ThePlainTruth:
Masturbation is a way out God has given a man so that a man does not rush into marrying a Jezebel spirit filled woman when kongi does not let a man sleep at night.

1 Corinthians 10:13
New Living Translation
The temptations in your life are no different from what others experience. And God is faithful. He will not allow the temptation to be more than you can stand. When you are tempted, he will show you a way out so that you can endure.

So, in your world there, masturbation is men-only reality?

Kobojunkie:
So, in your world there, masturbation is men-only reality?

Maybe you can tell us about your world?

ThePlainTruth:
Maybe you can tell us about your world?

Lots of people masturbate! Even if they don't talk about it, it’s common for people of any gender or age to do it. Even before puberty, children sometimes discover that touching their genitals feels good. If you have kids and notice them touching their genitals, let them know that masturbating is completely normal, but something they should do in private.
https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/sex-pleasure-and-sexual-dysfunction/masturbation

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Kandeed:
jidemosaic masturbation is a very stubborn spirit and the funny thing is it overpowers you and make you do it even against ur wish. all what you stated from the beginning to the end is exactly what happened to me. bout a time, I was happy i clocked a month without masturbation I mean very happy and was like if I can make it to a month, next one is one year the next day after that confession I was not myself anymore those fantasy of kept playing to my head that even if I try to think bout other things, if I rest small the thought came back again, body got hot, dick started becoming strong and I just had to free myself by getting into the act again Bfr my body came down. ever since then, the highest I've gone is weeks. the most terrible thing is masturbation chases good things away from you. for real

but then I remember if ur eyes/hand would take it to hell pluck it off it's better to go to heaven with an eye. Anyways I just quited going for deliverance and took to the hospital and I was given some medication like
Cyproterone Acetate,
Zoloft Sertraline 50ml. that has helped. but Note! the drugs is for those who don't have marriage in mind like me or got plans getting married

Alright

jidemosaic:


24 sir

jidemosaic:


I know my love for Christ is demonstrated by my obedience to him. I obey him in other areas, but this masturbation seems like it is a spirit. I'm not sure.

Whenever the urge comes, my body becomes abnormal and my will is gone. Those struggling with this act would understand me better.

This affliction usually comes on people with a bright star so as to defeat them from fulfilling their purpose.

Thesame intensity with which you masturbate is thesame intensity with which you would have burned for Christ/ become successful in life, etc.

If only you know what happens when you masturbate, you would hate it and flee from it

It makes your spirit weak and opens up the door for multitudes of other addictions

If anyone wants to harm you spiritually or invoke your spirit, it will just appear like a weakling and can’t even fight back because it’s too weak.

It brings bad luck and people hardly ever remember you for good things. If you go to interviews etc you will hardly get the job.

If you doubt me, stop masturbating or having sex for a while and see whether people will not begin to reach out to you from nowhere. Especially long lost contacts. You just become lucky for no reason.

It makes you dull over time because the semen contains same nutrients as cerebrospinal fluid (brain cells). It also takes the body a lot of time to replace used semen, as such the level of depletion will always be faster than level of restoration.

Mind you, due to our poor diet, you may not even be eating things needed to restore your semen, as such you will always have empty or half tank and you become a walking corpse and a dull guy who easily falls sick.

When masturbating, millions of demons of lust gather and surround you in same way bees surround honey. Always picture that whenever you feel like masturbating. Imagine what they are taking from you.

When you feel hornny/ hot, this is a special gift and you should be thankful for it. There is something special about that state and it’s the best time to pray, declare prophecy, imagine your future, write down your goals. etc.

When you are Hot and you ask for things from either God or humans, the answer is almost always Yes. People can somehow sense that energy and they become intimidated by it. Same way, when you over ejaculate, you become weak and people can also sense it. Infact you start to irritate people for no reason, even they themselves cannot even explain it.

Whatever feeds the flesh, diminishes the spirit and vice versa. If only you could see the spirit realm and realize how miserable your spirit is when you masturbate. It becomes a play thing for all demons who can now use you to play ball and for all sorts of spiritual exercise.

When you are sexually pure, your spirit starts to glow like a bright light. It also has enough strength to defeat obstacles in the spiritual realm and deliver good things to you in the physical. It also has enough confidence to stand before God and commune with him. The result is you start to see visions of things before they happen, people respect you for no reason, long lost contacts start to reach out to you, Favour comes to you effortlessly, you pray / speak things into existence easily, your health improves, your posture changes ( you become upright and energetic). I’m sure you currently have a hunched posture sort off.

Just mind what you eat( sugary stuff), listen to, watch, avoid social media, don’t look at women lustfully even if they are dressed seductively ( this is a trap), infact see everything that tempts you to ejaculate as a trap to destroy your future.

Always remember the goal is not to stop masturbation only but to flee from sexual immorality as a whole.

You may have to fast to reduce the urges and you also have to summon your will power as well. You are not helpless.

Being hornny always is a gift and not a curse so avoid the thoughts of any drug as that will destroy your Testosterone. Mind you, testosterone is what makes you are a man.

I wish you God’s grace

Thechosenone55:


This affliction usually comes on people with a bright star so as to defeat them from fulfilling their purpose.

Thesame intensity with which you masturbate is thesame intensity with which you would have burned for Christ/ become successful in life, etc.

If only you know what happens when you masturbate, you would hate it and flee from it

It makes your spirit weak and opens up the door for multitudes of other addictions

If anyone wants to harm you spiritually or invoke your spirit, it will just appear like a weakling and can’t even fight back because it’s too weak.

It brings bad luck and people hardly ever remember you for good things. If you go to interviews etc you will hardly get the job.

If you doubt me, stop masturbating or having sex for a while and see whether people will not begin to reach out to you from nowhere. Especially long lost contacts. You just become lucky for no reason.

It makes you dull over time because the semen contains same nutrients as cerebrospinal fluid (brain cells). It also takes the body a lot of time to replace used semen, as such the level of depletion will always be faster than level of restoration.

Mind you, due to our poor diet, you may not even be eating things needed to restore your semen, as such you will always have empty or half tank and you become a walking corpse and a dull guy who easily falls sick.

When masturbating, millions of demons of lust gather and surround you in same way bees surround honey. Always picture that whenever you feel like masturbating. Imagine what they are taking from you.

When you feel hornny/ hot, this is a special gift and you should be thankful for it. There is something special about that state and it’s the best time to pray, declare prophecy, imagine your future, write down your goals. etc.

When you are Hot and you ask for things from either God or humans, the answer is almost always Yes. People can somehow sense that energy and they become intimidated by it. Same way, when you over ejaculate, you become weak and people can also sense it. Infact you start to irritate people for no reason, even they themselves cannot even explain it.

Whatever feeds the flesh, diminishes the spirit and vice versa. If only you could see the spirit realm and realize how miserable your spirit is when you masturbate. It becomes a play thing for all demons who can now use you to play ball and for all sorts of spiritual exercise.

When you are sexually pure, your spirit starts to glow like a bright light. It also has enough strength to defeat obstacles in the spiritual realm and deliver good things to you in the physical. It also has enough confidence to stand before God and commune with him. The result is you start to see visions of things before they happen, people respect you for no reason, long lost contacts start to reach out to you, Favour comes to you effortlessly, you pray / speak things into existence easily, your health improves, your posture changes ( you become upright and energetic). I’m sure you currently have a hunched posture sort off.

Just mind what you eat( sugary stuff), listen to, watch, avoid social media, don’t look at women lustfully even if they are dressed seductively ( this is a trap), infact see everything that tempts you to ejaculate as a trap to destroy your future.

Always remember the goal is not to stop masturbation only but to flee from sexual immorality as a whole.

You may have to fast to reduce the urges and you also have to summon your will power as well. You are not helpless.

Being hornny always is a gift and not a curse so avoid the thoughts of any drug as that will destroy your Testosterone. Mind you, testosterone is what makes you are a man.

I wish you God’s grace

Thank you so much sir. Practically, there is no lie in all you've said. I have noticed it too. Thank you so much for opening my eyes.

jidemosaic:


Thank you so much sir. Practically, there is no lie in all you've said. I have noticed it too. Thank you so much for opening my eyes.

Jidemosaic, go through these three threads prayerfully

https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread

https://www.nairaland.com/3538646/overcoming-youthful-sexual-lusts

https://www.nairaland.com/6517668/dangers-uncontrolled-sexual-lust-series

jidemosaic:
Good day everyone, I have had this problem since I was in SS2 - about 15 years old. I was in a Biology class that fateful day and the teacher was treating the Reproduction System.

He mentioned the male s*men and asked how many of us had seen it before - it was a public school in Lagos. I was a completely ignorant person about sexuality before then, so he said we could use our hands to stroke our p*n*s to see what a male semen looked like. That was the genesis of my problem.

Engaging in the act from the start was out of innocence and curiosity to see what a s*m*n looked like. I was having my bathe that evening when I tried it with the soap lather. In about 15-20 minutes, I discovered my legs were weak and some thick substance got discharged. I had it out and felt it was some kind of discharge I needed to keep engaging in to ease my body, so I repeated it the next day.

Coupled with my classmates engagement in porn, I got inducted into watching pornography as well. It became hell. I watched porn and masturbated continually. Sometimes, I masturbated up to 5 times daily. But they still called me Pastor because my struggles were in secret.

It was that serious and worse to a point I got almost dehydrated. This went on, until I got saved after Reinhard Bonnke's farewell crusade in 2017.

After my salvation, I got baptised in the Holy Spirit and was able to stay away from the act for about a month. I was even happy that I had finally been delivered from the act.

Going into the next month, it resurfaced again and the struggle came up. I was always sad after every masturbation and always wondered why I still struggled after salvation.

I asked the Holy Spirit to make me impotent till I was ready for marriage. It didn't happen until I drifted off the faith after a while following up some indoctrination by some atheist-peers.

While off the faith, I got involved in a lot of sex engagements, outside masturbation with public sex workers.

To shorten the story, I got restored to the faith back and things has been difficult like when I left. I am still battling with masturbation, even though the law of God written on my heart tells me it is wrong. I have prayed, fasted, read the word to get myself off the hook but nothing seems to be working. At a point, I tied my p*n*s with a rope but never worked.

Worst of it is that I have a calling and everything looks really confusing in finding fulfillment. The highest I've gotten over masturbation was a month of walking in the spirit and feeling alright with God, then the masturbation shows up again.

I have gone through the internet to seek solutions. Two answers I got was:
1. staying out of the act or
2.getting married.

I have always tried staying out but that has failed, even applying the Word of God. Getting married would have been the best since I have someone but I have financial constraints.

Right now, I am stucked between what to do and even how to pray. I don't know whether asking God to still deal the masturbation or for finances to get married would do.

The masturbation thing has hindered me greatly from God and my purpose. Please I need advise from Christians. Don't come here to justify masturbation - I know it is bad. Thank you.

Haash! What the teacher taught was too bad. He must have got some of you into that evil, unfortunately.

Mine was in the boarding house. I got into the bathroom with a senior, and we started chatting. Then boom, I saw him do the filthy thing. I think I started to try it out when I went back home. And I think it went on for some years, I guess—in partnership with porn that I was already quite bound to from childhood.

Well, I had some major life crises shortly after secondary school that almost led to death. That was when I started repenting of sins and bad attitudes in general. I had to get rid of all other common addictions like video games, break dance, love of money, films and sport idolatry, sexualizing girls and women, anger and unforgiving attitudes, etc.,as well.

Friend, the fear of God did! We got to Hate Evil to escape Hell. Jesus wasn't joking about Hellfire where their fire is not quenched and their Worms doesn't die.

It's been over 11 years now. The fight is still on against evil in general, cos the flesh is always present. I've fallen into internet porn shortly just few times, though, and repented.

Friend, we got to truly Repent and Hate those things...

I guess I first saw porn around age 4 or so. But I'm just interested in HATING sexual immoralities with holy passion now. I hate how porn is destroying children and Students nowadays, and they do terrible things at home and away.

We got to humble ourselves and truly Repent and Fight... Asking God for Power of the HolySpirit to Overcome.

God bless.