₦airaland Forum

OGwales:
How many south Africans dey Ghana... Mtcheeeew. Small yansh sed dey shake

People like you have inferiority complex.

Rocky247:
Trump problem is that he talks too much

He is a crook. He knows what he's doing. He uses those fake news to manipulate the financial markets and his associates use the fallout to engage in insider trading deals that are illegal and they make huge profits off these tricks while ruining a lot of innocent traders financially.

FortCavazosKnox:
Police dey work with kidnappers? Abi what am I missing? 🤣🤣🤣

The hunters are spoiling business for the police.
If you want police to secure the release of your kidnapped relatives, you pay heavily for "mobilisation and logistics" but the hunters did it for free.
Hunters spoil business for police.

kelechi50:
There was a country. Why not declare state of emergency on security nationwide.

Tinubu declares state of emergency only in states that are rich. Kogi is a poor state. No money to steal there.

WizardOfNG:
The bitter, frustrated and vitriolic Atiku sinking to a new low. It is now Remi Tinubu he wishes attack as if she has any executive power or authority.

While he is pretending to be concerned about the security of Nigeria, he should tell us why he was happy sojourning In Dubai for years, including under Buhari, while security got considerably worse in his region of origin and he said/did nothing.

Charity begins at home. A man who does not care to prioritise and tackle problems in his home will be concerned about the entire village how?

But he's saying that truth you evil Tinubu supporters hate to hear.

yarimo:
NDC state women leaders mteeeew

Isn't that your criminal APC gorvernor picture on their wrapper?
APC and touts.

sleek214:
It has moved to Ibadan.

None of Tinubu's business.
Tinubu doesn't give a flying fuvvk .

helinues:
The skit makers are here to entertain us

Eventually, na hardship narration go follow. Person wey never chop go fit afford N1500 fuel ⛽?

And you're happy that your demented Tinupo the drug pusher have made it difficult for people to chop , not to talk of to buy fuel.

Efuaye:
Was the rice meant to calm their nerves, or bring back their loved ones who were kidnapped?
I don't know why our politicians lack the required succor the people need. The best thing to have done in this case was to provide them with free psychological therapy.

Rice and money is the only thing they can offer and now that it's been rejected, then it's everyone on your own.
Rice and money and forget about the kidnapped victims. Shikena

christejames:
What has this bandits caused to my beloved South West?



They should not reach my Ijebu ooo, we are warriors here! Tinupoo will still defeat them, they should keep playing

Tinubu can not fight the bandits successfully, not to talk of defeating them.
First, fighting bandits isn't his priority.
Second, he stands on a weak moral justification to fighting bandits being that he was part of Buhari and his gang that imported bandits into Nigeria in 2015 for the elections.

Jayhome24:
Oh nice one.

Oya name who is not a criminal among atiku, obi, kwakwanso and let me expose them one by one with facts. Let's do it.

You APC members and supporters just trying to say that everyone is a criminal like you people. You don't deny being criminals, just that you're trying to say that it's not only you people that are criminals.

Goonnik:
Cry 2k guy

Peter Obi don't buy supporters. He has organic supporters and he doesn't need to rig elections to win.
That's your druggie Tinubu's legacy.

Jayhome24:
Wallahi you nor get shame.

Na wah oo

It's you that's supporting criminals because of a mudu of beans that don't have shame in the real sense of it.

yarimo:
#2k things if you know you know

You think everyone is like Tinubu your drug pusher and fraudster?

jmoore:
Is Goodluck Jonathan even aware of what's happening?
He neither confirms nor debunks.
All the PDP drama that has been going on, Jonathan chose to remain silent.

If GEJ accepts to run for the presidency, then he has no shame left.

Mubarak55:
Good news from Nigerian agin cool

This is one of Tinubu's achievements.

FreeStuffsNG:
The parties have conducted their primaries and elected their flag bearers for 2027 Presidential election slated for January, 2027; less than 8 months away.

The results are clear evidence that the opposition political parties to the ruling All Progressives Congress(APC) are unserious and unprepared despite having 4 long years to give Nigeria's democracy credible opposition, which is the hallmark of democracy.

Nigeria opposition political parties failed woefully. I am so ashamed of them.

I have started thinking that it is the right thing to do for every Nigerian to reject them and all their candidate across board in all the elective offices, not only in presidential poll, to express their disappointment.

Are you as upset as I am?

Is that so?
But you're not upset with the drugs pusher in asshole rock that is inflating primary election figures in preparation for the grand rigging in the main elections and inflicting suffering on the masses as the only economic solution he knows is borrowing money and stealing the money.

Factoryfitted:
Small thing una Don call billionaire. Na so billion come cheap for naija?

Billions is cheap in Nigeria currency.
Even me, as I no too guide, I be millionaire in naira.

oarowosola:
I met her sometime around April or May last year, and from the beginning, things seemed fine between us. Like every relationship, we both made sacrifices, and even though I don’t like keeping score in relationships, I know I gave a lot of myself into it. Over time, though, I started noticing certain habits and behaviors that became harder and harder for me to ignore. At first, I kept convincing myself that maybe I was overthinking things or expecting too much, but eventually I realized that I was simply becoming exhausted.

One of the biggest issues for me was cleanliness and basic responsibility. I’m not a perfect person, and I can be nonchalant too. I’m someone who enjoys my own space and doesn’t constantly need attention or communication. If someone is busy and doesn’t check up on me for a while, I honestly don’t take it personally. But what bothered me was the imbalance. She could disappear for days or weeks whenever she was occupied and expect me to understand, but if I withdrew into my own space just to protect my peace, she would become upset about it. That double standard was one of the first things that started weighing on me emotionally.

The first time I visited her house, I was shocked by how untidy it was. I’m not obsessive about cleanliness, but I believe there should be a basic level of order, especially when you know someone is visiting you for the first time. When she came to my place for the first time, I made an effort. I cleaned my house , mopped the floor, arranged the bed, and even bought small things just to make the environment more comfortable. It wasn’t about trying to impress her with money; it was simply intentionality. I wanted her to feel welcomed.

But each time I visited her place, the environment remained the same. One particular day, after she stepped out, I decided to clean the entire house myself just to prove a point. While sweeping, I found sugar inside the couch, rotting cashew scattered around, and several things that clearly caused unpleasant odors. I cleaned the parlour, arranged the bedroom, organized her bags, and put everything in order. When she came back, she thanked me, but I remember telling her that it shouldn’t get to the point where her boyfriend had to clean her entire house before it became livable. I told her clearly that if I visited again and the place was still in that condition, it would probably be the last time I came there.

Unfortunately, nothing changed. On another visit, the smell in the house was so terrible that I kept trying to trace where it was coming from. Eventually, I discovered a sack beside the couch she had been sitting on. Something inside it had gone bad, and the odor was unbearable. I carried it outside myself because I couldn’t understand how someone could stay in that environment comfortably. Later, when she went to make yam and eggs, I followed her into the kitchen and found another terrible smell coming from plates that had clearly been sitting there for days. Instead of cleaning the sink first, she simply pushed the dirty dishes aside and placed the yam directly on the dirty sink to peel it. In that moment, I felt completely traumatized and emotionally checked out.

Beyond cleanliness, I also started feeling unappreciated in the relationship. On her birthday, I called her early in the morning, posted her on my WhatsApp status, and celebrated her the best way I could at the time, even though I was broke. Yet she still complained that I didn’t make her birthday special enough. Meanwhile, on my own birthday, there was no call in the morning, no thoughtful gesture, nothing until later at night when she casually said she forgot because she had been going through a lot. What hurt me more was that I had actually bought her gifts for her birthday, including a designer bag and matching slippers I personally made for her. It wasn’t really about material things; it was the imbalance in effort and thoughtfulness.

I also noticed the same imbalance in everyday life. Whenever she visited my place, I was usually the one cooking, cleaning, and taking care of things even while working from home as a shoemaker. Most times she would just sit pressing her phone while I handled everything. She barely cooked for me throughout the relationship, and eventually I stopped going out of my way because I started feeling taken for granted.

Money became another issue. She would borrow money and either delay repayment or never complete it. As a shoemaker, the money I receive for jobs is not pure profit because most of it goes back into materials and production. Yet I still found myself lending her large amounts from jobs I was supposed to complete quickly. Even when she paid back partially, it felt emotionless, almost like she didn’t recognize the inconvenience it caused me.

The final straw happened recently when she visited me during a very busy work period. She suggested we spend the night in a hotel even though my house was already comfortable, and I agreed. I paid for the room, and when food was ordered later that night, I still ended up paying almost everything despite already spending heavily on the hotel. The next day, after returning from the market exhausted from buying materials for work, I expected to at least meet food at home since all the ingredients were available. Instead, I walked into a kitchen with bread wrappers and milk sachets scattered around while she had already eaten without cleaning up after herself. I still ended up cooking for myself.

The following morning, after she made food during the night, she left the kitchen in complete disorder again. Pots, plates, and leftovers were everywhere while I woke up early to continue working. Rather than cleaning up, she sat watching TikTok videos. Eventually I had to pause my own work to clean the kitchen myself because I couldn’t stand the environment anymore. At that point, I realized I was mentally exhausted.

What made everything clearer for me was understanding that this wasn’t just about dirt or money. It was about incompatibility. I realized I was constantly carrying responsibilities that should have been shared. I’m not against people hiring cleaners or getting help. I also take some of my clothes to dry cleaners. But there’s a difference between getting assistance and being unable to handle basic responsibilities yourself. If someone who is meant to clean your house doesn’t show up, there should still be a basic ability to sweep, organize, remove trash, and maintain a healthy environment. I couldn’t understand depending entirely on other people for something so fundamental.

At some point, I stopped seeing peace in the relationship. I started feeling drained instead of supported. Even during intimate moments, she would make comments like, “If you leave me, I will haunt you,” and although she may not have meant it literally, those kinds of statements only made me more uncomfortable emotionally.

Eventually, I accepted the truth that we are simply not compatible. I don’t hate her, and I’m not trying to paint myself as perfect. I just know that I can no longer continue in a relationship where I constantly feel emotionally exhausted, unappreciated, and burdened. I’ve reached a point where I no longer want to argue, explain, or force things to work. I’ve already made up my mind that the relationship is over, and at this point, I just want to walk away peacefully and move on with my life.

What do you think? Be nice please

Google file photo used for illustration

You tolerated all this rubbish and still stayed for that long?
You tried. Or are you still trying.
I can't stand dirty people for an hour. That's a serious red line.

Mattswaggz:
Seems like securing Venezuela first was a strategic move because even before US attacked the Maduro led Venezuela government they already had tensions with Iran and a lot of people would've wondered why they went ahead to attack Venezuela first before Iran and here is the reason and it does look like a classic chess move.

I've been telling some monikers here that US has the luxury to play a long game with Iran or apply more brutality in their attack but they keep on arguing needlessly.....they can keep the blockade and just feel the impact a little while the impact of Iran losing revenues from oil sales daily will be immense on them.

The US were well aware that conflict with Iran can affect oil prices and availability hence they secured somewhere they could get a good amount of oil.... somewhere that would've naturally not sell to US if they had shortages because their allies were mostly in the east.....That move also reduced the global impact of oil shortages with Venezuela oil now in the market to cushion the effects of Shortage from the middle east.

Applying sound strategy is part of warfare..... we've even seen countless times where strategy won over numbers(huge armies) and sheer power(attack power).

The United States of oil thieves. The United States are the number one armed robbers and terrorist in the whole world.

alanto:
No matter the party or association. You guys can never organise yourself. Primary de go on the whole of Nigeria. E reach SE peace disappear.

Go and search the forests of Oyo and kwarra states and rescue your women and children from Fulani invaders.

Bentacur007:
Sun newspaper has the news already that means Orji Uzor Kalu is supporting Ikoh indirectly

Even if their juju tells them that they stand a chance against Otti, they would believe? They're just wasting their time fighting over useless ticket
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TruthsFM:
Fubara camp members are now resigning from Rivers State APC. Besides when did Chinda decamp to APC. Chinda will be rejected by the good people of Rivers State.

Rivers people have no say in what is happening.
Rivers State belongs to Wike. Rivers State is Wike's personal property and he determines what happens there.
Rivers State people are just cold ogbono soup.

Pootle:
the boobs look suckulent

All the accused ladies have big and exposed bweasts 🤪🤪🤪

israelmao:
This pose struck speaks volumes for your friendship.

The elbow dey press the big bweasts 🤪🤪🤪

fergie001:
Wike is the political leader of Rivers State.

The lesson teacher teach them.

Wike is a crook. Top rated crook at that.
However, he's the owner of Rivers State.
Rivers State belongs to him. Rivers State is Wike's personal property and all indegenes of Rivers State are soured ogbono soup.

Flangelo12:
Lagos has more than 3200 dollar millionaires.

They never went around to do actual counting and finding, they just used projections based on per capita