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jidemosaic:
24 sir

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jidemosaic:
Good day everyone, I have had this problem since I was in SS2 - about 15 years old. I was in a Biology class that fateful day and the teacher was treating the Reproduction System.

He mentioned the male s*men and asked how many of us had seen it before - it was a public school in Lagos. I was a completely ignorant person about sexuality before then, so he said we could use our hands to stroke our p*n*s to see what a male semen looked like. That was the genesis of my problem.

Engaging in the act from the start was out of innocence and curiosity to see what a s*m*n looked like. I was having my bathe that evening when I tried it with the soap lather. In about 15-20 minutes, I discovered my legs were weak and some thick substance got discharged. I had it out and felt it was some kind of discharge I needed to keep engaging in to ease my body, so I repeated it the next day.

Coupled with my classmates engagement in porn, I got inducted into watching pornography as well. It became hell. I watched porn and masturbated continually. Sometimes, I masturbated up to 5 times daily. But they still called me Pastor because my struggles were in secret.

It was that serious and worse to a point I got almost dehydrated. This went on, until I got saved after Reinhard Bonnke's farewell crusade in 2017.

After my salvation, I got baptised in the Holy Spirit and was able to stay away from the act for about a month. I was even happy that I had finally been delivered from the act.

Going into the next month, it resurfaced again and the struggle came up. I was always sad after every masturbation and always wondered why I still struggled after salvation.

I asked the Holy Spirit to make me impotent till I was ready for marriage. It didn't happen until I drifted off the faith after a while following up some indoctrination by some atheist-peers.

While off the faith, I got involved in a lot of sex engagements, outside masturbation with public sex workers.

To shorten the story, I got restored to the faith back and things has been difficult like when I left. I am still battling with masturbation, even though the law of God written on my heart tells me it is wrong. I have prayed, fasted, read the word to get myself off the hook but nothing seems to be working. At a point, I tied my p*n*s with a rope but never worked.

Worst of it is that I have a calling and everything looks really confusing in finding fulfillment. The highest I've gotten over masturbation was a month of walking in the spirit and feeling alright with God, then the masturbation shows up again.

I have gone through the internet to seek solutions. Two answers I got was:
1. staying out of the act or
2.getting married.

I have always tried staying out but that has failed, even applying the Word of God. Getting married would have been the best since I have someone but I have financial constraints.

Right now, I am stucked between what to do and even how to pray. I don't know whether asking God to still deal the masturbation or for finances to get married would do.

The masturbation thing has hindered me greatly from God and my purpose. Please I need advise from Christians. Don't come here to justify masturbation - I know it is bad. Thank you.

Good day My dear brother.

The Bible says how can a man cleanse his ways, by taking heed according to the word of God... your word have I hid in my heart that I may not sin against you Psalm 119:9,11

Hiding the word in your heart here means storing up the word in you like treasures..

Let him eat the word..

The solution to quitting masturbation is Jesus.

But our God is a God of patterns..
Several ways has worked for several people under God.

Religious exercises alone (like fasting and going for deliverance) will not help.
Except fast done out of a genuine heart.

The Bible says a broken and a contrite heart I will not despise

Come unto me all ye that labour and are heavy-laden and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, and you will find rest for your souls. For I am gentle and meek in heart for my burden is easy and my yoke is light Matt 11:28-30

Quit trying to quit and allow him quit through you.

Sin shall no longer have Dominion over you... For you have been crucified with Christ

You have the spirit of God in you

Ask him to sincerely help you, he will.

God bless you beloved

Anyone that wants to stop masturbation should send me a message on WhatsApp 08103199301. You'll be free from that wicked spirit permanently

I can help you stop masturbation. It's very easy to stop. Send me a message on WhatsApp 08103199301. It is well with your soul

BlackHawk202:
I'll go straight to the point.

So I started Masturbating at about 15years old, if I'm correct . I was in JSS3 then, I think. I finished secondary school after writing waec and passing in 2019 and I'm still..... You know, doing it. (Embarrassed)

Now for the past 1 to 1.5years,ive been trying my best to break free from this addiction. Sometimes I would go 1 month without doing it, sometimes 2 months. I remember I've once gone 3 months before. The thing is, no matter how long I go, at the end of the day (las Las), I still end up doing it (going back to my vomit).

I can remember vowing about 1 month ago that the one I did then would be the very last. Well today, I ended up going to my vomit again. I couldn't even abstain from it for even one month. I'm so disappointed in myself, I've been disappointed in myself since I did it. I feel like I'm very very useless and I should just take my life, I should probably call it a day.

That wouldn't happen, of course, if I can get any help or tip that can help me fix this challenge, on this forum.

I'm not new. I've an account here already but created this one to avoid unnecessary embarrassment from people who already knw me. Sorry for breaking a rule, Lalasticlala.

Ps: I'm a virgin who havent even kissed before. I plan on remaining that way untill marriage

Dear brother or sister I can help you stop masturbation. Send me a message on WhatsApp 08103199301. It is well with your soul

Jamariwolff:
I sin sexually everyday , either by masturbation or fornication. Yes, every single day, i commit sexual sin.

Pls help me someone, the urge is overpowering me. I can't do nothing, i feel empty afterwards but still.....

Oh Lord.

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