hi nairalanders, ive dated this girl for close to 8yrs now, and when i ask her to marry me, the condition she gave me is that i should leave my parent house where there is enough space for me n her, when i refuse she decided she want to quit. Dont knw what her intention is. Advice pls

You wan marry person put for your papa house?
Dude.....

I think it's highly shameful that you think it's even think-able to want to marry a woman into your father's house.

"Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother... "

If that verse is not in your own version of the Bible you read, Tear that Bible

festusfeezy:
hi nairalanders, ive dated this girl for close to 8yrs now, and when i ask her to marry me, the condition she gave me is that i should leave my parent house where there is enough space for me n her, when i refuse she decided she want to quit. Dont knw what her intention is. Advice pls

apparently u ain't ripe for marraige yet

f*ck out of ur comfort zone u pr*ck! i left my parent house wen i was 18

Dear op,

Please don't mind all the posters above me... Don't let anyone pressurize you into leaving your father's house... After all Abraham was 75years old when he left his father's house...

Here are 3 vital reasons why you must not move out of your parents' house:

1- Since your parents are just a door away, you can always jump into their room and seek sex advice, if you and your wife are confused as to what banging position to adopt

2- You and your wife will learn the art of quiet lovemaking, because you don't want your mummy next-door, to be aroused by your sexual 'ringtones'.... Please note that this talent will really help you both later in life, especially when you really need to fu*k your wife in a fully loaded BRT bus...

3- If you leave your father's house, all those your 'wicked' siblings might want to take over your inheritance. ... Don't leave anything to chance, bring your wife in so that she can also help you keep an eye on your inheritance.

I WISH YOU AND YOUR WIFE A GREAT FU*K ON YOUR PARENTS' MATRIMONIAL BED!!

ANUOFIA!!!!

when i ve d comfort i needed in my parrent house, moreover is my fathers house not mine. Am not staying there forever. Just for a period of time so as to get mine

eyah!!!!! it seems you are still a boy so please grow up.



but wait o, so you wan marry wife go keep for your parent house make them ( especially your mother) go dey monitor how much you give am to Cook food abi. smh

The most annoying thing about these yabaleft escapees is that they come straightdown to nairaland and continue from where they left off......

festusfeezy:
hi nairalanders, ive dated this girl for close to 8yrs now, and when i ask her to marry me, the condition she gave me is that i should leave my parent house where there is enough space for me n her, when i refuse she decided she want to quit. Dont knw what her intention is. Advice pls

She's soo right! She wants you to be independent.
What she asked for is not bad @all.

festusfeezy:
when i ve d comfort i needed in my parrent house, moreover is my fathers house not mine. Am not staying there forever. Just for a period of time so as to get mine

How long will it take to get your own place?

pretydamsel1:
eyah!!!!! it seems you are still a boy so please grow up.



but wait o, so you wan marry wife go keep for your parent house make them ( especially your mother) go dey monitor how much you give am to Cook food abi. smh

so u be one of those kinda little brain girls aa u better grow up

rawpadgin:
apparently u ain't ripe for marraige yet

f*ck out of ur comfort zone u pr*ck! i left my parent house wen i was 18

hmmm, i left when i was 10 :-/

Oluwatosean:
hmmm, i left when i was 10 :-/

eyah, so ur parent gave u out for adoption?

festusfeezy:
eyah, so ur parent gave u out for adoption?

you don chop so? I said i left nt they gave me out

InZA:
I think it's highly shameful that you think it's even think-able to want to marry a woman into your father's house.

"Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother... "

If that verse is not in your own version of the Bible you read, Tear that Bible

He is atheist even if he is a Christian he will turn blind eye when he see the verse

Icekeeng:
The most annoying thing about these yabaleft escapees is that they come straightdown to nairaland and continue from where they left off......

It seems like they share internet enable phones inside the yabaleft

Oluwatosean:
hmmm, i left when i was 10 :-/

perhaps u were more disastrous than the home alone kid, hence ur parent chased u out

festusfeezy:
so u be one of those kinda little brain girls aa u better grow up

I think you are the one to grow up here not me

Even if there are 100 rooms in your father's house...you still need to get your own house and live your life

Op you are not making sense

festusfeezy:
when i ve d comfort i needed in my parrent house, moreover is my fathers house not mine. Am not staying there forever. Just for a period of time so as to get mine

How long will that be? Dating for 8years? When will the marriage start ? Long courtship /dating is not the best for several reasons. I don't subscribe to that it is extremely too much and waste of time very soon you will find fault to dump her .Until you leave your father's house you re not yet a MAN.

pretydamsel1:
eyah!!!!! it seems you are still a boy so please grow up.



but wait o, so you wan marry wife go keep for your parent house make them ( especially your mother) go dey monitor how much you give am to Cook food abi. smh

1000likes

Icekeeng:
The most annoying thing about these yabaleft escapees is that they come straightdown to nairaland and continue from where they left off......

laughing so hard
guy, you funny

Tinubu:
Dear op,

Please don't mind all the posters above me... Don't let anyone pressurize you into leaving your father's house... After all Abraham was 75years old when he left his father's house...

Here are 3 vital reasons why you must not move out of your parents' house:

1- Since your parents are just a door away, you can always jump into their room and seek sex advice, if you and your wife are confused as to what banging position to adopt

2- You and your wife will learn the art of quiet lovemaking, because you don't want your mummy next-door, to be aroused by your sexual 'ringtones'.... Please note that this talent will really help you both later in life, especially when you really need to fu*k your wife in a fully loaded BRT bus...

3- If you leave your father's house, all those your 'wicked' siblings might want to take over your inheritance. ... Don't leave anything to chance, bring your wife in so that she can also help you keep an eye on your inheritance.

I WISH YOU AND YOUR WIFE A GREAT FU*K ON YOUR PARENTS' MATRIMONIAL BED!!

ANUOFIA!!!!

the best advice so far ive seen, d only nairaland bushmeat, tank u

Wah if he is d only Child
Wah if his parents are not dah strong nd need sm1 to take of dem

A reasonable girl will see reasons with u ..d money u wuld use to rent an apartment ..save it ..get a Land nd Build ur own hause ...acquire investments ...Jez make her see reasons with U

Honestly you are not ready to marry. The condition she gave you for starting life is fair to both of you its you being selfish here unless of course you cannot afford it.

festusfeezy:
hi nairalanders, ive dated this girl for close to 8yrs now, and when i ask her to marry me, the condition she gave me is that i should leave my parent house where there is enough space for me n her, when i refuse she decided she want to quit. Dont knw what her intention is. Advice pls

Hello. I want to post your story to our facebook page. On facebook search for Nigerian Papalette. But i need your permission first.

Even if you are the only son, my guy, please move out. Do you want your home to be heavily influenced by your parents and siblings?

I CANT marry a guy and move into his parents' home where he's live all his life.... family house


that's lubbish! God forbid bad thing.. I will do the same thing she did if in her shoes (which I can't be).. can't date irresponsible guys in the first place.

for you to even think of such sickening!!

festusfeezy:
when i ve d comfort i needed in my parrent house, moreover is my fathers house not mine. Am not staying there forever. Just for a period of time so as to get mine

a man with this kind of mindset
God make I no jam am o..


sign of 'enemy of progress' husbands.
this one is not staying there for a period of time..he's staying for long! as far as the bold stands.. family house!! never!
he doesn't have any reason. he's just a lazy man!

Yoruba call his type - agboju legu

apparentlylaw:
Wah if he is d only Child
Wah if his parents are not dah strong nd need sm1 to take of dem

A reasonable girl will see reasons with u ..d money u wuld use to rent an apartment ..save it ..get a Land nd Build ur own hause ..acquire investments ...Jez make her see reasons with U

and what if he's the only child does moving out stop him from being their son?!
and what if they are weak can't they get a young child to stay with them I believe the op is a working class man leaves home between 8am-6pm.. who takes care of the weak parents during those hours? what difference will it make if he leaves his parents house to stand on his own and check in on them

your no1 n 2. reasons are flawed and rubbished by the bold.. won't he eventually leave his father's house when he builds his? abi he will build his own house IN his father's house

there's nothing reasonable about your reasons that will make any reasonable girl reason with him!

the op in fact displays signs of irresponsibility and laziness!

when i ve d comfort i needed in my parrent
house, moreover is my fathers house not mine.
Am not staying there forever. Just for a period of
time so as to get

this one no mind to marry, born and breed pikin for hin papa house as long as his father's house is his own house! according to him!!

chai! this one doesn't have any reason or housing plans that any girl can reason with!