₦airaland Forum

Mindlog:
Remember the [b]N500k is not even the minimum wage inNigeria. it is N70K

So do the comparison with 7 times of US minimum wage.

Mindlog:
You are not rich, rather you just above those struggling with abject poverty.

Can I get nice and safe accommodation with it?
Can it get me 24/7 electricity?
Can it cover my travelling for vacation?
Can I afford to eat whatever I want?
Can I buy and drive a nice car with it?
Can I meet my health emergency needs?

LordBiden:
That's not true,with 500k salary in Nigeria you are rich.

How many people even earn up to 500k in a country where minimum wage is 70k

press9jatv:
When I tell people that Fubara even put up a fight but mugus will be telling me he is a weakling, weak man is a man that never put up a fight

ddippset:
Any reasonable Nigerian would have hate in their heart for the ruling class.

If you don't have hate for our ruling class, then you're the ignorant one!.

ddippset:
Now I support Okpebolo for all the disrespect he dished on that fat short shapeless Governor.

He's nothing but an opportunist,,, a shameless shapeless ugly illiterate being.

ddippset:
What people like you need is a bit more education so you could decipher context in writing and speaking.
Any normal person with sense would understand that no one would agree with Okpebolo..
Besides I have not hidden the fact that Adeleke/b] is not our messiah, he [b]is at best a lesser evil.

Many like me don't love Adeleke because we all know he went earlier to beg Tinubu, trying to join APC.
Many of us only aligned with him because we see him as a lesser evil to people like Tinubu and Wike.

I hope you can somehow understand this post.

ddippset:
Now I support Okpebolo for all the disrespect he dished on that fat short shapeless Governor.

You claim your people were arrested and taken to Abuja, your people were killed..
And then here you go, embracing and supporting the people who hold the powers which was used against you...

Sowore was 1 million percent right about this man.

He's nothing but an opportunist,,, a shameless shapeless ugly illiterate being.

EponObi:
Lol... People keep failing to understand politics.

Why did Davido fold, remove his cap, then prostrate when he boosted to the same Wike that he defeated "them", and Wike challenged him with "you defeated us abi?" Did you notice Davido's body language? He was like "na play I dey play ooo"

Evaress:
It feels like the people who are drawn to me aren’t the ones I’m drawn to. I don’t feel a connection, and I can’t fake it.

Meanwhile, the people I genuinely like don’t seem to feel the same way about me.

Then I get blamed for being single, like I’m the problem for saying no.

But should I force feelings that aren’t there? I’ve tried, and it doesn’t work.

I just wish it was easier to find someone who feels the same way I do.

I want the feelings to be mutual on both sides not one-sided love.

I don't even need the man to be as handsome as brad pitt or as rich as Elon musk. There is this certain type of appeal that i find attractive in a Guy which most guys don't have.

morpheus24:
We are one Nigeria whether you like am or you no like am.
Until then na Nigerian passport you dey carry for pocket.
Malaysian man no send, all dem no na Nigeria.

morpheus24:
We are all Nigerians so one person's shame is everybody's shame outside Nigeria.

Whether we like am or we no like am.

morpheus24:
Stop running away from what is glaringly the fact. Bearing a name that is not your own is "sinister" in of itself whether it be Igbo or Yoruba.

morpheus24:
This is very strange as I have seen an Adeyemi Adesanya turn into Abdulrahim Quadri Abdulsalam on his way to Dubai.

Why are you complaining only about Igbo's

seppuku:
What do you mean where he is truly from. His nationality is Nigeria. No one outside Nigeria cares what ethnicity he is except for tribalists.

Is Nigerian running a confederacy?

dettolgel:
So you dont have the right to pick your name. I have cousins that dropped their father's name and chose unrelated names.

Hezmatosky210:
Your name sef is the thing working against you. Sorry to say o. In nigeria, these two tribes are fighting themselves, whether in marriage, politics, inside danfo, market, bustop, news paper shops, they can never agree. Now, how do you think you can move forward with the two names. Am not igbo, I am a real Asaba man.
Yours faithfully

OverCalculating:
Ladies, let’s be real for a minute. We can still love a man and lose respect for him at the same time. And when respect dies, love starts struggling to survive. It’s not always dramatic. Sometimes it’s eye-rolls, cancelled plans, or the way we stop asking his opinion.

I’m writing this not to bash women, but to help men see the signs early before things break beyond repair. Here are ten signs your woman has lost respect for you from the opposite sex.

1. In public, she tries to control you.

She may humiliate you by giving you commands or berating you in public, thinking you'll just put up with it.

2. She ignores all of your requests, even the most basic ones.

She frequently brushes them off or tells you to take care of things on your own.

3. She discusses her ex-boyfriends without caring


She brings up former loves without taking your thoughts into account, demonstrating her lack of concern for your feelings.

4. She departs without informing you of her destination.


She acts careless or secretive about telling you where she is, and she doesn't tell you about her intentions.

5. Despite what she gives, she expects more from you.


She treats your efforts as though they are owed to her and continuously expects you to put up effort while providing little in return.

6. SHE BECOMES ABUSIVE

She might resort to harsh words or even physical aggression, displaying behavior that’s disrespectful and unfeminine.

7. She doesn't answer your calls or texts.


She shows a lack of concern for your feelings by taking her time or not bothering to respond to your messages.

8. She asks if you're a man.


She pushes your buttons to reveal your vulnerabilities and criticizes your skills or manhood in an attempt to make you feel insecure.

9. SOCIAL MEDIA IS MORE IMPORTANT TO HER FOR VALIDATION THAN YOU


ARE her lack of respect evident in the fact that she is more interested in getting attention from others online than in your love?

10. She doesn't care about intimacy

She seldom engages in the bedroom, exerting little effort as though she's simply waiting for it to be over.

Men, I hope this helps.

Sonnobax15:

Oga robosky ,abeg relax

If to say Messi know say na lamine yamal go later rubbish him career ,I know say Messi for kuku kill am for that omugwo

Exceed15:
If you have a wife who has bad mouth,don't beat her. Just send her back to the parent. There's nothing more shameful than this. And don't accept her back on time.

Hez143:
what your source

SeeWahala:
What else do you want us to say? 🤷🏽‍♂️

He has cried out that if the ruling party had their way they would kpai him long before the election 😔

lordm:
This what they could think of. So he would have preferred the kids stay in captivity to please himself

Omooba77:
Gbajabiamila should not be in this list.......

EmonOghenewoke:
By Oghenewoke Emonido
Nurse Assistant | Startimes Medical Centre, Benin City
BSc. Medical Microbiology & Parasitology | MSc. Clinical Biochemistry

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Every parent, caregiver, or even passerby fears this moment — a child suddenly gasping, silent, or struggling to breathe. It happens fast. No warning. No time to Google.

Choking is one of the leading causes of emergency situations in infants and young children. And the truth is simple:
👉 What you do in the first few seconds can determine whether that child survives.

This is not just medical knowledge — this is life-saving knowledge.

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## ⚠️ How Do You Know a Child Is Choking?

A choking infant may:
- Be unable to cry or make sound
- Struggle to breathe or gasp
- Turn blue (especially lips and face)
- Suddenly become limp or unconscious

If the child is coughing loudly, do NOT interfere yet — coughing is the body’s way of clearing the airway.

But if the child is silent and struggling, you must act immediately.

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## 👶 How To Help a Choking Infant (0–12 Months)

Stay calm. Panic wastes precious seconds.

### Step 1: Position the Baby
- Place the baby face down along your forearm
- Support the head and neck firmly
- Keep the head lower than the chest

### Step 2: Give 5 Back Blows
- Use the heel of your hand
- Deliver 5 firm blows between the shoulder blades

### Step 3: Turn and Give Chest Thrusts
- Turn the baby face-up
- Place two fingers in the center of the chest
- Push inward 5 quick chest thrusts

👉 Repeat the cycle: 5 back blows + 5 chest thrusts

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## 🚫 What You Should NEVER Do
- Do NOT shake the baby
- Do NOT blindly put your fingers in the mouth
- Do NOT delay action waiting for help

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## 🆘 If the Baby Becomes Unconscious
- Call for emergency help immediately
- Begin CPR (if trained)
- Continue until help arrives

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## 💡 Prevention Is Better Than Panic
Most choking cases can be prevented:
- Avoid giving small hard foods (nuts, popcorn, grapes without cutting)
- Keep small objects out of reach
- Always supervise feeding

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## ❤️ Why This Matters

As someone working closely with patients at Startimes Medical Centre in Benin City, I have seen how quickly situations can escalate — and how powerful quick action can be.

Many tragedies happen not because help wasn’t available, but because people didn’t know what to do.

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## 📢 Final Word

You don’t need to be a doctor to save a life.
You just need to know what to do — and act fast.

👉 Share this. Teach someone. Practice it.
Because one day, it might be your child… or someone else’s.

And on that day, knowledge could be the difference between life and loss

Samantha125:
Only if fathers of all age groups could start doing paternity DNAs...

How sure are you that you're your father's biological child right now?

Samantha125:
Of course not, I don't know why you're trying to project your ideologies on me...🤦🤦🤦

Many of you are not even your fathers' biological children, but you're here acting all holier than thou as if your mothers were saints.