pussyphilia:
[s]I have come again with a topic on BD$M. This topic Will definitely sound strange to many people here because ours is a closed minded Society where people believe that life is a straight road where things must be done in a particular way, forgeting that there are different shades of grey and that variety is the spice of life.

We think that all men want submissive wives they can control, forgeting that there are those men who would rather be the submissive ones while their women dominate and control them. Also i know that there are ladies who are dominant and cannot put themselves under the control of a man. Marriage would be alot smooth if people recognize the class to which they belong and choose their partner accordingly ie if one is dominant he is better off with a submissive and vice versa.

Some dominant ladies find it difficult to identify a submissive guy and this is why i want to share some clues on how a lady can identify a guy who wouldn't mind being under her control but won't say it out for fear of how the society would see him.

1. He does what you ask for without arguing with you. For instance, you wanted to go out in his favourite car and just by opening your mouth to say it he hands you the keys without asking stupid questions.

2. His favourite secs position is woman on top...It does not mean that he is too tired to do the other positions but he maybe subtly passing the message that he wants to submit to you. Take a chance!

3. He is much more in love with everything about you... This is because he may have found that domme side of you and has fallen totally for you and needs you to take charge but is too concerned about what the society would say.

4.He is too afraid to look the way of other ladies...he is faithful to the core. Agreed that there are vanilla guys who may be faithful because cheating is not in their nature, most submissive men are totally loyal to their dommes and would not dare cheat.

5.You once slapped him or beat him up and instead of calling off the affairs he falls more deeply inlove with you. Babe, that's your submissive, hold him tight.

Let me stop here for now. This thread is not meant for bashing. It is just to pass a message across to those who understand.[/s]

nototribalist:
The country I don't want to see their goods enter Nigeria is Ghana, period!!