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andromida: Missing him is normal, just don't make him into one special guy in your mind he he was an experience but remember the world is full of men who will really be into you and be what you desire.

Don't force yourself to forget him time will do that for you then you will meet your right match and you may not even remember his name again that's life. Be gentle with you and enjoy your life.

All the best.

thanks

andromida: Just say truth men who act like you are not ready for all the commitment thing. You still want to play the field and there is nothing wrong with it.

What is wrong is when a gyal starts trying to change the guy instead of recognizing that he is not for her, may never be ready and there are men who are for are and are ready to commit to her.

Princess666 he is just a friend flirting with you so treat him as he is even when he is asking you out or begging to come back, for him he is just testing how far he can get away with whatever.

i thought as much too but i tried giving room to see for my self. i have moved on jare. thank God i have nothing to loose ;except missing him

stinggy: no trophy dear, it's nature. and if we don't do, so many of you will be without bf

you men need GOD. loool

korres00: I hate it wen someone says "I luv yu" buh their actions says "I don't forkin care about yu"....we even, I broke up last week, and I suggest u do d same, and if e truly luvs u?? E will come prostrating..








































Thank me later

after you guys prostrate, you men will still go back to your vomit as if its sweet

GreyBlood: What was the content of your text?
Maybe you demanded for money or you were bordering him with so many things

Maybe you are not what he thought you were. I could remember meeting a very sweet and pretty lady in the airport during my I.T. She was smart and smooth just as I like them. We started going out.

I never know say as she come fine well well na so her wahala come plenty well well. She calls me for almost everything(she doesn't demand physical cash from me), I been dey happy to dey help her shaa. I was her hero. I never knw say nature gave her all dose beauties just to attract potential victims like myself.

All her calls/texts come with fresh problem upon say we still dey in d preliminary of our r/ship. Na so I suffer sotee I begin lose weight; I eat well but still grow tinny. Nobi person tell me to run and leave the girl o.

see me laughing... if she wasnt demanding cash, how then wash she making you get thin? looool

stinggy: but your own case is settled already. he moved on to woo the next in line

so what do you guys benefit from wooing lots of ladies? a trophy or what?

kagari: Like what someone said, he might be broke now or have a serious personal project, that keeps him to himself. I behave like that also coupled with the fact that iam not the calling type.
I totally undestand what you are going through cause same happened in my relationship not quite long, my girl called the shots and said it was over, i was sad and angry for she wanting to leave me at this difficult stage in my life. But pride wont let me plead. We broke communication for some weeks, she called inbetween but i do busy the calls. But after a month i called and apologised and she told me her anger with me is when things starts becoming rough 4 me i blackout everyone.
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So it might be same for your guy. You can call to know wtzup, it wont hurt sweetheart.

. Yea that's true. Am just getting fed up of having to call and find out. I rather loose him now than go far with an uncaring man.

Delightbaby: Some men became unserious once you agreed to date then unlike when they could go extra miles for them to woo you. You cherish what you value no matter how busy your schedule may seems to be. My candid advice is just for you to move on with your life. It might be that he has gotten someone else but just for him to have somebody to rest upon in case of any emergency/eventuality. GOD will give you a man that will love, cherish and be the one that will be sending texts and calling you every now and then

Amennnnnnn ooo

Baldmarv: y do you girls always think the guy should always be available, always create time always always...he might truly be busy or he doesn't want you to go too fast because you have some way to go before finishing sch...things progress fast if you stay in touch every minute...i do what he does when i don't want things progressing too fast...the guy might have the same philosophy!

. I wanted friendship, he wanted more. I accepted the more. He is behaving like a pig

adexsimply: you've decided he's not worth your mental ache?

yea maybe. Love no be by force. I only wanted trying if it would work. I gave room for disappointments

stinggy: He knows you're conquered already, he's busy chykin some other girls for now

conquered? How? Not like he has gotten anything from me

thanks so much for the advice. i think i will just focus on my life. he isnt worth my mental ache. would just treat him as a normal friend as you adviced me. if he reaches me back cool, if not then to hell with him. lesson: never date a man with the whole of your heart. thank God i did not, so it is easier to get over him.

hi. please i need anyone's sincere help in understanding this guy. i met him somewhere somehow in january and we became friends that enjoyed each other's company alot...we could not always see but we were close using chats and all. around june there was a mutual affection running...he wanted more...i liked him but i wasnt sure i loved him...so i refused because i wasnt also sure if his love was genuine and how long it would last because am in school and we may not see for long say about june to december.....after much pressure i agreed mid july after all trying wont hurt. but he has this bad habit of not replying my messages, claiming he is busy etc. i sent him a message since saturday since this the only way we can communicate due to distance, today is tuesday and no reply. thats his habit. i fight over that alot with him. he would come and apologise and say he is sorry and all. guys please when you love a girl doesnt it drive you to wanna reach her no matter how busy you are? dont you think of her always? am i wasting my time with him? does his action show true love? should i move on cus me i love with my head and sense or am i just being insensitive and not understanding? he is a great person same time i also wouldnt like to loose him but i cant love an uncaring man either

Galaxydon1: if na your boy friend you no go feel shy

I go feel shy o. Why do u guys judge so easily

mystiqueDZ: Your brother abi?so kini big deal...Mtchewwww

yea you right.....

Djicemob: Its either the op was self servicing when her brother entered or she's not proud of her body due to whatever circumstance(tsunami maybe).Hence her fustration,cos i dont c anything wrong here...Or after seeing u nak3d,did u start nursing certain feelings for him? .i hope not sha.

hmmmmm dia is God o

Medunah: Ur funny, ur blood brother. So many no of times, my elder bro will bumped into I & my sis in d bthroom, we jz shout 'cnt u knock'' nd he will be like wats in ur body dat my gf doesnt have, she carry pass una sef'' nd we will tell we are not his gf nd dats it, everything is back to normal.
Some girls even dress up in front of their brothers, deres nofin to be shy about. Depends on d way u guys relate with each other though.

yea i dont think we were raised in such a ways that our privacies are seen like that. am well dressed alwayz at home i guess thats why. but its nothing. he was even teasing me over my refusal to come out today probably because of what happened and i was giving myself unneccesary headache.

tempest01: Pictures...lets confirm what your brother really saw

huh?? for real chei

drnairalov: mtscheeew ..dis is weird ..are U 4 real?? cos ur broda saw u, U re shy to come out..stop creating situation where there is no situation and clear your mind off any negativity..aint saying it is ryt but dayuumn U re overreacting.. he iz ur broda ok.. even when i mkstakenly saw my cousin cos she bathed in ma bathroom... i never knew she was dere!! all i did was step back immediately..apologised daz all..and we begin dey flow again..dey yab our selves as usual like say nothing happen. i never thought of d occasion again.. I just dey remember now as i see dis topic self..but sis take a chill pill. Life is 2 short to dey put matters lik dis 4 mind. CIAO babe..

yea thats true. you very right. i have seen him jare i guess i was just overreacting

Emmanuex: Arrant Nonsense.. Y do u now call him ur brother??

cus of blood ties. Check the English dictionary

Toktee: How do u feel the first day u stand naked b4 that guy,i want to know the xperience,no offence intended.

which guy? Can u tell me about him? Cus u seem to know him better than I do

Toktee: takin a closser look at your profile,iam not even sure you are a woman.

then the only option would be that am a hemophrodite. God forgive some people

Toktee: Total strangers for that matter have seen and touch and even pump!

na you sabi that one o.

macklef: Dear Op, i no that feeling right. Its normal to be angry + shy. Am sure your brother too is trying all he can to avoid you.
He would obviously, be more shy than you cos he made the break in.
Get over it dear, i made such a break with my senior sis once, she was the one that came out of the batroom to ask me if i saw toothpaste,(am sure she wasnt looking for any toithpaste) she just wanted to ease the tension.
Hes ur blood brother, pray you nevr find yourself in a situation where he would be the one to even UnCloth u unclad. Thats what family are for, to hide the each others secrets, he would never see and tell, but any regular guy might, even your bf. So ur boobs n ass n varge is safe in his memory. Quite unpleasant but its not an abormination.
Its your duty to ease the tension, if ur close to him before now, try to jump on him unawre to him or look for his trouble somehow so u guys can laugh and forget it.
Once again, its unpleasant but its not an abormination, GET OVER IT ASAP!!!!

thanks I got some courage now from your experience. Would finally go and eat. Hunger strike all day in my room because of this. FOOD TIME

Toktee: and the question need an answer,you join nairaland today only to be complaining about what strangers have seen and touched and even enjoy it,just take it like anyone of those.

How can you know when you are not me. Anyways

alutacontinua: Y'all should fix your bathroom door.
and since yous share the same bathroom, there should be something like knocking


it has happened already, you just gotta stop being shy and get over it, he's your Bro for God's sake. Go out and forget that it ever happened

this is one time when you gotta see it for what it is -DUST!
wait sef, wetin you go do if you wanna give birth and a male doctor is poking hand into your vajay'jay, did I mention that your legs would be spread wide apart?

looooooool. Yea I know. You are funny. Am just a shy person maybe. That's why

Toktee: Is this the first time someone see u naked,say the truth and shame the devil,that is if the story is even true.
You live in a house with ur brother and he was nt aware that you were bathing?

I stay with my parents and siblings we are 5 in number. Would he know am bathing and open the door? Nope. So that leaves me with that option right? Funny question you ask though.

I really don't know what to do right now. I feel very shy. I haven't left my room since morning. The bathroom or toilet door of my house has been bad for over two weeks. Ok so I was bathing this morning, am about 22 and my elder brother who is about 25 was pressed to use the toilet, he didn't even knock to find out if someone was in, he just opened the whole door and I mean I was standing practically wholly and fully naked in the bath and he saw everything to the full I am so sure of that. There wasn't even any point for me to try stretching for a towel to coverup cus he had seen already. He apologized but I felt so weird, angry, shy same time. Since morning I haven't left my room. I feel so shy to even probably bump into him in the house and maybe he would be also embarrassed. Is it normal for me to feel weird or there is nothing really bad about the whole encounter?