Officialgarri: Even though soldiers are tasked to always obey without complain, I think the officer took the best option by making a public outcry. If he had reported to a higher superior, the complaint would have still leaked to his direct boss and his punishment would double.
However, same cannot be applied to other cowards in military wears e.g one impersonator, Lance corporal Martin, —trained, decorated, and arrested by Sahara reporters all on their own. Little wonder, no credible news source aired the news neither was their any public outcry after SR claimed he had been detained by the Nigerian Army.
Another example are those cowards sent to battle Boko Haram and then they begin to release clips that they had spent 2 weeks in the bush and people should come to their aid. For Christ sake, what were you trained and armed for?
I completely agree with you. If you watch the video, he exhausted his options and this should serve as a lesson for others.
Bros,that man just give us facts now,were d people?I beg pinpoint one.
Governor Samuel Ortom of Benue state. Contested primaries under PDP in 2015 and lost. Defected to APC, became flag bearer and won the election. He still defected back to PDP before the 2019 election, contested and won.
Perpetual97: and please not every women cheat on their husband , in my side if you cheat on your husband you die or run mad... And if the man is aware , same thing happens to him...
Na you get time dey answer person wey no even use him real name open account or dey proud to talk where him come from. Most people on this platform just open fake account for purposes like this. Ignore them
kunleweb: Better. What an unfortunate player. Even in his present form and attitude even Al haly, Iwuanyu National, BBC Lions of Gboko, Kazier Chiefs, Ashante Kotoko, Dundee Utd, Kano Pillars, Salzburg, Althelic Bilbao wouldn't want him.
Pogba should be off loaded for free along with incompetents like Anthony Martial who would waste eight out of mine chances.
xjiggy: All of you coming here to shout tout and hooligans. Those fans pay good money to watch United get beat and are frustrated by Woodward's lack of football knowledge. All Woodward does is grow income for the Glazers to siphone. Just look at 19yr old with a buyout clause of less than £20MIL rejecting Man United for Dortmund. Instead Woodward will pay bastard salaries to useless players like Sanchez and Pogba just because he wants to sell Jerseys and merchandise in China.
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jesmond3945: my brother do you know is your mother we are talking about here. She is even making effort to mend fences, somebody that can even birth your wife. See I would call a meeting between both and trash it once and for all. Any party not willing should take the high road. All personal ego must fall for peace to reign.
E685: My wife and I have been together for 8 years now, married for 5. I am 33 and she is 30. We now have our first child, a son who is just turning 1. He is everything to both of us. Before our son, our relationship was strong, although to be honest I’ve always been frustrated with my wife’s way of handling issues. I’m the kind of person who is very hard to get angry, I hear people out, and I talk out my issues. I listen to all sides and I think logically before emotionally. I seek therapy when I’m stuck. My wife is the opposite. She reacts with emotions first. She is very quick to be offended by anything. She will shut down and refuse to communicate until she has had time to process. I do all of the work resolving issues we have. I sometimes wonder if I ever stop taking the high road and work through our issues, if anything would ever resolve itself. So that being said, conflict management aside, we are happy. We are passionate, have similar interests, and make each other laugh.
Then there’s my mother. Where to begin. My mother, while seen as incredibly loving and generous to many people, is also a person who has been shut out of so many relationships in her life that I really just feel bad. My father and her are divorced. She has a genuine phobia of being left out - of gatherings, of relationships, of family. She is extremely smart and knows how to manipulate people into doing what she wants. She also widely seen as a “difficult” person. She is difficult in that she finds great offense to issues many people would not notice or care about. If she feels wronged, she will overwhelm the person who wronged her with incessant questions trying to make them feel her side until they cave in. In her closest relationships, her absolute need for the show of love and inclusion and validation cause the very people she is trying to reel closer in to push her away, a self fulfilling prophecy. My Mom, while I love her, is her own worst enemy.
Needless to say, these two, my wife and my mother, clash. At first they liked each other. The very first issue involved our wedding planning. My wife had a very clear plan for the guest list, and my mom asked for a number of her friends to be included on the list. My wife did not want that, got immediately upset and the situation blew out of control. My mom called me nonstop asking why my wife could be so cold, unwilling to see her side, or give in even an inch. My wife felt my Mom was making the wedding all about her, and could not believe she was called cold. She was “done”. My mom wasn’t paying for a cent of the wedding either so this was another offense. In the end I brokered a compromise, much to the dismay of both women. Each held the grudge for a long time.
Occasionally my mother would do something that my wife disliked, and my wife would be pissed at me for not standing up for her. Admittedly I had never stood up to my mother, I always took the time to listen to her side and find reason behind her otherwise inflammatory ways. My wife and mother had a falling out right before the wedding, and forced me to choose sides. I struggled as I found both of them to be at fault. I chose my wife and my mother hated it. Ever since, basically anything that my mother says or does, whether good or not, offends my wife. Even the most genuine attempts by my mother to reach out to my wife are smacked down. My wife has never made any effort to release the past resentment. Over the years my mother has attempted to take the high road, only to be barely acknowledged by my wife. I have always pleaded with my wife to at least pretend to like my mother. She did a bad job of pretending because my mother would always call me and ask why my wife appears to never care or never let go of past feelings. So both saw through each other, my mother would continue to act happy and loving, while my wife never would.
Anyway now our son came into the picture. He is amazing and being the first grandchild on both sides, the grandparents want to be around him every chance they can get. My mother visit every weekend. I told my wife we have to let her do this. My wife dreaded this. I told my mother that one of the weekends, we wanted her to visit on a Sunday (staying over till Monday morning) instead of a Saturday because we had plans that Saturday. In actuality the day was a birthday celebration for my father in law, being held at her parents house. She just didn’t want my mother involved in everything so she put her foot down. My mother wouldn’t take no for an answer and pulled it out of me what we were doing that day. Well she took great offense to the fact that she was not automatically invited, and couldn’t believe how cold, unChristian, and I loving my wife and her family were.
This stuff affects me greatly so of course I share with my wife, and she exclaims she is done with my mother. No longer wants to be nice or pretend, she is tired of how much my mother always wants it all to be her way and then throws out insulting and hurtful words about my wife to get her way. I get messages from my moms friends telling me how I need to see things my moms way, they would never exclude their mother this way, and that my wife is causing all of this.
And so here we are. I saw my mother the next day, and my wife removed herself from the situation by staying out for the day. It was incredibly uncomfortable. I told my mother how mad I was at her for always being so difficult and never just letting it go. I told her my real feelings about how I wished she could stop needing such inclusion and love. Her response was that she is justified in wanting to be included in everything, and that my wife has never shown her any love or effort and it was obvious, so what could she possibly do? I told her my wife is willing to work on this, perhaps in professional therapy. But in reality my wife wants no part of that and has no desire to mend anything anymore. I think she resents me for trying to mend things.
So what do I do? I’m frustrated with my mom for being difficult, always needing more and never letting things go, and saying inflammatory things when she doesn’t get her way. But I see that all she’s ever wanted was peace and love, and my wife never gave her that. I’m frustrated with my wife for getting so easily offended at everything my mother says or does, and I wish she could make any effort to see the other side and let go of such a grudge. My mother is definitely strong willed and manipulative but I think there is love there if only we could work through it. My wife is extremely assertive and refuses to let anyone wrong her twice. Both think the other has always been dead wrong, the entirety of the blame, and will never change. My wife is ok never seeing my mother again, yet my mother says she wants to let bygones be bygones and attempt to work through it.
What should I do? Forever stuck in the middle. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
Bro, i carefully read through everything and really wish we had a phone conversation because the story has many things similar with mine, just a few differences. I'll just say what i can for now, take it or leave it, your mother MUST always come first and your wife must understand that. If she didn't raise you the way she did, your wife would never have met you. A good marriage is that which your wife for instance can pick up her phone and call your sister's husband. A case where she isn't getting on with your mom who she's supposed to learn so much from and possibly succeed her as mother of the house is rather unfortunate. Your ability to make certain hard decisions is what really makes you a man. Love and respect your wife, but on no account should she disrespect your mother. A marriage without her complete blessings won't be pleasant bro.
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