₦airaland Forum

Congrats to Anita for filing for a divorce.
This is the consequences of CHEATING.
If you are a MAN or WOMAN out there who's DNA is laced with CHEATING, DO NOT GET MARRIED!.
If you , your partner will treat your Bleep UP like the way Anita has done to Paul.

Dear OP, it's your fault that this is happening to you. Did you and your wife discuss this issue when dating? Did you tell her that the issue of religion is a very important aspect of your life? Did you tell her the consequences of what will happen if one of you go against this? If YES, kindly stand your ground without being moved with her CHEAP EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL. If NO, kindly allow her CONTROL you with ease. LOL

Hello nairalanders,

I won't say it's my friend sister or whatever,it's me. It's my question

For 5years of marriage, it's been conflicting about this church matter.

Where in the Bible did they say it's compulsory for the wife to go to the husband's church? I attended dominion city, and he attends redeem (RCCG), I tried for the first two years to follow him to redeem, but I couldn't feel it, every Sunday it's like going and coming from a wedding not a church, that feeling of feeling the Holy Spirit and being blessed is not there, I don't know who understands this feeling.

I talked to him in d third year he allowed me go back to my dominion city, and in d fourth year he stopped me again, I'm a worker there o, now till the fifth year I'm still forced to attend redeem, I have tried my best to open my heart to the church but no way...

Their ways just tire me at redeem, I miss the love, togetherness, prayers, worship and preaching at dominion city. Please I'm sorry I mentioned the name of churches i know some people love redeem, so I'm sorry.

Now for a month now, I have not gone to any church, and I'm tired of the whole thing, please matured advice needed.


Thanks

johnjay4u2u:
Could be allergic rhinitis or worst case a chronic sinusitis.
For allergic rhinitis, as long as you are exposed to the allergen (could be dust, flower, grass that was just cut, fan in a dusty room, AC etc) you will keep having the symptoms.
It can only be managed by resolving the symptoms.
Go to a teaching hospital for care.
Few tests would be required of you.
If the source is not tackled and you go with some jargons I am reading here, you will just have relieved symptoms for few days and it will reoccur.
Take care

This is me ooo. I've been having allergic rhinitis and sinusitis since I was a child. I'm 30+ now I'm not happy that I'm still suffering from it. I've done series of tests, taking a tipper loads of drugs and I've gone herbal. Still no permanent solution in sight. I. AM. T-I-R-E-D.

One thing I have observed in Nigeria is that the Nigerian parents is intentionally damaging the psyche of their children.

You raised your daughters that COOKING , CLEANING and TAKING CARE OF THE HOME validates their WOMANHOOD. In reality, it is a LIE FROM HELL. Once these three POWERS are taking away from her by her HOUSE HELP as a married woman, she automatically become LESS OF A WOMAN / USELESS. She suffers from a chronic disease called LOW SELF ESTEEM.

You also raised your sons that PROVIDING MONEY FOR THEIR FAMILY / HEAD OF THE HOME validates their MANHOOD. In reality , it is a LIE FROM HELL. Once the power of provision/leader of the home is taking away from him by life (he lost his job) , he automatically becomes LESS OF A MAN / USELESS. He suffers from a chronic disease called LOW SELF ESTEEM.

I don't know HOW we got here. I can assure you that we are raising a generation of BROKEN MEN and WOMEN with this TOXIC and BABARIC MINDSET.

To those of you hailing Pete , I want to congratulate you for endorsing a BABARIC CULTURE that will DESTORY the lives of your CHILDEN and UNBORN CHILDREN in the future.