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Of course we both know the boy will be of age nau. It's just an hypothesis:

'James' - your 27 year old son - asks for your advice on whether he should go ahead and marry a baby mama of 4. Even if we both know you can't force your decision down his throat, you'll most definitely advice against such move

Samantha125:
His life, his choice... He'd have been old enough to make his own decisions... Why would I be interfering in my children's love lives when my parents wouldn't have interfered in mine?

It's the man's lack of discretion.
If they knew better they won't fall into that rabbit hole.

Samantha125:
Yet, some of your mothers remarried with you guys... 😂😂😂

We see your threads on this forum all the time.

You didn't answer my question; "will you advise ALLOW your most cherished son to marry a baby mama??"
Scratch that ^^^, we both know the answer!

Who are you referring to? The divorced men living 'single' lives or the divorced women (burdened) with child/children??

Gazzilion women will still rush a divorced man with multiple kids; can we say the same thing if the roles reversed?? Can you advise your cherished son to marry a baby mama/divorced woman with kids??

The earlier women start to realize that the scales are not balanced after divorce, the better for everyone - especially themselves!

Samantha125:
Those divorcees will still remarry.

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Lets stop deceiving ourselves Biko.
Even in the 'saner climes', how many of their infantry troops are female??

Izit these ones that will wake the whole neighborhood at the sight of a cockroach that any serious nation will depend on??

Since you've been seeing soldiers at the warfront in modern times, how many of them have been females

Don't let them use their clout chasing, social media validation-seeking pixes cajole u abeg.

naptu2:
And yet threads about the deployment of female security operatives to mission theaters have been created on Nairaland. Stories of captured female troops have also been created on Nairaland.

Why do so many people like to create threads and make definite statements that are based on complete ignorance??

Female Nigerian Soldier Praying With Her Rifle At The Battlefield. Photo
https://www.nairaland.com/4748497/female-nigerian-soldier-praying-rifle

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While the men are getting their azzes blown off in the danger.zones, these ones are posing with rifles!
Odimma.

Lets stop deceiving ourselves Biko.
Even in the 'saner climes', how many of their infantry troops are female??

Izit these ones that will wake the whole neighborhood at the sight of a cockroach that any serious nation will depend on??

Since you've been seeing soldiers at the warfront in modern times, how many of them have been females

Don't let them use their clout chasing, social media validation-seeking pixes cajole u abeg.

naptu2:
And yet threads about the deployment of female security operatives to mission theaters have been created on Nairaland. Stories of captured female troops have also been created on Nairaland.

Why do so many people like to create threads and make definite statements that are based on complete ignorance??

Female Nigerian Soldier Praying With Her Rifle At The Battlefield. Photo
https://www.nairaland.com/4748497/female-nigerian-soldier-praying-rifle

While the men are getting their azzes blown off in the danger.zones, these ones are posing with rifles!
Odimma.

In other words, as you lay your bed so you lie on it. There's reward for everything: both loyalty and betrayal.

Only ingrates will be angry at the rewards of loyalty!

dam2000:
Anything we do today we should always remember tomorrow

East or west, north or south, home remains the best!

God Bless Nigeria!

Ppl see what they intend seeing.
In the last FCT election with over 90% success rate, ppl chose to focus on the few failures - the outliers - to rubbish the whole process.

'Nigerians' were calling trump to invade (note: not collaborate o), to INVADE nigeria. When they saw that their aim wasn't coming to pass, they began to chastise fg for opening it's doors to 'foreign intervention'.

If otti does 99% of avian roads, the 'journalists' won't mind tagging him a failure for that 1% he didn't do.

Everybody with their agenda!

fergie001:
Funny enough, he has done well.

The question was valid but the response: condemnable.

68 (69 this year) year old man??
Hallo??

Compare your father's age at 50 and at 70, are they d same??

mohbadliveson:
EFCC Arraigns Mike Ozekhome for Alleged Forgery

The Economic and Financial Crimes Commission, EFCC, on Friday, February 27, 2026 arraigned Chief Mike Agbedor Abu Ozekhome, SAN, Ponfa Useni and General Jeremiah Useni (now deceased) before Justice C.N. Oji. Of the Federal Capital Territory, FCT, High Court, Maitama, Abuja over alleged forgery of documents and International Passport to facilitate the ownership of a property in the United Kingdom.

They were arraigned on a 12- count amended charge bordering on conspiracy, forgery, impersonation and false pretense.

At Friday`s proceedings, prosecution counsel, Rotimi Oyedepo, SAN drew the attention of the court to a 12 -count amended charge dated February 25, 2026, urging the court to substitute it in place of the initial original charge dated February 24, 2026.

“ My lord, I also want to draw your attention to the proof of evidence filed alongside the documents marked page 1 to 501, that your lordship will accept the amended charge alongside the proof of evidence. We rely on them that your lordship will cause the defendants to take their pleas,” he said

Count one of the charge reads; “That you, Chief Mike Agbedor Abu Ozekhome, SAN, Ponfa Useni, and General Jeremiah Useni (now deceased), sometime in the year 2020 in Abuja within the jurisdiction of this Honourable Court, agreed amongst yourselves to cause to be done an illegal act, to wit: making a false Nigerian International Passport No.A07535463 with the name, Tali Shani, and purported same to have been issued by the Nigeria Immigration Service with the intent of using same to support your claim of ownership of the property known as No. 79, Randall Avenue, London NW2, United Kingdom, and you thereby committed an offence contrary to Section 96(1) of the Penal Code Act, Cap. 532 Laws of the Federal Capital Territory 2006 and punishable under Section 364 of the same Act.

Count three of the charge reads; “That you, Chief Mike Agbedor Abu Ozekhome, SAN, Ponfa Useni, and General Jeremiah Useni (now deceased), sometime in 2022 in Abuja within the jurisdiction of this Honourable Court, conspired amongst yourselves to use as genuine, a false Nigerian International Passport No.A07535463 with the name Tali Shani to facilitate your claim of ownership of the property known as No. 79, Randall Avenue, London NW2, United Kingdom, and you thereby committed an offence contrary to Section 96 of the Penal Code Act, Cap. 532 Laws of the Federal Capital Territory 2006 and punishable under Section 364 of the same Act.”

The defendants pleaded not guilty to all the charges when read to them.

In view of this, the prosecution counsel stated that their no guilty plea has put them up for trial, making reference to Section 273 of the Administration of Criminal Justice System.

“My lord, a lot are at stake in this proceedings, in the interest of the society, that of the defence and that of the legal profession, as such we will be urging your lordship that this matter, with the cooperation of the defence be granted or accord priority to the hearing and determination of this matter, I mean accelerated hearing. In that case, we will be asking for a very short trial day to enable the defendant to show cause in good faith and the prosecution prepare and be ready for the trial. We have been served with the two different applications for bail, which we won’t be opposing, so we will be urging your lordship that this matter be determined on time”, he said

Responding, counsel to the first defendant, Tayo Oyetibo, SAN commended the attitude of the prosecution for not opposing the application of bail, assuring him that they will cooperate in line with the accelerated determination of the matter. He further requested that the defendant be granted bail on self-recognition, stating that his client is a Senior Advocate of Nigeria with over 45years legal experience who resides in Abuja who is also known by the Attorney General of the Federation.

In the same vein, counsel to the second defendant, Onoja, SAN also appreciated the prosecution for not opposing bail. Stating that the second defendant is a humble man and his spouse is also a member of the bar. Adding that his client has a very dangerous heart condition which was the reason why the EFCC granted him Administrative bail on very liberal terms.

“My short application is that he should be released to his wife in the same manner. I urge your lordship that you make the bail condition to be one surety who should be his spouse” he said

Justice Oji granted the defendants bail in the sum of N10,000,000( Ten Million Naira) each with one reasonable surety who must have a property in Abuja. She also ordered that their passports be domiciled in court custody. She further stated that the matter will be granted accelerated hearing.

The matter was adjourned to March 13, 2026, April 15,16, 2026 for trial.

So, what will u now say for a (just 58 year old) wike then??

Your case is like someone who is (already) in the rain without an umbrella. In trying to 'prove' to onlookers that he isn't wet, begins to pour buckets of water on himself.

Post upon post, you keep busting your own bubbles. In efforts to show that mba wasn't fast tracked, your explanations/'evidences' keep saying the contrary.

It is well!

mrvitalis:
Lmaooo you don't know promotion can get by years or courses and degree attended??

You are missing the point by 19 miles.
Which of the politicians can you vouch for that doesn't have one form of skeleton or the other in their cupboard?

The bottom line is that you move ONLY YIUR LOYALISTS within your innermost chamber, not enemies nor flip-floppers.

Even the SINLESS Son of God that brought Judas iscariot within his inner circle, we all saw how it ended, how much more mere mortals.

olabrad:
Maybe Tunde has also helped tinubu to cover up a couple of crimes. And he is using appointment to pay him for a job well done

And what led him to the gallows if I may ask bikonu?? (Sustained) loyalty or the opposite??

Nor be the starting matter but the end!
Judas ate and performed miracles alongside his Master, but see where betrayal led him

You can't be my friend yesterday and turn my fiery enemy today and still expect me not to look at you with (bombastic) side-eye nau.

Arostar2023:
Na so! What of one Mallam Wey de prison now?

Kalulu44:
Just as he ride and die with El Rufai

Like him or love him, he's a man who values loyalty more than anything else.
That was why I chuckled when some ppl said he would throw wike Under the bus simply because fubara decamped to apc.

Jagaban na the perfect definition of 'ride or die' partner!

Melezenawii:
The then Governor Bola Ahmed Tinubu (Now President)of Lagos State and his own ADC Tunji Disu( Now IGP)

The then Governor Bola Ahmed Tinubu of Lagos State and his own ADC Tunji Disu..... pic.twitter.com/PjCfPh9VpG

— Ayekooto (@DeeOneAyekooto) February 25, 2026

If he's called to come and prove/tender evidence of govt's culpability now, it will suddenly turn to a case of 'victimization'.

And d other DIG colleagues -in d same boat - are incompetent and unintelligent??

onyxo76:
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quite agree, anyone who has encountered Mba either directly or indirectly in the past will attest to his competence and work ethics, very intelligent Officer.

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I can't blame a politician of his status.
You give sensitive posts like that only to ppl you can trust!

owobokiri:
All these well trained officers sacked overnight just because one rudderless El Yekini wants to make his former bodyguard the Inspector General of Police in Nigeria! He made one of his former ADCs The Oniru of Lagos. That one struttles around Lagos overdressed like Othman Dan fodio. Now, this one. Even the just sacked IGP was connected to his days as the Lagos governor. If this is not corruption in it's crudest form, I wonder what it is..

This dangerous trend which was started by the APC is simply dangerous to the system. It does nothing but violence to merit! The idea that a whole generation of seasoned officers can easily be decapitated in one swoop by a flawed presidency, all in a bid to foist the presidents ethnic henchman as the Commanding Officer, must be generally demoralising for officers across the Army and the Police..

shortgun:
This is nothing but unadulterated tribal bigotry.
You left the next in rank and appointed his junior as IG.
This is exactly how to destroy a country completely

I can't blame a politician of his status.
You give sensitive posts like that only to ppl you can trust!

Unfortunately for igbós, the power has to trickle down to them thru the northerners - after they've done their 8 terms.
But with the unhidden hatred for other nigerians and especially the northerners, how this (transfer of power from northerners to easterners) will happen is still a mystery.

floss:
Asari Dokubo of Igbo land by cho cho cho has spoken

Who dash monkey banana

Igbo presidency is only possible in Biafra republic, not in Nigeria…. If you like go to the north let them turban you, nothing for you ask Amaechi how far

If you like go and do do dobale for Tinubu from now till tomorrow, nothing for you…

The only way you can be president in generator republic is do it Tinubu style

SNATCH IT, YOU GRAB IT AND RUN WITH IT ….

Then you can steer the country whatever way you want

It's called 'gaslighting'.
It doesn't need to make sense; Just say it to deflect blame!
Dassol!

louqas:
only igbos believe a coup carried out by mainly igbo officers that didn't kill any igbo military or political leaders is meant to make a Yoruba man president. Even Awo doesn't

How it makes sense to y'all need to be studied

A coup organized and executed majorly by ibó officers which kpaid both military and political leaders of other regions apart from theirs was done because of the same ppl they kpaid??

Hmmmmm.......


But let's come to think of it o, if the tables were turned, and Yoruba/hausa officers kpaid only ibó military and political office holders but spared theirs, would it have made sense to say it wasn't a Yoruba/hausa coup because they wanted to give power to ibós - the same ppl who bore the brunt of the coup?

Juss asking!

Igbophobia:
Igbo coup to make Awololo prime minister ba?

When will diswan ever learn biko??
You that wike picked from the gutters over princes is talking about 'strength/weakness'.

When your godfather was twisting rivers state constitution for you, you didn't remember the supremacy of d same constitution that time abi??

My ppl talk say "the person wey big pass you fit trowey you"!

The amazing thing is that they have ALWAYS been like this right from the beginning of time, nor be today e start!
It's just that the social media has helped to exposed their schenanigans to the average naive male.

tesseract:
A woman's inability to run a swot analysis on her intended actions always results in regrets and in most cases "a dog going back to its vomit".

There is an actual disconnect between reality and fantasy when it comes to female reasoning.

It is a woman that will leave a man for cheating on her in marriage, then go ahead to help another man cheat on his own wife in their own marriage...

Very confused set of species...

Except through divine intervention, their chances of returning alive - talkless of returning with disabilities- is as good as zero!

A nigerian proverb says "na another man pikin we dey send message for midnight".
They are as good as guinea pigs. Was it not the other day that the photo of a Kenyan soldier with a mine tied across his neck by his russian colleagues surfaced??

Those mercineries - especially the africans amongst them - are (seen as) expendibles!

https://www.nairaland.com/8598480/russian-army-forces-african-recruits

maasoap:
Thank you. They're signing up for enlistment willingly because of the rewards thinking that they would make it back to the alive. What if they even make it back alive but with permanent disability?



I don't even understand this mentality of getting rich or die trying among African young men and women. It's sickening

Nwoke, rest biko.
Your grievance against nigeria and other tribes has contaminated your reasoning.

We are talking 'A' you've linked it to 'Q'

anonimi:
How many of Nigeria’s 200 million people can earn such an amount, only to live in a smelly, disgraceful, detty, waterless place like Tinubu’s Lagos


https://www.instagram.com/reel/DUp-gFgikre/?igsh=aWV2NHNucDgxZXN6

Money wey peller dey make under 2 minutes.
Baba God Abeg o!

Ghaliz:
This is Ukranian propaganda, No Nigerian is fighting unwittingly for Russia, they did it for a $50K signing bonus and $5k monthly pay. It is unfortunate but such is the life of a soldier.

Ukraine meanwhile is deliberating on Press ganging foreigners living in Ukraine a big portion of them Nigerians studying there before the war into compulsory military service.

It is a bunch of brothers being used to contain each other at the behest of a foreign hostile power, it is an entire generation of Slavic men fertilising the Steppes of Donbas. That being said Africans stay home it's not get rich or die trying.

Just like you too are a northern muslim, right??
Both of u should be deceiving yourselves and your fellow obidients.

SadiqBabaSani:
Aminda I don't know you personally, but I believe that you are a moderate Muslim, the wickedness of this northern guys should stop

Precisely.
But if u want use agidi dey claim 'right' dem go show u premium shege!

Court Cases against govt na like land case - e fit last multiple generations. It's even worse sef onto say if the govt wey u get case with don vacate the seat of power, na O.Y.O d person dey.

QuinQ:
If you kick back some of the money to insiders, govt will pay

Has he been paid??
There's difference btw winning in court and being paid.

I can bet it that your uncle is yet to be paid,.......and won't be paid!

Those that did contract job for govt sef, how many of them have gotten their money, talkless of the ones wey carry govt go court!

Arabk25:
My uncle sued Delta state government under Okowa's leadership and got 1.5bn as compasation for damages for demolishing his plaza illegally wort millions of naira

Ndigbos ehn, una be special case.
For 4 years and counting that ippobs have been putting alaiggbo on lockdown every Monday, how many of spoke up/sued ipobb??

Now that you have a sane iggbo son trying to free una from self-imposed bondage, una dey sue am to court.

nnadychuks:
We’re not at war. This isn’t a situation where you force someone to take up arms and defend their country. You can’t close down a market because traders exempt Monday from their days of work.
Thats a very wrong move by the governor.
We indeed have no law, no right and no freedom whatsoever…

But Nigerians are quick to adapt. If it’s difficult now, instead of finding a permanent solution, we’ll rather adapt to easier alternatives.

If government Close down the market for a week who do you think loses more, the government or the people?

@underlined: has ippobs not been locking these same markets every Monday for the past 4 years??
Ndiggbos sef.