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A friend is looking for a one bedroom apartment to rent in Karu for 500-600k, anyone who has should dm me

advanceDNA:
Madam....Manage what u have...stop looking for what's not lost....is ur boyfriend bad??

Madam fighter looking for fighter...which threat is ur relationship facing they u expect ur current boyfriend to fight...
.comparing ur man to ur ex might for no reason might be a sign u don't really love the guy

Not true. I love him and gave him my all. You won’t understand, there are some things that I can’t say on this platform

BABANGBALI:
abeg I dey here dey wait o. In case you'll give him red card. I'm ready to fight for you and kill for you. I also promise to give you the codes to my munu button

Lol! Abeg no kill for me

Prettyangelng:
I won't lie I do. Any time I hear a song I listened when we were together. Tears fill my eyes. Please make that relationship or marriage work. The grass is not greener on the other side. It is only greener when you water it more.... I miss you Uche. 🥲

I miss my first boyfriend, he was so good to me. It was my parents that made me break up with him. If I knew what I know now, I would have fought harder for us to be together. He was someone who would fight to just have me. If he was here, I wouldn’t be in the mess I have been. The problem with my current one is that he doesn’t even fight to just keep me. Even though I always fight to protect our love but it was beginning to look like I was dating myself

mrBlunt:
https://bbc.com/news/articles/czx84en1yp4o

Gbam

maasoap:
Whoever raised you is your real father.
And the title didn't do justice to the content of the interview, you guys might to read it first before passing judgements

Lol! You don’t need to twist it. The man didn’t behave like a father should. I read the article and not the title of the article

adenigga:
Source: https://dailytrust.com/My-Life-Got-Better-After-Mohbad’s-Death-Father

Some parents are just the weapon fashioned against their children! SMH

Na their papa born dem

Igbos can’t just do elections without any issues.
For your CAC, SCML registration, please send me a dm. Thank you

Ishilove:
https://punchng.com/my-three-year-old-sons-ear-affected-by-lagos-teachers-repeated-slaps-mother/


Previous threads:

https://www.nairaland.com/8312057/christ-mitots-school-ikorodu-teacher-slaps

https://www.nairaland.com/8312977/police-arraign-stella-nwadigbo-indecent/1

I was also a victim too. When your mom teaches in the same school that you attend, any beef a teacher has with her, they pour the anger on you

Darlingme:
Have you ever had an experience of a tenant who has refused to evict a house even after the rent expiration?

Despite all the notifications and reminders?
Someone you told a year before and you kept on reminding him.

What's the best option for such a tenant who is threatened you the house owner that he is free to stay for another period of 6 month after his rent expiration, claiming he is yet to find another house to move to. according to Nigeria law.

He has stayed for free for three months already.

What would you advise?

Consult a lawyer near you

[quote author= post=133662992]Source: https://punchng.com/pictorial-police-arrest-two-for-physically-abusing-five-year-old/[/quote]This is terrible! That’s why I tell single mothers, never leave your child behind with the father because he will get married and your child will become a slave

Hellisreal70:
How did you know

I read and research. I also have handled such cases

Crimealot:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OerOOilqKso?si=P9JnDeD2bbvpI9WS

Pamela, a married woman, had been in a romantic relationship with Frank since he was 15. On December 2024, Pamela invited Frank to meet her at the beach, where he died under suspicious circumstances. An investigation revealed that Frank had scratch marks and injuries on his body, leading to suspicions of foul play. Pamela claimed it was an accidental drowning.



https://www.instagram.com/reel/DEkbylqtSAr/?igsh=Y29uYnBuZ29qaWtm


Note: The Lady Started Dating The Boy When He Was ONLY 15. But he died at age 19.

This is so sad. He probably must have told her that he is tired of the relationship and then she kpaied him. Most of these elderly women dating small boys, they don’t leave those boys easily

BondRiv:
So you don't know what he is doing? Something so obvious. She is just a pawn in the petty fight.

Whether she is a pawn or not, is immaterial so far she uses the money to take care of her and her child

ogugwa1992:
••ABUJA RESIDENTS NOW PAY 12.5 PERCENT CONSUMPTION TAX


https://theabujainquirer.com/2024/12/19/well-enforce-entertainment-tax-on-clubs-hotels-in-abuja-fct-irs/

Lol! Tax them to stupor

advanceDNA:
Lol ... yinmú

Back to sender

essentialone:
Because mentally, ladies are wired to easily feel hurt, no matter how hard you try not to.

Blame their hormones.

Hmmn. I find it difficult to believe this

advanceDNA:
Yinmú !!

Back to sender

zed7:
I'd leave the car to my wife to drive and continue with my normal ride. I nor fit swallow 'see finish ' from the wife or inlaws.

Learn to swallow pride, it’s a gift, you didn’t beg for it in the first place so this can’t bring ‘see finish’

Samantha125:
Go ahead and get married into such family, but be prepared to be always reminded of how they made you whenever you hurt their daughter.

Why should you even hurt her in the first place

illicit:
Its the largest satellite town in FCT

Electricity is the same.as it is every other place but some area have it better...

Electricity in Guzape, Life Camp, Garki is much better than any satellite town. These areas are also in band A

Procashtips:
You still didn't answer my question.
South South is not an ethnic group or a tribe

I generalized it by saying South South, if I start mentioning all the tribes in South South, we would not finish this discussion anytime soon

BlindAngel:
So whatever they'd be piling on the list, all isn't compulsory and mandatory to provide??

It isn’t compulsory, tell them the ones that you can do, then leave the rest

Procashtips:
What kind of "normal" are you talking about?

Name just 3 ethnic group that it's normal for their inlaws to foot burial expenses.

Just 3

I'm waiting.

It’s normal for an in-law to be given a portion of burial bills but not all the burial expenses. I know Igbos and some tribes in the South South that do such

BlindAngel:
Good evening Nairalanders, few months ago I posted here regarding how my wife forced me into marriage that I wasn't in anyway ready for because she got pregnant. I posted about the regret I'm still battling until date, because the love isn't there from my own end and I'm also not in anyway attracted to her physically. I have told her severally that I want to option out of the marriage and not doing again but until date she has refused to let me go.

Back to the main point, my wife lost her dad this morning. Her deceased dad has two wife's and several concubines that gave birth to lots of children, my wife doesn't know some of her half brothers and sisters.

So I went to their family house this morning to console them. The eldest son of the family (her half brother) told me and another in law that we'd be the one to pay for mortuary expenses and casket, and when the burial is getting closer they'd give us a list of things to buy and we'd both bring one goats each.

To be brutally honest I wasn't mad because of this latest expense, I got furious immediately and right on the spot because of the pressure my wife pressured me into getting married to her, by now I'd have been totally free of these unnecessary expenses. More than 19 of her sisters, both biological and half sisters that has given birth, no single expense was listed for their man that they got pregnant for and has a child for. But I and the other in law that paid dowry are the one going through these unnecessary expenses.

So immediately he told me about everything, I charged at my wife right on the spot, right in front of her mom, her brothers, her sisters and some of her friends that came for condolence visit. I got so furious and started shouting at the top of my voice, I reminded her how she forced me into marriage that I'm not in anyway prepared and ready for, both physically, psychologically, emotionally, financially. (I have been reminding her regarding this almost on a daily basis and whenever we are quarreling.

I reminded her how she threatened me with suicide and our of fear of the unknown I wasted almost 4m in getting married to her. I told her that I'd have been free of these expenses if not for her pressure.

Immediately she burst into tears, and started crying endlessly.

Her mom and sisters started yelling at me and I yelled back at all of them. They told me I met her a Virgin and now she's no longer good for me (truly, the whole family thought that I was the one that took her virginity) My wife and I agreed to keep it a secret, but the constant remainder from her mom and sisters made me let the cat out of the bag, I told them that I didn't met her a Virgin that she has already started having sex when I met her, they didn't believe me but with my tone, I know they'd.

I also made mentioned that I'm not buying any goat or paying for mortuary or taking any list from them. That it's their dad and they should take care of every responsibilities, after all he has uncountable children, why putting some of the expense on me? I walked away, and switched off my phone until now that I'm just putting it on.

I know that I acted wrongly and allowed my anger to get the best part of me. But I was furious because no single bill went to her sister's baby father's, absolutely nothing was listed for them. I got furious because these expenses won't be on me right now if not for her pressuring me into marriage that I want ready for. I was furious because I and the other in law that they billed became the scape goat by doing the right thing by getting married and not leaving theirs daughter In ruins, where as those that got their daughter pregnant without getting married to them were totally free from these unnecessary bills. I'm in so much pains and regret right now.

Oga you did wrong. First of all, I don’t believe that a woman would force you into marrying her. If you don’t want her, never date her so you won’t accuse her of forcing you into marriage. Your in-laws can’t bill the baby fathers cos those children are traditionally not theirs. You are the legitimate in-laws and so would receive billing which is normal. It’s you that would use your discretion to decide which one you would prefer to do in the list

Ttalk:
VDM don see Police finish, why didn't he try such nonsense by putting on Nigerian Army uniform?

This uniform has been changed by the Police a long time ago, so it’s no more a police uniform

Astromania:
Delta - Igbo Amaka 😁

Which one is Delta Igbo again? Igbo is Igbo abeg! Stop this unnecessary discrimination

[quote author=HgsMediaPlus post=132582589][/quote]I’m sure the baby is a girl, girls and their Dads na 5 and 6

[quote author=WithinCity post=132453284]Pastor Shyngle Wigwe Revises Request for Late Son's Estate Amidst Public Outcry


https://globalexcellenceonline.com/pastor-shyngle-wigwe-revises-request-for-late-sons-estate-amidst-public-outcry/
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It’s a taboo for a parent to outlive their children. And now struggling for the son’s wealth says a lot already

fergie001:
SOURCE

It won’t have impact

sarrki:
https://www.facebook.com/share/p/4MHcgFZg4ZjWygRm/?mibextid=qi2Omg

If Reno doesn’t mention anything Igbo, then he hasn’t spoken. Always using hate to get attention. Tueeh!