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Wouldn't you learn to cook for him? And when he makes something really yummy, would you eat thereof?

lalola:
I see no problem if he is willing to cook his own food

lalola:
lol due I don't see anything wrong in being a vegetarian

Not just vegetarian, no eggs, milk, cheese or butter. That could imply seperate pots.

Bridgetown:
Which kind yeye lovers Very boring set of humans. I have 3 as friends here in Nigeria.

The indian ones tend to be great singers and dancers. Lol!
Maybe the 3 u know are not full vegans. The full ones tend to have high energy levels and are very full of life.

Recent facts suggests that mushroom are not plants but Fungi. So you wouldn't have to bother about that.
Moreover most vegans prefer fruits most days of the week. That guarantees a lot of break from the kitchen plus they are better lovers.

Bridgetown:
The stress of cooking stew nd soup with only mushrooms is too much.

Bridgetown:
He will surely meet his likes there. Vegan ladies.

What if he has all you have ever wanted in a man?

I don't do news either. But share with me your reason, pal

Weah96:
I live in CP, GA and I haven't heard the news. But then again, I don't watch the news

Show some sense of empathy. A matter for one is a matter for all. Nigeria or universe, we are all inter-connected in spirit.

temitemi1:
I hope we won't be hearing church of savage here in Nigeria ooooo!! Rest in HELL if truly u killed urself because of human like u...

She was a victim of her idiosyncracy. I'm sure you have yours.

151487made:
aku tun ku e lonorun

That was a very unspiritual thing to write about the loss of a soul. Care to be more conciously connected to the pains and gains of others?

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Bridgetown:
He should go nd reside in india

Would u go on date with him to lndia?

Here comes the partner of your dreams but doesn't consider animal flesh, milk, eggs and honey as food and is uncomfortable about killing of animals. How close can you get with such a person?

danyel09:
As a woman, there's nothing better than being in the
presence of a man who relishes in his masculinity in a way
that doesn't involve the obvious chest-pounding and cat-
calling, but the confident reserve of a gentleman. Now,
before you accuse me of hating men, let me be
clear; I love more things about men than I can put
into one article. This is not about finding female
empowerment though man-bashing. Quite the
opposite, actually. It's a celebration of the grown up
man's man who knows how to treat a woman. What does
this man look like, to me, at least? Well...
1. He is hygienic, but cleans his nails and trims his
nose hairs outside of a nail salon. Think about it:
Would Hemingway or Gladiator be getting his nails
buffed? Methinks not.
2. He can balance both swag and sophistication
and a career and a personal life without too many
proverbial exclamation points (and certainly not
multiple ones in a text message. No, no, no).
3. He reserves his "LOL" for actual laughter, which
he exudes out loud and often.
4. He isn't looking to play "pen pal" with you
through your iPhone because he knows that all text
and no play makes Johnny a very dull boy.
5. When he's interested in a woman, he doesn't
wait three days to call her, but he does actually call
her, and when he does, he asks her out for dinner,
makes reservations, picks a great bottle of wine
(because he knows how to) and then makes sure
she gets home safely.
6. If he wants to see her again, he lets her know,
and if he doesn't, he politely lets her know that it
was a pleasure to spend time with her, even if it
wasn't. He does, however, let her know gently and
firmly enough that he's not interested so that she
doesn't waste her time thinking it might become
something it won't.
7. He reads actual books and newspapers and
holds opinions on everything from scotch pairings
to world events all the while understanding that
not all of his opinions are facts and that not
everyone has to agree with him in order for him to
maintain his relationships or his manhood. In fact,
he enjoys it when you don't agree with him
because it means he gets to indulge you in a good
debate or leave you thinking a little bit harder
about things than when you sat down in front of
him.
8. He opens doors and takes coats, not because he
feels a woman is weak, but because he is strong
enough to show that he cares about the comfort of
those around him.
9. Sure, he might want to get into a woman's bed,
but he's also interested in getting into her head as
experience has shown him that seduction is a
delicate dance and the man who resides in her
mind has conquered every other part of her.
10. He appreciates a woman who shows she cares
for him, but he isn't interested in being courted.
He enjoys taking the lead in courting and doesn't
need to be "chased" because he's in desperate need
of an ego stroke. He also won't play "puppy dog" to
a woman who takes advantage of this.
11. He doesn't look to be anyone's father or savior,
and he doesn't pretend to be the leading man in
any woman's fairy tale. He's just a man looking for
a partner who can slay her own dragons, pay her
own bills and explore the world alongside him.
12. He looks for a woman who doesn't need him,
but wants him, not for money or the happiness or a
baby or a safety net, but solely for who he is.
13. He has a career, a hobby, a family of close
friends and a favorite way to have his steak
prepared and he isn't the least bit intimidated
when the woman in front of him shares these
qualities; quite the contrary, it makes him want
her more.
14. He has taken the time to get to know himself
and has a strong understanding of his own
character and convictions, what he values and
what he doesn't. He is a man who is honest with
himself about himself and therefore is OK being
honest with those around him.
15. He takes as much pride in the way he treats
women he's with as he does his job and the way he
looks.
16. He's not the bad boy, a good boy, or a boy at all; he's a
man. A leading man, and he's looking not for a
good girl, but a great woman. One who shares all
of the solid qualities that he brings to the table,
and perhaps, can teach him something along the
way. He's willing to wait and work for this woman,
to fight for her and will gladly hold out for her as
long as he needs to. But when she comes along, he
doesn't sit on the fence; he's smart enough to know
when he's gotten damned lucky. And when she
finds him, she should be smart enough to know the
same.

When your constraints are too many, it is hard to stay in a relationship! You are advised to prioritise. Nonetheless, your write-up is remarkable.

Wishing you success

asalimpo:
let him that standeth take heed lest he falls, so says the bible. You think you are standing but in reality you have fallen.
The first temptation of Jesus was to cause Him to doubt and get off the Word. "If you are the Son of God ... ".
The temptation of the first man and woman was again to cause them to doubt the authenticity of God's word- "Did God really say... " the serpent hissed and they bought it.
Today, the reality of d warning God cautioned them of is in our face for all men die.
In the case of peter,Jesus said satan desired to sift him like wheat but Jesus had prayed tht he,Peter's faith holds, Peter denied Jesus in the face of threat of death.
In your case,mayb u were fervent bf , vibrant burng for God (as you admitted ) and satan didnt like it, so he decided to get you off the very way he did others ,by making you doubt the authenticity of the Word.
Once you step off d word,you're building on sand and you will crumble.
Now, you're doubtng the Word, buyg into philosophies of earthly men and eating their lies all up.
You 're on d road man. One day you'll come here and declare for satan (thru atheism or somethng similar-deism)

Are deism satanists? Consider you not,the fact that many of your constitution aka scipture ought to be ammended now that e-dicourses can be used to validate it? Is seeking of the divine not an individual and personal task? Why bully others into your belief? Are men not designed to evolve spiritually? Is being spiritual necessarily same as being religious? What revealation have you to contribute to spiritual ascension other than quoting cliches and condemning others. Is it a crime to dedicate oneself to the personal understanding and of the truth? You never know, his truth may trigger you to a path of your own. Please encourage development and embrace tolerance without name-calling?

It amazes me how literacy that could be a very constructive tool has been abused by many to build a 'cartel of godliness'. Rarely does one read mutually beneficial posts that lack the hunger for intellectual acknowlegment and arrogance of the "scholars". They are often quick to curse one another to salvage their ego.
They made their memory a repository for all sorts of impotent ideologies but an uncorrupted child or even the blind man who can not read is far above them in matters of the spirit. Yet, that that they seek is closer to them than their "knowledge" would make them realise. What ought to be inwardly sought becomes a matter of frenzied arguments.
It hurts!

johnw74:
And the next three verses:
Mat 17:1 And after six days Jesus taketh Peter, James, and John his brother, and bringeth them up into an high mountain apart,
Mat 17:2 And was transfigured before them: and his face did shine as the sun, and his raiment was white as the light.
Mat 17:3 And, behold, there appeared unto them Moses and Elias talking with him.

Do you sincerely believe these?

Should each and everyone be set to:
let go of self serving biases
not indulge the body through the senses
shun personal gain when it is to the detriment of communal well-being
be our brothers' keepers
love and respect life and live harmoniously with the works of the Creator
Their would be no limit to our knowledge of the Divine.

[b][/b]Glory be to our Source for endowing us with such evolved minds!
This debate has portrayed the diversities and limitations of the intellect of homo-sapiens that ought to have attained the phase of homo-spiritus. The power of the concious mind is like a tip of the iceberg when contrasted with the sub-concious. Yet, synchronising both minds makes for spiritual development as we physically grow.
It is healthy to question previous assumptions as a rational being. But to throw away the baby with the bath-water is unacceptable. It is irresponsible to entrust the search and unification of the mind with the Absolute to agents of religion. If you want it well done, do it yourself. The good news is you have a lifetime to seek the truth. Should you choose to inquire using a forum such as this, with the spirit of genuine love and humilty, a lot can be achieved.
Every soul has it's own truth. Consequently, your view of the great spirit would be limited to your perpective. So, we need one another to get the big picture. If we disagree with book gods, then, I reckon is the beginning of the honest search for the true one. Shall we be rid of our self-serving biases, we would be able to see more clearly.