₦airaland Forum

advanceDNA:
Yinmú !!

Back to sender

zed7:
I'd leave the car to my wife to drive and continue with my normal ride. I nor fit swallow 'see finish ' from the wife or inlaws.

Learn to swallow pride, it’s a gift, you didn’t beg for it in the first place so this can’t bring ‘see finish’

Samantha125:
Go ahead and get married into such family, but be prepared to be always reminded of how they made you whenever you hurt their daughter.

Why should you even hurt her in the first place

illicit:
Its the largest satellite town in FCT

Electricity is the same.as it is every other place but some area have it better...

Electricity in Guzape, Life Camp, Garki is much better than any satellite town. These areas are also in band A

Procashtips:
You still didn't answer my question.
South South is not an ethnic group or a tribe

I generalized it by saying South South, if I start mentioning all the tribes in South South, we would not finish this discussion anytime soon

BlindAngel:
So whatever they'd be piling on the list, all isn't compulsory and mandatory to provide??

It isn’t compulsory, tell them the ones that you can do, then leave the rest

Procashtips:
What kind of "normal" are you talking about?

Name just 3 ethnic group that it's normal for their inlaws to foot burial expenses.

Just 3

I'm waiting.

It’s normal for an in-law to be given a portion of burial bills but not all the burial expenses. I know Igbos and some tribes in the South South that do such

BlindAngel:
Good evening Nairalanders, few months ago I posted here regarding how my wife forced me into marriage that I wasn't in anyway ready for because she got pregnant. I posted about the regret I'm still battling until date, because the love isn't there from my own end and I'm also not in anyway attracted to her physically. I have told her severally that I want to option out of the marriage and not doing again but until date she has refused to let me go.

Back to the main point, my wife lost her dad this morning. Her deceased dad has two wife's and several concubines that gave birth to lots of children, my wife doesn't know some of her half brothers and sisters.

So I went to their family house this morning to console them. The eldest son of the family (her half brother) told me and another in law that we'd be the one to pay for mortuary expenses and casket, and when the burial is getting closer they'd give us a list of things to buy and we'd both bring one goats each.

To be brutally honest I wasn't mad because of this latest expense, I got furious immediately and right on the spot because of the pressure my wife pressured me into getting married to her, by now I'd have been totally free of these unnecessary expenses. More than 19 of her sisters, both biological and half sisters that has given birth, no single expense was listed for their man that they got pregnant for and has a child for. But I and the other in law that paid dowry are the one going through these unnecessary expenses.

So immediately he told me about everything, I charged at my wife right on the spot, right in front of her mom, her brothers, her sisters and some of her friends that came for condolence visit. I got so furious and started shouting at the top of my voice, I reminded her how she forced me into marriage that I'm not in anyway prepared and ready for, both physically, psychologically, emotionally, financially. (I have been reminding her regarding this almost on a daily basis and whenever we are quarreling.

I reminded her how she threatened me with suicide and our of fear of the unknown I wasted almost 4m in getting married to her. I told her that I'd have been free of these expenses if not for her pressure.

Immediately she burst into tears, and started crying endlessly.

Her mom and sisters started yelling at me and I yelled back at all of them. They told me I met her a Virgin and now she's no longer good for me (truly, the whole family thought that I was the one that took her virginity) My wife and I agreed to keep it a secret, but the constant remainder from her mom and sisters made me let the cat out of the bag, I told them that I didn't met her a Virgin that she has already started having sex when I met her, they didn't believe me but with my tone, I know they'd.

I also made mentioned that I'm not buying any goat or paying for mortuary or taking any list from them. That it's their dad and they should take care of every responsibilities, after all he has uncountable children, why putting some of the expense on me? I walked away, and switched off my phone until now that I'm just putting it on.

I know that I acted wrongly and allowed my anger to get the best part of me. But I was furious because no single bill went to her sister's baby father's, absolutely nothing was listed for them. I got furious because these expenses won't be on me right now if not for her pressuring me into marriage that I want ready for. I was furious because I and the other in law that they billed became the scape goat by doing the right thing by getting married and not leaving theirs daughter In ruins, where as those that got their daughter pregnant without getting married to them were totally free from these unnecessary bills. I'm in so much pains and regret right now.

Oga you did wrong. First of all, I don’t believe that a woman would force you into marrying her. If you don’t want her, never date her so you won’t accuse her of forcing you into marriage. Your in-laws can’t bill the baby fathers cos those children are traditionally not theirs. You are the legitimate in-laws and so would receive billing which is normal. It’s you that would use your discretion to decide which one you would prefer to do in the list

Ttalk:
VDM don see Police finish, why didn't he try such nonsense by putting on Nigerian Army uniform?

This uniform has been changed by the Police a long time ago, so it’s no more a police uniform

Astromania:
Delta - Igbo Amaka 😁

Which one is Delta Igbo again? Igbo is Igbo abeg! Stop this unnecessary discrimination

[quote author=HgsMediaPlus post=132582589][/quote]I’m sure the baby is a girl, girls and their Dads na 5 and 6

[quote author=WithinCity post=132453284]Pastor Shyngle Wigwe Revises Request for Late Son's Estate Amidst Public Outcry


https://globalexcellenceonline.com/pastor-shyngle-wigwe-revises-request-for-late-sons-estate-amidst-public-outcry/
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It’s a taboo for a parent to outlive their children. And now struggling for the son’s wealth says a lot already

fergie001:
SOURCE

It won’t have impact

sarrki:
https://www.facebook.com/share/p/4MHcgFZg4ZjWygRm/?mibextid=qi2Omg

If Reno doesn’t mention anything Igbo, then he hasn’t spoken. Always using hate to get attention. Tueeh!

MEND001:
You were there when he initiated the sex. Well ur opinion don't count. At least na d girl dey suffer am now. Next time she go get sense.

You know my opinion doesn’t count so why are you responding to what I wrote since my opinion doesn’t count?

MEND001:
And since the lady too is not ready for motherhood she should stay in fornication Abi? Well u can continue to blame the man he doesn't even know u. Who is suffering the consequence now.

He initiated the sex thing so he shouldn’t initiate sex when he is not ready

MEND001:
As usual u won't blame the lady at all.

I will blame the man, you are not ready for fatherhood then FLEE from fornication. You have no business having a girlfriend sef. It’s a different thing if she raped him. Men should take responsibility for their actions.

Iamzik:
Kneeling for your wife is sign of weakness both culturally and spiritually. Kneeling before someone is symbol of accepting their lordship and authority. I don't know where Christians are getting all these wrong practices. A disregard from the natural order is the reason for so many divorce

It is not weakness cos you are kneeling in humility for prayers and not for anything else. Try to differentiate the two. Even the Bible acknowledges the power of a prayer made by a wife over her husband

Namaster:
All these USELESS scammers parading themselves as Pastors need to be cautioned.

Making a man KNEEL before his wife in public is utterly DEMEANING.

In this particular arrangement, ONLY the gullible men are brought LOW. The wife is elevated and the pastor is elevated even more.

This is why women will listen to their pastors and pedestalise him above their husbands. It's the same reason Pastors find it easy to tuck their church members, including the married ones.

It's because the men have made a FOOL of themselves for the GLORIFICATION of the pastor.

Their wives look UP to the pastor and look DOWN on their husbands.

Bad!

Lol! See the way you have turned it around. If someone wants to pray for you (even though I don’t know what they are praying about), will you stand or kneel so that the person can touch you while praying? It’s with humility that brings about exaltation. If a man can humble himself to kneel for his wife to pray for him, God will still exalt him to continue to be the head of the house, not in words but also in actions. You people should keep your red pill behavior one side abeg

dre11:
https://punchng.com/how-my-edo-poly-lecturer-left-me-with-twin-pregnancy-to-japa/?amp

The man is just wicked. You know you don’t want to be a father, why not zip up? But No you will be having unprotected sex and expect the lady to risk her life via abortion

Vinnie2000:
There are some Meals I have NOT Eaten for a Very LONG time.
I Have even Forgotten they Exist.

*Yam (I don't think I have eaten Yam this Year).
*Spaghetti
*Macaroni
*Plantains
*Sardine
*Barbecue
*Suya (Can't remember the last time I saw it)
*Peak Milk, Milo and Bournvita to Make Tea.
Etc..

What's Yours?
😒🙂

Yam
Plantain
Spaghetti
Macaroni
Suya
Fruit and fibre

TouchNfollow:
https://punchng.com/why-bobrisky-was-separated-from-other-inmates-prison-experts/

They are not serious. Someone said in court that he is a man and you are separating him from other men? A man need not to behave like a woman before any homosexual rapes the person in prison. Their reason isn’t weighty

sreamsense:
Which kind irresponsible man is this? This is the step he supposed to take before wedding, but allowed love to cover his eyes. After he had slept with the lady for month to increase her body count, he now realized they are not compatible.

Even God is not happy with things like this, it is an act of deception on the part of man than the woman. Once married, it should be his cross to carry. After sexually abused her, he is now looking for another man to carry his left over. What a wicked man? Only God knows the mind of a man, there may be other things the man doesn't want about her again, but hiding behind genotype to cover face and does right thing at wrong time.

Man has better chances of getting another woman faster (because people don't look at man body count like that of a woman) than a woman getting man. For better for worse, now the man sees small worse, he ran. So far you failed to do the needful before marriage, it should be his cross to carry

It’s both ways, didn’t she know her genotype before accepting him?

ekineme:
The needy also has " Dignity"

That’s not dignity, it is pride. If the money was thrown at the needy as if he/she is thrash, that’s when dignity comes in. However, in this scenario, you were told to ask if you need money. If your pride is too much, hunger go destroy the person.

ekineme:
That is quite innovative, though for the image of the receiver and giver, I would have like it to be anonymously done. May God bless the givers and also bless the receiver, because *the blessings of God maketh rich and add no sorrow*

Lol! A person is broke and proud? You need money and you are talking of image? Pride indeed goes before a fall

Image123:
That's right. Anyone putting his or her hopes on APC or PDP or Lamba party is on a long thing. Power belongs to God, and He gives it to who He wills, not a particular religion, tribe, group or denomination. Get this wisdom ingrained into your skulls against 2027 please.

lol! Power belongs to God but African leaders will always thwart God’s plan to give it to who would positively help the region. So God steps aside to watch you do your thing

Richtaiwo:
For this remark alone, I doubt Wike stands any chance of winning any office that is to be decided by votes of the masses. And indeed, this video is already on the Internet and will continue to be used as evidence against him either in the near or distant future.

Additionally, he can only say this in the midst of heavy security presence. If he is in doubt, he can just take a ride to the nearest market without his security details and repeat the remarks. He will get appropriate reaction in the appropriate language.

I used to like him, but on this, he goofed.

Lol! He would win. Nigerians will always forget once they share palliatives to them to convince them to vote

dominic17:
Should we say their brain has reset?

It hasn’t. They would still repeat same again

jmoore:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lJIB1HCc268?si=w-rO9c5lAcOuBW-S



https://www.snl24.com/dailysun/news/reed-dance-festival-celebrates-40-years-of-zulu-tradition-at-enyokeni-royal-palace-20240912#:~:text=About%2040%20000%20virgins%20are,%2C%20with%20the%20maidens'%20arrival.

Even those wey breast dey like slippers are part of the virgins! Issorite!

lereinter:
So you can't recognise deceit from genuine

I can’t O! Please tell us what you have done first

ikorodureporta:
Attention seeking moffo

And you that doesn’t like attention, what have you done to help people who suffered in this flood?

dailybuzzng:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=26T1R-7L3s4?feature=shared



https://www.vanguardngr.com/2024/09/estate-firm-director-gifts-less-privilege-to-mark-birthday/

Congrats to them but she looks older than her husband and there’s peace in their home. This goes to show that respecting one’s husband is not by age, an older woman can decide to respect her younger husband while a younger woman can decide to disrespect her older husband. God bless them