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Why do we believe Iran doesn't have nukes?

I have this deep feeling they do but hiding this fact until they have no other option but to unveil.

shoodboi2:
😂

What is Israel hiding? At least, they said the Iranian missiles are hitting "civilian" buildings. So why don't they want Fox to show it? Or was it a military building that was hit?

The land grabbers only remain "invisible" when they are allowed to lie.

I think the worst of Europeans moved to the grabbed land called Israel. Those guys are demonic (male and female, including children)

Nairaland is a forum filled with zombies, mentally backward people with religious madness.

Jesus is God

Source: Bible.

What were you expecting to hear?

Jesus is not God

Source: Bible?

Hopefully, people of the West won't come begging Iran to stop when they retaliate against their satellite state called the State of Israel.

Acidosis:
If you say a guy married the “wrong” woman because of her condition, then who’s supposed to be the “right” guy for her?

He wrote other things, not just her medical conditions.

Read his other comments.

I posted my sources already.

It's not cast in stone; it's a social construct with different dates set as the start of Gen Z.

1997 for US-related sources.
1995 for non-US-related sources.

I chose the latter.

ibibiofirstlady:
A 30 year old is actually a millennial. The oldest GenZ in 2025 is 28 years old

True, I guess you also lacked good counsel around you. Believe me, I know people that married early that are doing well today.

Nnamdipapa:
You are more wiser and able to make better decisions when older compared to early adulthood just coming off of teenaghood.

Arostar2023:
You have committed an error of hasty generalization. You assumed that everyone had the opportunity to go to the university at a certain age, which is not always the case in Africa. The same way most people find it difficult to believe that some people in Nigeria are barely feeding because of the removal of subsidy and the attendant economic upheavals that came with it. There is no specific time that is right for everyone for anything...we all have different nature and opportunities in life and that determines how fast we can go in life. What matters is for one to be aware and plan based on what is possible. A man can make babies as soon as he reaches puberty and for live...if he's healthy. For women that is a different story.

I am not an expert at women's reproductive biology, I am a man, and I am talking about men here.

People finish school earlier now than during Gen x and millennial. It's a known fact, you can verify this.

That I used 20yrs should not make you throw away the point I was making.

You are a man but you won't make babies with a man, so I ask, will you be getting married to your age range or who do you intend making babies with at 50?

Nnamdipapa:
We did and it was not working. In fact, she could not push out all the kids normally during child birth and it was one a medical trip in Europe a German doctor told us she was badly mutilated and that was the reason she could never have a normal child birth. It was C section all through

This experience is enough to hate marriage, it wasn't because you married early, but an issue of marrying wrong.

Sometimes marriage na 50/50 o

Arostar2023:
Common, it's quite obvious that I am talking about men not women. Everyone knows about women and menopause, so that's a foregone issue. There are things in life that are situation specific, this is one of them. What works for me , may not to work for you. That's it... you can chose to make your babies, when you can't tell your left from your right. That's your choice...

To say those who start making babies below 30 don't know their left from their right is also very naive.

In this age where 20yrs is already out of the university and working, 25-30 is very good age range to settle down for men and 22-26 is perfect for women.

I'm 100% sure you wanting to get married at 50 won't be to a woman within the same age range based on what you said above, so tell me, when is 'okay' for women to start having children if 50 is perfect for men?

Arostar2023:
I beg to differ. When you say strong, what exactly do you mean? Are they aged new parents going to be involved in manual labor or what? You are merely talking from an African perspective where one is expected to struggle to raise kids. Most people that married young, without adequate financial backup to take care of family responsibilities, hardly stays with their kids. Because they are all over the place hustling for daily bread. Like I said earlier, I would rather have my kids at 50 and have the time, knowledge and resources to take care of them. Than at 20 when I am running all over the place...

Do you have children?
If yes, how often are you in their lives and affairs?

The above answers would tell you what you need to know.

Except you're not interested in playing with your children or participating in various activities with them both at home and outsude.

For you to say it's okay to start having children at age 50 says alot and also naive (no offense meant).

Ask any women anywhere in the world if they would prefer to start having children by that age and let us know your findings.

Got nothing to do with being African (You belittle your kind too much)

Marriage to me should not be for fulfillment, though.
And yes, it's logical to marry on time if having children and being in their lives is your aim, because why have children at an old age when you won't be strong or healthy enough to be in their lives?

It's selfish to marry late and start having children; you're not doing them anything good!

A man of 50 years and a woman of similar age (1st timers) should never have children again because they won't be strong, healthy, and active enough to give these children the attention, care, love, and discipline they deserve.

Arostar2023:
That's exactly the point. To some having kids and grandkids give them happiness, to others it's burdensome. Each to his own. That's where we Africans miss it.... you must not marry simply because you are of "age" and have the means. Marry because it gives you fulfillment.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Continue being on the side you want to lean on then. Someone else will correct you tomorrow.

Na.

You obviously do not even know how the classification came to be.

Arostar2023:
You missed the point altogether. I said it was "situation specific". What works for you, may not work for another. It's neither good nor bad. It depends!

Ok.

Very situational. I got your point.

One thing remains constant in almost all the stories = Mother in law.

Not once was father in law mentioned.

When it comes to marriage, the probability of external influence destroying the home is 90% higher with MIL.

Women against women.

Principalities against principalities.

LordBiden:
They control the spread of nuclear weapons.
They deal decisively with terrorists like case of bin Laden,al baghdadi.

They control spread of biological weapons.
They do alot of humanitarian work.

Do you wanna know more?

Lol the same bin laden they trained and used against countries not following their directives? Man you're too Brainwashed for me to have a civilised and knowledgeable discussion with.

90% of terrorists in the world are funded by them.

LordBiden:
No they can't have,world powers wont allow that.

Tehran sponsors majority of the worlds terror groups.They have always wanted to wipe out isreal.

I can't waste my time.

The biggest sponsor of terrorism all over the world is the united state of America. It's a known fact.

Good day.

LordBiden:
No one gave them,they earned it by being the most powerful nation on earth.

You may not understand,the US does alot to protect our world.They help to put rogue nations in check.

Protect the world from who exactly?

Give instances where the US protected the world.

oz4real83:
is the statement true or false? Was Iran still enriching itself with uranium or not?

And why should they not?

Why can't they have what others have?

UyaiIncomparabl:
Incorrect.

More sources peg the Gen Z generation from 1997.

You are not in the position to decide what is correct or not as long as it's not an unanimous conclusion.

I decide which side to lean to.

UyaiIncomparabl:
Wrong.

The oldest GEN Z is 28 years old (which starts from 1997-2012.

Well, some sources put it at 1995 to 2010

A desperate man who wants to steal what he doesn't deserve.

What a pity to Nigeria.

A 30 years old person is also a gen z, so not like a 35yrs old is far off.

Arostar2023:
Yeah. Go and ask those who married early and are struggling financially because of too many responsibilities. I doubt if they will agree with you on your submission. This thing is situation specific- what works for you, may destroy another.

Why should he go and ask others when he himself married early?

Are there no people who married late that are still poor and struggling?

You think it's by age?

Arostar2023:
So you are happy because you had kids and grandkids. Or because you were successful?

What is success to you?

Hope you know the definition of success is relative?

To some, it's material possession
To others, it's the joy of being surrounded by family
Etc

Nnamdipapa:
I do now but I get monitored all the time like contant video calls. I am scheduled to travel alone to Cartagena in Colombia early next month.
I would love to be in Pucket Thailand before the end of this year and ALONE as well. No kids, no wife. Lol

You already said you told your wife you don't love her and wants a divorce, so why does what you do still worries you or what she'll say?

Na by force to pick vidoe calls or even pick any calls for that matter?

Marriage is not what is tying you down, it's just that you don't want to be responsible again due to how early you were made to be responsible to not just your wife but to 2 extended families

Mariangeles:
Many guy reading this will be mad at you, you know?







I think your regret is more about the family you married from.
You feel they exploited you.

That is the koko. He married into a wrong home, not really the age she married. There are people who married late but still went through what he's talking about.

Nnamdipapa:
I am not ungrateful, I just felt I would have done way better and looking back, I never did what I truly wanted to do, never had fun as I would have expected. You are a lady so, you won't see issues from a guy's point of view. Most ladies want the guy to work till death with little enjoyment.

I studied very hard for ICAN through the ATS route and became a chartered accountant around 20. I never went to a regular university. I got good jobs in multinational when my mates were still in the university.

Got into tax department and was in charge of negotiating company taxe with FIRS officials and you know what that means.
I also moved into oil and gas where I was in charge of supplying ago to the whole country, I used to get my cut from every driver like about 500k every week excluding my paycheck which I never remember to touch. At some point, I bought my own 33,000ltrs ago truck and added to my company's fleet. Nigeria was sweet.

I think I got lucky.

How did you know you would have done better?

You are regretting what you are now in place of what you assumed you would have been?

What exactly makes you think you would have been better off if you didnt get married early?

Why do we assume our future alot?

Nnamdipapa:
At 21, I was driving a big car to church, and the news had spread that I had also bought a car for my dad. I never knew that I was a target already. I should have had at least four houses before marriage, as I had good jobs all through early adulthood. I am not doing badly now, but in hindsight, I should have been a $ millionaire before 35. My kids are older than the kids of all my mates.

Then marrying early wasn't the reason you have a regrettable marriage, it's more about the people you married and the people that surrounded you.

I also can't exonerate you from the whole thing, you might have also been one with no character for marriage.

In a nutshell, whether you are 50 or 20, some people aren't just a marriageable spec

Nnamdipapa:
I also believe they set a trap for me to marry because I was doing very well financially, bought two cars at 22 and spent a lot of money on MIL. My MIL then told me she had a vision that I would marry her daughter and permitted me to get her pregnant before marriage if I wanted. I made money early and at 23, had no business with marriage. Build assets, enjoy your life, travel the world, date extensively, and you will have more wisdom to make marriage decisions.

Marital wisdom doesn't come from multiple dating experience.

Marital wisdom comes from understanding the purpose of marriage and companionship.

One of the reasons marriages no longer last is because of these "multiple dating experiences" people now have compared to the days of old.

Lastly, some people aren't meant to be married be it early or late

TonyeBarcanista:
Omo your own long o! If na me I go end am immediately she say make she finish school before settling down, especially if I have the means to sponsor her education.

Not really about sponsorship, some people can't handle 2 major things at once.