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Zonefree:

So, it's nice to accept his food and drink and it's not nice to accept his love?

May God deliver us from hungry Nigerian girls...Amen!

Why should I say no to free food and drink, when he is providing even after so many hints I have given him.

Emma2Seconds:
What makes you not to like him

He is you know, too nice almost pushover, major turnoff

So I am being approached by one guy, and he is really persistent, but I don't like him, I have tried giving him hint that I don't fancy him, still I am getting approached, I don't want to be bold and blunt and break his heart as he is a cutie and a nice guy, he also pays for my food and drink when we are outside which is nice, it's just I am not into nice guy like him, also I have not mentally recovered from my last disastrous relationship.
I have tried to ignore his calls and messages but he does not have boundaries, or he is ignoring my subtle rejections and directly approach me outside my office (he works in same office complex). Help guys...

I have broken up with him [prev post], I asked him to wait till marriage before sex, but he was not willing and also he said our marriage is not possible, so I cut my losses and broke-up with him. Thank you every one who advised me.

2braithe:
So he's a Nairalander!
He can see your posts!!!

Yes, Maybe

2braithe:
Brilliant!

So how did you get to know Nairaland?

I saw him using, so asked what this is?

2braithe:
I just told you to take the lead and lead by example.
You want him to be more romantic?Then romance him!

What's your age category if you don't mind?
Maybe 20 to 23 or 27 to 30 e.t.c

28

MadamOk:
Hausa guy either Christian or Muslim majority of them are not romantic but they are good in caring or giving monetary gift especially

I also felt this, should I ask for something expensive, Would he be happy to give it to me?

Prettygirl200:
Lol oga Hausa abeg rest!!! Sorry ooo but Just accept it, northeners are backward that's the fact.

Backward?? I didn't get it, He seems very open about Indian culture, also he very much like Bollywood and know hindi so a plus point

habsydiamond:
If u want him to be happy just buy cow for him male and female... U will see that he too is romantic

No

Southernigbo:
They like religion or shd I say Islam, but then that's if u a muslim, otherwise you really can't show them ur love for Islam. But on a general note, show him that you take sins serious and you don't indulge in common sins like fornication, adultery, and other similar ones

Too late we already had s**, I will keep in mind and make him wait now for marriage, Thank You for your advice

2braithe:
Are you indian?

It might be his first relationship.Take the lead and let him be comfortable with you.

Yes, I am an Indian. Is there anyway to make him more open, my ex was very good in these kind of things so I never had to do anything?

So I am dating a hausa guy in ilupeju, things are going great but he seems to be bit stiff and doesn't express love or become romantic with me, so I am thinking about doing something nice for him .

Any ideas?? suggestions??