Romance › Re: Lady Shares How She Finally Approached Her Campus Crush, Stirring Reactions(Vid) by Prettychild(f): 1:58pm On Oct 27 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Cleveland Pastors Introduce Second Wife During Church Service by Prettychild(f): 7:54pm On Oct 26 |
muhmeen: Prophet Israel T. Ford and Pastor Lydia Ford, leaders of LifeWorks Church near Cleveland, Ohio, announced Shakayla Ford as Israel's second wife, framing it as God's will and citing Exodus 21:10.
Lydia herself introduced Shakayla positively to the congregation, and photos show the three posing happily together.
Israel posted on Facebook that the 'one wife only' teaching is unbiblical, while critics cite 1 Timothy 3:2 and traditional Christian emphasis on monogamy from major denominations.
Supporters reference Old Testament examples of polygyny, sparking wide online reactions from shock to defense.
/video/1?t=2 And people will still worship there? SMH |
Education › Re: Enugu College (ESCET) Threatens To Ban Students Who Don't Apply For NELFUND Loan by Prettychild(f): 8:51pm On Oct 22 |
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Politics › Re: Schoolchildren Punch And Knock Down Tinubu’s Campaign Banner In Nasarawa by Prettychild(f): 11:36am On Oct 21 |
givedemwotowoto: A video from Nasarawa State shows schoolchildren repeatedly punching and eventually knocking down a campaign banner featuring President Bola Tinubu.
The incident comes amid growing public frustration across Nigeria over economic hardship, insecurity, and dissatisfaction with Tinubu’s government.
He doesn’t need anyone’s vote to win, that’s the sad truth. There’s no need wasting strength in punching |
Politics › Re: Ex-Delta Governor Emmanuel Uduaghan Is Dead by Prettychild(f): 8:30am On Oct 20 |
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Politics › Re: Ex-Delta Governor Emmanuel Uduaghan Is Dead by Prettychild(f): 1:22am On Oct 20 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Some People Don’t Even Pray Or Fast But Things Are Working Perfectly Ok For Them by Prettychild(f): 9:30am On Oct 19 |
Sirchiboy: Bros I look for job no job. I met this igbo girl. Because I had no skill. Na only school I get. She convince me to open fashion shop for her to manage it for me and be paying me. I spent all my savings. It was one excuse upon excuse Please give your life to Christ. Go to Mountain of Fire and Miracles Ministries for deliverance. Trust me, prayer works |
Family › Re: Man Caught His Wife At Home With Another Man Wearing A Condom. This Happened! by Prettychild(f): 9:24am On Oct 19 |
nlfpmod: Kenyan Man Confronts His Wife and Another Man In a Heartbreaking Video
The poster of the video wrote:
In as much as I do not endorse cheating by any of the gender, this one even tried by using condom, at least she will not give him another man’s child to train |
Christianity Etc › Re: Jesus Christ Would Have Forgiven Judas Iscariot if He Had Repented! by Prettychild(f): 3:57pm On Oct 18 |
ebubeson: It was prophesied that someone will betray Jesus. Judas finally betrayed Jesus Christ, but he never repented. Peter denied Jesus Christ, but came back to Christ and was accepted. Jesus Christ would have forgiven Judas if He repented.
No matter the sin you have committed against Jesus Christ, even if it is a betrayal, tell Jesus Christ to have mercy on you and forgive all your sins. He will forgive all your sins.
What sin have you committed? Adultery, masturbation, fornication, bestiality, murder, abortion, gay, hookup, lying, paternity fraud, lesbianism, yahoo yahoo, rituals, vodoo, juju, witchcraft, hatred, envy, malice, worldly dressing, forging certificate, bribery, gossip, rape etc. Tell Jesus to forgive you all your sins and repent never to go back again. I’m of the opinion that Judas Iscariot repented. You know Jesus Christ descended into hell and he also preached there, Judas Iscariot was already dead and in hell so he would have repented |
Business › Re: Kano Traders Chase Chinese Phone Sellers Away From The Market (Video) by Prettychild(f): 1:48pm On Oct 10 |
Factcheck0001: we all know it is your brothers selling fufu as phone in kano that did this.
Now this is gradually becoming a problem that d government should look into, any market where Chinese people are chased should be locked down indefinitely
Every citizen have the right to do business anywhere, the same right u people have as strangers in kano is d same right Chinese traders have in kano You said ‘every citizen’, are Chinese naturalized citizens in Nigeria? |
Celebrities › Re: Blessing CEO Denies Authorizing ₦56m Fundraising Following Son's Reported Death by Prettychild(f): 8:05pm On Sep 26 |
verminnel: Internet personality Blessing CEO has denied authorising anyone to solicit funds on her behalf following the reported death of her second son. Actress Doris Ogala made this known after speaking with Blessing CEO on phone. She subsequently urged the public to disregard a video in which a woman was allegedly soliciting donations on Blessing’s behalf. According to Ogala, the woman claimed that ₦20 million was needed, with an additional ₦36 million, bringing the total amount being sought to ₦56 million.
However, Blessing reportedly denied having any knowledge of the fundraising effort when Ogala asked if she had authorised anyone to solicit funds on her behalf. “No, I’m not aware of that. No, no, no, no, I didn’t,” she said. Blessing also denied giving anyone permission to announce the reported death of her son, saying she believed she was in the best position to make such an announcement herself. “I didn’t give anybody consent and according to the phone passing of my son, I think I’m in the best position to break that news, not an entire stranger,” she said. Following the conversation, Ogala advised anyone who may have donated through the alleged fundraising effort to seek a refund, stressing that Blessing had not authorised the appeal.
Ogala also stated that Blessing was nearing the end of her bail process, while reiterating that the ₦56 million fundraising appeal was not initiated or authorised by her.
©️ Lindaikejiblog This is just karma happening to her that’s all |
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Crime › Re: Christa Pike: American Woman On Death Row To Be Executed September 30 by Prettychild(f): 3:13pm On Sep 23 |
Afriifa: I believe you are a Christian. So ask yourself what Christ would have you do in this case if you were the mother. Also it is important to know if you are a devoted Christian or just a Christian in the ordinary sense of the word without devotion . Answer the question and stop using questions as diversions. It’s easier to form opinions and suggestions for pains you have never experienced. |
Crime › Re: Christa Pike: American Woman On Death Row To Be Executed September 30 by Prettychild(f): 1:38pm On Sep 23 |
Afriifa: In my opinion, she has already being prison for so long enough. Thus, a life sentence is more decent than killing. She was 18 years old acting on perhaps impulses. 30 years behind bars already in regret. God forbid, if it was your child that she killed in this gruesome manner, will you be saying this? |
Health › Re: Lagos Factory Scandal: NSCDC Uncovers Illegal Juice Production Facility by Prettychild(f): 6:24am On Sep 23 |
Bluntemperor: You are too petty and try to reduce that thing you always take in the morning 🌅! For this is a Serious issue that might have affected many innocent people in Nigeria and you are now bringing something else because of your hates and Diversions of issues. In the Miners case, have you established that it is the Govt that is behind their Death? Are you New in Nigeria- to know the level of Illegals- Mining going on in the North for -Decades, which they have been hiding, Yet the Revenues have been going to Individuals -Kingpins,but our Oil 🛢️ 🪔 Money Revenues- is being Shared by the 36- States of Nigeria, So why can't we also Know and Share that of Mining too ?🥵 I think you need to reduce whatever you take in the morning. Did I at any time say the government was behind the death of the 37 people or you just want to talk? The problem with most of you is that you type without even understanding what was written by the other party |
Health › Re: Lagos Factory Scandal: NSCDC Uncovers Illegal Juice Production Facility by Prettychild(f): 8:51pm On Sep 22 |
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Business › Re: "We're Not Spoiled" — Dangote's Daughters Open Up On Proving Themselves by Prettychild(f): 9:42pm On Sep 20 |
olarent: yes,that may be his first born,first born always have that carbon copy. What about his wife, their mother? Is she still alive ? |
Politics › Re: France First Lady, Brigitte Macron Greets President Tinubu (Picture) by Prettychild(f): 5:16am On Sep 19 |
Penguin2: Where is the admiration?
You’re seeing a woman who is completely astonished by how someone could be alive yet look so lifeless, archaic and utterly pathetic.
I don’t know whose idea it was for Tinubu to wear coat (not suit), but that person should be sacked. Even the woman too is old so she has no right to say that another person is old |
Business › Re: How Beauty Salons, Spas & Consultants Are Automating Bookings & Getting Paid by Prettychild(f): 8:04pm On Sep 17 |
obotsim: Thanks for the ask, the platform does not help users to collect payment, as its not a payment processor, but subscription service based. tenants only pay a pocket friendly monthly subscriptions. How much is the pocket friendly subscriptions? |
Business › Re: How Beauty Salons, Spas & Consultants Are Automating Bookings & Getting Paid by Prettychild(f): 7:02pm On Sep 17 |
airsaylongcome: Free?! Haba. It costs money to host the solution, manage and maintain it. And the dev isn’t doing it for charity. They are looking to earn from it.
Plus think about it from your end as a business owner and from the client’s end. customers book a time slot and possibly make a payment for no-show. If they turn up, that no-show fee is deducted from their final bill. And they are guaranteed service for the time they booked. If they don’t turn up the business owner keeps the no-show fee. I know it’s not going to be free but you never stated the percentage the company would take, at least state so that issues will not arise in future |
Business › Re: How Beauty Salons, Spas & Consultants Are Automating Bookings & Getting Paid by Prettychild(f): 3:29pm On Sep 17 |
obotsim: How Beauty Salons, Spas & Consultants in Nigeria Are Automating Their Bookings & Getting Paid Upfront
Abeg, if you run a salon, spa, law firm, clinic, consulting practice, or studio in Nigeria, stop doing this:
❌ Spending 4 hours daily answering "How much is this service?" on WhatsApp.
❌ Keeping staff waiting for clients who book slots and never show up.
❌ Dealing with crowded front desks and double-bookings.
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Staff Profiles: Show photos/videos of your therapists or advisors and their individual price lists.
Auto Zoom/Google Meet: Auto-generates virtual links for online consulting.
Printable Front-Desk QR Code: Walk-in clients scan the stand at your door, pick a time, and pay instantly.
Auto-Reminders: Sends WhatsApp, SMS, and email reminders automatically.
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Go to https://visitorslounge.com/auth
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Sponsored Post What percentage of my money will Visitors lounge take? Or is it free |
Romance › Re: Beautiful 41-year-old Woman In Search Of A Husband by Prettychild(f): 10:43am On Sep 15 |
akpumping7720: 41? There is a lady who will be 46 this year. She's not married and no kids. A widower even proposed to her oooooh but someone brainwashed her not to marry a man who has children.
Sometimes, one will just be thinking that what were some of these ladies doing in their twenties. When you marry in your twenties but the marriage didn't work out; fine, we will know you were once married. But not making an attempt at all until it is too late is what I don't understand. Sometimes, the parents are the cause. I know a family that the parents don’t want anyone to marry their children. They scatter every relationship both the guys and the ladies in the family so it’s not about the lady rejecting people at her youth, sometimes families are to blame |
Family › Re: She Flares Up Anytime She Is Called To Support Kids'school Fees, Husband Cries by Prettychild(f): 9:00pm On Sep 14 |
nickxtra: Some women are terribly greedy and selfish
How can a husband asks his wife show concern and drop something to support atleast a part of one of the children's school fees/text books and she is resisting?
The husband has been repsonsible for the school fees and wellbeing of the 4 kids, but in this first term, the school fees have increased and the need to get a little support from a wife is creating discord.
The Federal government job the wife is doing was offered to her through the husband(originally meant for him), while the husband rather opted to be in the street hustling and in school too.
To cushion the effect of transportation, the husband had years sold his Bolt business car to buy a tokunbo car for her, as means of getting to and from work. Now the woman is working and at the same time running a side business, using the car as a support.
Anytime issue of supporting the family comes up, she flares up, whereas she sends money to family back home often (which am not critical of).
Out of the 4 kids, the husband has told her to take up a partial responsibility for one of them who is in JSS 3, because the fee is high.
Is it unmanly or wrong for a husband to call a wife to show support for children's school fees(at most partial support for one out of 4 kids)?
Or is she resisting this because she is used to not supporting before now, as i have never called for her support in any way before now? There’s nothing wrong with helping your husband, they are your children too. Anyway, let’s hear from the woman’s side |
Politics › Re: "I Supported Peter Obi In 2023, He Never Gave Me A Dime." - Bature Kawas by Prettychild(f): 11:04pm On Sep 13 |
Burob: At least now he is aware that Gringory Obi a very stingy, selfish, self centered man.
Let him Mr righteous go to North Korea, or Cambodia if he wants to be president of a country.
As for The Federal Republic of Nigeria, he will never occupy Aso Rock as president. Are you God? |
Family › Re: I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter - Husband by Prettychild(f): 3:52pm On Sep 13 |
imsoftcash: Husband Claims I Had No Idea My Wife Was Sexually Abusing Our 7-Year-Old Daughter for Adult Content.
"The husband testified to what transpired between his wife and his daughters, stating: 'I had no idea my wife was using our 7-year-old daughter and other children for adult content.'
Read below and watch: 'I had no idea that my wife was using our 7-year-old daughter to create adult content. I discovered it on Thursday evening when someone sent me the video.'
— The husband of the woman who sexually abused her 7-year-old daughter and used her to create adult content stated that he was unaware of his wife’s actions. Watch below
/video/1 It’s possible. Most of these men think that providing for the family is the importance of a father so they channel their body, soul and spirit towards that and don’t even have a relationship with their kids |
Celebrities › Re: Diamond Platnumz’s Ex Zari Says Be Stingy With Your Womb Avoid Single Motherhood by Prettychild(f): 1:03pm On Sep 11 |
franchasng: Beautiful lady with beautiful advice.
what do you think about this counsel based on experience? She is right. Men generally don’t care, they can become brutal to a lady who gave her all to them that’s why as a lady put yourself first. If he can’t marry, then he shouldn’t have you in his bed |
Crime › Re: Anthony Obodo: Sister Confronts Rivers Police Commissioner Over Brother’s Death by Prettychild(f): 10:59pm On Sep 01 |
afonja112: Why was he running for hours from armed police I wonder. Not justifying his killing but the story is incomplete, more characters needed If someone is pointing at you and shooting at you unprovoked, please don’t run, just stay since you know better |
Politics › Re: If Jesus Christ No Introduce Himself Well, Peter Obi Go Win Am - Mama Pee by Prettychild(f): 1:48pm On Sep 01 |
This woman is just there to bring failure to Peter Obi. Check history, anyone who said anything or tried to compare himself with God, never ended well. She should pack one side jare |
Christianity Etc › Re: Can Prayer Change What God Almightiest Has Already Decided? by Prettychild(f): 12:18pm On Aug 30 |
h777: CAN PRAYER CHANGE WHAT GOD ALMIGHTIEST HAS ALREADY DECIDED?
If GOD ALMIGHTIEST has already established His will concerning a matter, can the prayers of a man cause HIM to change that decision?
This is a question that deserves more than religious opinions. It deserves SCRIPTURE.
Some say, “Pray until GOD changes the situation.”
Others say, “Prayer does not change GOD. Prayer brings us into agreement with HIS will.”
But what does the scripture actually reveal?
Did Abraham’s prayer change GOD’s decision concerning Sodom?
Did Moses change GOD’s mind when he interceded for Israel?
Did Hezekiah’s prayer alter what had already been spoken concerning his death?
Did Jonah’s preaching cause Nineveh to experience a different outcome?
And if GOD ALMIGHTIEST is omniscient, knowing the end from the beginning, what does it actually mean when scripture speaks of GOD “repenting,” “relenting,” or changing a declared course of action?
There is another question that goes even deeper:
If GOD has already determined the outcome, was the prayer itself already part of HIS divine purpose?
And what about CHRIST JESUS?
When HE prayed in Gethsemane, “Not MY will, but THINE, be done,” was HE attempting to change the Father’s decision, or was HE submitting to the will that had already been established?
So let us settle this properly:
Does prayer change GOD’S mind, or does prayer accomplish what GOD has already purposed through the prayers of HIS people?
No assumptions.
No denominational arguments.
No emotional conclusions.
Bring the SCRIPTURE.
CAN PRAYER CHANGE WHAT GOD ALMIGHTIEST HAS ALREADY DECIDED? Yes prayer can change it. Look at the story of King Hezekiah in the Bible. God sent Isaiah to tell him that he would die from his sickness but he prayed to God and God added 15 years to his years and also restored his health |
Celebrities › Re: Dolly Parton Dies Aged 80 by Prettychild(f): 7:46pm On Aug 25 |
I remember her Character in Devious Maids. May she rest in peace |
Family › Re: I Sent $12,000 Home In 2 Years. I Have Nothing To Show For It. by Prettychild(f): 3:38pm On Aug 23 |
ezineexpert: I did the math last December.
In 24 months, I had sent $12,000 home.
Not for luxury. For love. For responsibility.
$300 here for Mama’s drugs. $500 there for Dad’s hospital. $2,000 for blocks. $1,200 for my younger brother’s school fees. $800 because there was a funeral. Another $1,000 because the roof leaked.
I opened my gallery expecting to see progress. A house at lintel level. Receipts. Something.
I had nothing. No house at roofing. No hospital card. No school receipts. Just 143 debit alerts and a growing resentment I was too ashamed to say out loud.
I loved my family. I also started to dread their calls.
If you have ever felt that, this is for you.
Where Did the $12,000 Actually Go?
I was angry, so I did what we all do: I called and interrogated. “Where is the money?!”
It didn’t work. It broke the call. My mother cried. My uncle said, “If you don’t trust us, don’t send money again.”
Then I did something different. I stopped asking where the money went. I started asking where the money was supposed to go.
I printed my bank statements for those two years. I categorized every single transfer.
CARE (Parents upkeep, drugs, food): $4,800 BUILD (Land, blocks, cement): $4,200 SCHOOL (Brother): $2,100 EMERGENCY (Everything else): $900
The money wasn’t stolen. It was shapeless.
My $4,200 for BUILD was never $4,200 for BUILD. It was $4,200 that arrived as “just manage it.”
$1,200 went to a cousin’s hospital bill because it was urgent. $800 went to fix the family car that “we use to carry Mama.” $600 went to a chieftaincy contribution that my father couldn’t say no to. No one was lying. But every purpose was diluted. When money has no name, it obeys the loudest emergency.
I wasn’t funding a house. I was funding whoever shouted the loudest that month.
The Shift That Saved My Next $6,000
I realized my family didn’t need more money. We needed a language for money.
We use English for love. We need a ledger for money.
I created one page. I called it The Elder’s Ledger: Protect the Money, Preserve the Relationship.
It’s not an app. My mother in Ikeja, Lagos will not download an app. It’s paper, voice notes, and one photo — things elders already respect.
Here is the exact protocol that stopped the leak:
1. Tag The Money Before It Leaves Your Phone
Now, every transfer has a name in the narration.
Not “For home.”
But: “CARE - Mama Aug Drugs” or “BUILD - 100 Blocks Sept”
Four tags only. Nothing else:
CARE / BUILD / SCHOOL / EMERGENCY
If you send money without a tag, you have already lost it.
2. Track It With 3 Envelopes, Not Shame
At home, we use three physical envelopes or one notebook. Money goes into its envelope the same day it lands.
Rule: You cannot borrow from BUILD to pay for CARE without a call. That one rule saved my building project.
On one page:
Date | Tag | In | Out | Balance
My mother keeps it on top of her fridge. It’s not policing. It’s memory.
3. The Respectful Receipt (This Changed Everything)
Asking “Send me receipt” sounds like “I think you are a thief.” No elder will respond well to that.
We changed the language:
The Weekly Voice Note:
“Mama, how did the CARE money help this week? I want to thank God with you.”
Same information. Different spirit. Now I get a 2-minute voice note every Friday without me begging.
The One Photo Proof:
“What we see, we can thank God for. Send me one photo of the drugs/blocks so I can rejoice.”
One photo of the malaria drugs. One photo of blocks on the site. Not because I doubt them, but because pride replaces shame when they can show progress.
The 10-Minute Monthly Call:
Same Sunday every month. Same time. Speaker on.
What came in (by tag) What went out (by tag) What is left What is needed next month We end with prayer, not argument.
What I Have to Show Now
In the last 8 months using this system, I sent $4,000.
I can show you:
400 blocks on my land in Oyo State (with photos and dates) 6 months of Mama’s drug receipts filed in order My brother’s school fee receipt for this term Not because my family changed. Because our system changed.
I still love them. I just stopped funding confusion.
The $12,000 I lost was tuition. The protocol that came from it is what I now share.
If you’ve ever sent money home and felt that knot in your stomach when you had to ask about it, start with one tag this month. Just CARE. Tag it, track it, and ask for that one voice note.
You might save more than money. You might save the relationship.
Have you ever calculated how much you’ve sent home in the last year? Put the number in the comments. Let’s not do shame — let’s do structure.
I wan hear from those wey dey build for village — how una dey track am? Make we share tactics.
Tags: Nigeria, Diaspora, Remittance, Personal Finance, Family Finance, Money, Japa How can you give $800 for funeral? Did you kill the person? Even school fees, you could have paid directly to the school account cos some younger siblings can be funny |
Health › Re: ₦40M Needed To Fly Bebe Jewelry's Corpse Back To Nigeria From China - Friends by Prettychild(f): 5:57pm On Aug 20 |
And nobody could help her |