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May God set this nation aright. Amen

Atiku again If pdp knows what they are doing, they should field someone welll acceptable

Sabadon:
Benin Republic nko🌚🌚🌚

Learn to read articles not just the headline

Apt.
A thorough investigation is needed honestly. So this can dissociate those who genuinely got their cert from same countries

Med after death.
Feigning ignorance of what we know they do best is dumb honestly

1200 naira?

Houseontherock1:
You guys are just bloody asslickers who are too scared to say the truth! I see no reason why a local refinery won't sell the product cheaper than the imported because the cost of transporting crude to and from overseas is out and dollar is minimally involved, if used at all in this local process! Now, if there's petrol coming from Lagos and Portharcourt, dependence on the imported product reduces and this should force down the demand and subsequently the price! So, I don't understand the economics behind your argument...

Leave the hate filled fellows.
The truth of the matter is wether now or later, this country , this land is ours. No one will fix our mess. Hate Wishing on our country won't make it better.


Nigeria will be great again. Am sure of that

Feintline:
That is because you have consumed loads of fairy tales and lies of tinubu and his miscreants

That's not the case. No be all of us silly. But no how we won't benefit from refining our fuel locally. The effect may not be much but we will sure save money and as a matter of fact money spent on importing refined crude will play a role in shaping the economy no matter how its

Something in me tells me something is wrong with his comment

Pele My dear.

The only issue I see here is ur inability to further on ur education. But others, my dear I can only said congratulations. What you are going thru now is a training which will surely be useful to you much later wen you start ur own family.

In our society, first born are saddled with loads of responsibilities but at the detriment of your self growth. Han Han I don't want it




By the way av sent you email. Try reply

Make sure you think it thru proper.
among the existence God love the most are orphans.
Make sure you av all in place to make the child's comfortable. Also make a vow to ur self upon having ur own family, there won't b discrimination.


Good luck

Your decisions to let go is the best for now. My advice to u is finish ur studies and focus on having a stable financial structure after then consider marriage.

If you miss any of the above, I swear you will end up becoming liability

BBIA:


72 virgins Alhamdulilah

Weyrey

Necessary! Anything Benin republic must b corrupt.

Supplied some events items to that countries for their presidential inauguration years back. I paid alot of money to their border police.

I saw lawlessness first hand. Getting back my items was very tideous as the items I supplied on rent was paid for to b purchased.

No one is safe. No matter how heavy your security can be.there will always be chances of glitches

Omo olalomi. ........portable u must love him.

madridguy:


We are the reflection of our politicians.. Infact, we masses are even corrupted than the politicians.

The genesis of Nigeria problem. We citizens are worst.

Why should our national defense matter relied on political decisions?


This practically means we are all under political bandage.

Our security should b allowed to function without too much political influence abeg.

This year no gree for anyone

E Don be oooo.
As if pdp losing presidential wasn't enuf he also loses out. 2023 wasn't a good year for kogi star boy at all

insidelife22:
Africa is cursed with bad leaders

Japan is cursed with earthquake and tsunamis.

Who elect the bad leaders?,

youngrichnigga:
Abandoned hostages, police and show off. They should do and take the man to the hospital

You are naive....you expect police who are actively engaging armed bandits to drop gun and attend to someone who was shot

Even if bullet hits one policeman the rest would need to force bandits to retreat or all of them will get killed while saddled with rescuing

Kinzo0917:
MUST YOU QUOTE THE WHOLE SYORY B4 YOU CAN COMMENT?

SOME OF YOU ARE SICK UPSTAIRS.




IF EVERY QUOTE THE WHOLE STORY, WILL YOU BE ABLE TO COMMENT?






RUBBISH

You are irrelevant joooo. I don't give a fvck

UnfairLife7:
is it also good for a man to have options?

Either way wats is bad is bad

UnfairLife7:
You're absolutely wrong with your assertion Both gender obviously has options. We chose to stick to a particular woman or man, treat him or her nicely and settle down afterwards. There're more than one man for a woman, likewise we men too, there are more than one woman for men. We only discipline ourselves on one particular person and get married to the person

The only thing you'd have said is that, since he chose that lady, he should be assured that the lady also chose her

Lol I hear you. Have toll this path severally. And it didn't end well. There is no point arguing. My response is borne of true life experience not some unnecessary emotions




Happy new year in advance

FanRong:
I'm sorry, this post is going to be a long one. But you're saving a soul if you read through and advice candidly.


My story
We've dated for 6months and we've lived together for the 6months.

On our 3rd month, I found her interesting and told her I'll like to marry her. She accepted but no engagement ring or anything to show. We just accepted by word of mouth.

Since then, I've worked towards it. I've told her to call her mum and eldest brother(dad is late) to relate my idea and understand their feeling since it won't be that easy to marry. (same state, but my people and her people are highly selective in marriage)

After several persuasion, and threat that I'll throw her out if she doesn't relate the circumstances to her family, she called the mum. And again I had to force her to call the eldest brother. She claimed she did. And that's enough. I'm ok.

Meanwhile, there's this guy(her ex) she claims helped her when she came to Lagos. It was when I started accommodating her that I found out in her chats that she was living with this guy, but lied to me she was living with her Aunt and the aunt's husband was harassing her sexually and she wants to leave. She later told me the guy, though provides for him but has never had sex with her, even when she was living in his house. These stories doesn't move me since everyone, who is not a virgin has an ex. So I forgave all that and we moved on.

She wasn't everything I need in a women, but I told myself I could train her the way I want. We continued adjusting to each others likes and dislikes.

I feed her this 6 months, provide comfortable shelter, buy her things she needs,(not want). Told her I'll do more and open a shop for her, if we get married, but she still confronts me asking why should I wait till after marriage? . I didn't allow the words move me cos Its my decision and my money and also, I'm used to gold diggers.

A good number of times, I see her as being selfish. If things doesn't benefit her, she'll not get bothered even if I'm involved.

Just this week, It became obvious to me that she argues everything I request her to do. From 24th Dec, we've been on holiday, we're always at home.
1. I'll wake her up at 9 and ask her to prepare breakfast for the family, she'll prefer to roll on the bed than do it. I'll finally have to do it myself so I can get things done and get busy.

2. I detest girls on eye lashes. I've repeatedly told her how I dislike it, but when she went to fix herself for the Christmas, she fixed the eyelashes, Contrary to my demand.

3. I got her some sneakers to upgrade her fashion style and look smarter, instead of the usual slippers and sandals she wears.
When we prepared to go to the beach few days ago, I requested her to put on the sneakers to look more fashionable, but she refused buttressing that she must wear what she wants, sandals.

4. Few days ago, we had a heated argument and she said that if I'm not happy that she's living with me, that she can go, afterall, she has somewhere to stay. I asked her to go and she immediately called that her ex bf to come to my house. I immediately swung into action, took all her belongings out, before the ex will arrive, at the same time, retrieving the items I gifted her.
While she was struggling to have her gifted items back, our neighbours heard the struggle and had to come and settle for us. She apologized and I forgave her. we were back into the house.

5. Just yesterday , we left home together, and I locked the door and I took the keys with me. We walked down the street together to the Busstop, I have almost no friend and seldomly greet. But there's this my ex girlfriend by the roadside, she saw me and yelled my name, I went to greet her and my Fiancée picked offence, left me without waiting for me. After that I chased her and told her it's nothing because I've told her everything about this ex.
Before we could get to the Busstop, she demanded for the house keys and I gave her since she might come back earlier than me.
We couldn't say bye. The anger was clear on her face and we parted ways.

After about 15mins, I got to where I wanted to make payment for the items I picked only to notice I am not with my transaction phone. I was confused where could I have kept it, the seller insisted I may not have come to his shop with the phone, and the phone rang as I called with my second phone. so I had to call my Fiancée for assistance since she's with the keys.
At first, she said she was still around the Busstop but when I told her I needed her to go home and confirm my phones whereabout, she said she can't go back that she has gone far, shouted on me and hung the phone.

I called and called and called, but she didn't pick. Many thoughts ran into me. Who took this phone? My money? , my phone? , my sim card? . I had to find my way and trekked back about 4km to the house since I had no cash with me. And finally saw the phone ringing in my house. I was relieved.

The way she shouted to me on the phone got me unbalanced, I felt she would be fire if I get this girl as a wife.

We finally traveled to our home state today and I paid the bills for the traveling. My major plan of traveling was to see her people and do the needful before I mistakenly get her pregnant. But I'm seriously contemplating of canceling this plan and throw her out come January. I need peace.

Dear nairalanders, I'm really in the middle of the deep blue sea and the devil.

I need mature and candid advice please.
Should I continue with the marriage plans or the redflags are obvious?

I quite understand how you feel but my honest advice pls don't try to marry a woman who always have an options.


If you can relate with me on phone will share similar experiences wit you. Calling card on me.


Just to widen your views

Truth is sanwo seems to careless about fixing roads in alimosho.

During fashola n ambode there are ways these two worked with then fg to fix most fg roads. But this new sheriff seems to ignore. Very bad

I want to say impressive but then until things start falling in line for the common man then all this will make meaning .


An hungry man careless about statistics or data just make life easy for us.

Knock out is a normal thing across the world. Everyone is in joyous mood and fire works seems to be an instrument to that happiness.

I have never took him serious anyway