Princess666: hi. please i need anyone's sincere help in understanding this guy. i met him somewhere somehow in january and we became friends that enjoyed each other's company alot...we could not always see but we were close using chats and all. around june there was a mutual affection running...he wanted more...i liked him but i wasnt sure i loved him...so i refused because i wasnt also sure if his love was genuine and how long it would last because am in school and we may not see for long say about june to december.....after much pressure i agreed mid july after all trying wont hurt. but he has this bad habit of not replying my messages, claiming he is busy etc. i sent him a message since saturday since this the only way we can communicate due to distance, today is tuesday and no reply. thats his habit. i fight over that alot with him. he would come and apologise and say he is sorry and all. guys please when you love a girl doesnt it drive you to wanna reach her no matter how busy you are? dont you think of her always? am i wasting my time with him? does his action show true love? should i move on cus me i love with my head and sense or am i just being insensitive and not understanding? he is a great person same time i also wouldnt like to loose him but i cant love an uncaring man either

MizMyColi: [b]imho, There are three things involved here:

1. He just isn't interested in you anymore

2. He's going through that process which all women dread - The Decision to Love You.

3. There just might be something about you that's beginning to put him off


I read on an Nlder's profile that demystification kills interest. Look Hun, you need to give Him space and time to rebuild genuine interest in you. Eventually though, time will tell exactly what the reason for his indifference is.
This is not to say that you should stay away completely, no.

You've got to detach yourself emotionally and just be his friend, purpose in your heart never to feel hurt should he not reply your message or call as often despite what might have transpired between you two.

Pertaining the third point, you need to do some sincere soul searching, you just might have a role in his sudden lack of interest to pursue you, find out what it is and deal with it. (Be smart about it).


That said, before you met Him, you had a life, and you were quite happy and content. Now, no matter how mentally and emotionally tasking this might be - You Gotta Live Your Life.

That way, you won't suffer any loss, so to speak.

If He is the man for you, no matter your weak points, He'd know that something's gone missing in his life and He'd reach out for you, and if he isn't, His Loss.


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Princess666: thanks so much for the advice. i think i will just focus on my life. he isnt worth my mental ache. would just treat him as a normal friend as you adviced me. if he reaches me back cool, if not then to hell with him. lesson: never date a man with the whole of your heart. thank God i did not, so it is easier to get over him.

Princess666: thanks so much for the advice. i think i will just focus on my life. he isnt worth my mental ache. would just treat him as a normal friend as you adviced me. if he reaches me back cool, if not then to hell with him. lesson: never date a man with the whole of your heart. thank God i did not, so it is easier to get over him.

Princess666: hi. please i need anyone's sincere help in understanding this guy. i met him somewhere somehow in january and we became friends that enjoyed each other's company alot...we could not always see but we were close using chats and all. around june there was a mutual affection running...he wanted more...i liked him but i wasnt sure i loved him...so i refused because i wasnt also sure if his love was genuine and how long it would last because am in school and we may not see for long say about june to december.....after much pressure i agreed mid july after all trying wont hurt. but he has this bad habit of not replying my messages, claiming he is busy etc. i sent him a message since saturday since this the only way we can communicate due to distance, today is tuesday and no reply. thats his habit. i fight over that alot with him. he would come and apologise and say he is sorry and all. guys please when you love a girl doesnt it drive you to wanna reach her no matter how busy you are? dont you think of her always? am i wasting my time with him? does his action show true love? should i move on cus me i love with my head and sense or am i just being insensitive and not understanding? he is a great person same time i also wouldnt like to loose him but i cant love an uncaring man either

Jenams: My dear, am a guy, no busy man will go to bed without tinkin of d woman he loves.

Delightbaby:
[b]Some men became unserious once you agreed to date then unlike when they could go extra miles for them to woo you. [/b]You cherish what you value no matter how busy your schedule may seems to be. My candid advice is just for you to move on with your life. It might be that he has gotten someone else but just for him to have somebody to rest upon in case of any emergency/eventuality. GOD will give you a man that will love, cherish and be the one that will be sending texts and calling you every now and then

Princess666: thanks so much for the advice. i think i will just focus on my life. he isnt worth my mental ache. would just treat him as a normal friend as you adviced me. if he reaches me back cool, if not then to hell with him. lesson: never date a man with the whole of your heart. thank God i did not, so it is easier to get over him.

rozzay: . Well spoken oo. My guy is so busy he leaves home 5am comes bak 12 am / 1am but his day is neva complete till he calls me everynite so watch it

youngds:

Jiz!!" wat kinda job is dat? For 20 good hours? Hmmhm.... Besides ppl dat call at nyt only tink of u as a booty call

Trendy4gud: Yeah! you love with your head? Now lower your expectations on the relationship. Follow as you're being led, concentrate more on your studies. Truly that attitude of your guy sucks. You can't give your time/care to who you love, where's your COMMITMENT

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stinggy: He knows you're conquered already, he's busy chykin some other girls for now

adexsimply: you've decided he's not worth your mental ache?