₦airaland Forum

Netmuch:
Hi fellow nairalanders,

I and my fiance were both bankers, I brought her in town and God used me for her to secure a job.

Where I used to stay was a bit further to our work place, so their is another banker guy who has a CR-V Honda car that usually drops her in the morning at her office whom she later became close friends with, although dey do call themselves whenever the guy is about leaving his house to pick up my fiancee, which I was aware of.

However, suddenly I realized that my fiancee WhatsApp chat is always cleared not to let me see their chats which I suspected a foul play, but the worst came last week when I was trying to get my car engine oil and I was approaching her, she was calling the guy, as I near her to eavesdrop on what she was talking with the guy, she quickly ends the call. I got angry that why will she not let me hear their conversations if truly she has nothing to do with the guy. I challenged her but she insisted nothing was going on between them that she had to end the call on my arrival which she has always call in my presence.

I don't want to be a fool as am about to end the relationship, but I guess I need your honest and positive response on this matter why she had to do what she did. I am a very simple guy and I believe every one should have their freedom. And I don't cheat.

I will love to hear your mature opinion on this.

Thanks.

Clone her whatsapp in your PC. so you can be reading their conversations in real-time. This will clear your doubt.

Attach your prices so people can easily contact you.

There's a lot to love about being a Christian, but one benefit that's often overlooked is the ability categorize our mistakes as temptations.

So even if you take the wrong step, instead of beating up yourself, you'll see it as a temptation, and continue striving.

Some days ago, I was wanted to use my water dispenser (I drained it, and haven't used it in a while).

While carrying it, I mistakenly turned on the hot button. At the end of the day, the dispenser get bad.

I was mad at myself. I was so down, just laid on my bed thinking.

Then it hit me, "this is just another temptation."

I gave in to the thought. It was another temptation.
Immediately, I felt peace. I was no longer angry, but rather positive about not allowing the burnt dispenser affect me.

I was happy through out the day, and up to this day (although I haven't fixed it), I still haven't had any negative thought about that incident.

I know a lot of us experience this. But you'll never what a powerful ability it is.

This is why Christians are some of the happiest people in the world.

And it's a greater reason to be a Christian if you aren't already one.

It's an old but effective "cheat" to a hopeful and happy life.

Don't let anyone tell you otherwise, being a Christian is the best thing that can happen to you. And that's a thought from some random dude, who isn't even going to church today.