₦airaland Forum

Nigerian women has some time transferred and wired some mental trends and so,, they have learnt to keep some information to themselves such that men might have to delve into by taking different route to read them.
I actually believe that they do complain and act to explain issues into the men's bearing to fit in and figure out. Their body language is of utmost importance to read and study. This is mostly done by interaction and honest open communication between the gender.
Sure, women this days might probably find ways to escape through or solve their problems.
Guys should read between the lines.

Money is good and is one of the essential commodities that one must possess.. But you need to know these about money.
i. Money has no leader or follower.
ii. Money has no enemy or friend.
iii. Money comes and goes. it does not stay with anyone forever.
iv. Money does not makes you good or bad.
v. Money never kills or protects life.
vi. Money will not give you vision or creativity, it will only give supports.
vii. Money is a seed.
viii. Money is a reward for your input at one point to he other along the sucees road.
ix. Money is either a servant under your palm or master over your head.
x. Money do not give anyone respect or honour.
It is our attitudes and usage that determine how we become when in possession of money.

Money. Money.Money....
Well, as every nigerian know about our rare golden fish-NAIRA money, it as occur to be known that ignorance of the characteristics of money has led to poor management and depreciation of our money commodity which is very essential to our individual growth and national development.
Characteristics of money you need to know....
1. Money has no enemy or friend.
2.money never kill or protect.
3.money has no leader or follwers.
4.money does not gve vision or creativity rather gives support.
5.money comes and goes,it does not stay with humans fforever.
6.money does not makes you good or bad, it is your character lifestyle.
7.money is a seed.
8.money is areward of your efforts or inputs to enjoy your output.
9.money is either your servant that brings great results to you or your master enslaving you in debt lifestlye.
10. money can either give you peace or trouble.
But what matters about money is dependent on the holders' attitudes; and money does not control you irrespective of your sttus in the society, rather you control it and direct it towards productives use. Work for money and use money to earn money. The more knowledgable you are and utilise it, the more you h=get wealthy.
Remember, money does not care whom you are and claim to be. Be wise.

Continuation from last discussion
4. Trust and Security: Just as he said,'a betrayal in his cabinet';exactly as it happened to the Lord Jesus Christ. it is essential that people working with us either at home or office or association need a certain level of trust.We must not commit our lives into the hands no matter how loyal they might be,so as not to be stabbed in the back. In this part of the world,we are yet to have the same plain godly mind.
5. Decision: Lastly at one point to the other along the road, we decide for ourselves than allowing others to decide for us,just as Yoruba proverb do say-'Alatise ni nmo atise ara a re'.Every decision taken either good or bad has consequences attached. People reap what they sow. Be watchful and be wise
This is a vital key to progressive growth and development of any society. The problems we have today are due to to many factors that are co-dependent on one another. Individual characters are molded by the primary section-the home; and their responses to prevailing circumstances around them. It cannot be neglected that collection of these molded figures influence and determine the fate and state of the nation. Lawless characters lead to lawless people.

In life,events are meant to take place to become experience as part of our life either to build bridge or make a wall;thus we keep learning to ensure growth in all endeavours. well,I am glad that at leeast majority have heard about the kidnapping incidence that tok place not quite long and it became a case study. but if questions are asked of us,how do we respond to it. this is a hurtful event.
1.Religion: maijority are either caled themselves christians or muslims at least we believe in God the creator of heavens and earth. Most of the times w tend to blame a particular set of people based on their belief,but it never proved we are godly. Now we see to this, a highly respected muslim cleric to he call,was put into pit-kidnapped his treaasures.For this to happen,it reveals that our godliness /religion of such is questionable (no fear of God)- either muslim or christian. People are hiding behind the religion mask. Do religion has the capacity to change our hearts and connected to God. Or we should clarify our faith being sincere and godly.
2. Training and upbringing:Should I say that one should not train a child that is not one's but someone else's on the right path to be useful to the society at large?No. We are all called into role playing to build upa society that conceive peaceful atmosphere to all. Each of us need help in one way pr the other. Upbringing a child is a core responsiblity of parents that determines how he or she willbehaves in the society. If a child is not properly raised from birth, it will surely become a snare in the hands of masters who desire to whine influence. I employ masters to mould chraracter moulding a priority to preserve an individual's integrity.
3.Money: Hmm. Dont be surprised to come cross this. This is a commodity every citizen never joke with.Why? In recent times, it has been deduced that some of the leaders we appointed delivered love of money baton into the hands of the masses who labour daily and 'they' just flirting on plesures, and has become a trend among us-An average Nigerian will say I want to join the politics group,just to sleep on money. Money is good and have power to influence,the truth is the power of money lies in the hands of the holders,not the money itself.