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acidosisTM: sigh..

I want to believe you,

Lol, cos deep down you know it's true

acidosisTM: Well, we tend to argue based on our experience. I've come to realize NO WOMAN is ready to commit herself to 1 MAN; hence it would be somewhat senseless for a guy to give ALL the attention to 1 woman.

Let me even ask you; please do you know any woman who is 100% faithful? I'm not talking about those forming faithful with bf; at the same time wierd on nl/fb/whatsapp/bbm/gmail.

The dude should simply do what people do. Roll with girls, scrutinize them, and pick 1 (the best) out of the multitude whenever he's ready to settle down.

Even if I can't vouch for anybody else, I'll vouch for myself oh, my mother raised me properly. But like I said earlier, there are good women(yes plural) that will be 100% faithful and dey are not even remotely related to Mary. Anyways, it's not something to argue about, it's just my opinion

And OP, such women are not attracted by riches, so he better have something other than his money to speak for him. Does he have a good character? Is he humble? Will he make a good husband and father? A reasonable young woman will also want such in a man

acidosisTM: Dating older women isn't bad, but as you rightly said, most of them don fire, tire and re-tire, so they tend to be more accomodating & easy-going.

The younger ones are not serious. My advice is: tell your friend to run 3 girls concurrently, that way, he'll monitor, track and put the girls to test.

Do not be surprised, that's what most girls do, so tell him to play safe.

Good luck sir.

Guy, no offense but I don't agree with the bolded.

First of all, not all young girls are unserious. Yes, the world don spoil, most of their eyes don tear finish, but there are good young women out there no doubt. However, it's like looking for a needle in a haystack but then nothing good comes easy.

Secondly, you are asking him to juggle three women just so he can observe them? E no gel at all. What if he's not that kind of guy? What if he actually finds a good woman and then ends of messing it up cause he's too busy juggling.

Finally, OP there is no hard and fast rule as to where or how your friend can find a good woman, but if he has any sort of connection with God, it wouldn't hurt to ask. You also said he's young so he has some time on his hands, there is no need for him to rush his search, or to rush into anything with anybody(I say this from experience and I believe he's had enough of that. So except he has a genuine reason to hurriedly get married, I suggest he take his time, like someone said earlier, shine his eyes and ultimately use his kafa.

Kessleek: The bolded (that ain't true)

I'm open to hearing the truth, but I don't see any improvement since the iphone4

Most of us love designer/brand names because they are or used to be about quality and of course status. The iPhone had that at some point, it had quality, status, it was unique, and it had that pizzazz. Who didn't want to own an iPhone back then?

But I think they got carried away with the glamour and left the quality behind because they knew that people would still queue and camp outside their stores no matter what they put out there.

Opiosko: Nitewalker ke? I am the night owl itself.

Lol, u deserve it. I had already slept off when you wrote this

krall: This issue has been bothering me too.

They all just come, take what they want and go.

I now enter public transport most of the time.

Bros why na, did they take your car too?

Hello nitewalkers

sommyblaze: Sleep, aint my thing

Really, I love sleep sha, I can sleep ten hours straight.

The one in blue trousers looks like Shekau oh, with pacs sef, abi na him ribs be that?

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sheunfemix: dude I dint say anything I just chose to quote one of the words u said in ur sentence. Kk I'll quote anoda one 'why' . Now whose mind is 'dutty'

Lmao, unserious pesin. Point of correction, it's dudette.

sheunfemix: 'enter'

It's not that kind of enter jor, dutty mind

lomprico: U whey don fork tire!

Na wa oh, why all of una dey enter this girl na

xtervaganza: no make me laugh abeg



I swear u don chop prick die

And you can tell by the way she crossed her legs in her prof pic abi? Unless you've personally 'fed' her with yours adonbilifyu

Commit a crime and post pictures online, the witches in this guys village don use him picture wrap corn.

voodoo85: what can i say... yes u r rite am asian. profile pic defines that

Oh sorry, I didn't even look at your profile, my bad.

voodoo85: how everyone wants to see copy paste. according to many people who commented on this thread, everyone must be the same. doesn't work like that my dearest. virginity is pride and so on. for yes, for somebody else not. what did you understand about it when you was 10? nothing. what you can tell people who choose not to marry? people who live years and years in civil partnership but strongly believe in god? never have sex? we all different, different personalities. why everybody has to belong to one clan of sheep? if you were brainwashed by religion its ok. i wasn't, but still have my morality, understanding how to be a good and descent person. so its nothing to do with god. its your decisions. maybe loosing virginity is sin but who are you to judge me or her or any other person??

No offence, I don't mean this as an insult but are you Asian? This ur English get as e be, I'm still struggling to understand some parts of it

Guys calm down oh, the OP is not saying girls shouldn't keep their virginity. She's saying she kept hers because she took a vow at a very young age which she ended up regretting. It's obvious at that age she had no clue as to the import of the vow and she would have taken another road if she did or if she had been older. But the Koko wey she dey talk be say, if you want to keep your virginity, keep it because you want to, not because of your religion or what your church requires of you. And of course that is her opinion, she doesn't need to be crucified for it. What is good for Peter may not be great for Paul, shikena

Please don't tell me you actually believe this OP?