TheEnygma:

First of all , just know that I don't support infidelity in marriage but the truth is this; if she wants to divorce and can't take care of the kids, she should simply hand over custody of the kids to the man and not look for an excuse to leech from the man.... FYI , In America divorce often favors women financially, which is exactly the reason why the divorce rates there are very high.
What you should know is that Most American women have turned marriage into a "get rich quick scheme"......
usually they'll target a rich naive guy,
make him fall for her,
Marry him for period of time,
File for divorce over petty issues,
And have the courts split the man's wealth with her....

Paul's wife knows very well that filing for divorce in America is gonna favor her more than in Nigeria.

MummyD2020:


Says who? They are Okoyes, yes but that doesnt mean they can't do a 360 degree turn against them. Its like you have not heard or seen where kids grew up in their maternal home only to associate with the dad's side out of obligation. The woman can have 100% of the kids attention.m esp in this case. They are from the Okoyes by chance. I hope you will say the same thing if its the woman that cheated. Okoyes gain kor

Fountainofyouth:


So Anita is now the strange woman not Lola? Lmao the God of Lola never sleeps indeed

I sincerely pity other tribes marrying Igbo men, honestly.

eyinjuege:
Paul wasn't only sleeping with their maids, but also different IG slay queens.
Another woman is pregnant for him
He beats Anita steadily.
Anita is from a very good home, well educated and a very easy going simple woman. She no dey like drama, she minds her business. She was there when he still had tolotolo long neck with nothing and she stuck with him then.
She has been enduring all this while, but if he seems unrepentant and even tells her to do her worst, what exactly is left to salvage in the marriage?
A marriage can only work if 2 people are on the same page.
Paul aka RUDEBOY listens to nobody, so there's even nobody to advice him to try to salvage what's left of the marriage.
What is the wife supposed to do in such a situation where she stays miserable. Should she live in misery for life?
Some marriages will make you contemplate suicide or even murder. If it reaches that stage, best to waka.

MufasaLion:


Follow your own advice when your wife sleeps around. Till then I ain't taking any of your words serious.

Tzar:
Mr. P and his wife were not the problem after all! We all just demonized them for our rubbish sentiments.

Trojan8:


See mentality! If you want to get married, make sure you get the social media handles of your partner especially Twitter and Nairaland so you know exactly how they reason.

rosalieene:

I remember just right before their wedding.
He impregnated a 19yrs old beauty queen in 2014.

I don't know how they were able to shut the girl's mouth up till date.
That was a red Flag for Anita to call off the wedding then.
People never really change.

bukatyne:

bukatyne:


So this type of fire was burning under his roof and he still had the guts to call Lola a witch?

Perhaps Lola's witchcraft has come to play.

elonmuskbaby:
I knew there was more to this matter because people were saying it's strange for a Nigerian woman to walk out of a marriage when there is money.so the issue is infidelity and yet he was harassing his brothers wife and quarelling with his brother yet he get him own for body

It serves him right.if he had focused on working on his character and marriage, maybe this drama won't have come up

He refused to remove the spec in his eye yet he's complaining about the log in another person's eye

Broda ode.his mom must be so disappointed in him.see a grown man stooping so low to sleep with his maids yet trying to scatter his brothers marriage.shame on him

Broda daleru daleru.them bring househelp make he dey assist your wife you dey deek am ,if you no pity yourself shey you no go pity your own daughters.agbaya oshi.exposing your rotten deek to househelp.tufiaaa

psam223:
Congrats to Anita for filing for a divorce.
This is the consequences of CHEATING.
If you are a MAN or WOMAN out there who's DNA is laced with CHEATING, DO NOT GET MARRIED!.
If you , your partner will treat your Bleep UP like the way Anita has done to Paul.

jaxxy:


U can always marry an independent woman nah

Also See Davido.

akanbiaa:
You are right but do you know there are also some men who love their wives and cheat on them and the wife will still not ask for divorce but such men try as much as possible not to impregnate other women outside , for if a man impregnates another woman no matter how much the wife loves him she will feel betrayed ,humiliated and the need to break the union and cash out is borne more out of avoiding unknown children coming to lay claims on her and her husband collective wealth in the future when husband is no more and the documents are in his name.

MufasaLion:


He's a hypocrite trying hard to look like a smart person.

By the way, in your sig., you should change the 'Am' in your second sentence to 'I'm'.

bukatyne:


Thanks for the correction, done.

MajorGeneralLaw:
please I need that fountainofyouth pictures and mobile number.
I will personally give you something you'll appreciate.
Pls bro I need her number or Facebook account or any of her details and pictures.
I need to teach that bastard a lesson

Druss:


Which gender? Females? Aren't you born of woman? Does a fruit differ from its tree?

24brains:
so maids no be human being again?

When a maid can cook, tiding up the house, take proper care of kids, attends to oga's need in a speed of light, she certainly will snatch the husband from the idle wife with entitlement mentality.

fineberry:
I base my point sir on the ground of marital vows and sanctity...... I see no reason to start doing hidey hidey with your maid( house help) when you av your wife...that's the basis for my assertion... Not because a maid isnt a person oooo eh.

MufasaLion:


Nope, she's using his mistakes to her own advantage.

BewareOf419:


Fear woman o