Car Talk › Re: Innoson Releases Luxury IVM G80 And G40 SUV (Photos) by pstnicodemus(m): 6:48pm On Nov 30, 2017 |
nairavsdollars: If FG will allow Biafra independence, the South East will be rubbing shoulders with the likes of China, Japan and Dubai my brother, Japan and China technology is beyond making cars o. not plenty counties in the world can rub shoulder with them. |
Health › Re: i.Con: World's First Smart Condom Detects STDs, Rates Men's Performance by pstnicodemus(m): 5:41am On Nov 30, 2017 |
ozo13: the thing go dey expensive die. na to buy fairly used one na |
Christianity Etc › Re: Drop Your Top Worship Songs Foreign Or Local by pstnicodemus(m): 8:32am On Nov 26, 2017 |
Local:- God guide me & Jump and pass By Terry G |
Sports › Re: Yakubu Aiyegbeni Celebrates His 35th Birthday Today by pstnicodemus(m): 9:43am On Nov 22, 2017 |
olaolulazio: Happy birthday bro....
I remember d day u missed one on one chance. it was not one on one, it was one on nothing |
Sports › Re: Yakubu Aiyegbeni Celebrates His 35th Birthday Today by pstnicodemus(m): 9:43am On Nov 22, 2017 |
sleek82: You mean 45? no na.
as dem say 35, you suppose know say na 53 |
Family › Re: My Wife Betrayed My Trust On Her. Help!!!! by pstnicodemus(m): 7:24am On Nov 15, 2017 |
akpunda86: I had a child out of wedlock and when i met my wife, I told her and the mum and they said okay, five years into our marriage my wife told the sister, in fact all my secrets with my wife, the sister knows.
Not that she did it in private but made a call to her in my presence, was my life secret with her but now her whole family knows, even if they know bf, no problem but now making me to know they know, I just hate her.
The love i had for her died immediately, I see more as a room mate now as she irritates me, our kid just bond between us.
What happened......what is cause of problem, it's a pity but she has had 9 miscarriages and i told her I'm tired of hearing that news, well she flared up and said she be packing out, any small problem she packs her bag well i told her if she packs, i will go and bring my ex gf and daughter bk.
My marriage to her was a mistake, I'm just hating her everyday cos the worst i hate is my in-laws meddling in my affairs, Am i the first guy to have a kid out of wedlock, then why she threatening me.
For five years I have not seen my daughter but now i will, if my wife wants to go, she is free to go. You did the right thing seeking advice, that's obviously cos you want to do the right thing and you still feel something for you wife, no matter how little. Miscarriages are caused by certain factors, could be physical, psychological, or even spiritual. No marriage in the world is free from challenges, i can tell from my personal experience but it's better having other marital issues than having issues with your wife cos no matter the issue, you and wifey can overcome if you are united. I think that's the part you need to work on, improve on the friendship with your wife and communication is extremely important. Prayer is the key, but you both have work to do. Have a heart to heart talk with her, if she's ready to continue, you both can pull through. The trauma of loosing a child is bad for a man, but trust me it's worse for the woman. Finally, love isn't enough to sustain marriage when it matters the most. Little things like playing together, making her laugh at least ten times daily, helping her out with chores, praying together, sure it will change. And may God himself strengthen you both. Cheers. |
Sports › Re: Mikel Obi, Super Eagles Team Arrive Russia Ahead Of Match Against Argentina.PICS by pstnicodemus(m): 7:59pm On Nov 12, 2017 |
tukdi: Prof. Steve Ugbah my man! 
A strong Benue Politician!!!  Ugba Nyor isho chenji |
Celebrities › Nigerian Comedian Addresses P Square (audio And Video) by pstnicodemus(op): 10:29am On Nov 10, 2017 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Reinhard Bonnke's 2017 Crusade Farewell In Lagos, Nigeria (Pictures - Day 1) by pstnicodemus(m): 10:54am On Nov 09, 2017 |
Mckandre: did he ever mention Nigeria was his home to u  I taya o |
Music/Radio › Re: Nairalander/ Comedian Sends Strong Message To P Square by pstnicodemus(op): 10:44am On Nov 07, 2017 |
if they don't do the needful after watching this, I give up |
Music/Radio › Nairalander/ Comedian Sends Strong Message To P Square by pstnicodemus(op): 10:43am On Nov 07, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: How Do I Tell My Neighbour She Has Staph? by pstnicodemus(m): 9:32am On Nov 02, 2017 |
kelvinUchiha: Hi Nairalanders,
I just packed into a new house last month and things have been moving really fast for me. So much stress and I had spent a lot of money furnishing my apartment and moving stuffs. So, two weeks ago my neighbour came to my house to greet me(as new neigbour things) I was very excited because she was beautiful and around my age bracket. I told her to come in, this was around 11:00 am i offered her a drink and we were talking about so many things.
I found out she was just my type of girl quiet and intelligent. We talked about the previous tenants and she told me my house was fine. I was happy, I said finally all the stress from packing was worth it. She left by 6:45 pm that day. The next day, I saw her spreading clothes outside so I approached her, we greeted and she asked me if I've eaten. I said no so she said she cooked spaghetti and she would bring for me. She arrived with the food, I thought to myself this must be a wife material o. We were both eating till she said let her feed me. Like play like play I'd feed her and she'd feed me. Before I said Jack Robinson we were already kissing and smooching.
I wasn't with my condom and I wasn't prepared but I felt this girl was a nice and innocent girl. She probably just likes me. So I gently removed her clothes like a gentle man and we had sex. I swore to myself I won't release early or get tired so at least she would feel me and come back for more. We enjoyed ourselves, we were happy and I know she enjoyed it as well, she held my hand and we were stack naked gisting for about 20 minutes staring at each others eyes.
So eventually she went home.
After three days, I went to ease myself only to see white pus from my penis that morning. I was so surprised. My heart started beating and I rushed to my phone I googled it and I got things like UTI, gonorrhea, staph, HIV. I was really scared. I called her, she came and she was normal. I didn't tell her about it. I just wanted to find out if she purposely gave it to me but she seemed like she didn't know. I travelled home to see my mum. I went for test spent about 3k for urethral swab, blood test and urine analysis.
It came back positive for Staphylococcus. I was so annoyed at myself for not using a condom the same time relieved that it was negative for HIV. I spent a total of 9k on drugs and injection and I came back home. Mind you, I bought two packs of condom in case.
I like this girl and she likes me but I wasted one week treating the staph without telling her and if I tell her now she would see me as a bad person and I don't know how she would react if I tell her she gave it to me. I'm really confused because I don't want to lose the relationship. My mind is telling me not to tell her and continue using condom( she's very sweet) but I love her and I don't want it to be harmful to her but she may decide not to give me sex again. I'm worried.
Please for matured minds okay. Its really important, life is at stake. Thanks. I blame you 200%. in the absence of your wife, you manage your mother Inlaw. if there was no condom, u for find polythene bag na |
Travel › Accident Along Makurdi/lafia Road by pstnicodemus(op): 12:11am On Oct 29, 2017 |
Please, if your loved one traveled from abuja to Makurdi today, please call to confirm they arrived safe. A Toyota picnic going at a breakneck speed tried negotiating a bend at Udei, along Makurdi/Lafia road and almost had a head-on collision with our vehicle at about 5:49pm. The driver of our vehicle managed to dodge and the car lost control, and ended up inside a ditch. four people died on the spot. May their souls rest in peace.
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Culture › Re: James Ayatse's Daughter, Doofan Ayatse Marries. 1000 Paid As Bride Price by pstnicodemus(m): 8:38pm On Oct 08, 2017 |
victorazyvictor: so far I've seen sorry, I forgot. shebi na you win Most handsome dude in Nigeria 2017 |
Culture › Re: James Ayatse's Daughter, Doofan Ayatse Marries. 1000 Paid As Bride Price by pstnicodemus(m): 4:10pm On Oct 08, 2017 |
victorazyvictor: Plz o, why Tiv ladies no dey fine. shebi u don see all of them for this world finish? |
Culture › Re: James Ayatse's Daughter, Doofan Ayatse Marries. 1000 Paid As Bride Price by pstnicodemus(m): 4:08pm On Oct 08, 2017 |
josh123: NIGERIANS i HAIL UNA OOO,if d money small una go talk if he huge una go still talk,wetin!!!! Una life just tire me my brother, it's easier to deal with ten thousand cows than two human beings. u can never please them |
Career › Re: Nigerian Strongest Soldier Uses Teeth To Drag A Hilux Van, Others by pstnicodemus(m): 8:09am On Oct 08, 2017 |
Bekwarra: See belt e resemble may weather own |
Autos › Re: Used Mercedes-benz SLK 230 For Sale At Ibadan #price reduced by pstnicodemus(m): 11:09am On Oct 05, 2017 |
I am sooooo interested |
Crime › Re: Police Kill Ihechi Nwankwo, Most Wanted Imo Robber (Photo) by pstnicodemus(m): 10:55am On Oct 02, 2017 |
splenzard:
everyone they kill is most wanted..
what happened to Shekau, is he the least wanted e taya me o.
na him be the most wanted and we want him more dead than anyone else |
Pets › Re: A Mean Looking Muscular Dog (Photo) by pstnicodemus(m): 10:40am On Sep 30, 2017 |
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Sports › Re: Anthony Ujah And Elizabeth Pre-wedding Photos On The Pitch by pstnicodemus(m): 11:10pm On Sep 24, 2017 |
decatalyst: What is your own fa?
I beg what number was Khalid Boulahrouz wearing at Chelsea? He wore No 9!
Arouna Kone is a striker and he wore no 2 at a time...
Baros was never a defender at Liverpool but he wore number 5!
Its just a 'lovely' pre-wedding shots, let them be! Wilfred bony for Swansea dey wear 2.
William Galas wore 10 as a defender. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Muslims Block Road In Victoria Island To Pray, Causing Traffic Jam by pstnicodemus(m): 3:50pm On Sep 23, 2017 |
uwammebi: someone cannot pray again? 
make them do am for third mainland bridge na I second |
Sports › Re: Jay-Jay Okocha And Others Announce FIFA Best Awards Nominees. Photos by pstnicodemus(m): 7:33pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
kenonze:
 He may not have won many trophies But he was outstanding during his time. JJ okocha is a brand and trophies is the end product of football. with all that talent, he wasn't successful playing, just entertaining. Obviously why he never even won African best... I now agree with the saying, business before pleasure but he's still one of the greats during his time. |
Sports › Re: Jay-Jay Okocha And Others Announce FIFA Best Awards Nominees. Photos by pstnicodemus(m): 7:32pm On Sep 22, 2017 |
abdelrahman: Despite the talent,no african best player award,village's people are wicked. the thing taya me pass you. but no be village people matter. people were playing business football, he was playing to entertain |
Celebrities › Re: Eniola Badmus And Sophia Momodu In War Of Words Because Of Food (Photos) by pstnicodemus(m): 10:26am On Sep 18, 2017 |
tyson98: See as she finish aunty wulebantu  Point of correction, they didn't finish her, they COMPLETELY FINISHED her. #Fatality |
Politics › Re: Umuahia Youth Movement Gives Ikpeazu 24Hours To Dethrone Nnamdi Kanu's Father by pstnicodemus(m): 5:25am On Sep 18, 2017 |
Ochinex: Have no time for kids.. Swerve to hell eyaaa. no be me stop Biafra movement. wetin concern my post with you? and you taking something I said which obviously doesn't concern you shows your personal problems are bigger than Nigeria. "have no time for kids" oga, social media no be forum for age contest else, you no fit be the fourth person wey go follow me |
Politics › Re: Umuahia Youth Movement Gives Ikpeazu 24Hours To Dethrone Nnamdi Kanu's Father by pstnicodemus(m): 5:18am On Sep 18, 2017 |
Ochinex: For you mind you done crack joke good you said my mind. is it your mind?
no be me get my mind again? |
Politics › Re: Umuahia Youth Movement Gives Ikpeazu 24Hours To Dethrone Nnamdi Kanu's Father by pstnicodemus(m): 4:45am On Sep 18, 2017 |
lomprico: After the dethrone what next? Ipob dies? no, ipob can't die. they will now be referred to as iPad |
Politics › Re: Umuahia Youth Movement Gives Ikpeazu 24Hours To Dethrone Nnamdi Kanu's Father by pstnicodemus(m): 4:43am On Sep 18, 2017 |
Pedekunle: The youths are talking They have finally woken up from their sleep |
Politics › Re: Video Of Nnamdi Kanu's House After Army Invasion; His Dog Killed by pstnicodemus(m): 8:39pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Manchester United Vs Everton (4 - 0) On 17th September 2017 by pstnicodemus(m): 8:15pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
ovadozes: De Gea to the rescue De Gea no dey open shop on Sunday
#GateClosed |
Politics › Re: Army To Withdraw From Streets Of Abia State Tomorrow. Ikpeazu by pstnicodemus(m): 6:54pm On Sep 14, 2017 |
Ajisebioyolaari: This news is unconfirmed. However, if after the withdrawal of the NA from the streets, the IPOB miscreants still refuse to call themselves to order, they should be ready to face the full consequences of their actions.
Useless criminals comparing themselves with Catalan and Carlifornia......is this how Catalan and Carlifornia have been conducting themselves and causing civil disturbances to achieve their goal?
If IPOB were sensible people, they should have calmed down for Python dance to pass and continue with their struggle in a peaceful, orderly and non-incitive manner. I saw a video of BSS today refering to other Nigerians as "cockroaches" yet you want the UN to take you serious. Rubbish
Any föol can strike off my post and quote me with an afonja tribal mark picture. Thanks in anticipation of your föolishness. very well said man. the Catalan comparison dey funny me. I read today what Rafael Nadal, a Catalonian said today and I wished most people speaking on this matter without thinking deep will read it. we are stronger together than apart. let's give peace a chance and not satisfying the ideology of on man |