and they were just acting on their own. I believed that with a pinch of salt (screenshots provided). I further probed his review page to discover there was a report of someone who he did the same thing to on the 25th of December 2025. He sent money to that person and went ahead to report it as fraud and got his account Frozen too; that was when I became sure it was his modus operandi. He has built a stellar trading reputation on Bybit and has thousands of Good reviews, what he does is he trades successfully with many and then spots new accounts to Defraud, so when you first come across his account, you wouldn't even have a reason to suspect him.
Please, if you are selling assets or Goods Online, do not accept Payment from anyone who is sending Money from Safe Haven Microfinance Bank Account because they can easily report it as fraud and the bank will Flag your transaction without Due Diligence.
Kalatium: There’s a man in my neighborhood whose story has stayed with me.
Years ago, his home was a hub of life. Teenagers everywhere. Music blasting. Laughter spilling into the street. Young boys full of promise, respect, and energy. A mother holding the center. A family in motion.
Fast forward to today and the house is silent.
One son is gone. Another has relocated. The wife and daughters have moved on. What remains is a man sitting alone behind a gate, cooking for himself, washing his own clothes, watching the days pass without the noise that once defined his life.
This is a reality we rarely discuss.
We talk about career growth. We talk about wealth. We talk about legacy.
But we almost never talk about male loneliness in old age.
For many men, life slowly narrows: Children grow up. Homes empty out. Visits reduce. Attention fades.
Mothers are remembered, celebrated, visited with gifts and affection. Fathers, too often, are left behind quietly enduring, saying little, asking for nothing, but feeling everything.
This isn’t about blame. It’s about awareness.
Sons: Your father may not say much. He may act distant or grumpy. But he wants connection too. He wants to feel seen.
Daughters: Celebrate your fathers, not just on special days, but in ordinary moments. Presence matters more than presents.
Fathers: Be kind to your wives. Be warm with your children. Emotional deposits made today compound in old age.
Because here’s the uncomfortable truth: No promotion, no achievement, no title prepares a man for an empty house.
Old age doesn’t arrive suddenly, it creeps in quietly.
And how we love, show up, and stay connected today determines whether later years feel full… or painfully hollow.
This is not just a family issue. It’s a societal one.
Let’s do better while there’s still time.
That’s why as a man, treat your wife cos in old age, she will never abandon you or allow the kids to disregard you
I remember when I was serving in Bayelsa, I came back late at night from my trip. I went to buy food, that was how one Policeman started to touch me, I told him to leave me alone, he told me that if I didn’t agree to him, that he can kill me here and nothing will happen. Omo! Naso the hunger disappear, I just left before one constable will waste me abeg
Chilipepper: Popular personal shopper and market plug on X, Aunty Esther, has sparked a fresh wave of reactions after it was revealed that she declined a blood transfusion recommended by doctors as part of her cancer treatment.
Aunty Esther shared earlier that her test results were out and the cancer was found in her breast and armpit. She thanked everyone who donated towards her treatment and assured the public that updates would keep coming.
But shortly after, one of the fundraiser coordinators, Sir Dickson, announced that he and another volunteer doctor were stepping away from handling her case. According to him, doctors advised that she undergo a blood transfusion to stabilise her levels before chemotherapy, but she refused on religious grounds as a Jehovah’s Witness.
He added that her church members reportedly warned she would be disfellowshipped if she accepted blood, while some family members allegedly insisted that “whatever happens is God’s will.” He said that while her belief is respected, they cannot continue leading a fundraiser where the patient is rejecting the ideal treatment that could save her life.
Jehovah witness are not Christians but a cult group
Guys, sometimes the darkest stories are not the ones we hear from far places… Sometimes, they happen right here among us… in our own communities. We bring you the heartbreaking and disturbing story of a respected Federal Road Safety Corps officer, Funmilayo Lasisi, and her young daughter, Sewa, who were lured from Ogun State and brutally murdered in Osun State.
A case that shocked the nation… A case that raised questions about trust, betrayal, and the dangerous things people do in the name of “spiritual consultation.” This… is their story.
Funmilayo Lasisi was not just an FRSC officer; she was a mother, a dedicated worker, and someone people described as calm, peaceful, and hardworking. She lived in Ogun State with her daughter Sewa, a bright young girl full of dreams. She had a relationship with a man named Victor Fajemirokun. What started as a normal relationship later took a dark turn that nobody could have predicted.
According to police reports, everything began when Victor claimed that a cleric told him that Funmilayo had “taken his glory” spiritually. Instead of seeking help or ending the relationship, Victor decided to confront the situation in a dangerous way. He allegedly lured Funmilayo and her daughter to Osun State under the pretence of visiting someone. Funmilayo trusted him. Sewa trusted him. They had no reason to fear.
But what waited for them in Osun… was nothing close to what they expected. Reports from the Osun State Police Command revealed that Victor did not act alone. He allegedly involved a local herbalist who promised to “restore his spiritual glory.” This was where the story became even darker… and more shocking. The herbalist reportedly told Victor that the “solution” to his problem required sacrifices, a horrifying instruction that set the stage for a tragedy no one could imagine.
When Funmilayo and her daughter arrived in Osun, they were taken to a remote area. According to the suspects’ confessions, the two victims were overpowered. The mother and daughter were killed in cold blood. What made the story even more disturbing was that when police eventually found the bodies, some parts were missing, confirming fears that the murder was ritual-motivated. It was a terrifying discovery that shook residents and the entire nation.
When Funmilayo and her daughter didn’t return home, their family raised alarm. Police began tracking her phone records, last contacts, and movement history. That was how the investigation led officers to Osun State. A search team went into the bush areas around the suspects’ location… And then, the heartbreaking discovery was made. The bodies of Funmilayo and Sewa were found in a shallow grave… dismembered… and abandoned like they didn’t matter.
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