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Nope... I don't smoke. Absolute deal-breaker.

There is a survey that is floating around that says that the more men that women sleep with, the less likely that their marriages will be successful. I believe there's some truth to it, but I wouldn't say it's absolute or that it's a general representation. Take that for what it's worth.

Unfortunately, I agree with the starter of this thread. My rationale comes from being a former fat kid that tried dating women that were "within my league" but was constantly dissed by big women who were fat themselves but wanted fit, muscular men. By no means am I a ugly man, in fact, I'm an attractive male that the majority of black women throughout the diaspora would find attractive(I can give fit men a run for their money)and despite this posting, I'm a high character guy, but that doesn't matter to the majority of women(not limited to, but including black women, especially in the States).

Fat men know that when we are fat, we get NO ATTENTION from females and will continue to do so until we lose weight. Women expect and often receive attention regardless of desirability or character, even from highly desirable men. Whether or not those men' intentions are pure or not doesn't change the fact that women get the attention and men don't while looking like supreme hypocrites denigrating fat men, and then, have the nerve to get upset when attractive men state their preference for having no attraction to fat women.

Since losing my weight, I haven't dated a chick that is more than 200lbs(give or take some pounds, depending on height.)and I prefer fit women.