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Science/Technology / Re: This Is World's Smallest Snake, You Would Think It's An Earthworm (Video, Pics) by Prosperous111(m): 2:49am On Oct 02, 2022
Very beautiful and dangerous shocked

This is the only snake species that will escape our nairaland snake masters pot grin

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Romance / Re: I Have finally landed myself a big project after all the doubts(pictures) by Prosperous111(m): 5:01pm On Oct 01, 2022
Admin no go see this one push to help me the poor boy. If nah big snakes you kill now with pictures proof dem go don push am for front page.

Nice one Kyber

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Politics / Re: BBC Igbo And BBC Yoruba Will Be Dropped Out From The BBC World Service by Prosperous111(m): 11:03pm On Sep 29, 2022
Another roles of those terrorist trying hard to shut off yoruba and Igbo languages across the globe and see to it that Hausa and Fulani BBC doesn’t stop working to promote their language as owners of Nigeria ��

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Politics / Re: Please Advice! I Feel Played By My Ex And I Want A Revenge by Prosperous111(m): 8:09pm On Sep 25, 2022
gaby:
The best revenge is for you to go on and better your present situation to be successful.

Na sshe go bring the pikin come give you by herself and you go fit get the resources to fight the case and run DNA to prove or disprove your claims.

Simple sturvs...

I appreciate your contribution boss
Politics / Re: Please Advice! I Feel Played By My Ex And I Want A Revenge by Prosperous111(m): 8:08pm On Sep 25, 2022
adekolaelect:
Oga once you had accepted when she told you the pregnancy was not yours it is not normal to ask for the baby after 7 years. Remove your mind from some insertainty You are having dream of the baby bcs you developed interest in your mind. Have you married without baby That makes you this desperation to claim what is not yours?? the family of the lady didn't know you as the father of the child or the Husband of the mother You are not married to her legally and the lady was in someone's house when you were dating her .oga stop disturbing yourself .Hustle !!!!marry your own wife and give birth .

Thanks I appreciate your contribution but maybe you didn’t understand what I wrotes up there or maybe I didn’t take time to express this rightly. Either way I’m greatful for your contribution
Politics / Re: Please Advice! I Feel Played By My Ex And I Want A Revenge by Prosperous111(m): 7:25pm On Sep 25, 2022
thebosstrevor1:


You are welcome.

Next time use a condom. grin

Okay sir grin
Politics / Re: Please Advice! I Feel Played By My Ex And I Want A Revenge by Prosperous111(m): 7:20pm On Sep 25, 2022
drlateef:




Obviously the partner didn’t know that she was cheating on him. She wanted that child to keep the relationship with the partner. And if the partner knew about her infidelity she won’t be able to take the embarrassment. That’s why she talked about taking her life.

I had no doubts about this
Politics / Re: Please Advice! I Feel Played By My Ex And I Want A Revenge by Prosperous111(m): 5:27pm On Sep 25, 2022
thebosstrevor1:


I know, you are in a very hard situation.

The best solution is to forget about the child until she grows up.

If you cant forget about the child, Make sure to always keep in contact with the mum, so that if they move somewhere else, you could easily trace them.

Yeah that’s one of my plans cos right now even if it works out as I want it I can’t cater for her and at the same times I feel sad that another man is wasting his resources on my daughter. Thanks for your advice boss
Politics / Re: Please Advice! I Feel Played By My Ex And I Want A Revenge by Prosperous111(m): 5:19pm On Sep 25, 2022
thebosstrevor1:


Even a little hair from the child can be used for dna.

Get one anytime she come with the child to see you.

But if dem cash you, na oyo you dey

Lol. I can’t even do that
Politics / Re: Please Advice! I Feel Played By My Ex And I Want A Revenge by Prosperous111(m): 5:15pm On Sep 25, 2022
thebosstrevor1:


Carry the child and do dna test to acertain the owner.

Now you are just on superstitious mode.

I can’t carry her go do dna text. She’s in another mans home
Politics / Re: Please Advice! I Feel Played By My Ex And I Want A Revenge by Prosperous111(m): 5:12pm On Sep 25, 2022
thebosstrevor1:
Is dream na dna test grin

You see child for dream you think say na your own

The child resemble your family last born, you think say na your own.


Bro you can’t understand. This is not just a mere talk. Before making that conclusion do you think it’s just a play?

I have been battling this for long inside me. Even a friend of mine knows she was mine. The last time I speak to my ex about this and that was three months ago. She said if I wanted to claim the child I should just give her a notice so she can take her own life before I do that to her. Why committing suicide if I wasn’t the rightful owner? You can’t understand please
Politics / Re: Please Advice! I Feel Played By My Ex And I Want A Revenge by Prosperous111(m): 5:04pm On Sep 25, 2022
Mods please help push this to FP
Politics / Please Advice! I Feel Played By My Ex And I Want A Revenge by Prosperous111(m): 5:03pm On Sep 25, 2022
Hi Nairalanders!!

Please forgive me for any grammatical errors and for posting this in inappropriate sections.

There’s this particular issues that always bothered my mind and makes me sleepless sometimes at nights. This happened to me and it wasn’t a copy and paste threads and I am being sincere here.

It all happened back in 2015. I was in my early twenties then and Jobless as at that time, a friend of mine came to visit me at home and I told him about my jobless status and he promised to get me on the work he was doing. A filling station attendant.

In the following week I took my application letters there and I was told to start working that same day. It seems like a dream cos I never expected I could be accepted just like that without me bringing any guarantor or formal interviews.

On my very first day at work my manager gave me 300 naira to go buy a Chelsea gin(ogogoro) I bought it and give him and he asked me to take it that it’s mine because i had to start with a night duty and he told me that’s how they rolled on the work every night. I take it and that’s my first day of drinking any alcoholic drinks.

Fast forward to the main issues. There’s is this lady at work, she was so beautiful and respected by all staffs and I get to know that she’s the supervisor. She’s older than me with three good years. She’s smart and very caring, to me in particular.

Unknowingly to me she has been watching me so close and I don’t even know anyone is watching my moves or the way I dress. I’m a little handsome and a caring guy and my hardworking has no boundaries.

We started getting close the day she was traveling to Lagos and I happened to be away from work a day before that day. I had to resume to work very early and she was traveling same morning. She called me when I was at home preparing for work. She said she want both us to have a fast breakfast at a captain cooks near the motor park. I accepted and we meet. If you’re familiar with fast food years ago you will know there are some photographers that do takes pictures of people entering and go print it fast for them. We both steps in the restaurant and a guy took our pictures together, the guy ask us to hold hand in the second shots and we did. Mind you I always call her aunty cos she’s older than me. The guy printed the pictures then she paid for it herself and kept it in her bags.

We get to the park and the next motor in turn can only accommodate a single passenger to ijebu ode. Since she was going far I asked her to take on the motor but she insisted that we take same car and she’s ready to wait for another motor. I pet and beg her then she agreed. She’s in tears but I don’t know why. Those are the parks thoughts we were dating but I played along really well why calling her sister please stop crying. Her car left and mind get in turn for loading. I called her immediately I get to work and the calling started from there the whole day. The next day while in Lagos she told me she was about using 5 days in Lagos before but because of me she would be back tomorrow in which would make it three days that she was away. She said she wanted to see me before my next off day which is the day she would arrives. I waited that day and she arrived. She bought me boxers as a gift which I accepted with big smiles cos I didn’t expect it. Getting to our conversation that said day she explained her past relationships and what she want in a man. She has been in a very abusive relationship this and that. I was so concerned and worried about her. She told me she loves me and I’m exactly the typified man she ever prayed for. I was shocked and wasn’t expecting that. Mind you I’m young and dumb back then. But I have a big stature and a mature body and voice.

On getting home that day I take on of my closet’s friends to a bar and I discussed the issues with him. He was a street guy. He advise me to call her back and told her I love her too. Then I did and the lady was so very happy. She asked me to stop calling her sister which I did.

Fast forward to when everything started getting sour. We had our first sex on 24th of December 2015 and the following week she started sleeping at work and feeling cold. Two weeks later she told me she was pregnant and I didn’t fear or surprised cos I wasn’t pulling out when we had intimacy and she never let me use a condom even when I bought a pack of it. I was even joking about naming my son boluwatife that day while she laugh it off. I told her do you know I’m not financially stable now and she said yes she knows that she won’t disturb me with the pregnancy, she said she’s ready to keep the child and train her till I am financially stable. She said she would go to her grandma and I shouldn’t worry. As days go by I started having that feelings or working hard to be responsible and to work things out with her. I raised a little amounts of money and asked her to get an apartment because she told me she was living with friends but it’s a lie. She was living with a man. The man he told me that was very abusive was her husband. They’re not legally married but she was living with him. And I didn’t know till the very last day.

We’ve once talked about the incoming child when she was at early ages. And we both have sex till she was like 5 months pregnant. I had to leave the jobs and get something nice for myself cos I had to be responsible and I have a good plans about both of us. Then I traveled and my phone got stolen. I was away for two months and when I finally came back I look for her and we meet. She said we need to talk but I didn’t know what she wanted to tell me. Then I finally fixed a friend place to meet. She came and told me that I wasn’t responsible for the pregnancy that she’s sorry. She said she calculated the day we had sex and it wasn’t my own. We had sex on 24th of December and she told me her man raped her on 26th of December that it was her husband that’s responsible.

A months before I leave the working place I have find out that she’s living with a man and that has caused a lot of issues between us. I lied when I said I lost my phone to her. I just went on a low cos I was heartbroken.

When she made the confession that I wasn’t responsible for it, a part of me was happy cos I feel relieved off my burden and heavy thoughts while a part of me feel played and I think she was just deceiving me. She gave birth in September and my babe was 7 years this September.

I feel played and betrayed. Whenever my ex see me she always feel on top of the world. And the worst of it the girl child look exactly like our last born in my family.

I have dreamt a lot of dreams about the child’s. Sometimes she would bring the child to greet me in the dream. Sometimes I would just ask about the baby in my dream. I feel restless and I don’t know what to do. I have prayed several times and they told me she’s mine.

She has been separated from the guy and the baby was with her husband mum. Please any advice on what to do? I’m not financially okay yet and my fiancée know about the girl in particular.

Please any advice for me?

I’m sorry for wasting your time with this long words. Actually that’s my awful experience in my early twenties.

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Foreign Affairs / Re: See The World Leaders In Attendance And Those Not Invited To The Queen's Funeral by Prosperous111(m): 5:00pm On Sep 23, 2022
ArchiLimited:
Erm...where was Osibaba sitting?

Lol he Dey under tent for outside grin

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Foreign Affairs / Re: Four Russian Liberated Regions In Ukraine Have Scheduled To Hold “referendums” by Prosperous111(m): 8:36pm On Sep 20, 2022
ljoh:


IPOB claiming Yoruba boy

Oponu ayirada
Foreign Affairs / Re: Four Russian Liberated Regions In Ukraine Have Scheduled To Hold “referendums” by Prosperous111(m): 6:39pm On Sep 20, 2022
They said Putin is loosing but the smart man has achieved his aims and targets

By the way! I have staked 100k on my favorite candidates that would win the 2023 elections. Don’t waste your money on BAT and ATIKU they no get better odds oh.

Notes:- I am a yoruba boy oh incase you start calling me any awful names grin

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Travel / Re: Bridge Collapses Along Minna-Bida Road by Prosperous111(m): 9:51am On Sep 14, 2022
Julius begger grin

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Politics / Re: Yorubas Support Tinubu Over Fear Of Igbo Resurgence, Money Worship – Peter Obi by Prosperous111(m): 5:02am On Sep 13, 2022
Hmmmmm

Sha no too jam talk

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Celebrities / Re: Controversial Singer, Portable Has Dragged Goya Menor Again As They Continue To by Prosperous111(m): 12:59am On Sep 08, 2022
Onimukumu omo grin
Career / Re: Meet Kabiru Salawu: A Nigerian Photographer Using His Photos To Tell Stories by Prosperous111(m): 7:24pm On Aug 23, 2022
Wetin make we meet?

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Politics / Re: Magu Killed High-profile Cases While Chasing After ‘yahoo Boys’; Salami Panel by Prosperous111(m): 7:17pm On Aug 17, 2022
International thief thief dem

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Romance / Re: You Won't Believe What A Lady Did After Listening To My New Song (pics) by Prosperous111(m): 8:22am On Aug 13, 2022
Change producer Abeg. Your current music producer is not advising you well at all. I’m a music producer myself and I also shots musical videos. The instrumental for the songs needs an high-pitch voice and see how heavy and low your voice is on the beat? It doesn’t make sense but you can improve yourself overtime if you want to. There’s talent in music and if you don’t have the talent you can learn it or firstly go for a voice training, people who grows up in the church don’t need to go for any voice trainings again but if you’re not related to church you can go learn it within 6 months periods then trust me your music life will change and you will know all this you’re making isn’t music yet.

Please I love musicians and I know every hard work behind a single release so please and please go and work on your voice before you make another songs. Big love!!
Politics / Re: Niger Republic Takes Delivery Of ₦1.4b Vehicles Approved By APC Govt [VIDEO] by Prosperous111(m): 2:40pm On Aug 07, 2022
When the next president emerged by 2023 then he will announce what’s remaining in Nigeria, how much loan we are owing. But has for me I know buhari has finished Nigeria treasures
Crime / Re: One-minute Enjoyment Landed Me In Cell – Herbalist Accused Of Rape - Photo by Prosperous111(m): 2:50pm On Aug 06, 2022
Uncontrollable body don land this wan for prison. See fast work for there sha shocked
Politics / Re: States Of The Nation (nigeria) -prosperous by Prosperous111(m): 4:07pm On Aug 02, 2022
Mynd4 push this thing nah wink
Politics / Re: States Of The Nation (nigeria) -prosperous by Prosperous111(m): 3:54pm On Aug 02, 2022
Lalasticlala this thing fit for front page? tongue undecided
Politics / States Of The Nation (nigeria) -prosperous by Prosperous111(m): 3:48pm On Aug 02, 2022
It’s no longer a news for the current states of Nigeria as of today, insecurity is thieving in every part of Nigeria and no where is safe or free from kidnappings and all sort of terror activities, there’s at least hundreds of kidnappings every single day in Nigeria, ranging from the northern part, to the Eastern part, North central and even the once peaceful southwestern Nigeria and the south south, there are tons of unreported kidnappings that never make it to the news headlines everyday.

Apart from kidnappings there are other insecurity raging the country on a daily basis without any serious actions taken by the government.

It’s not a new story that the insecurity are sponsored by those in the corridors of powers (government) why would a government with one of the best military on land can’t defeats just insurgency in about 7 years of their reigns? We have the Army, Air Force, Nigerian Police, The secret inteligence police(DSS) Joint Task Force(JTF), Nigeria Customs, Navy’s and many more armed groups of gallant men and women to curb insecurities but all this couldn’t save us or reduced insecurity.

There are several cases where men’s in the army were denied proper and indequate arms for fighting against terrorism in the north back then before it spread to the south, I once have a street brother in the army and he revealed most of the situation they faced in the army, he has gone to countless times of compromised missions where they would be ambushed by the militias and got engaged with heavy fires! How on earth would someone outside the military would know a roadmap of soldiers in the barracks or even know about their missions? Of course those are the hand works of government placed generals they have in the barracks.

Let’s look at this points, it’s impossible to attack an army formation like you’re attacking unharmed places and go away with it killing several servicemen, they have barricades sets up, they have men’s on ground that watch situation at a given post, and every army bases would have at least few miles of free views without anything blocking their views from miles away which would give them an opportunity to detect any suspicious moves or detect if there would be an attacks, the men’s on post would sound an alarm and get the others in the barracks sets for contact and engagement. But because they were been compromised and sold out they couldn’t override any attacks and they all got killed in it sometimes.

The bandits are well funded and equipped and can shoot up thousands of bullets for longer hours while a government owned military can’t engaged for longer hours due to poor funding and inadequate equipment. Let’s not deceived ourselves our government are seriously involved in terrorism.

If the government are ready to defeat this monsters today they will succeed because they have a known location, they moved on hundreds of motorcycle to their targets, they have poor intelligence and that is if the government would stop feeding them with the plans going on in the military or any other force. They are uneducated and can be defeats with simple strategies and updated equipment like drones and some high techy weapons up in the west, Nigeria can afford it.

There are few questions that I asked myself about all this insecurities going on and I will appreciate if any sensitive human could get along with my views and opinions.

BASIC GENUINE QUESTIONS

(1) Firstly why is the government not taking any serious actions about all this insecurities?

(2) why is the State government looking up to the federal government to secure life’s and property in their states? There’s is 36 states in Nigeria including the federal capital, Abuja and they all look to the federal government for actions, why is that?

(3) why is the federal government and the attorney general of the federation going against setting up states policing for every States in Nigeria?

(4) after years of brutal killings of the Fulanis, why is the government still classifying there attacks on farmers as herders and farmers clash? Is there any cases where armed farmers has killed hundreds of herders in any states?

Don’t forget the Fulanis are still claiming victims, they still said they’re marginalized, they said they have been cheated in Nigeria, they said they weren’t educated and want some schools, they want hospitals and want government funding in there business, they want a grazing lands for free in the 36 states of the country for free. They want to occupy every rainforest without anyone to checkmate them. They’re still pushing for all this things and they will not stop.

ANOTHER HINTS!!!

Whenever I see people commenting on how they will take over Abuja I just smile out loud cos that’s not their plans, they said they wanted to wage a war and that’s not their intentions and plans either, remember they have paid masters and sponsors? They can’t take the power sits cos in every terrorism like this they always have a upper power that they love and respect. This is just their plans, they want to make it similar like the Niger delta militants that picked up arms years ago to fight government and later got amnesty from the president. There will be very much attacks lately and the intentions behind it is to get an amnesty from the government cos they were both playing it out. Let’s not lie to ourselves this people are so smart and I respect their game plan cos if there can’t be any provocation that would cause a civil unrest throughout the federation then they will actualize their plans. Mark this days down in your notes this will comes to pass. After those hard attacks the government would calls for negotiations and ask them what the Fulanis want. It would be those things we all know of them asking before and it would be what I list up there earlier. They will give them amnesty and they won’t be prosecuted, mind you that’s the first phase of their game-plans. If Buhari didn’t do that then Atiku would announce that in his first year.

The future of this countries depends on the youth right now and I see a revolution coming soon, it wasn’t a war or any unrest. It’s unimaginable, it’s unbelievable and those at the higher office didn’t believe it could happened either.

• SOLUTIONS TO INSECURITIES IN NIGERIA •

(1) every states should stand up and be responsible for their states, starting from the local government.

(2) there should be state IDs issued by every states apart from our National ID card. This IDs should be mandatory to every living person in the states and it should be enforced to take along while going hours away from your home, everyone should always have it on.

(3) states police should be reformed and equipped with latest systems and enough equipment to check on any individual’s citizenship or to run a faster check on any individual records

(4) states should employ capable youths for programming of government databases, websites, and other techy stuffs.

(5) a team of police shouldn’t be more than two officers in a car with a system inside their cars for fast identification, and a pistol on, dash camera and adequate working radios for communications apart from their own mobile phones. In this case bribery and extortion would reduce cos it’s 101% transparency.

(6) there should be another section of police that are more armed and responsive than the normal mobile policeman, they can make it anything, those would be responsive to higher threats that’s beyond just pistols shootout,

(7) introducing police dispatchers for every states, police dispatchers are like customers care that pick up your emergency number when you called, they will take down your complaints, take your address down and dispatch the newest officers stationed or patrolling around your vicinity to your address in just minutes. Yes it’s possible in Nigeria, we have the resources.

(cool introducing boarder guards controlled by states, and they will only work within their states boundaries, why will an Ondo man be a boarder guards in nassarawa? No that’s awful and it must stops.

(9) introducing state forest guards or rangers for 24 hours patrols of every states forestry with heavy monitoring and a responsive communication

(10) introducing states fire departments working 24/7

(11) introducing another force that would be controlled by states and would be capable of carrying out any attacks or executing any threats to the states or people of the states. They’re not army but would be like another force entirely.

(12) introducing regional police in the rural areas such as villages, small town with adequate access to minimal weapons and steady communication.

(13) there should be an emergency number for the police force and it must be free to dial or speak with them. And it must be at least 15 minutes late to respond or attend to in security assistance.

(14) states driver license should be encouraged, and no one should be road worthy without any drivers license.

(15) their should be a database online to check any plates number or individual that owns any certain plates numbers and this should be free to access by the police force for tracking.

NOTICE:- I know all this can’t work without adequate electricity, It can’t work with inexperienced leaders or old grandpas, it can’t work without good roads, it can’t work with corrupts individuals in governments sits, and that’s why Nigeria needs a great and visionary leaders.

ON THE OTHER HAND!

(I) There should be jail time for any corrupt government officials, either you stoles just one thousand naira in office or millions, there should be jail time for them and it must be a public prosecution that everyone would knows about and there mustn’t be any separated jails for them, let them go to kiri kiri and other prisons that accommodates criminals, with this corruption and will reduce.

(II) there should be reward rewards for every honest public workers, there’s should be steady promotion without anyone buying it. And the corrupts one should face the wrath’s of the laws

(III) the salaries of every governors, senators, local government chairman, representatives and even the president should be reduced by 90% they are their to serve us and not to eat us to the bone

(IV) no pension for any past governments official

Abeg help put your own join my brain don stop working for now


notice:- didn’t writes this to promote anybody or tamed any personalities, this is my own views about my country and that’s my opinion about everything. No one should come for my head.
Politics / Re: State Of The Nation: God Can Make Nigeria Great Again — Kumuyi by Prosperous111(m): 3:20pm On Jul 28, 2022
Yes God can make it great again but it's left for us citizens to decide. Abi make we kuku dey hope for the split up
Politics / Re: ISWAP Mobilising RPGs, AA Guns, GPMGS, Fighters To Attack Katsina, Lagos - NSCDC by Prosperous111(m): 12:27pm On Jul 27, 2022
biggy4joe:
The terrorist are coming closer,they want to take over the country dis fools thing violence is for just some people.....But they will see wahala 2secs make dem dey come we are waiting for them,Nigerians would destroy them we will stand up and define our country thats how the revolution would start.
Nigerians are waiting for them,we have suffered enough to allow aliens come and take over our land like we are ants,we will fight the survival fight and chase them away,Nigerians won't know tribe, religion,ethnicity or language all they would know is the freedom....God answered Nigeria prayers along time ago but they haven't realized,even Tobi knew she wasn't the one running that day at the world champions,she was running for survival(Osondu).That was her last change,and the Gloria of God that is in our country took charge thats the Nigerian spirit,thats our only power now and God approved 1000%.Let them come,let them shoot dis time around it would be different.....The fight would not be a a religious war nah,its gonna be a fight for survival Nigerians would survival and Nigeria would stand let them come we ain't scared of them.
Every bad person would run away from the country,Nigerians will chase them away and elect a leader that would be the image of Africa.Africa would rise!!!!
Let them come!!!!

I love your spirit bro! Same thing as me, no time to be a coward and man can only die once!
Politics / Re: ASUU Strike: Buhari Has Given Us Go Ahead To Intervene - Tinubu by Prosperous111(m): 7:30pm On Jul 13, 2022
As per say the vice president abi the incoming destroyers?

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Travel / Re: Soldier Dies After Allegedly Falling Off Army Van On His Way To Kaduna (Photos) by Prosperous111(m): 10:53pm On Jul 11, 2022
Rastaramsey:


Keep wailing grin
I still collect 50$ goggle play yesternight grin

How you take sell am Abeg? I still get $200 since last week

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